The Shadow & The Light w davidji & Elizabeth Winkler

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When the night sky goes dark, possibility expands. We explore the new moon as a powerful pattern interrupt and share a grounded framework to move from vague wishing to deliberate creation. The conversation starts with the cosmic mechanics—why the moon’s disappearance matters—and quickly turns practical: how to use reflection, ritual, and simple sensory cues to give your intentions a place to root.

We walk through a step-by-step process that includes focused journaling, a minimalist bay leaf practice, and small enviro...

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If you're listening to this episode... it might be a full moon. Join davidji & Elizabeth Winkler for a deep dive into how you can harness the power of the cosmos and weave it into this very moment - for healing, for connection, and for all aspects of your life. 

Ever notice certain weekends feel louder—like emotions, memories, and old stories all rise at once? We lean into that surge and unpack why the full moon can be both challenging and incredibly cla...

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What if health isn’t the absence of disease, but the presence of balance you can actually feel? We dive into Ayurveda’s timeless map of the five elements—space, air, fire, water, earth—and show how they shape your unique constitution, or dosha: Vata, Pitta, and Kapha. With stories, humor, and real-life examples, we connect ancient insights to everyday choices like travel routines, sleep timing, and how you build the right team at work and at home.

You’ll learn how each eleme...

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A sunrise canoe in Hawaii cracked something open for us. A guide looked a boat full of strangers in the eye and said, “Use your shit,” and it landed like a bell. From that moment, we trace how pretending to be fine starves our growth, why shame hoards our evolution, and how vulnerability becomes the bridge from isolation to intimacy. We name the quiet performances we all run to protect what hurts and offer a clear framework to shift choices in real time: fear, love...

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What if the bravest kind of love is the one that knows how it ends—and chooses it anyway? We open our hearts to the animals who share our homes and our inner lives, asking why we invite a goodbye into the story and discovering how pets return the favor by teaching presence, trust, and unconditional love. From Peaches, the seventeen‑year‑old “Buddha princess,” to a campus‑famous therapy dog named Ralph, this conversation moves through aging, anticipatory grief, and the quiet rituals that turn ca...

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Have you ever caught yourself thinking that people never really change? Or perhaps you're convinced that transformation is not only possible but inevitable? This fascinating tension between fixed and growth mindsets forms the heart of our exploration into personal transformation.

davidji and Elizabeth dive deep into what makes genuine change possible, revealing that the first step isn't focusing on others but turning inward. "Put down the magnifying glass and hold up the mirror," Elizabeth suggests, offering a powerful metaphor for where true...

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Feeling triggered, stressed, or carrying that proverbial chip on your shoulder? You might be experiencing what meditation teacher davidji and psychotherapist Elizabeth Winkler reveal as "emotional fight-flight" – a modern evolution of our ancient survival mechanism that's wreaking havoc on our health and happiness.

This eye-opening exploration takes you deep into the physiology of stress, explaining how everyday emotional reactions trigger the same hormonal cascade as life-threatening dangers. When someone comments on your appearance or questions your choices, your body responds as if fa...

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The Law of Attraction isn't just New Age philosophy—it's a fundamental principle operating in our lives whether we recognize it or not. davidji and Elizabeth Winkler dive deep into how this universal law actually works, exploring the fascinating relationship between attraction and distraction.

"Everything's frequency," Elizabeth explains, introducing her powerful "seven, seven, and seven" concept—the seven people you spend time with most, seven places you frequent, and seven behaviors you engage in regularly all contribute to your energetic resonance. This freq...

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The journey back to wholeness begins with understanding our deepest longings. davidji opens this profound conversation by proposing longing as our earliest post-womb memory – that immediate yearning to return to a place where everything was perfect, where our mother's heartbeat was our constant companion.

Elizabeth Winkler shares how longing manifested in her life after losing her mother, revealing a universal truth: "The longing out is actually a call to go within." This simple yet revolutionary perspective transforms how we understand our cravings fo...

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What happens when we face our deepest betrayals—whether they're inflicted by others or emerge from our own self-betrayal? This raw, heartfelt conversation between Elizabeth and davidji explores the transformative journey from betrayal to healing, offering profound insights on reclaiming our power through pain.

Elizabeth reveals how self-betrayal lies at the core of our suffering: "The ego really is just a self-betrayal. When we go into our ego, we are not being true to ourself." From perfectionism that masks deep self-loathing to ig...

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The quest for a soulmate sits at the heart of many spiritual journeys, but what are we really seeking when we say we want someone who "gets us" completely? davidji and Elizabeth Winkler dive deep into the soulmate concept, challenging our preconceptions and expanding our understanding of what true soul connections actually look like.

We unpack the different types of soul connections that might enter our lives: the electrifying Awakener who stirs transformation, the Mirror who reflects our thoughts and feelings, and...

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The spiritual journey is fraught with an unexpected obstacle—the spiritual ego. That sneaky voice convincing us we're "enlightened" while separating us from our humanity. davidji and Elizabeth dive into this profound paradox, revealing how spiritual language and concepts can become a sophisticated mask rather than a path to authentic awakening.

What happens when we exchange our old ego patterns for spiritual jargon that isn't truly embodied? We explore the dangerous territory of spiritual bypassing—using teachings to avoid pain rather than tran...

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What secrets are you keeping that are holding back your evolution? In this illuminating conversation, Elizabeth introduces a powerful new framework for understanding shame through her acronym SHAME: Secrets Hold All My Evolution. With remarkable vulnerability, she shares her personal journey of avoiding medical care due to fears connected to her mother's death at a similar age—and how the simple act of admitting this "embarrassing" truth to her partner created immediate liberation.

davidji responds with his own story of survivor's guilt af...

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Soul contracts shape our journey in mysterious yet purposeful ways. Whether you believe in reincarnation or not, you've likely encountered people who entered your life for clear reasons—to teach, challenge, heal, or transform you. These connections aren't random coincidences but carefully orchestrated encounters designed to catalyze growth.

davidji and Elizabeth share a profound exploration of these sacred agreements we make before birth. "There are no random connections," davidji explains. "We're all energetically moving together and moving apart and then bumping into ea...

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Discovering the cosmic blueprint that shapes our lives can be transformative once we understand how to read the signals. In this riveting exploration of astrology, Elizabeth Winkler shares her deep knowledge of celestial influences and how they manifest in our daily experiences.

We begin by examining Saturn Returns—those powerful transitional periods occurring roughly every 27-30 years that strip away our pretenses and force us to confront our authentic selves. Elizabeth vividly describes her own first Saturn Return as feeling "like a ch...

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Welcome to our Season 3 Finale, where davidji and Elizabeth Winkler explore the magical fusion of passion, purpose & trust. What happens when a burned-out radio presenter discovers meditation and decides to blend it with comedy? In this captivating season finale, we're joined by the incomparable Dermot Whelan, who takes us on his remarkable journey from sleeping in his car between commitments to becoming Ireland's leading voice in mindful living.

With refreshing vulnerability and his trademark humor, Dermot reveals the moment his body literally...

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Dive into a powerful and enlightening conversation that explores the intricate dance between our shadows and light! Join meditation teacher davidji, and heart healer Elizabeth Winkler as they delve into the essential teachings of personal transformation, revealing how our greatest challenges often serve as our most profound teachers. 

In this episode, you’ll learn about the concept of the inner guru, how acknowledging our shadow side can lead to personal healing, and why even our most irritating encounters are gateways to growth. dav...

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What if the small, seemingly insignificant moments of your daily life were the keys to unlocking your life's purpose? davidji & Elizabeth Winkler invite you to explore how everyday interactions and unexpected opportunities can align you with a deeper sense of meaning. We delve into the potent combination of ancient wisdom and modern psychology to encourage you to quiet your mind and pay attention to the whispers of your heart or higher power. Elizabeth shares an inspiring anecdote about Martin Luther King Jr., urging us...

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What if the grudges we carry and the regrets we harbor could be transformed into sources of healing and liberation? davidji & Elizabeth Winkler unravel the complex web of emotions tied to regrets and grievances, those heavy burdens that often shape our subconscious and influence our everyday actions. With the help of poignant metaphors, such as canoes across a river, and personal stories, like davidji's touching experience with her dog Peaches, we examine how these lingering emotions can manifest in our lives. We emphasize the...

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What if you could always be on the receiving end of money??? Join davidji & Elizabeth Winkler on a journey where we unravel the emotional and cultural threads woven into our financial lives. Inspired by Ken Honda's "Happy Money," we explore how our upbringing and cultural narratives shape our financial mindsets, often binding us to a scarcity mentality. We share personal stories and insights that reveal how viewing money as energy can transform these narratives, creating a flow of abundance that positively impacts our lives.<...

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What if the shadows in our lives are just as important as the light? Elizabeth Winkler and davidji invite you to explore this compelling question in "The Shadow and the Light" episode of our podcast. Through personal tales reminiscent of "Eat, Pray, Love," Elizabeth recounts her transformative journeys to Bali and Tibet, where she encountered spiritual mentors like Ketut Lear and a wise Himalayan monk. These experiences taught her about the profound interconnectedness of all beings, weaving a narrative of growth and awakening that...

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Can we truly change our lives by simply altering the way we think and speak? Find out as we navigate the transformative teachings of Don Miguel Ruiz's "The Four Agreements" with Elizabeth Winkler, and davidji. Together, we step back into the fertile spiritual landscape of the 1990s, a time when influential figures like Deepak Chopra and Eckhart Tolle were reshaping our understanding of growth and awareness. We explore how these four powerful agreements can unlock new levels of personal development and fulfillment, echoing ancient...

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What if understanding the way we express love could transform your relationships? Join us, davidji and Elizabeth Winkler, as we journey into the realm of love languages, introducing a groundbreaking sixth language – "honoring space." Drawing from personal experiences, we unravel how recognizing these languages can make you and your loved ones feel genuinely seen and heard. Discover how this new language emerged from my own journey and why it could be the missing piece in your connections. We promise you'll gain invaluable insights on en...

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Internationally renowned meditation teacher davidji  and heart healer Elizabeth Winkler guide us on a journey of empowerment and self-discovery. Unearth the secrets of inner authority and confidence as we explore how stepping into your true power can transform your life, especially in times of adversity. Inspired by the wisdom on perseverance, we introduce the empowering mantra, "I am, I can, I will, I do," to help you harness self-leadership and take actionable steps toward personal and professional growth.

Our conversation leads us i...

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Can conflicted and estranged relationships actually be transformed into sources of healing and understanding? Join us on The Shadow and The Light podcast as we explore this possibility with the guidance of internationally renowned meditation teacher davidji and heart healer Elizabeth Winkler. We begin by diving into the often painful dynamics of relationships, whether with family or significant others, and the emotional havoc they can cause. Through stories like the monk and the empty boat, we highlight the crucial role of self-awareness and encourage...

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Unlock the secrets of gratitude and transform your life with davidji and Elizabeth Winkler. What if you could rewire your brain in just 20 seconds a day? Tap into the power of gratitude to enhance your well-being, build resilience, and nurture stronger relationships. We guide you through our personal stories and insights, drawing wisdom from the likes of Oprah, to show how gratitude can be a balm for stress and depression. Learn how a simple note of thanks to your younger self can be as...

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Welcome to our Season Finale of Season 2, we are so grateful to be on this journey with each of you! In this episode join meditation master (and soap opera fan) davidji & transformational healer and therapist Elizabeth Winkler for an enlightening conversation with the amazing Laura Wright as she shares her remarkable journey from humble beginnings at her dad's gas station to becoming a globally celebrated soap opera actress. Laura opens up about her early days juggling multiple jobs and the emotional challenges she faced...

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What if everything you seek is already within you? Join us on the Shadow and the Light podcast with davidji and Elizabeth Winkler as we illuminate the transformative art of manifesting your true essence. We promise you'll uncover how to move from the prison of the mind to the prism of true being, where relaxation and alignment with your authentic self pave the way to becoming a conscious creator. Learn the power of co-creation with the universe, trusting your heart's desires, and inviting supportive...

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Have you ever found yourself wishing others could just understand your needs without having to say a word? We know that struggle all too well, and in this episode, davidji & Elizabeth share how conscious communication is a game-changer. We dive deep into Marshall Rosenberg's Nonviolent Communication to highlight how articulating our desires for attention, affection, and connection can lead to more fulfilling relationships. By focusing on making life wonderful rather than playing the "who's right" game, we share practical tips to foster healthier interactions...

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What's stealing your YES energy? This is our episode on living in the House of Yes. Ever wondered how a simple mindshift can inspire you to face your fears -and move through them? Join davidji & Elizabeth Winkler us on "The Shadow and the Light" as Elizabeth takes us through her incredible and transformative surfing journey in Costa Rica. Despite battling unexpected injuries and mental hurdles, Elizabeth shares how mindfulness and meditation empowered her to stay present and harness the best surfing experience of her...

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What if you could step into your highest power by simply examining your daily interactions and habits? Join us in this transformative episode of The Shadow and the Light podcast, where hosts davidji and Elizabeth Winkler guide you through core coaching and therapy techniques designed to heal, clarify, and elevate your life. We kick things off by taking a snapshot of your present state, focusing on the key people, places and activities that dominate your mental landscape. This practice of self-awareness and mindfulness sets...

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Why do we get caught up in judgment, and how does it impact our self-esteem and relationships? Join davidji and Elizabeth Winkler as we embark on a journey through the labyrinth of judgment, with insights from nonviolent communication and Advaita (non-dualism) philosophy. We explore how our minds, with their inherent negativity bias, shape our perceptions and interactions, often leading to destructive self-judgment and comparison. By examining the role of judgment in gossip and negative commentary, we shed light on the crucial difference between judgment...

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Have you ever wondered how the beliefs you hold on to might actually be blocking your path to true happiness & deeper fulfillment? This episode of The Shadow and The Light podcast features davidji - the internationally renowned meditation teacher, and Elizabeth Winkler, a heart healer and alchemical psychotherapist. They dissect a powerful Pema Chodron quote that could change the way you perceive your deepest convictions. And, they dive deep into personal stories and real-world practices that illustrate the transformative power of self-inquiry. They build...

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Transform your inner turmoil into lasting peace in this transformational episode where we go deep into how to start & maintain a daily practice. Join Elizabeth Winkler and davidji as we unfold the journey from "crisis meditator" to establishing a robust daily mindfulness routine. Elizabeth shares a profound tale of a samurai and a monk, illustrating the transformative power of devotion to truth and practice. We discuss the significant impact of mindfulness on groups like law enforcement and military personnel, highlighting how consistent practice can...

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Transform your relationship with fear and discover your inner strength with life-guide davidji & esteemed psychotherapist Elizabeth Winkler as they share their definitions of F.E.A.R. and share transformative techniques to shift your focus from the head to the heart. Learn how to recognize fear, pause, and use mantras to move from a reactive state to one of creativity and presence. With these insights, you’ll be equipped to convert fear into a powerful ally on your journey to personal growth.

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We kick off Season 2 with powerful tools to help you shift from victim to thriver!!! What if the key to reclaiming your personal power lies in the simple shift of your everyday language? Join us as davidji and Elizabeth Winkler reveal easy real-world steps to help you break free from the relentless cycle of negative thoughts. You’ll discover practical language hacks, such as switching "have to" for "choose to" and transforming "should" into "want," that can fundamentally reshape your mindset and align your ac...

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Welcome to our Season One Finale Episode!!! What a beautiful journey this season has been - and we can't wait to help, heal & serve you in our upcoming Season 2! Feel free to re-listen to all of our episodes & share them with someone you love💚💜🖤

When shadows meet light, transformation begins. This episode is a celebration of that very journey, featuring our very first guest - the soulful & incomparable Jamar Rogers and his guiding light, Mama D. Together, they weave a tapestry of music and...

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Let's heal together! Have you ever felt the sting of words spoken without thought, or been on the receiving end of a careless comment?  Elizabeth Winkler and davidji, open up about these all-too-human moments on our latest podcast, revealing a poignant incident that led to a profound personal revelation. Through our conversation, we explore the traps of JEDI—Justify, Explain, Defend, Insist—and the necessity of impeccable speech for personal growth and the well-being of others. 

Sometimes the hardest confrontations are with oursel...

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 Our latest episode of The Shadow and The Light Podcast beckons you into the realm of ancestral healing, where we reveal how the gifts and burdens of our forebears shape our present and future. In this transformational episode, davidji & Elizabeth Winkler unravel the tightly woven threads of familial dynamics and healing. We provide keys to unlocking patterns that have echoed through generations. Our insights shine a spotlight on the importance of distinguishing beneficial legacies from harmful cycles, and we offer wisdom on how to f...