Cornerstone Church With Dustin Bates
Stewarding Well | Cultivating Healthy Families
Everything you have belongs to God. Your time, your talent, and your treasure are not yours to own but yours to manage on His behalf. Biblical stewardship means giving God your first and your best, not the leftovers after everything else has been spent. Like the widow who obeyed Elijah with her last handful of flour, true stewardship is an act of faith. You will either control your money, your schedule, and your gifts, or they will control you. The call is simple: stop waiting until the jar is full and start obeying with what you have right now.<...
Healthy Families Care for One Another | Cultivating Healthy Families
In Mark 2, four friends carry a paralyzed man through a crowd, climb a roof, and lower him down to Jesus because they refused to let any obstacle stop them. That kind of radical, sacrificial care is a picture of what it means to truly belong to a community of faith. The church is not just an organization or a weekly event. According to 1 Timothy 3:15, it is the household of God, and those who follow Jesus have been adopted into it as brothers and sisters. Healthy families take care of one another, and that means being the kind of person...
Your Family Is Your Garden of Blessing | Cultivating Healthy Families
Healthy families are not built on good intentions. They are built on faithful, consistent rhythms practiced over time with God's help. Drawing from Scripture, five key rhythms can transform any family: speaking life to one another, serving one another, slowing down to be present, seeking adventure together, and finding awe in every season. These rhythms are not about achieving perfection, since no family is perfect, but about pursuing health through intentional, daily choices. Whether you are a parent, grandparent, or single adult, these biblical principles apply to whatever family dynamic God has placed you in right now.
Benefits of Holy Fear | Awe of God
Fearing God is not about being scared of Him. It is about living in deep awe and reverence that shapes how we think, decide, and live. Psalm 112 outlines powerful benefits that flow naturally from this kind of holy fear, including confidence, generosity, lasting legacy, and freedom from anxiety. These are not guaranteed rewards for good behavior but the natural fruit of a life rooted in trust and reverence toward God. True wisdom begins with fearing the Lord, and that wisdom leads to decisions that produce a genuinely fruitful life. A fruitful life includes healthy relationships, faithful stewardship, and a...
Being A Friend of God | Awe of God
What does it truly mean to be a friend of God? Psalm 25:14 reveals that God shares His secret counsel with those who fear Him, not out of terror, but out of a deep reverence and a greater fear of living without His presence. There is a significant difference between being a fan of God and being a friend. A fan keeps a safe distance and accumulates knowledge, while a friend accepts the invitation into real access and real relationship. In John 15, Jesus makes a stunning declaration, calling His disciples friends and sharing everything He received from the Father. However...
Trembling at God's Word | Awe of God
Christianity is unique among world religions because God chose to reveal Himself to us, both through creation and through His Word. The Bible is not simply a book written by men but a divinely inspired text that has shaped nations, transformed hearts, and guided generations. The story of King Josiah offers a striking picture of what it looks like to truly encounter Scripture. When Josiah heard the long-lost words of God's law read aloud, he grieved openly, acknowledged failure honestly, and gathered every person in the community to hear it together. God's Word is living and active, capable of...
Irresistible Holiness | Awe of God
Holiness is not about following a rigid list of rules or becoming someone unrecognizable. It simply means being set apart from sin and set apart for God, until we begin to look more like Him. Drawing from 1 Peter, three dimensions of holiness shape the life of every believer: holy hope, holy desires, and holy confidence. Holy hope is anchored in what God has already done through Jesus Christ and pointed toward what He has promised. Holy desires grow as we develop discernment about what feeds our spirit and what poisons it. Holy confidence rests on the truth that before...
The God Who Truly Sees Us | Awe of God
Jacob was one of the most flawed figures in the Bible, a deceiver and manipulator who spent his life trusting only himself. His story reaches a turning point in Genesis 32, when he is left alone in the dark and wrestles through the night with God in human form. Rather than crushing him, God engaged him, and when Jacob finally told the truth about who he was, everything changed. God gave him a new name, Israel, meaning one who wrestles with God. The wrestling was not rebellion. It was honest engagement. God is not looking for people who have it...
The Fear of the Lord | Awe of God
The phrase 'fear of the Lord' appears throughout Scripture, but it is not a single concept. There are actually three distinct types of fear found in the Bible, and knowing the difference can transform your relationship with God. Sinful fear drives you away from God, rooted in shame and the lie that He is holding something back from you. Right and healthy fear draws you toward God through trembling awe at His majesty and mercy. Filial fear, the deepest and most mature kind, is the loving closeness of a child who never wants to be separated from a good...
A Man & His Calling | Men of Legacy
Every man has a calling, and it goes far beyond a job title or a church role. Through the lives of Abraham, Moses, and David, we see three dimensions of that calling: stepping out of comfort and into obedience, leading with courage and humility, and investing intentionally in the next generation. God called each of these men not because they were perfect, but because they were willing. Abraham left everything familiar, Moses was shaped through decades of obscurity, and David poured his whole story into the people around him. None of them got it right every time, yet all...
A Man and His Mind | Men of Legacy
A man of legacy is a man whose life is worth imitating, giving others something worth following. Romans 1 describes what happens when humanity rejects God: thinking becomes corrupt, and the mind becomes ruled by envy, greed, and pride. But Romans 12:1-2 offers the answer, calling believers to be transformed by the renewing of their minds rather than conformed to the patterns of this world. This transformation is not behavior modification. It is a complete overhaul, giving believers new capacity to discern not just right from wrong, but a good thing from a God thing. A battle-ready mind, as described...
A Man and His Heart | Me of Legacy
What does it mean to be a man of legacy? It starts not with outward success, but with the condition of the inner man. Scripture is clear that when men lead and love well, everyone around them flourishes. The difference between a man and a boy comes down to one word: responsibility. A man takes ownership of his actions, his failures, and the people in his care. Drawing from the life of King David, we see how even the greatest among us can fall when the heart grows cold and sin goes unaddressed. True legacy begins with a repentant...
The God Who Keeps His Promises | Plot Twist
Bad things happen to good people, and the life of Joseph shows us that God is still at work even in the middle of betrayal, suffering, and broken promises. Promises form the foundation of trust, and when they are broken by people we love, they can distort the way we see God. But unlike people, God has never broken a single promise. Joseph spent 22 years moving from a pit to a prison to a palace, and through it all, God was authoring something far greater than Joseph could see. When Joseph finally faced the brothers who had betrayed him...
Don't Lose the Plot | Plot Twist
Life rarely goes the way we plan, but that does not mean God has lost the plot. The story of Joseph in Genesis 37 reveals how favoritism, resentment, and revenge can fracture even the closest relationships, and how God works through broken families to accomplish something far greater than we can imagine. Jacob's extreme favoritism toward Joseph poisoned his household, and his sons responded with hatred and violence. Yet even in the middle of betrayal and injustice, God was writing a story that pointed forward to Jesus. Just as Joseph was sold by his brothers for silver, Jesus was betrayed...
What Does Baptism Really Mean? | Summer School
Baptism is one of the most visible steps a believer can take, but it is important to understand what it actually means. It is an outward expression of an inward change that took place at salvation. Baptism does not save you. Jesus saves you, and the water is a symbol of that reality. When a person goes under the water, it pictures the burial of the old life. Coming up out of the water pictures being raised to new life in Christ. If you have placed your faith in Jesus, baptism is not optional. It is a command from...
Why Doesn't Life Feel Fair | Summer School
Life rarely feels fair, and the story of Cain and Abel in Genesis 4 speaks directly to that tension. Abel brought his best to God and still lost his life, proving that doing the right thing does not guarantee a fair outcome. The difference between Cain and Abel was not what they gave but the heart behind it. Cain went through the motions while Abel gave genuinely and wholeheartedly. God is not interested in religious performance. He wants an honest, authentic relationship. Faith is not a transaction where good behavior earns good results. It is a relationship built on trust...
How Good is Good Enough? | Summer School
Most of us believe we are good people, but we tend to slide the moral scale in our own favor while holding others to a higher standard. When everyone defines goodness for themselves, there is no real standard at all, and history shows where that leads. God does not simply possess goodness. He is goodness, and every true good thing flows from Him. In the parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector, Jesus makes clear that self-righteousness blinds us to our own need. The Pharisee listed his accomplishments, while the tax collector simply asked for mercy, and it...
Who is Jesus, Really? | Summer School
Questions about Jesus are common in classrooms, workplaces, and online conversations, and Christians are called to be ready with real answers. Historical evidence for Jesus comes not just from Scripture but from hostile outside sources like Tacitus, Pliny the Younger, and Josephus, all of whom had no reason to support Christianity. Even skeptical scholars like Bart Ehrman acknowledge that the historical existence of Jesus is as certain as we can be about anyone from the ancient world. Every version of Jesus that falls short of His full identity is an edited version, and an edited Jesus cannot save anyone...
Hope Fully
Many Christians find themselves spiritually exhausted not because they have walked away from God, but because they are running on empty. Drawing from 1 Peter, four practical infusions can help restore spiritual vitality. The first is remembering your identity as someone chosen by God and adopted into His family. The second is anchoring your trust in God's living promises, grounded in the historical reality of the resurrection. The third is allowing trials to refine and strengthen your faith rather than simply trying to escape them. The fourth is shifting from a vague, wishful hopefulness to a full, assured hope rooted...
Being A Dad In the Presence of the Father
Being a godly father is one of the most important callings a man can answer, and Psalm 15 gives a clear and practical picture of what that looks like. Four key areas shape a father's lasting impact on his children: his actions, his words, his circle of friends, and his integrity. Children are always watching, and what they see in their father will shape their faith, their character, and their future far more than any advice he gives. A father who pursues God sincerely, speaks life over his children, surrounds himself with godly men, and keeps his word is building...
Building A Legacy That Matters | Legacy
Jesus's parable of the talents reveals what it means to be a faithful servant while waiting for His return. Three servants received different amounts of money - two invested and doubled their talents, while one buried his out of fear. The faithful servants received identical praise regardless of the amount they managed. This parable teaches that God entrusts us with five key talents: time, relationships, resources, opportunities, and assignments. Legacy thieves like distraction, comparison, fear, complacency, and lack of faith can steal our faithfulness. True faithfulness means actively investing what God has given us rather than passively waiting, knowing...
30th Anniversary Celebration
Cornerstone Church celebrates 30 years of God's faithfulness, tracing its remarkable journey from humble beginnings to community transformation. The story begins with Pastor Henry and Doris Hunkapiller's missionary work in Liberia, whose legacy continued through their daughter Georgie and her husband Pastor Artie Davis. Despite initial reluctance after previous church planting failures, God called them to start something different in Orangeburg. From a small gymnastics center to the Willington campus, and finally to the miraculous acquisition of the old Winn-Dixie building, God has consistently provided beyond human understanding. This legacy reminds us that we live in the shade of trees...
Choosing What You Multiply | Legacy
Life presents only two fundamental paths: walking by the Spirit or walking by the flesh. Every decision you make today actively shapes your legacy through God's multiplication principle - you don't choose whether your life multiplies, only what it multiplies. The mature Christian response isn't perfect walking, but quickly recognizing when you've strayed, repenting, and changing course. The fruit of the Spirit - love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control - emerges naturally when you're walking in step with God. You can create fertile soil for spiritual growth by staying planted in community, saturating yourself in...
What Story Are You Living In? | Legacy
Life is more than daily routines and immediate pressures - you are actively building a legacy that will outlast you. Every person has two parts to their legacy: what they were given (both blessings and baggage inherited from family and circumstances) and what they choose to build with it. While you cannot control what was handed to you, you are responsible for what you pass on to others. The key is allowing God to author your story rather than trying to write it yourself. Building a godly legacy requires three actions: internalizing God's truth in your heart, verbalizing your...
Honoring A Mother's Legacy
Three mothers demonstrate how lasting legacy is built through everyday faithfulness rather than grand gestures. The first mother exemplified wisdom and prayer, teaching her children character while serving as their spiritual shield through constant intercession. The second showed that transformation can happen at any stage of life, demonstrating that following Jesus means knowing where to go when everything falls apart. The third faced terminal brain cancer with unwavering faith, maintaining eternal perspective and continuing to serve others even in suffering. These stories reveal that legacy isn't about perfection but about faithfulness, and the calling to nurture and point others...
Faith for the Rescue | The Great Rescue
Faith goes beyond intellectual belief to become personal trust that moves us to action. While belief is accepting facts mentally, faith involves trusting God enough to act without seeing the complete picture. Abraham exemplified this by leaving everything behind when God called him, not knowing his destination. True faith means moving before seeing the end result and enduring circumstances we don't understand. In our culture of distrust, we often struggle to move from belief to faith, preferring to trust ourselves rather than God. The foundation of Christian faith rests on knowing that God doesn't waste pain and that His...
Rescued From Fear | The Great Rescue
Fear can either protect us or paralyze us, but God wants to transform our greatest weakness into boldness. The Apostle Peter's journey from denying Jesus out of fear to boldly preaching the gospel shows us this transformation is possible. True biblical boldness isn't recklessness or aggression - it's spirit-given confidence to speak and obey God even when it costs us something. This boldness comes from spending time with Jesus and replacing wrong fear with the right fear of God. When we understand that Jesus has conquered death, we can live with courage, knowing that the worst thing that could...
Rescued From Shame | The Great Rescue
Shame affects everyone and creates feelings of isolation, unworthiness, and contamination that keep us from God's calling. It originates from things we've done or things done to us, making us feel exposed and unlovable. Peter's story illustrates how shame works - after denying Jesus three times, he retreated from his calling and went back to fishing. Jesus rescued Peter through confrontation, nourishment, and restoration, asking him three times if he loved Him and restoring his purpose. We must choose to let Jesus crush our shame rather than let shame crush us, bringing it into the light and moving forward...
Rescued From Doubt | The Great Rescue
In our culture of suspicion, doubt has become our default setting, leading to isolation and anxiety. The story of Thomas reveals that doubt isn't neutral - it has a destination that locks our hearts and separates us from community. When Jesus appeared to Thomas, He didn't shame him for questioning but offered peace and evidence. Christianity provides substantial historical, philosophical, and cultural evidence for faith. Faith isn't a destination but a trajectory - we're all moving toward either greater trust in God or greater reliance on ourselves. Jesus meets us in our doubt and invites us to examine the...
Easter 2026
Easter reveals that the impossible is possible through Jesus Christ. The story of two criminals crucified alongside Jesus illustrates humanity's two responses to life's chaos. One thief blamed others and demanded rescue without repentance, while the other owned his guilt and humbly asked Jesus to remember him. The difference wasn't their circumstances but their willingness to take responsibility. Jesus promises paradise to those who acknowledge their need for rescue rather than those who deflect blame. The chaos that entered God's perfect world through sin has an expiration date, and Jesus is the ultimate hero who conquers death itself.
Palm Sunday | 2026
Palm Sunday reveals Jesus as a radically different kind of king who demonstrates His authority through humility and sacrifice. When Jesus rode an unbroken donkey into Jerusalem, He showed His divine power to bring peace to chaos. Our hearts are like that stubborn, untamed donkey - we cannot control them through willpower alone. Christ becomes king of our lives when we surrender our unruly hearts to His lordship, join the eternal chorus of worship surrounding God's throne, and accept His sacrifice as the complete payment for our sin. True transformation comes not from behavior modification but from genuine surrender...
The Good News | So That All May Know Him
Evangelism is simply sharing good news - one beggar telling another where to find bread. Christianity has been the most powerful force for human flourishing in history, with Christian influence leading to better health, education, and economic outcomes worldwide. Jesus spoke more about hell than anyone else in Scripture, warning people out of love about their eternal destiny. Every Christian is called to share their faith within their circles of influence, starting with family and close friends. This can happen through direct conversations or lifestyle evangelism - living in a way that reflects the gospel and creates opportunities for...
Seeking God in a Modern World | Knowing God
Seeking God in our modern world requires acknowledging the unique challenges we face - constant noise, digital distractions, and information overload that previous generations never experienced. Two essential boundaries guide this journey: understanding there's no spiritual finish line this side of heaven, and recognizing that God is a person to know, not a formula to master. The Apostle Paul himself admitted he hadn't arrived spiritually, choosing instead to press forward in his relationship with Christ. Rather than treating God like a vending machine where we insert religious activities and expect specific outcomes, we must approach Him with authentic, humble...
The God of Grace | Knowing God
Grace is often misunderstood as simply being nice, but biblical grace is far more profound. While mercy is God not giving us what we deserve, grace is God giving us what we don't deserve. Understanding grace requires recognizing four key truths: God has established a moral law, we are all lawbreakers who have rebelled against Him, God rescues us despite our rebellion, and we must respond in faith. Grace comes at enormous cost - Christ paid the debt our sin created and lavished us with spiritual blessings we could never earn. This incredible gift should transform how we live...
The God Who Never Changes | Knowing God
In a world of constant change, God's unchanging nature provides the anchor our souls desperately need. When God revealed Himself to Moses as "I AM WHO I AM," He declared His eternal, unchanging essence. Unlike human relationships where feelings fluctuate, God doesn't change the rules mid-game or alter His mind about His love for you. His mercy, grace, and promises remain constant regardless of your performance or circumstances. This immutability means you can trust Him completely with your past, present, and future, finding security in His unchanging character rather than the shifting sands of cultural opinion or personal emotions.<...
Yes & Yes | Knowing God
The tension between God's sovereignty and human free will has puzzled believers for centuries, yet both truths coexist beautifully in Scripture. God's sovereignty means He has supreme authority over all creation and is never caught off guard by our circumstances. At the same time, we possess genuine free will to make choices throughout our lives. Like passengers on a cruise ship who have freedom to move around while the captain controls the destination, we can make real decisions within God's ultimate plan. The story of Judas demonstrates how human choices can fulfill God's predetermined purposes. Understanding this balance leads...
Do You Know God or Just Know About Him? | Knowing God
Many people in our culture know facts about God but lack a genuine personal relationship with Him. This distinction matters because cultural familiarity with Christianity can create false confidence in our faith. When we examine major worldviews logically, atheism struggles with fundamental problems regarding reason, morality, and meaning. Christianity offers a unique solution: a God who is knowable, personal, and good. Unlike knowing facts about a celebrity, truly knowing God requires moving beyond information to relationship. We come to know God through His Word and the Holy Spirit, not just through cultural exposure or theological knowledge.
Building Blocks For Healthy Families | 10 Rules For Your Best Life Ever
Strong families require solid foundations built on God's design. The fifth commandment calls us to honor our parents, recognizing that this first authority relationship shapes how we relate to all other authorities, including God. The seventh commandment protects sexual purity within marriage, understanding that God's boundaries aren't restrictions but blessings that protect us from harm. When we honor authority and maintain purity, we create families that can withstand life's storms. These aren't just nice ideals but essential building blocks for flourishing homes according to God's perfect design.
A Life That Honors God | 10 Rules For Your Best Life Ever
Living a life that honors God requires understanding how we speak about Him and how we trust Him through rest. The third commandment warns against using God's name in vain, which means leveraging His authority for our own purposes or speaking about Him carelessly. The fourth commandment calls us to remember the Sabbath, which is fundamentally about trust rather than just inactivity. Jesus transformed our understanding by becoming our Sabbath rest Himself. Practical application involves representing God accurately in our speech and establishing daily, weekly, and annual rhythms of Sabbath that demonstrate our trust in His provision.
The Power Of Right Priorities | 10 Rules For Your Best Life Ever
The first two commandments reveal God's blueprint for human flourishing by establishing right priorities. The first commandment addresses who we worship - God alone deserves our ultimate devotion, not the things we often prioritize like money, career, or even family. The second commandment addresses how we worship - we must meet God on His terms rather than creating a more manageable version of Him. These aren't arbitrary rules but protective boundaries that show us what God values most: our relationship with Him and others. To live these out, we need to examine where our time, money, and thoughts actually...