Parenting IQ | Understand your child & parent with confidence
Parenting advice is everywhere. Knowing what fits your child and your family can feel really hard. The Parenting IQ Podcast helps you make everyday parenting decisions with greater understanding and confidence. Join Dr. Kelly Cagle and her guests for practical conversations that connect research with real family life so you can understand your child, weigh your options, and confidently choose your next step. Hosted by Dr. Kelly Cagle, a PhD in education, ADHD researcher, and homeschooling mom of three boys, each episode helps you better understand your child's needs, so you feel confident teaching life skills, character, and emotional intelligence...
Raising Boys and Girls Without Passing Down Shame | Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, Shameless Parenting
How do we raise boys and girls without unintentionally passing down shame? Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, author of Shameless Parenting, to explore how childhood development, family environment, and cultural messages shape the way kids see themselves. They discuss setting healthy boundaries without shame, approaching mistakes with curiosity instead of criticism, and how repair and grace can help break unhealthy patterns for the next generation.
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Parenting Teens with ADHD: Protect the Relationship, Build the Skills | Dr. Tamara Rosier, Your Brain's Not Broken
Parenting a teen with ADHD can make it difficult to know when to step in and when to step back. Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Dr. Tamara Rosier, author of Your Brain’s Not Broken, to talk about the developmental challenges teens with ADHD face and how parents can support them without constantly rescuing them. They explore identity, independence, friendships, rejection, and the importance of staying calm and curious through it all.
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Why Do I Have to Repeat Myself? | Dr. Jody Jedlicka, LearningRX
Why does your child seem to hear you but still struggle to follow through? Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Dr. Jody Jedlicka to explore the difference between hearing and auditory processing—and why listening difficulties aren't always disobedience or lack of attention. Learn what signs to look for, when to seek additional support, and simple ways to make listening and learning easier for your child.
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Your Child Is More Than a Diagnosis: Finding Hope After an Autism Diagnosis | Kari Baker, KIND Families
An autism diagnosis can bring both clarity and uncertainty for a family. In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle talks with Kari Baker, founder of KIND Families, about pursuing the right support, recognizing your child’s strengths, and finding hope in the middle of an unexpected journey. Parents will be encouraged to see a diagnosis as a roadmap—not a definition of who their child is.
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From Frustration to Teamwork: Navigating ADHD in Marriage
ADHD can create unique challenges in marriage, from impulsive communication and unfinished projects to mental overload and difficulty transitioning into connection. In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle breaks down what’s happening in the ADHD brain and shares practical strategies couples can use to communicate more effectively, share responsibilities, and reduce frustration. Learn how curiosity, clear systems, and intentional communication can help you stop working against each other and start functioning as a team.
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The Small Habits That Slowly Destroy a Marriage w/ Lindsey Maestas
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Lindsey Maestas to uncover the small, everyday habits that can slowly create distance in a marriage. They discuss how distractions, unmet expectations, resentment, and avoiding hard conversations can weaken connection—and how simple shifts like putting down your phone, taking responsibility for your own patterns, dating your spouse, and keeping Christ at the center can help rebuild intimacy and friendship.
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How to Help Your Child Feel Safe When the World Doesn't w/ Courtney Reissig
When the world feels scary, how do we help our kids feel safe without pretending that hard things won’t happen? In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle talks with Courtney Reissig about helping children process fear, navigate difficult questions, and find security in God even when we don’t have all the answers. They share practical ways parents can filter overwhelming information, create healthy boundaries around the news, and point their kids toward hope in a broken world.
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Teaching Kids Body Boundaries Without Scaring Them w/ Sara Ernst
How do we teach kids about body boundaries without making them afraid of the world? In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle talks with Sara Ernst about helping children recognize “tricky” behavior, trust when something feels uncomfortable, and confidently use their voice. They share practical ways parents can teach body safety, respect a child’s boundaries, and build skills that will serve them from childhood into their teen years and beyond.
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5 Boundaries You Need If You Have ADHD
In this episode of Parenting IQ, Dr. Kelly Cagle shares five essential boundaries that can help adults and kids with ADHD thrive. She explores how setting intentional guardrails around friendships, commitments, intake, stagnation, and ideas can protect your time, attention, and capacity. You’ll learn why boundaries aren’t about restriction—they’re about creating the structure your ADHD brain needs for greater focus, follow-through, and freedom.
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The Greatest Gift You Can Give Before Your Child Leaves Home w/ Douglas McKelvey
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with bestselling author Douglas McKelvey to discuss the greatest gift parents can give their children before they leave home: a personal, enduring relationship with Jesus. Together, they explore how spiritual rhythms like prayer, trusting God's truth, and developing a faith of their own can prepare young adults to navigate life's challenges with confidence. This conversation offers hope and practical encouragement for parents raising children to stand firm in their faith long after they leave the nest.
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The Biggest Mistake Parents Make When Launching Their Adult Child w/ Dr. Kathy Koch
Launching your child into adulthood can be one of the hardest seasons of parenting but it doesn't have to be filled with fear. In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with parenting expert Dr. Kathy Koch to discuss the biggest mistakes parents make when preparing their adult children for college, careers, marriage, and beyond. Together, they explore how to replace control with trust, help young adults build resilience, encourage dependence on God, and maintain healthy relationships during one of life's biggest transitions.
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How to Stop Getting Triggered in Your Marriage w/ Dr. Kelly Flanagan
Why do small disagreements in marriage sometimes turn into big arguments? In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with psychologist and author Dr. Kelly Flanagan to explore what really happens when we get triggered. Together, they discuss the hidden needs beneath conflict, why couples react so differently, and practical ways to stay connected instead of becoming defensive. If you want healthier communication and a stronger marriage, this conversation will give you simple, actionable tools you can start using today.
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Our Top 20 Lessons After 20 Years of Marriage w/ Joshua Cagle
Marriage isn't built in a day, it's built one intentional choice at a time. In this special anniversary episode, Dr. Kelly and Joshua Cagle celebrate 20 years of marriage by sharing the biggest lessons they've learned about communication, conflict, parenting, faith, finances, fun, and keeping God at the center. Whether you're newly married or decades into your journey, this honest conversation will encourage you with practical wisdom to help your marriage grow stronger through every season.
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How to Love Your Spouse So They Really Feel It w/ Dr. Gary Chapman
What if your spouse is trying to love you but you simply aren't feeling it? In this powerful conversation, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with bestselling author Dr. Gary Chapman to unpack why even the strongest marriages can experience emotional disconnect. Together, they explore the five love languages, the surprising role of personality and "love language dialects," and how intentional choices can help you better understand your spouse, strengthen your connection, and build a marriage where both of you truly feel seen, valued, and deeply loved.
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What Michael Jr. Says Every Dad Needs to Hear Right Now
What does it really mean to be a great dad? In this powerful and hilarious conversation, Michael Jr. shares hard-earned wisdom on fatherhood, faith, marriage, and personal growth. From learning to trust God over hustle culture to viewing conflict as an opportunity for transformation, Michael challenges parents to lead from a place of curiosity, grace, and purpose. You'll laugh, reflect, and walk away encouraged by his reminder that God isn't asking parents to be perfect—He's asking them to stay connected to the perfect Father.
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Why Some Men Win at Work and Lose at Home w/ Joshua Cagle
Why do so many men succeed at work yet struggle to stay connected at home? In this Father's Day episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle and her husband, Joshua Cagle, discuss identity, leadership, and legacy, sharing practical wisdom on balancing career, family, and faith. Learn how to lead with intentionality, stay grounded in your God-given identity, and build a legacy that lasts far beyond your accomplishments.
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How Smart Parents Teach Kids About Money w/ Dr. Stephen Day
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Dr. Stephen Day to discuss how parents can teach kids about money through everyday experiences, not just financial lessons. They explore practical ways to help children develop healthy habits around earning, saving, spending, and giving while building responsibility and confidence along the way. Dr. Day shares why elementary-age years are critical for shaping money values and offers simple strategies parents can implement at home. This conversation will encourage moms and dads to turn ordinary family moments into powerful lessons that prepare kids for a lifetime of financial wisdom.
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Why Dads Feel So Overwhelmed and the Surprising Solution w/ Joshua Becker
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with bestselling author Joshua Becker to discuss why so many dads feel overwhelmed and how simplifying life can create more space for faith, family, and purpose. Joshua shares how consumerism, clutter, and the pursuit of "more" often distract us from what matters most. Together, they explore practical ways to reduce overwhelm, become more present with your family, and prioritize spiritual growth. This conversation will encourage parents to live with greater intention and focus on building a lasting legacy.
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Stop the Power Struggles: Parenting a Strong-Willed Child w/ Mary Van Geffen
In this episode of the Parenting IQ Podcast, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Mary Van Geffen to unpack why strong-willed “spicy” kids push every button and how parents can stop the exhausting power struggles without punishment, shame, or constant yelling. If you’ve ever wondered, “Why is everything such a battle with this child?” this conversation will give you practical tools, fresh perspective, and hope for creating more connection and peace at home.
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How to Reduce Tantrums Without Punishment or Bribes w/ Dr. Kim Van Dusen
In this episode of the Parenting IQ Podcast, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Dr. Kim Van Dusen to discuss how parents can reduce tantrums, meltdowns, and power struggles through connection, play, and emotional regulation instead of punishment or bribes, while also creating a more peaceful home and avoiding burnout in motherhood.
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What If Burnout Isn’t About Your Schedule at All? w/ Yvette Henry
In this episode of the Parenting IQ Podcast, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Yvette Henry to unpack a powerful question many parents are asking: What if burnout isn’t really about being too busy? Together, they explore the emotional, mental, and spiritual weight that moms and families carry behind the scenes, and why true healing often starts beneath the surface. Yvette shares practical encouragement for recognizing burnout, creating healthier rhythms, and learning how to care for yourself without guilt so you can show up more fully for the people you love.
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Mom Burnout: 5 Ways to Avoid Exhaustion and Enjoy Motherhood Again
Feeling exhausted in motherhood? You’re not alone. In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle dives into the hidden causes of mom burnout and shares five powerful shifts to help you reclaim peace, energy, and joy in your home. This is your reminder that you don’t have to live in survival mode you were meant to thrive.
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Young Adult Brain Explained: Why Ages 18-30 Feel So Hard w/ Dr. Shannan Crawford
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Dr. Shannan Crawford to unpack why the years between 18 and 30 can feel so difficult emotionally, mentally, and relationally. They explore what’s happening in the developing brain, why young adults often struggle with confidence and identity, and how parents can support without over-helping. This conversation offers practical wisdom for raising resilient young adults who are prepared to face life with confidence.
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Why Teens Act the Way They Do w/ Dr. Amy Moore
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Dr. Amy Moore to unpack what is really happening in the teenage brain and why teens often act the way they do. They discuss emotional development, the need for autonomy, ADHD and motivation, and practical ways parents can build stronger connection during these challenging years. You’ll walk away with encouragement and strategies to parent your teen with more understanding, confidence, and grace.
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The Hidden Cost of Busy Childhoods w/ Natalie Gonzalez
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Natalie Gonzalez, author of The School Zone Mentality, to discuss the hidden cost of busy childhoods and why slowing down matters for healthy child development. They explore how overstimulation, packed schedules, excess stuff, and lack of sleep can impact children’s emotional well-being and growth. You’ll walk away with practical encouragement to simplify family life and create rhythms where your kids can truly thrive.
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Toddler Tantrums, Power Struggles, and Big Feelings: What Parents Need to Know w/ Devon Kuntzman
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Devon Kuntzman to explore what’s really behind toddler tantrums, power struggles, and big emotions. They share how shifting from control to connection helps parents guide behavior more effectively and build cooperation. You’ll walk away with practical encouragement and simple tools to handle tough moments without losing your patience.
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Education Reform: What Needs to Change for Our Kids to Thrive
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle explores why today’s education system is outdated and what needs to change for kids to truly thrive. She shares how shifting toward curiosity, real-world learning, and self-directed education can help raise confident, capable lifelong learners. You’ll walk away with a fresh perspective on how to better support your child’s growth—no matter what schooling path you choose.
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AI in Education: What it Can't Replace w/ Dr. Anita Chen
In this episode of the Parenting IQ Podcast, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Dr. Anita Chen to explore the role of AI in education—and what it can’t replace. Together, they discuss why access to information isn’t enough, the irreplaceable value of relationships, and how parents can raise confident, creative, and critical-thinking kids in a digital world. This conversation is a powerful reminder that while technology is advancing, connection, guidance, and human influence still matter most.
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Homeschooling and Entrepreneurship: Preparing Kids for the Real World w/ Dr. Cindy Haggerton
In this episode of the Parenting IQ Podcast, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Dr. Cindy Haggerton to explore the powerful intersection of homeschooling and entrepreneurship. Together, they discuss what it looks like to step outside traditional education, tailor learning to each child, and prepare kids for real-world success. From overcoming fear and embracing flexibility to fostering creativity, critical thinking, and ownership, this conversation encourages parents to trust the process, support their child’s unique path, and raise confident, capable thinkers in an ever-changing world.
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Homeschooling with Confidence w/ Carlee Neumann
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with longtime homeschool mom Carlee Neumann to talk about overcoming fear and gaining confidence in your homeschooling journey. They discuss choosing the “right hard,” trusting your instincts as a parent, and creating learning experiences that help children discover their unique strengths. Carlee also shares how her new platform, MatchEd, is helping families build personalized learning pathways and navigate education with greater clarity and support.
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Is Homeschooling Right for You?
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle offers an honest, practical look at homeschooling and helps parents discern whether it’s the right fit for their family. She shares the life-giving rhythms her family has experienced—like flexibility, personalized learning, and togetherness—alongside the real challenges of juggling work, socialization, and daily structure. If you’ve ever wondered, “Could we do this?” this conversation will help you think clearly and confidently about your school choice.
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Parenting Adult Children w/ Catherine Hickem
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Catherine Hickem to explore what it really takes to build strong, lasting relationships with adult children. They discuss how to evolve as your children grow, process grief and expectations, set healthy boundaries, and respond instead of react. If you want your kids to keep coming home—physically and emotionally—this conversation will give you practical wisdom and hope.
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When Prayer Feels Hard w/ Shellie Rushing Tomlinson
Dr. Kelly Cagle is joined by Shellie Rushing Tomlinson to talk honestly about why prayer can feel hard—even for women who deeply love Jesus. Together they unpack practical ways to overcome distraction, comparison, and guilt while building a genuine relationship with God. This episode offers encouragement and simple habits to help you linger longer in God’s presence and rediscover the joy of prayer.
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Letting Go Without Losing Them w/ Courtney DeFeo
Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Courtney DeFeo to talk about what it means to let go as your kids grow—without losing the heart connection. From toddler years to college transitions, they explore how parenting roles shift while staying rooted in faith and relationship. This episode is full of wisdom for moms navigating change, launching teens, and staying present in every season.
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Reclaiming Family Connection in the Busyness of Life w/ Josh Cagle
In this episode of the Parenting IQ Podcast, Dr. Kelly Cagle is joined by her husband Josh Cagle to explore what it takes to build strong family connections in the middle of work, parenting, and packed schedules. Together, they unpack the power of creating healthy home rhythms, transitioning between work and family life, redefining the role of stay-at-home parents, and why slowing down might be the key to deeper relationships. Whether you're juggling business and motherhood or just trying to stay connected with your kids, this episode offers honest insight and practical encouragement.
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7 Personal Systems to Lower Stress
Feeling overwhelmed by the daily demands of parenting, work, and life? In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle shares 7 practical systems she’s implemented in her own home to reduce stress, improve family rhythms, and create more peace. From syncing calendars and simplifying meals to hiring your kids for chores and inviting God into the everyday moments—these systems are easy to apply and powerful in impact. Tune in to learn how small changes can lead to big breakthroughs in your daily life.
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Supporting Teens with Anxiety w/ Amber & Ollie Lia
When teens are hurting, how do we help them feel seen? In this conversation, Dr. Kelly Cagle speaks with Amber Lia and her 18-year-old son Ollie about anxiety, spiritual battles, and the healing power of faith, family, and emotional support. Drawing from their journey—and their new devotional You Are Seen—they share practical tools, encouragement, and hope for both parents and teens navigating mental health challenges in today’s world.
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You're Not Bad at Cooking... You're Still Learning w/ Dina Deleasa-Gonsar
Think you're bad at cooking? You're not—you're just still learning. In this inspiring conversation, cookbook author and Dish It Girl host Dina Deleasa-Gonsar joins Dr. Kelly Cagle to reframe kitchen confidence. Together, they explore why cooking doesn’t need to be perfect to be meaningful, how to simplify family meals, and how embracing a growth mindset can turn food into legacy. Whether you're a beginner or burned out, this episode will encourage you to take the pressure off—and just start.
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4 Areas that Will Help you Grow in 2026
Start your year with purpose! In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle shares four key areas that will help you embrace a lifelong learner mindset in 2026: writing things down, simplifying your life, staying connected to life-giving people, and stopping comparison quickly. With honest stories and practical tips, Kelly invites you to grow alongside her—one intentional step at a time.
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Parenting from a Place of Rest w/ Christy Nockels
What if rest isn’t a reward—but the starting point for parenting well? In this soul-stirring episode, Christy Nockels joins Dr. Kelly to talk about parenting from a place of peace, presence, and worship. From letting go of guilt to creating rhythms of rest in your home, Christy shares how the presence of God transforms motherhood from the inside out. Plus, hear the heart behind her new family worship album King Who Never Sleeps.
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