no YOU hang up!

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By: Cassie Hoffer and Danielle LaVia

Two moms, who are also neighbors, share their journey of finding and nurturing friendships in their 30s. Each episode delves into their personal stories, challenges, and triumphs as they navigate the complexities of building meaningful connections while balancing family life, careers, and personal growth, with special guests along the way. With candid conversations, relatable anecdotes, and belly laughs until they almost pee their pants (or do), they explore how friendships evolve, the importance of support systems, and the ways in which these bonds enrich their lives.

A Two For One Special
#35
07/04/2025

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A wholesome interview with our kids and a drunken midnight walk home... who said we don't have layers? Listen to Danielle run into TWO trees and Cassie draw out a recap of dinner over an entirely too long amount of time.


Live from Danielle's Cozy Bedroom
#34
06/20/2025

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What would a perfect week look like for you? This week we chat about our dream week, our pet peeves, and more!


A June Bug INFESTATION
#33
06/13/2025

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Join us on the patio today to enjoy a beautiful summer evening of celebrating a big win for Danielle and a big win for the insect community!


A Chat From The Massage Chair
#32
06/06/2025

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We catch up in Cassie's home office this week while Danielle gets her weekly massage in our chair! Notes app, disorganization, trivia, and more!


What IS A Zach Galifianakis? Ft. KATE!
#31
05/30/2025

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Cassie's daughter Kate talks about her perspective of friendship as a 7 year old, learns what a Zach Galifianakis is, and gives us her best confession!


Don't Go Chasin' Waterfalls
#30
05/23/2025

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Cabo recap, a TikTok fail, and a major 4am disturbance!


Travel Talk!
#29
05/16/2025

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With a big trip for Danielle on the horizon we chat about traveling with friends, alone, and everything in between!


Tik Tok Trials & Mandela Effects
#28
05/09/2025

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Is JTT still alive? Does Curious George have a tail? We honestly STILL don't know.


Kleb Almost DIED But Lived To Tell
#27
04/25/2025

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Cassie's husband Kaleb is back on the podcast and tells us the whole detailed story about his high school accident that ended him up in life saving surgery!


We're Actually Really Smart... WE SWEAR!
#26
04/18/2025

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We spend this episode chatting about and trying to understand topics that we have absolutely no business speaking on. No judgement zone!


Tales Of Our Travels
#25
04/11/2025

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We're back from our separate vacations to Florida and Seattle and have so much to catch up on! Tavel horror stories, sickness, and a couple confessions to top it all off!


April FOOLS!
#24
04/04/2025

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We take it back to our childhood and pull some HILARIOUS April Fools jokes! 


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Meet Melisa!
#23
03/28/2025

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Melisa is a friend in the neighborhood who is a DIY girly and working mom! Listen as we catch up, get her perspective on adult friendships, play some musical games and confess! 


Pet PEEVIN'!
#22
03/21/2025

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Zombie ball, MOM GUILT, and a whole slew of pet peeves!


Episode 21 & Having Fun!
#21
03/14/2025

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Libraries, self checkout lines, dance classes, social media, and a hilarious game!


Notre amie Léanne!
#20
03/07/2025

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Meet our friend Leanne! Cassie & Leanne have been friends for 28 years! We hear about making friends while living abroad, making mom friends, and then recap our kid-free weekend!


I Love You OLIVIA!
02/28/2025

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Meet Liv! The cutest sweetest friend, newlywed, teacher, and girls' girl! Liv (Olivia? Liv?) opens up about her experience with lifelong friends, Crohn's disease, and falling in love with her best friend's brother! 


LiveJournals and Valentines Day Special!
#18
02/21/2025

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You KNOW we got our 4 year olds their own booth at Olive Garden for Valentines Day! Listen to their audio and to Danielle reading aloud the FART book that Kenny got Santino. We also take turns reading embarrassing old journal entries of each others.


Babysitter Trauma And A False Thumb Emergency
#17
02/14/2025

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On a more serious note today Danielle opens up about horrific babysitter experiences both her and her gal pal have gone through. Stick around to the end for light hearted confessions and a "what show are you watching" segment as well!


Hang up the phone KLEB!
#16
02/07/2025

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Spend and evening with us and Cassie's husband... Kleb! Danielle gets her very own ear piercings, we get another male perspective on friendships, Kaleb gets quizzed on our family dictionary terms, and his confession will DROP your jaw and get you asking all the men in your lives if they're the same as our husbands!


No You Hang Up ON THE ROAD!
#15
01/31/2025

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Join us as we recap our fantastic mountain weekend! Meeting new friends, hungover yoga, a failed wine tasting, and more! Also Cassie's most DRAMATIC doctors visit to date... 


Idiots Interpreting Idioms
#14
01/24/2025

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How many of these friendship related idioms have you heard of? Catch our confessions, reddit thread analysis, and scary movie reminiscing as well!


How Old Were You When? OH And A Few On Air Ear Piercings!
#13
01/17/2025

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Cassie gets FOUR new ear piercings live and we play a fun round of "How old were you when...?" Also a high low of the week where one of us may or may not have been scammed out of $500?


Meet Our Friend (& Danielle's Husband) ANDREW!
#12
01/10/2025

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Andrew & Danielle recount how they met, got engaged, and test how well they know each other today! 


Best Of 2024 Recap
#11
01/03/2025

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Some of our favorite new things from this past year! Our favorite new drinks, movies, apps, and more. 


A Very Berry Not At All Scary Merry Christmas Episode!
#10
12/27/2024

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*CONTENT WARNING* DON'T LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE WITH YOUR KIDS! Cassie falls into her Christmas tree, Danielle shares Christmas traumas, we chat through how we handle presents from you-know-who, and get through an entire episode without arguing over how to pronounce a word!


Testosteroni and Trivia
#9
12/20/2024

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Danielle tells us about the pellet in her butt cheek, Cassie is sick with self diagnosed bronchitis, and we play some song and math games on this pre-Christmas hectic week!


Our friend RACHEL!
#8
12/13/2024

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Meet our first guest- our friend Rachel! Owner of the boutique www.themommahive.com; Rachel talks to us about owning her business, working with friends, and maintaining friendships through it all! Listen for her wild story about a traumatic medical saga she's experienced and catch our confessions at the end of the episode!


How well do we really know each other?
#7
12/06/2024

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Join in this week as we recap our Thanksgiving weekend, play mind melt, and quiz each other on a friendship quiz a-la-back of a Cosmo magazine!


Thanksgiving (and your dirty kitchen sink)!
#6
11/29/2024

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It's Thanksgiving week! Cassie & Danielle chat about Thanksgiving traditions, our high and low of the week, and how your kitchen sink IS THE FILTHIEST PLACE IN YOUR HOME! 


How even DO you make friends?
#5
11/22/2024

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How do you make friends in different stages of life? Why are there so many Julies in South Florida? What is a red flag in a new friendship? 


Old & new friendships, Betta fish tales, and ANOTHER heated jingle debate!
#4
11/15/2024

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Mom reactions, mental health, and our friendship ANNIVERSARY!
#3
11/08/2024

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Danielle's son had a Halloween scare (not the kind you're expecting!) and we dive into supporting friends' mental health, recap our first improv class, and reflect on our city date!


Halloween and... eggs?
11/01/2024

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Our Very First Episode!
#1
10/25/2024

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