Embrace Mental Health

What does it actually mean to be doing well? We often associate mental health struggles with visible signs like falling behind on responsibilities, withdrawing from others, or reaching a breaking point. But what happens when someone is still showing up, meeting expectations, supporting everyone around them, and achieving their goals while quietly struggling inside? In this episode, we explore the concept of high functioning and the ways productivity, independence, and reliability can sometimes mask emotional distress. We talk about how the very behaviors that help us survive difficult circumstances can also make it harder to recognize when we need...

We grow up with our siblings, fight with them, learn from them, compete with them, and sometimes rely on them more than anyone else. But how much of who we become can really be explained by something as simple as birth order? In this episode, we take a closer look at what the research actually says about birth order—and discover that the familiar stereotypes about oldest, middle, and youngest children may not be nearly as reliable as we think.

More importantly, we explore what does shape us in our sibling relationships: parental differential tr...

For our final episode of the season, all three hosts sat down together for a behind-the-scenes Q&A. We answered questions about the podcast, reflected on the last three seasons, talked about the episodes that impacted us most, and shared some of the funniest and most chaotic moments we’ve had while recording. It’s part reflection, part chaos, and a very honest look at what this podcast has become for all of us.

**DISCLAIMER: This episode was recorded remotely, and while we did our best to clean up the audio, there are a few moments where it may sound slightly muffled. Thanks for bearing with us — we felt this conversation was too meaningful not to share.

In this episode of Embrace Mental Health, Rowan talks with his friend Dawn about her experience being diagnosed with ADHD as an adult. This episode talks about what it’s actually like to receive an ADHD diagnosis as an adult — not just the diagnosis itself, but everything surrounding it: the years before...

Words shape the way we understand ourselves, our emotions, and the world around us. In this episode, we explore the powerful relationship between language and mental health—how finding the right words can help us process pain, feel understood, and begin healing. From therapy and journaling to music, storytelling, and self-talk, we discuss why naming emotions matters and how language can turn chaos into clarity.

We also talk about the ways words can wound: the phrases that become inner critics, the labels that shape identity, and the cultural messages that determine what emotions people fe...

Money isn’t just numbers on a screen—it’s one of the most emotionally loaded parts of our lives. In this episode, we explore why financial stress hits so deeply, from those 3 a.m. spirals running mental calculations to the quiet shame that keeps people avoiding their bank accounts. This isn’t about budgeting tips or quick fixes—it’s about understanding the psychology of money, and why finances and mental health are so tightly intertwined.

We break down how money can represent security, freedom, control, or even self-worth, and how our upbringing shapes our f...

This episode is a little different—in the best way. Instead of breaking down a diagnosis or concept, we’re diving into the real, messy, and often unspoken parts of mental health through a series of honest questions. From learning things the hard way to figuring out the difference between self-acceptance and self-growth, this conversation gets into the gray areas we don’t talk about enough.

We explore what boundaries actually look like in real life, why healing isn’t as straightforward as people think, and how to navigate the tension between resting and pushing...

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is one of the most misunderstood and misrepresented diagnoses today. In this episode, we’re going Behind the Label to explore what autism actually is—a neurodevelopmental condition that shapes communication, sensory processing, and how someone experiences the world.

We break down what the spectrum really means, how autism presents neurologically, emotionally, and socially, and the misconceptions that can cause real harm. Most importantly, we talk about what it looks like to move from trying to “fix” people to actually supporting them—creating space for differences instead of expecting everyone to fit the...

Our value of rugged individualism bleeds into all areas of our lives, and mental health is no exception. Mental health is often framed as something you should be able to handle on your own. If you're struggling, it can feel like a personal failure—and if you're doing well, it can feel like something you have to maintain through sheer willpower. But that idea is deeply misleading, if not even dangerous.

In this episode, we explore how our mental and emotional well-being is built and sustained through relationships: from close friendships, to broader community, to...

Needs are one of the most important—and most overlooked—parts of mental health. In this episode, we unpack what needs actually are, why unmet needs impact everything from your mood to your relationships, and how they often sit underneath anxiety, anger, burnout, and emotional overwhelm.

We explore the difference between survival and wellbeing needs, how unmet needs quietly drive emotional reactions, and why so many people struggle to even recognize what they need in the first place. If you’ve ever thought, “Why am I reacting like this?” or “This shouldn’t be a big deal,” t...

Some mental health terms have become part of everyday language—narcissist, borderline, sociopath. But what do those labels actually mean, and how often are they used correctly?

In this episode of the Behind the Label series, we explore Cluster B personality disorders: Borderline, Narcissistic, Histrionic, and Antisocial Personality Disorders. These conditions are often described as the “dramatic, emotional, or erratic” cluster—but behind that label are complex mental health conditions that are frequently misunderstood and heavily stigmatized.

We talk about what personality disorders really are, why they develop, and the core...

Dating apps promised something revolutionary: endless options, convenience, and more access to connection than ever before. But for many people, the reality of modern dating feels very different. Instead of excitement, many report burnout, anxiety, emotional fatigue, and a growing sense that dating has become exhausting.

In this episode, we explore the psychology behind dating fatigue and why so many people feel drained by modern dating culture. We talk about the hidden emotional costs of dating apps, including repeated cycles of hope and disappointment, “micro-grief” from connections that fade, and the nervous system strain crea...

Mental toughness is one of the most praised traits in sports, school, and high performance culture. We celebrate the athlete who plays through pain, the student who doesn’t complain, the leader who never cracks under pressure. But what if some of what we call “toughness” is actually emotional suppression in disguise?

In this episode, we unpack the difference between toxic toughness and healthy resilience. Where is the line between discipline and disconnection? Between pushing yourself and abandoning yourself? We explore what people really mean by “mental toughness,” how sports culture can sometimes confuse survival m...

Schizophrenia is one of the most misunderstood mental health conditions—often distorted by movies, headlines, and misinformation. In this episode of our Behind the Label series, we break down what schizophrenia actually is, how it affects the brain, and what it’s really like for those who experience it.

We explore the basics and statistics, common symptoms, and what’s happening neurologically in the brain. You’ll learn about causes, evidence-based treatments, and what therapy and medication can actually do to support stability and quality of life. We also share tips for loved ones—what’s hel...

In this episode of Embrace Mental Health, we jump back into our Stranger Things series, diving in to Seasons 3 and 4 and how trauma, grief, depression, and stigma show up in some of the show’s most complex characters.

From Hopper's unprocessed grief, to the cycle of abuse in Billy’s storyline, how untreated pain can be exploited, both internally and externally, to Vecna as a strong metaphor for how depression often attacks. And finally, to the iconic “Running Up That Hill” scene as a metaphor for finding the things in your life that make you deci...

Procrastination is often framed as a problem of discipline or motivation—but what if that framing is actually part of the problem? In this episode, we unpack why procrastination is a deeply human experience, not a moral failure. Rather than laziness, procrastination is often an emotional regulation strategy: a way of avoiding discomfort, fear, or overwhelm in the short term, even when it costs us in the long run.

We explore the emotional drivers behind procrastination, different patterns it can take, and how early experiences, attachment styles, shame, and nervous system responses all play a...

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is one of the most misunderstood mental health conditions—often reduced to stereotypes about cleanliness, organization, or “quirks.” In this episode of our Behind the Label series, we break down what OCD actually is: a brain-based disorder driven by fear, uncertainty, and a misfiring threat system. We explore the difference between obsessions and compulsions, how OCD shows up neurologically, emotionally, and behaviorally, and why insight alone isn’t enough to make the thoughts stop. From chronic doubt and hyper-responsibility to time-consuming rituals and mental compulsions, we unpack how OCD can quietly take over daily life.

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Bet you never thought your favorite TV show and your favorite podcast would cross paths, did you? But Stranger Things is bursting at the seams with powerful mental health metaphors and parallels—so many, in fact, that we decided to make it a mini-series!

In this first episode, we explore how some of the stories, characters, and even monsters from Seasons 1 and 2 reflect real mental health experiences, including trauma, anxiety, recovery, and being a caretaker. We also explore the power of belief, connection, and community—and why healing isn’t a single heroic moment, but a...

If you’ve ever wondered why you tend to pull away, cling tightly, or feel uneasy in close relationships, this episode explores how Attachment Theory can help make sense of those patterns. Attachment styles aren’t diagnoses or personality flaws — they’re adaptive responses formed in early relationships to help us survive and stay connected. In this episode, we unpack what attachment is, how it develops, and why everyone has an attachment style shaped by their relational experiences.

We walk through the four main attachment styles — secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized — and explore how they show up...

Bipolar disorder is often misunderstood, oversimplified, or reduced to stereotypes that don’t reflect the lived reality of those who experience it. In this episode of our Behind the Label series, we take a grounded, compassionate look at bipolar disorder — what it is, what it isn’t, and how it actually shows up in the brain, body, and daily life. We explore the statistics and basics, the neurological systems involved, and the emotional, cognitive, and physical symptoms across depressive, manic, and hypomanic episodes.

We also discuss causes, evidence-based treatments, and how therapy and medication work t...

Just about all of us carry emotional bruises from childhood—some subtle, some deeply painful. As adults, those old family dynamics don’t magically disappear; they often resurface in moments of stress, conflict, or closeness, pulling us back into roles we learned long ago. In this episode, Rowan and guest host Lawana explore why family-of-origin wounds run so deep, why we can feel “smaller” or more reactive around the people who raised us, and how early attachment patterns continue to shape our relationships today.

Together, we’ll unpack common family roles, unspoken rules, and survival s...

Music isn’t just background noise — it’s one of the most powerful tools your brain has for emotional regulation, memory, connection, and healing. In this episode, Autumn and guest host Myka break down the research behind why a single song can shift your mood, unclench your chest, or transport you back in time. From dopamine boosts to cortisol drops, to the way music activates both memory and emotion centers at the same time, we explore what’s actually happening in your brain when you hit play.

We also talk about how listening, creating, and experiencing music in commu...

In this episode, we reframe forgiveness as a well-being practice — not a moral obligation. Many of us replay painful interactions, feel stuck in old stories, or carry anger far longer than we want to. Today, we’re drawing on the work of Dr. Frederic Luskin, Director of the Stanford Forgiveness Project, to explore what forgiveness really is, why it matters for our mental health, and how anyone can begin practicing it.

We break down Luskin’s research on stress reduction, resilience, and emotional healing. We clarify what forgiveness is (an internal shift toward peace) and wh...

In this bonus episode, in honor of Men's Mental Health Awareness month, Rowan and Mark open up an honest, compassionate conversation about the realities of men’s mental health. Together, they explore why so many men feel pressure to appear strong, capable, and unfazed—while quietly carrying heavy emotional burdens. Through personal stories, cultural reflections, and gentle reframing, they unpack the stigmas that keep men silent and the supports that help men heal. This episode invites listeners to rethink what real strength looks like and how vulnerability can become a pathway toward connection, resilience, and wholeness.

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Depression is a word we use often, but it carries layers far deeper than many of us realize. In the November edition of the Behind the Label series, we explore what depression actually is—emotionally, physically, cognitively, and neurologically. We break down the difference between feeling depressed and experiencing a depressive disorder, walk through symptoms that aren’t always recognized as depression, and discuss how this condition can look so different from person to person.

We also explore the causes, treatments, and practical strategies that support healing—from therapy and medication to small, achievable steps...

If you’ve ever caught yourself feeling tense after scrolling or overwhelmed by endless notifications, you’re not alone. In this episode, we unpack how technology can both connect and stress us out — from information overload and social comparison to blurred work-life boundaries. We’ll explore why our brains get hooked on digital stimulation, how this affects our emotional and physical well-being, and what realistic steps can help us find more balance. Tune in for mindful strategies, small experiments, and gentle reminders that progress matters more than perfection.

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Conflict isn’t the problem—how we handle it is. In this episode, we unpack what conflict really is, and why it’s not inherently bad. You’ll learn about five common conflict styles—winning, yielding, resolving, avoiding, and compromising—and how each can be both healthy or unhealthy depending on the situation. We’ll explore how your upbringing, trauma history, and emotional safety shape the way you approach conflict, and what that means for your mental health. Whether you tend to shut down, blow up, or over-accommodate, this episode offers practical tools to help you navigate conflict with honesty, empat...

We launch our Season 3 Series, Behind the Label, starting out with a deep dive into anxiety. Anxiety is a universal human emotion—but for millions of people, it’s also a diagnosable disorder that shapes daily life in powerful ways. In this episode of Embrace Mental Health, we unpack what anxiety really is: from its neurological roots and physical symptoms to what differentiates everyday anxiety from an anxiety disorder. We also talk about panic attacks, treatment options, and how loved ones can offer real support instead of unhelpful clichés. Whether you’ve experienced anxiety yourself or you want to bett...

Artificial intelligence is showing up everywhere — even in mental health. From chatbots that offer 24/7 “support,” to therapy apps that track our moods, AI promises accessibility, affordability, and personalized care. But can a machine truly understand us? In this episode, Kelsey and Autumn explore the growing role of AI in mental health — what it gets right, what it misses, and what it means for the future of care.

Together, they unpack the nuances: the difference between information and connection, the importance of empathy, and the irreplaceable value of the therapeutic relationship. AI may make care more ava...

Welcome back for Season 3 of the Embrace Mental Health Podcast! We are ready for another season of great topics and deep discussions surrounding all things mental health. You'll hear the same familiar voices, but some different names for the those who the voices come from.

In this episode, our cohost Wesley shares something deeply personal: he's changing his first name to Rowan. Join us as he explores the concepts of identity, authenticity, and how they tie into mental health. We talk about what names represent — how they shape our sense of self, belonging, and em...

A couple brief announcements and a big celebration of all that we did in Season 2! Thank you so much to our listeners! We look forward to seeing you again in the Fall for Season 3. Tell your friends :)

As we discovered from last year's episode about spirituality and mental health (S1E23), it's a subject that has a lot to unpack. So much to unpack, in fact, that we decided to do another episode this season. In this episode, Wesley and guest Jon Shinabarger discuss the topic of spirituality and religion, and some of the positive and negative ways they can impact our mental health.

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In this episode, we dive into the powerful intersection of mental health and rejection—how being turned down, left out, or criticized can deeply affect our emotional well-being. We explore reasons why rejection hurts so much, and also how to build resilience in the face of it. We break down how to use the 5 steps of dealing with feelings in order to navigate rejection in a healthy way and turn it into a tool for growth and self-discovery.

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Most people expect to pay a lot of attention to a woman's physical health while she's pregnant and after giving birth, but how about her mental health? Postpartum depression and anxiety are very common experiences, but not as commonly talked about or prepared for, and as a result, many women not only suffer, but suffer alone. In honor Mother's Day and Maternal Mental Health Month, we invited special guest Olivia to join us on the podcast to tell us about her story and experience going through PPA, and also some tips and insights for women who are pregnant, women...

In this powerful episode, Kelsey and Autumn explore the concept of hope as resistance—how choosing to believe in something better becomes a radical act in the face of darkness, oppression, and pain. This episode isn’t about naïve optimism—it’s about the fierce, grounded hope that gives people the strength to keep fighting even when the world feels heavy. It's the hope of spring in the harshest winter, the hope of the sunrise in the darkest night. It's about an authentic hope that holds the hard in one hand, and holds just as tightly to the belief in...

Disappointment can be one of those complex emotions that can stick with you or even haunt you for a long time. In this month's edition of the emotions series, Wes and Kels look deeper into disappointment, including the role that expectations can play, the different areas in our lives that can bring disappointment, and some of the ways to deal with it in a way that doesn't leave you with ghosts. Life can be full of disappointment, but having some tools ready to use when those days come can help you overcome it and not carry it with you...

We all know that, at it's best, social media is a bit of a mixed bag. There can be some truly beautiful and meaningful ways to engage with it, but it can also be really easy to get sucked into doom scrolling, tangling with keyboard warriors, and other things that may not bring much benefit to our lives. In this episode, Kelsey and Autumn take a deep look into some of the specific ways social media can be challenging for our mental health, how to stay informed without sacrificing our sanity, and recognizing some of the ways social media...

In this week's episode, Kelsey will guide you through a Wellness Check In exercise, during which you can assess and take inventory of your physical, mental, and relational health and wellbeing. This exercise is designed to help you consider your values, your needs, and your goals for your physical, mental, and relational health in order to help you increase your awareness, live life with more intentionality, and become solution-focused instead of problem focused. We all know that at Embrace Mental Health, we love a practical, hands-on tool, and a great reflection question! Give this exercise a try and see...

The unpredictability of life can often trigger anxiety, stress, and feelings of helplessness. Sometimes Google just can't answer all of our questions and we find ourselves grasping for control in uncontrollable situations. So how do we cope with the stress that not knowing what the future may hold often brings? Join Wesley and Kelsey for the March installment of the emotions series as they discuss strategies and practical tools for embracing uncertainty, building resilience, and finding peace in the midst of the unknown.

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On this week's episode, Autumn and special guest Alyssa talk about disordered eating and its intersections with mental health. From culture to social media, and diet fads to AI, we are all surrounded by voices telling us what and how to think about our bodies, about food, about fitness, and our sense of self and worth. While both Autumn and Alyssa had different journeys and experiences, there are still evident parallels between their stories. Alyssa shares how her faith helped her find freedom, and Autumn shares about the power of therapy. Both share what they would say to their...