The Balanced Badass Podcast®

 In this episode, we explore the stark contrast between the glowing reputation of "top companies to work for" and the unsettling reality many employees face. 

Despite impressive awards and certifications, many workplaces fail to deliver on their promises of a supportive, healthy environment. We explore personal experiences, the concept of cultural debt, and the pitfalls of culture certifications. 

Job seekers and current employees alike will learn to trust their instincts and ask the right questions to avoid falling for polished façades. Tune in to understand why a shiny badge doesn't always guarantee a healthy work...

Feeling stuck in your career due to burnout? This episode introduces Career Possibility Mapping, a framework to help you explore new career paths. 

We discuss four paths: Step Ahead Roles, Adjacent Roles, Bold Pivots, and Wild Cards. 

Learn how to evaluate your options and make informed career moves. Perfect for anyone needing a fresh start or simply wanting to explore new possibilities.

Check out the detailed show notes (https://tarakermiet.com/podcast/) and leave your thoughts or questions about today's topic. 

00:00 Introduction: A Client's Journey
01:58 Understanding Burnout
05:46 Step Ahead Rol...

Ever walked into work and felt the silence from leadership? It's more damaging than you think! 

In this episode, we explore how leadership silence can breed burnout, wreak havoc on your nervous system, and diminish team morale. We'll tackle what uncertainty does to your brain and body, and provide actionable tips for coping and leading in the dark. 

Learn how to advocate, adapt, or know when it's time to exit. Plus, discover the five big reasons companies go silent and how you can protect your brain and stabilize your team through the chaos. 

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In this episode, we're going deep with therapist and hardcore feminist Pam Rothman, LPC. Pam shares her journey from crappy boundaries to being a boundary-setting pro, all while tackling burnout and prioritizing self-care. 

We chat about why saying no is the ultimate power move and how societal expectations mess with our mental health. Whether you're overwhelmed, burnt out, or just need some practical advice on setting boundaries, this episode's got you covered. 

Check out the detailed show notes (https://tarakermiet.com/podcast/) and leave your thoughts or questions about today's topic.   

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Today's episode gets into burnout in the helping professions with special guest Ina, a therapist and mentor. 

Ina shares her journey from experiencing burnout to mastering balance and leadership in her field. Learn the importance of self-care, boundary-setting, and focusing on strengths to maintain a healthy work-life balance. 

Get ready for actionable tips and inspiring stories tailored for therapists, coaches, and caregivers. 

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This episode gets into the concept of Effort-Reward Imbalance to explain why you can be working hard and still feel stuck. If you're tired of useless advice and want to get to the root of your burnout, this episode is for you.

We discuss the impact of constant emotional and mental labor, the cognitive load that drains your energy, and how to repair trust in yourself and your environment.

It's time to stop the cycle of stress and start feeling in control again.

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It's the Season 2 finale, folks! We're talking about burnout and how to really figure out if it's time to leave your job. And we'll jump right in with a three-question burnout test that'll help you see if you're stuck in a toxic work environment. 

This episode is packed with real talk about misalignment, emotional tolls, and actions you can take to regain control of your life. Whether you're a high achiever or just plain tired, this one's for you. 

Let's get honest and make some plans for a better, balanced life. 

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In this episode, we're getting into the exhausting performance of the work persona that many of us feel compelled to maintain. Tara shares a heartfelt message about the cost of constantly performing professionalism at the expense of our authentic selves. 

Learn how this persistent act can lead to burnout, emotional disconnection, and a loss of self-identity. Discover practical steps to start reclaiming your true self at work and beyond. From breaking performance triggers to making small shifts towards authenticity, get ready to acknowledge and challenge the behavioral armor you've built to survive in corporate environments. 

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In this episode, we tackle the manipulative voice of guilt that wreaks havoc on your energy, decision-making, and sustainable leadership. Specifically, we discuss boundary guilt—the kind that makes you feel bad for protecting your own time and energy. 

We explore the roots of this guilt, the societal conditioning that exacerbates it, and its costly impact on your mental and physical well-being. Most importantly, we provide actionable strategies to reframe your guilt, build new patterns, and say no without feeling guilty. 

Ideal for high achievers, people pleasers, and anyone stuck in a guilt spiral, this epis...

In this insightful episode, we're joined by Andrea Ramírez to explore the incredible power of the subconscious mind. We discuss Andrea's personal journey through trauma, burnout, and how hypnotherapy became a transformative tool for lasting change. 

Discover the nuances of hypnotherapy, understand the deep connection between the subconscious and burnout, and learn how to build resilience through self-awareness and intentional living. Whether new to hypnotherapy or a skeptic, this episode offers a fresh perspective on mental well-being and holistic healing. 

Check out the detailed show notes (https://tarakermiet.com/podcast/) and leave you...

In this episode of the Balance Badass Podcast, we explore burnout recovery from an energetic perspective with Amanda, a former nurse turned Reiki master and owner of Heart in Harmony Healing. 

Amanda shares her personal experience with burnout and how she discovered the importance of Reiki, boundaries, and rest in her recovery. We discuss how energy management can play a vital role in combating burnout and offer practical tips for setting boundaries without guilt. 

Join us as we talk about how taking care of your energy can transform your approach to burnout and overall well-being. 

In this episode, we're getting into the harsh realities of the current job market and the emotional turmoil that follows a layoff. Whether you've been hit by corporate budget cuts, the tech industry shake-up, or the federal government downsizing fiasco, you're not alone. 

We address the grief, identity crisis, and stress associated with losing your job, and provide actionable advice for navigating the first 90 days post-layoff. 

Learn why panic applying is a bad move, the importance of setting a new routine, and how to strategically job hunt. By the end, you'll be more prepared to ta...

Always feeling tired no matter how much coffee you chug? Let's get into why high achievers push through the exhaustion and often miss the signs of burnout. Discover the sneaky ways burnout creeps in, how stress messes with your brain, and most importantly, how to actually recover your energy. 

We're talking about setting real boundaries, making lasting changes, and not waiting until you're totally drained. It's time to take burnout seriously and take control of your energy.

 Check out the detailed show notes (https://tarakermiet.com/podcast/) and leave your thoughts or questions ab...

Feeling the burnout at work? This episode breaks down the pervasive culture of workplace burnout, examining the systemic issues like unrealistic expectations, lack of support, and glorification of overwork. 

We’ll explore how these factors contribute to a toxic environment and offer practical steps for employees to set boundaries, manage workloads, and protect their well-being. For leaders, we provide insights on creating healthier workplace cultures and preventing burnout from spreading. 

Whether you’re an employee or in management, learn how to navigate and mitigate the challenges of burnout.

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In this episode, Tara chats with Kirsten Zeigler, founder of KDZ HR Consulting. The discussion focuses on strategies to keep burnout at bay while building equitable workplaces. 

Kirsten gets into her HR expertise, offering practical advice on managing energy, setting boundaries, and leading with integrity. They also cover the importance of pay transparency, inclusive hiring practices, and how to effectively scale a business while maintaining well-being. 

Tune in for insightful tips and relatable stories that will help you strike that perfect work-life balance.

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In this episode, we tackle the paradox of perfectionism and the value of "good enough." 

Discover how the relentless pursuit of flawlessness may be the root cause of your exhaustion, anxiety, and burnout. Learn about the origins of perfectionist tendencies, how they play out in adulthood, and the ways they drain your energy and time. More importantly, find out how to shift your mindset without feeling like you're lowering your standards. 

From understanding contingent self-worth to embracing a more flexible and adaptable approach, this episode will help you break free from the perfectionism trap and st...

In this episode, Tara discusses the toxic "always on" culture requiring constant availability, which impacts mental and physical health. She examines its origins, driven by technology, hustle culture, the pandemic, and capitalism, and provides practical steps for setting boundaries and challenging urgency without guilt. 

Tara also addresses the exaggerated narratives about success and the importance of reclaiming personal time. She encourages listeners to remember their "why" and visualize a balanced life, emphasizing that stepping back can lead to both personal and professional fulfillment.

00:00 The Pressure to Be Always Available
00:40 Understanding "Always On" Culture
01:35 T...

In this episode, Tara welcomes Kelsea, The Seamless Coach, who specializes in burnout prevention. They discuss Kelsea's personal experiences with burnout and how they inform her current work. 

The conversation highlights the inadequacy of self-care and vacations as solutions for burnout, emphasizing the importance of addressing root causes. Additionally, Kelsea introduces the concept of job crafting and workplace value alignment, offering actionable tips for making your job work for you. 

They also explore how organizations can better support their employees by addressing systemic issues rather than placing the burden of burnout on individuals.

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In this episode of the Balanced Badass Podcast, Tara welcomes the first-ever guest, Dr. Lanecha, known as The ConnectHER. They discuss the importance of reconnecting with oneself amidst burnout, particularly for ambitious millennial women.

Dr. Lanecha shares her journey from losing touch with herself to reclaiming her identity through self-reflection, therapy, and setting boundaries. They talk about the challenges millennial women face in prioritizing self-care while juggling multiple roles and explore the concept of self-reunion.

The episode is packed with actionable insights on balancing personal and professional life, maintaining authenticity, and the courage it takes...

In this second season kickoff of the Balanced Badass Podcast, Tara shares her holiday adventure that unexpectedly landed her in the hospital with blood clots. Reflecting on her experience, she encourages listeners to focus on their strengths to achieve their goals without burnout. 

Using relatable examples and research-backed insights, Tara emphasizes the importance of leveraging what you’re naturally good at to make life easier and more fulfilling. She invites listeners to identify and use their unique strengths, offering practical advice on how to do so effectively.

00:00 Welcome to Season Two!
00:35 A Holiday Hospital Sta...

We made it, friend—the season one finale of The Balanced Badass Podcast™! Can you believe we're already wrapping up 2024? This episode is gonna get into the highs, the lows, and the "what the hell was I even thinking?" moments from this year.

We're reflecting on what worked, what didn't, and what we need to let go of so we're not dragging the same chaos into 2025. I'm also walking you through my end-of-year audit and showing you how to set goals that actually fit where life is taking you.

If you're ready to clear the clut...

Feel like you're always chasing balance but never quite catching it? Here’s the truth: balance isn’t some perfect, static state—it’s a messy, ever-changing process, and anyone telling you otherwise is selling a pipe dream.

In this episode, we’re blowing up the myth of “having it all together” and diving into why balance isn’t a destination but a moving target that shifts with your priorities, energy, and seasons of life.

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In this episode of the Balance Badass podcast, Tara emphasizes the importance of building a strong support system to combat burnout. She discusses five key types of people essential for creating a burnout-resistant life: role models, mentors, coaches, cheerleaders, and sponsors.

Tara shares personal stories of her own struggles with burnout and explains how having the right people in your corner can make a transformative difference. She also provides practical tips on how to find and nurture these relationships, stressing that asking for help is a strength, not a weakness.

Tara concludes by encouraging listeners...

Are you stuck in a job where every decision feels like it needs five levels of approval? Do constant status updates and micromanagement have you feeling more like a robot than a real contributor? You’re not alone—and it’s time to talk about why autonomy at work isn’t just a luxury, but a necessity.

In this episode, we’re digging into the soul-crushing impact of red tape, micromanagement, and the lack of trust in the workplace. You’ll learn how the absence of workplace autonomy fuels burnout, kills motivation, and leaves you mentally checked out. Drawing...

Ever feel like your laptop’s overheating? That’s you teetering on the brink of burnout. In this episode, we dig into recognizing burnout triggers and the essential warning signs of burnout that too many of us ignore. From mental exhaustion and physical signs of burnout to setting boundaries and managing work stress, this episode covers it all. Hear a personal story of struggling through anxiety, panic attacks, and imposter syndrome, revealing the dark side of chronic stress. Discover how to break free from the vicious cycle of burnout and learn the exact steps to prevent burnout and regain cont...

In this episode, Tara tackles the challenge of how to keep it together when life feels like it’s falling apart. She shares a personal story about managing chaos during a flea infestation with her five dogs (surprise twist, there’s a lot of dog pee involved!) and uses it to discuss how to handle stress and overwhelm when everything seems to go wrong. Tara breaks down practical steps for navigating burnout and stress, including how to prioritize what really matters, tips for staying grounded during chaotic moments, and why it’s essential to give yourself grace when life doesn’...

In this episode, Tara tackles the topic of burnout and what it really means. She breaks down the signs and symptoms that indicate you might be sliding into burnout territory, like constant exhaustion, emotional drain, and feeling detached from things that used to bring you joy. Tara also clears up some common misconceptions about burnout—like the idea that it only affects overachievers or that it can be fixed with a quick vacation. She emphasizes that burnout can happen to anyone, and recognizing it is the first step in addressing it.

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It's the day after the 2024 U.S. election, and I'm off my regular content schedule to unpack the whirlwind of emotions I'm feeling: disappointment, shock, and even despair. This isn't about politics but about the deeper values of compassion, fairness, and empathy that feel threatened by the election results. Struggling to reconcile my hopes for a kinder world with the reality of the vote, I'm sharing my raw thoughts on how this personal heartbreak is more about our shared humanity than mere political decisions. I might lose followers over this, but I'm okay with that—this is about standing fi...

In this episode, Tara shares practical stress management strategies tailored for high-achieving professionals. She recounts her own experiences at the start of the COVID-19 pandemic, illustrating the chaos and stress that ensued. Tara introduces actionable techniques such as deep breathing, creating a low-priority 'f*** it list,' power poses for confidence, and the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding method to stay present. Her insights aim to assist driven professionals to manage stress effectively, enhancing both mental health and productivity while maintaining their ambitious drive in a balanced manner.

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