Florida Divorce Lawyer Podcast | Child Custody, Alimony & Mediation in Florida

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By: Attorney Jonathan Jacobs

Florida divorce and family law explained clearly by Florida divorce attorney Jonathan Jacobs, Esq.If you are facing a divorce in Florida, a child custody or timesharing dispute, an alimony case, a child support issue, or another Florida family law problem, the Florida Divorce Lawyer Podcast helps you understand the law, the court process, and what may happen next.Hosted by Florida family law and divorce attorney Jonathan Jacobs, Esq., the podcast provides practical explanations of Florida divorce law without overwhelming legal jargon.Episodes answer the questions people going through divorce actually have:• How does divorce work in Florida?• How is c...

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The Loudest Lawyer in the Courtroom: When Advocacy Becomes Theater
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In the realm of family law, the courtroom should not resemble a stage. Attorney Jonathan Jacobs highlights a critical issue: the tendency of some litigators to rely on grand performances rather than concrete evidence. Jacobs points out that often, the loudest and most confident lawyers are the least effective in court. "The loudest lawyer in the courtroom is not necessarily the best lawyer," he argues. This theatrical approach can lead to a distortion of facts, as lawyers substitute flamboyant rhetoric for solid proof.  

The impact of courtroom theatrics versus evidence-based advocacyThe importance o...


Who Keeps The House in a Divorce?
10/12/2026

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Attorney Jacobs knows the complex financial and logistical challenges faced by couples during divorce, focusing on housing issues and creative solutions to avoid financial ruin. He emphasizes the importance of innovative thinking in managing assets and living arrangements post-divorce.

Impact of divorce on housing and living arrangementsFinancial challenges of maintaining two householdsCreative solutions for asset division and housingThe importance of early planning and reservesImplications of selling or refinancing the marital homeStrategies to avoid financial ruin post-divorceDividing the marital home can be complex and may require creative solutions.Both parties often face increased...


Child Support Payments in Florida are a Tug of War
10/08/2026

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Florida Divorce Lawyer Podcast explores the complexities of child support payments in Florida, including the roles of the Department of Revenue, different payment methods, and the financial and emotional impacts on parents. Attorney Jonathan Jacobs offers practical insights for navigating child support obligations effectively.

The role of the Florida Department of Revenue in child supportDifferent methods of child support payment: direct pay vs. state disbursementThe impact of child support arrearages on parents and co-parentingLegal standards for proving payments in courtThe importance of accurate record-keeping and evidenceThe Department of Revenue has comprehensive data...


AI is Radically Changing the Legal Profession Say District Courts
09/24/2026

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs tells you about the evolving role of AI in the legal profession, addressing misconceptions, potential risks, and opportunities for reform. He challenges the negative perceptions of AI-generated legal work and advocates for better guidelines to protect the industry and its clients, as well as for the empowerment of pro se litigants.

Misconceptions about AI in lawAI's role in court decisions and legal documentsRisks of unregulated AI use by pro se litigantsNeed for guidelines and guardrails in legal AI applicationsPotential for AI to surpass human legal expertiseEmpowering litigants through better...


Equal Timesharing Does Not Work
09/21/2026

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In this episode, Attorney Jonathan Jacobs discusses the misconceptions surrounding equal time sharing in Florida family law, exploring why the presumption often doesn't serve the best interests of children or responsible parents.

The flawed assumption behind equal time sharingHow the law presumes responsibility of both parentsThe impact of equal time sharing on responsible parentsLegal presumption and rebuttal in custody casesThe real winners and losers in custody disputesThe need for reform in family law statutesEqual time sharing is often presumed by law, but it may not always serve the child's best interests.The...


The Power of A Joint Stipulation: Taking Control Over Your Case!
09/09/2026

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs covers the strategic use of joint stipulations in family law cases, emphasizing how they can help parties exert control, settle issues efficiently, and avoid costly litigation. Learn practical tips and real-world examples to navigate family disputes effectively.

The importance of joint stipulations in family lawHow to draft and review a joint stipulationUsing stipulations for holiday custody arrangementsSelling property through joint stipulationsStrategies to avoid litigation and trial

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"You should still try early and often.""You can agree on the sale conditions and move forward.""...


AI's Dark Side: Falsifying Evidence in Family Law and Divorce
09/02/2026

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This conversation explores the profound implications of artificial intelligence in family law, particularly focusing on the potential for evidence falsification and manipulation of financial records. The discussion highlights the challenges posed by AI in maintaining the integrity of legal proceedings and the necessity for legal frameworks to adapt to these technological advancements. It emphasizes the importance of secure communication methods and the need for sanctions against misuse of AI in legal contexts.

Takeaways

Artificial intelligence can falsify evidence in legal cases.Manipulating financial records can drastically alter equitable...


The Case for Appointing MORE Guardians Ad Litem in Florida Divorce
09/01/2026

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We need more judges and more family law courts to appoint guardians ad litem in more child custody cases in Florida. The limitations imposed by overcautious judicial discretion can lead to severe consequences for minor children. Attorney Jonathan Jacobs makes the case for courts more liberally appointing GALS and suggests a new system for making their appointment satisfy the affordability requirement.

Call Jacobs Law Firm at 407-335-8113 to learn more. This is not legal advice and does not establish an attorney-client relationship. www.jjlawfl.com 


Do Women Hate Men? The Politics of Divorce
08/23/2026

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This episode explores the shifting perceptions between men and women, political influences on relationships, and the societal implications of these changes. Attorney Jonathan Jacobs delves into recent polls, gender dynamics, and the impact of political and social attitudes on dating and marriage and divorce.

Misandry and misogyny in societyRecent polls on gender perceptions among youthThe influence of political and social views on relationshipsEconomic shifts and gender power dynamicsThe role of media and education in shaping attitudesImplications for marriage and divorce ratesThe future of gender relations and societal cohesionYoung women under 25 have a...


Boomers! Gen X! Millennials! Gen Z! Calling All Divorcees!
08/20/2026

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In this episode of Florida Divorce Lawyer Podcast focusing on AI and generational divides, Attorney Jonathan Jacobs talks about the evolving landscape of family law, highlighting how generational differences, misconceptions about divorce, and the impact of AI are shaping legal expectations and practices. He emphasizes the importance of understanding legal nuances and adapting to new communication methods in family law to bridge the gap between older and younger generations.

Generational differences in divorce expectationsMisconceptions about child support and legal requirementsWhat defines an uncontested divorceThe legal process and timeline of divorce litigationImpact of...


AI in Family and Divorce Law
07/11/2026

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This episode explores the impact of artificial intelligence on family law, highlighting both opportunities and challenges. Attorney Jonathan Jacobs discusses how AI is transforming legal practices, from document creation to courtroom strategy, and offers insights on ethical considerations and best practices.

AI's impact on family lawProper use of AI in legal practiceRisks and security concerns with AIAI in courtroom strategy and pleadingsEthical considerations in AI use in lawAI can significantly improve efficiency in family law cases.Proper prompting and understanding AI limitations are crucial.AI can be misused, leading to security risks...


Special Circumstances Hearing In Florida Divorce
06/18/2026

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This episode of Florida Divorce Lawyer Podcasr, Clermont Divorce Attorney Jonathan Jacobs explains the importance of special circumstances hearings in family law, especially when a marital home is at risk of foreclosure or financial distress. He covers legal procedures, necessary evidence, and strategic considerations for obtaining interim relief.

Special circumstances hearing in family lawLegal criteria for interim reliefForeclosure and marital home risksEvidence and legal procedures for court motionsImpact of divorce-related financial distressSpecial circumstances hearings can prevent foreclosure during divorce.A well-prepared motion and evidence are crucial for success.Court may grant...


Relocation by Agreement in Florida Might Be Legally Insufficient
05/17/2026

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs discusses recent Florida case law on child custody relocation, emphasizing procedural requirements, legal pitfalls, and best practices for courts and litigants.

Legal requirements for relocation agreementsProcedural pitfalls in child custody casesImportance of court reporters in hearingsguest nameJonathan JacobsFlorida Child Custody Relocation: Key Legal Insights from Recent CaseHow Not to Fail a Relocation Case: Lessons from Florida Law

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"Case law junkies, this one is a must-read.""Always have a court reporter at hearings.""A proper parenting plan is fundamental."

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Introduction to Child...


Business Valuations and Inheritance in Florida Divorce
05/11/2026

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Florida Family Law Case Law Update: Valuing a Law Practice
Understanding Premarital Property and Commingling in Divorce Cases

"Expert testimony is crucial in asset valuation."
"Courts must rely on competent, substantial evidence."
"Trial courts need to be more careful in valuation."

Chapters
00:01 Understanding Case Law in Florida Family Law
03:08 Valuation of Marital Assets: The Weingar Case
05:48 Commingling of Assets: Premarital vs. Marital Property

Call Jacobs Law Firm at 407-335-8113 to learn more. This is not legal advice and does not...


Florida Family Law Rules of Procedure LEARN THEM
04/20/2026

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs asks you to look to the case of Dunac v. Dunac, a 2026 case published in March in most law research databases. Florida Family Law rule of procedure 12.490(E)(5), provides that a party seeking review of emotion to vacate an order. In other words, get rid of the order.  The order was decided by incorrect law or through the wrong information or there was some procedural defect. A party must seek a schedule a hearing date at the same time that the motion to vacate is filed with the court. The r...


Good Lawyering, Bad Lawyering, and What it Means for You
04/18/2026

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This episode of Florida Divorce Lawyer Podcast discusses the importance of professionalism and attention to detail in legal practice, especially in family law. Attorney Jonathan Jacobs discusses common issues like sloppy lawyering, rule violations, and the impact on clients, emphasizing the need for diligent legal work on both sides of a case.

Sloppy lawyering and its consequencesCourt rules and compliance in family lawDiscovery process and legal obligationsNeglecting court rules can lead to increased costs and delays.Proper adherence to discovery obligations is crucial for case success.Lawyers must read and understand family...


Disqualification of Counsel: To Marry or NOT to Marry Your Client
03/14/2026

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Ever thought about disqualifying opposing counsel in your Florida divorce case? Here’s a case that might change your perspective.   

In a recent legal dilemma, a lawyer married his client, leading to a push for disqualification by the opposing counsel. The court’s decision was surprising: it ruled that disqualification couldn’t be broad and needed specific grounds.  
The implications? It’s a reminder that personal relationships can complicate professional ethics and cause the Rules to be tested.
What do you think about the balance between personal and professional?  

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Health and Wellness for Lawyers and Other Professionals
03/08/2026

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs explores the complex relationship between health, wellness, and the turbulent times we live in, especially for legal professionals. He offers personal anecdotes and practical tips on managing stress through physical activity, mental engagement, and balanced routines.

The importance of health and wellness in turbulent timesStress management techniques for legal professionalsThe role of physical activity and mental engagement in wellnessguest nametitlesBalancing Law and Wellness in Turbulent Times: Practical StrategiesStress Management for Lawyers: Personal Insights and TipsSound Bites"Health and wellness are more than just phrases""Television offers a refuge from...


AI and Law: Is the Legal Industry Getting Crushed by AI?
03/02/2026

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs explores the rapid evolution of AI and its profound impact on various industries, especially law, and the urgent need for innovation and adaptation.

Rapid evolution of AI and technologyImpact on legal and other professional fieldsNecessity of innovation and continuous learningThe AI Revolution: How Automation Will Transform Law and WorkAdapting to the AI Era: Strategies for Future-Proof Careers"AI programs are duplicating what paralegals do""AI will replace the human element in law""White collar jobs are about to be eliminated"

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Weekend Emergency Timesharing
02/12/2026

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs discusses a proposed bill in Florida that would allow for weekend hearings in family law cases, particularly focusing on domestic violence and emergency time-sharing issues. While the bill aims to address the backlog in the judicial system, it raises concerns about the preparedness of attorneys and the potential impact on cases. The discussion also touches on the influx of people moving to Florida and the implications for the family court system.

The new bill could significantly impact family law in Florida.Weekend hearings may lead to rushed...


Marriage Statistics: Gay Divorce, Lesbian Divorce, Traditional Divorce
01/20/2026

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In this episode, Jacobs Law Firm delves into the intriguing statistics surrounding divorce rates among different gender identities and sexual orientations. The discussion begins with an exploration of who is most frequently divorced, revealing that gay men have the lowest divorce rates, while lesbian women face the highest. Attorney Jacobs shares insights from recent research and the feedback received from audiences on social media platforms, highlighting the complexities of gender and sexuality in the context of marriage and divorce. The conversation also touches on the unique challenges faced by lesbian couples, particularly regarding...


Deposition Tips and Strategies for Divorce
10/28/2025

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Clermont divorce attorney Jonathan Jacobs discusses the intricacies of depositions, emphasizing the importance of preparation and effective communication. The speaker discusses common pitfalls during depositions, such as failing to listen to questions and providing overly verbose answers. Through examples, the speaker illustrates how improper responses can lead to further questioning and potential damage to one's credibility. The conversation highlights the necessity of practicing responses and listening skills to navigate depositions successfully.

Practice before you are deposed.Get those questions ahead of time.Listen carefully to the questions being asked.Concise...


Impact of Divorce on Children Part 2
10/19/2025

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs discusses the profound impact of divorce on children, highlighting children's emotional fragility and the challenges they face during such transitions. Jacobs Family Law Firm emphasizes the importance of parental support, communication, and therapy to mitigate the negative effects of divorce on children's well-being. There is a need for parents to present a united front and provide extra love and attention to their children during this tumultuous time.

The impact of divorce on children is truly profound.Kids are fragile and their emotional state is vulnerable.Divorce can uproot children's...


How Much Does Divorce Cost and Why?
10/11/2025

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Attorney Jacobs discusses the importance of investing in legal services during a divorce. Using analogies from hotel and car purchases, the speaker emphasizes that just as one pays for premium services in other areas of life, clients must also be prepared to invest in their legal representation to avoid being at a disadvantage. The discussion highlights the potential consequences of skimping on legal fees and the necessity of being proactive in legal strategies to ensure a favorable outcome.

Everything in life comes with gradations.Investing in legal services is crucial...


Collaborative Divorce How Much Does It Cost?
10/01/2025

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs explores the complexities and financial implications of collaborative divorce versus traditional divorce options. Mr. Jacobs discusses the costs associated with collaborative divorce, the potential benefits, and the challenges that may arise if the process does not work. He emphasizes the importance of considering uncontested divorce as a viable alternative for many individuals.

Collaborative divorce is often seen as a trendy option.The starting cost for collaborative divorce is around $25,000.Collaborative divorce involves a team of professionals to assist in the process.If unresolved in three sessions, costs can escalate...


Attorney's Fees in Your Divorce
09/10/2025

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Divorce Attorney Jonathan Jacobs talks to you about attorney's fees in divorce cases, emphasizing the importance of financial resources, statutory law, and case law. It discusses how courts determine the awarding of fees based on the parties' financial situations and behaviors during litigation, providing practical examples to illustrate these points.

Most callers inquire about how to obtain attorney's fees.Florida law allows courts to order attorney's fees based on financial resources.If one party makes significantly less, they may not pay fees.Sanctionable conduct can influence fee awards.The court...


Shared Parental Responsibility is the Law
09/01/2025

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This episode of Divorce and Family Law Podcast highlights shared parental authority in family law, particularly in the context of custody decisions influenced by domestic violence. The discussion highlights the importance of understanding Florida statutes regarding shared parental responsibility and the implications of domestic violence on custody arrangements. Attorney Jacobs emphasizes the need for attorneys to gather comprehensive information from clients to navigate these sensitive cases effectively.

Clients often seek sole decision-making authority in custody cases.Understanding the facts of a case is crucial for attorneys.Domestic violence significantly impacts custody decisions...


Fake News or Real Consultation?
08/29/2025

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs from Jacobs Family Law Firm discusses the prevalence of misinformation in family law, particularly the concept of 'fake news' as it relates to client expectations and lawyer consultations. Emphasizing the importance of thorough consultations, he argues that a lack of time spent with clients can lead to misunderstandings and poor legal outcomes. The conversation also highlights the necessity of transparency and trust in the lawyer-client relationship, advocating for open communication to ensure the best possible legal strategies and outcomes.

Fake news in family law can mislead clients.Short consultations...


The Argument for Staying Married
08/20/2025

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In this episode of Divorce and Family Law Podcast, Attorney Jacobs focuses on breakups and the emotional weight of abandoning a shared history. Jonathan emphasizes the importance of understanding the reasons behind relationship breakdowns and the value of attempting to save meaningful connections, even in the face of challenges.

Exploring universal truths about relationships can provide insights.Many reasons contribute to the decision to end a relationship.One partner often desires divorce while the other seeks to avoid it.Shared history in relationships carries significant emotional weight.Comfort can be found in...


Menopause and Divorce a Match Made in the Middle Ages
08/15/2025

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Menopause and divorce go together naturally according to recent studies and surveys. Menopause is among the leading causes of divorce. This does not place the blame on the woman or the man. It suggests that it is a challenge most marriages will face and not every marriage will endure. Think about the reasons a major change in a person's body and mindset might cause tension in a marriage. One person might react well and the other might react harshly causing a dissolution of the marriage.

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Covid...Covid...Covid and the Right of First Refusal!
08/11/2025

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Attorney Jacobs addresses the challenges of co-parenting during the COVID-19 pandemic, emphasizing the importance of communication and flexibility in parenting plans. It discusses the potential impact of illness on time-sharing arrangements and offers strategies for effective co-parenting, including the right of first refusal and negotiation techniques to ensure the well-being of children.

COVID-19 can disrupt parenting plans unexpectedly.Communication with the other parent is crucial during health crises.Co-parenting requires flexibility and understanding.The right of first refusal is an important co-parenting principle.Children are the ones who suffer from poor co-parenting...


New Florida Family Law Financial Affidavit...Includes...Onlyfans?
08/04/2025

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs discusses significant changes in Florida family law,  focusing on the new financial affidavit introduced by the Florida Supreme Court and legislature. Divorce and Family Law Podcast introduces the new provisions, expansions of existing ones, and the implications of these changes for individuals navigating family law matters. Key topics include the inclusion of technology-related expenses, the treatment of cryptocurrency, and the overall impact on financial disclosures in family court.

The Florida Supreme Court has revolutionized family law.The new financial affidavit includes technology and communication expenses.Cryptocurrency must n...


Child Support in Florida is for...the...CHILDREN
08/01/2025

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs talks about child support and timesharing in Florida, highlighting the misconceptions surrounding these topics. Divorce and Family Law Podcast clarifies child support is intended for the benefit of children, not the receiving parent, and discusses the financial responsibilities that come with parenting. The conversation also addresses common myths about equal timesharing and its impact on child support obligations, clarifying that even with equal time, one parent may still owe support due to differing financial responsibilities.

Child support is intended for the benefit of children, not the receiving...


If You Want Relief SAY IT!
07/27/2025

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs explains due process in family law, emphasizing the importance of making specific legal requests in court. Divorce and Family Law Podcast highlights the potential pitfalls of self-representation and the necessity for proper legal representation to ensure fair outcomes in family law cases, particularly regarding alimony and child support.

It's not just about what you say, but how you say it.If you do not request something in court, you may not receive it.Due process is essential in family law cases.Child support is mandatory, regardless...


Choosing the Right Mediator who is Impartial and not Biased
07/18/2025

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs talks to you about the intricacies of mediation, particularly in family law contexts. He highlights the importance of understanding the mediation process, the role of the mediator, and the potential pitfalls that can arise if the mediator oversteps their mandate. Divorce and Family Law Podcast emphasizes the need for careful selection of mediators to ensure a fair and effective resolution.

Mediation is often court-ordered but can be voluntary.The process can vary significantly in duration and outcome.Mediators must remain neutral and impartial.An intrusive mediator can lead to...


Marital Settlement Agreement: Am I Still Paying for College?
07/11/2025

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs elaborates on a fascinating aspect of Florida marital settlement agreements, particularly focusing on the enforceability of educational payments for children post-divorce. Divorce and Family Law Pod emphasizes the noble intentions behind such agreements but highlights the legal limitations and case law that often render them unenforceable in Florida. The discussion provides valuable insights for parents navigating child support and educational funding obligations.

When hiring counsel, expertise is crucial.Marital settlement agreements can include educational payments.Child support can be redirected to a college fund.Enforceability of educational payments is...


Child Support Purge Payment: Get Out of Jail!
07/05/2025

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs delves into the complexities of civil contempt in Florida law, particularly focusing on the non-payment of child support. Divorce and Family Law Podcast explains the legal implications of failing to appear in court, the concept of purge amounts, and the potential consequences for individuals who do not meet their financial obligations. The discussion highlights the balance between enforcing child support and the fairness of punitive measures against non-compliant parents.

Civil contempt motions can lead to serious legal consequences.Failure to appear in court can result in arrest.Purge amounts...


Men and Women Parent Differently It's Shocking I Know
07/02/2025

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Attorney Jonathan Jacobs talks about the differences in parenting styles between men and women, emphasizing how these differences can complicate co-parenting arrangements, especially in legal contexts. Divorce and Family Law Podcast discusses the implications on child development and the evolving landscape of family law in Florida regarding equal timesharing.

Men and women have inherently different parenting styles.Breastfeeding and early child care often lead to role divisions.Children experience different parenting dynamics in separate households.Mistrust can arise from differing parenting approaches post-separation.Legal frameworks are evolving to address equal time sharing...


Family Law Rules of Procedure
06/26/2025

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In this episode of Divorce and Family Law Podcast, Attorney Jacobs emphasizes the foundational aspects of family law, particularly the Florida Family Law Rules of Procedure. They stress the importance of hiring knowledgeable legal counsel who understands these rules and can provide informed advice. The speaker also highlights their passion for teaching and educating clients about the legal process, ensuring they are empowered to make decisions regarding their cases.

Family law is grounded in specific rules and procedures.Many people are unaware of the Florida Family Law Rules of Procedure...


Goalposting Causes Divorce
06/23/2025

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In this episode of Divorce and Family Law Podcast, the host discusses the concept of goalposting in relationships, particularly in marriage and parenting. Goalposting refers to the practice of setting an initial target and then continuously shifting it, leading to dissatisfaction and pressure on partners. Attorney Jonathan Jacobs talks about how this behavior can affect personal growth, expectations, and ultimately the health of the relationship. He emphasizes the importance of allowing natural evolution in relationships and the need for mutual understanding and appreciation.

This podcast is about relationships.
Goalposting involves...