Dad Pod

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By: Luke Bonney & Mike Williams

Stories, experiences and advice about fatherhood.

Andy Raskin: Life As An Older Dad
#17
12/30/2024

Andy shares what it's like to be one of the older dads in the room. This contains stories both hilarious and moving.

Youtube:
https://youtu.be/DMbDyPM4cjg

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Music: 
Anders Gurda


Dropping Your Son Off At College + Fathering An Autistic Son: Jesse
#16
12/16/2024

Jesse is a divorced father of 3 kids. At the time of recording, he'd just dropped his middle son off at college. So we start there, then move on to his experience fathering 3 kids.

Youtube:
https://youtu.be/FvQwQ08cx0U

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Music: 
Anders Gurda


A CEO Coach Reflects On His Performance As A Dad: Dave Kashen
#15
12/02/2024

Dave's a dad and entrepreneur turned CEO coach. I would say he relentlessly shared insights on this one. He starts hot and doesn't let up.

Dave Kashen:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/davekashen/

Youtube:
https://youtu.be/To9bMPyarws

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Music: 
Anders Gurda


Indian Father With 4 Kids Who Really Like Each Other: Raju Rishi
#13
11/18/2024

Raju immigrated from India as a young child. Today, he has 4 kids (ages ~15 - 25) that love each other and take trips without him. 

Raju Rishi:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/rajurishi/

Full episode on Youtube:
https://youtu.be/QcBbVKM9iuo

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Music: 
Anders Gurda
Infraction


A Black Father With A Teenage Daughter: Jeffrey Thomas
#14
11/04/2024

Jeffrey grew up in 1960's Mississippi to black parents active in the civil rights movement. Today, he's father to a teenage daughter. He shares stories and reflections. 

Jeffrey Thomas: 
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffreydavidthomas/

Jeffrey's Mandella Yoga Project:
https://www.mandelayogaproject.org/

Full episode on Youtube:
https://youtu.be/SvhGE3xNQzc

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Music: 
Anders Gurda


Fathering A Son After Your Own Abusive Childhood (DB)
#12
10/21/2024

DB has a wife and 2yo son. He grew up in rural Appalachia to sharecropper parents. 

He discusses how he has taken on fatherhood after an abusive and challenging childhood. 

Youtube: https://youtu.be/oyF83WxFzuk

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Music: 
Anders Gurda
Infraction


Dads, Daughters & Dating: Matt Hermann's Lessons From Raising 2 Daughters
#11
10/07/2024

In this episode we talk to Matt Hermann, a venture capitalist with 2 adult daughters. He shares his lessons & reflections after a couple decades as a dad.

New! Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/Ap_zLchgZjU

Matt Hermann: https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewhermann1/

Music: 
Anders Gurda
Infraction


TC: Painful Wisdom From 3 Miscarriages & How That Influenced Him As A Father
#10
09/23/2024

TC discusses what it's like to experience 3 miscarriages and how it influenced him as a father.

Music: Anders Gurda


Izaz: Bangladeshi Muslim Immigrant Raising 4 Kids In Georgia
#9
09/09/2024

Izaz was born in Bangladesh, immigrated to New York City as a kid, and is now raising 4 kids outside Atlanta. 

Music: Anders Gurda


Ted: What He Learned From Divorce, How He Handles Serious Conflict With His Partner
#8
08/26/2024

Ted discusses what divorce taught him as a husband a dad.

And:

- When to consider mediation, therapy or couples coaching instead of divorce

- red flags for men whose relationship could be deteriorating toward divorce and how to start pulling things back

- His method to quickly calm down from a moment of rage

Music: Anders Gurda


Surya: Indian, Grew Up In Nigeria, Now Fathering A Son In California
#7
08/12/2024

Surya's parents grew up in India. He grew up in Nigera. Now he's raising a son in the United States. 

The International Man discusses what that's like.

Music: Anders Gurda


Adam: Fathering an Autistic Son & International Travel With 2 Kids
#6
07/29/2024

Adam discusses: 

- how they manage long-distance travel with 2 kids, without going insane 

- his experience raising an autistic son

Music: Anders Gurda


Devin: The Unique Way They Run Their Family, Raising Kids While You Go Through Mental Health & Spiritual Challenges
#5
07/15/2024

This was a fun one.

In terms of parenting & family-management, Devin uses some of the more unique strategies & tactics.

In this episode he covers it all, along with:

- his experience being a dad while going through therapy and mental health challenges

- how do you teach spirituality to your kids when your own spirituality is transforming?

- how they set up a "family economy" as a vehicle to teach their kids about money, business and responsibility

- their system for staying organized with several active kids...


Kevin: My High School Daughter Has A Huge TikTok Following
#4
07/01/2024

Kevin's high school daughter got huge on TikTok. 

He shares:

- what they did to avoid the bad stuff that can come with that

- the surprising benefits and how the family worked together to maximize them. (This goes deeper than simply free swag.)

- specific techniques he and his wife used to parent their way through this

- his biggest insights after raising 2 successful daughters 

Music: Anders Gurda


Trent: A Year Of Sleep Deprivation, Parenting Challenges, Financial Stress & Wild Fires... With No Community Support
#3
04/10/2024

Trent's first few years of fatherhood are some of the most difficult we know of.

He covers:

- His approach to surviving intense parenting challenges, financial stress, and wild fires... all at the same time. Without much community support to lean on.

- His experience wading through 12 months of sleep deprivation while still trying to perform well at work

- How he and his spouse keep their relationship strong through hard times

AI Summary:

In this episode, Mike and Luke discuss the challenges of balancing a career...


Dave G: "They're Not Giving You A Hard Time, They're Having A Hard Time"
#2
04/10/2024

Dave discusses:

- "They're not giving you a hard time, they're having a hard time." A grenade to the brain.


- His family's method to resolve any conversation or argument that gets stuck. 


- How his family applies extreme honesty & transparency. V interesting, kinda scary.

- What it's like to have a parent who's not that interested in your kids. Real stuff.


Music: Anders Gurda


Niko Skievaski: How My Dad Influenced The Way I Father
#1
04/10/2024

The first episode, baby! 

Listen to Niko discuss:

How Niko's dad & their complex relationship influenced the way he fathers his sonWhat it's like to be a dad going through a divorce And have your own parents divorcing at the same time as youTrying to create an environment of 2 loving households instead of just 1Parenting as a community and organizing aligned principles with the other parents Being a dad vs being a friend

Additional summary via AI:

Niko, Mike and Luke discuss the influence of their own fathers on their parenting styles. They explore the...