Just Julie and "Him."

Twenty year veteran Dale Adams who retired as a Captain, is now a School Resource Officer with an elementary school in Kentucky. Officer Adams gives plain talk and experience about the current school environments and training.

Julie discusses the recent decision of public execution scheduled for December, 2026. Nothing like this has been done in this country for 90 years. We are missing critical pieces to this story and Julie helps to connect the dots.

Julie and Wilson discuss pornography; how it affects the brain, cognitive function, relationships, marriages and spiritual well-being. They also note that therapy and accountability can help to heal and work toward recovery.

Julie and Wilson discuss the "unthinkable" when it comes to what people say when others are grieving, struggling in some way or being abused. 

Julie and Wilson each answer why they follow Jesus. Is there enough history in His life to make it believable? 

Julie shares a heartfelt reflection on how we talk about God, trauma, and human worth. The episode argues that people who have experienced abuse or shame need to hear the full picture of God, not just wrath, because compassion, love, and rescue are central to who God is.

In this episode, Julie explains why “you are enough” matters spiritually and emotionally, and why fear-based language can make wounded people feel further from God instead of closer to Him.

Julie and Wilson discuss the current trend of some who have made themselves the Judge, Juror and Executor in the Lindsay Clancy case. And to the best of my knowledge, none of these people were in the courtroom.

Join in and let's look at what we know and don't know. 

For this episode, Julie and Wilson discuss the trends of parenting that have come and gone. Also, the extremes parents many times will take making parenting an "either/or" decision.

For the book on Co-Parenting....here is the link.

https://spiritbuilding.com/?srsltid=AfmBOoqnXdNGmAIL8uUbJ-RZusqdYN0MKIxZpHBSJXjXs9CE2tX_lSHv

On this podcast, Julie acknowledges the recent death of Dolly Parton. It is amazing how much she gave of her money to multiple organizations and foundations for the support of medical research, education and families in need. What can we learn when it comes to giving of money, but perhaps even greater--our time.

Julie discusses the diagnosis of postpartum depression and also talks about Postpartum Psychosis. There is an obvious deficit in how the system of healthcare professionals are not doing their best to care for these women.

Julie and Wilson discuss what some have misinterpreted about "head of the house." Unfortunately, there can be some who see themselves in a "supreme" position instead of a "shepherd" position when it comes to being a husband.

*please note toward the end of the podcast, there is a word said that would be inappropriate for children which has to do with a new release from Canon Press.

Julie and Wilson discuss the more recent increase of the news outlets following Doug Wilson and his beliefs that seem to catch on with particular generations. They also discuss the false concepts of how Doug Wilson misinterprets scripture to promote control in the home with men.

Julie and Wilson discuss a recent podcast called "Getting the Proverbs 31 Woman Right where three young men had some confusing interpretation about just who this woman really is and what is expected of her. 

Julie and Wilson shared some of those idioms that we say, but really don't know how we got them So, hop on over and join us while we muddle through it. :-)

In this episode, Julie explores her thoughts on Abigail Schreier's book "Bad Therapy," highlighting its controversial points, research discrepancies, and clinical implications. She shares her perspective as a mental health professional and critiques the book’s approach to therapy and child mental health.

https://thecassandracomplex.substack.com/p/bad-journalism

Julie and Wilson discuss the importance of gratitude and thankfulness, especially when the receiver of such doesn't always respond in kind.

Julie and Wilson have a great time reminiscing about 1976, the prices of things, famous movies and songs! Walk memory lane with us!

In this episode, we explore the profound question God asks in Genesis 3: 'Where are you?' and how it relates to our self-awareness, honesty, and spiritual journey. Join us as we delve into biblical stories, maps, GPS, and personal reflections to understand where we are and where we need to go.

In this episode, Julie and Wilson explore the differences between grief and trauma, how they impact us, and ways to process and heal from emotional wounds. They emphasize the importance of understanding these concepts and offer practical advice for supporting those who are hurting.

Julie and Wilson are celebrating their 35th wedding anniversary with their audience, reminiscing from the beginning to where they are now. 

Julie and Wilson talk about this concept of performance for all the wrong reasons. Many people spend their lives making sure the people outside of them are happy with the expectations whether it is work or church or family.

Julie and Wilson bring together their interpretation of an article called Therapy Nation by Jonathan Alpert. Seeing it as an excellent review of our current therapy culture, they also admonish those who use articles like this as a tool to propagate their own agendas and narratives.

Join Julie Adams as she interviews her brother-in-law Martin Adams about his Appalachian Trail hike, trail life, wildlife encounters, and the meaningful lessons learned along the way. Discover insights into hiking, safety, trail community, and the spiritual reflections that come from long-distance outdoor adventures. 

Also included is the for whom he was hiking; his sister-in-law Julia, who is battling Multiple Sclerosis. Below is a link where you can donate to this society in honor of warriors like Julia.

https://www.nationalmssociety.org/how-you-can-help/ways-to-give/tough-like-her/?utm_source=sc&utm_medium=semg&utm_campaign=drefy26_aab_b...

Julie and Wilson discuss an important, and sometimes a controversial and misunderstood topic. Respect. In some marriages, it can become a "command and demand" husband/wife relationship. 

If the respect is done out of fear, than it's not respect, it's compliance

Julie interviews 11 year old Alaina who lives life to the fullest! From her busy school life, to band, to loving History class, Alaina sees the world through the mind of seeing the world for the past eleven years. Who knew being President would mean free candy for everyone?!

Julie and Wilson decided to have a day of CRAZY! 

Listen and find out!  :-)

Julie discusses the impact of this intensive workshop. Even though there are some critics, she and her husband Wilson have hosted 10 of these workshops serving over 120 women. It is available twice a year and is filled immediately after one ad.

Julie and Wilson discuss their first jobs and subsequent ones, plus how they instilled into their children, the need for a work ethic. 

Most conversations about suffering in faith miss a crucial point—sometimes enduring is not the answer. Julie challenges the traditional narrative that suffering automatically matures us spiritually, revealing instead when suffering is a harmful expectation rather than a divine necessity. If you’ve ever wondered whether Christians are called to endure harmful situations or stay silent in the face of injustice, this episode will redefine your understanding of love, accountability, and true spiritual growth.

Julie shares personal reflections and biblical insights that question the widespread idea that suffering equals righteousness. She examines how Scripture actually advo...

In this episode, Julie and Wilson discuss a  significant local controversy in Rutherford County, Tennessee, regarding the relocation of certain books in the library to an adult section, which led to the firing of the library director. Julie and her co-host discuss the broader implications of this event, touching on themes of censorship, parental rights, and the developmental impact of exposing children to mature content. They also explore how to engage with people who have different beliefs and lifestyles, emphasizing kindness and understanding, drawing inspiration from biblical stories like Jesus' interaction with the woman at the well. The episode c...

In this episode, Julie discusses the passing of Leonid Radvinsky, the majority owner of Only Fans; the paid internet subscription for pornographer creators and users.

Beware- some may find this episode triggering

In this conversation, Julie Adams and Joe discuss the sensitive and often overlooked topic of sex trafficking, focusing on Joe's personal experiences with grooming and abuse. Joe shares his journey from being groomed by a trusted church musician to facing manipulation and blackmail, ultimately leading to a struggle with addiction and a path to recovery. The discussion highlights the importance of addressing these issues within communities and the impact of trauma on mental health. In this conversation, Joe shares his profound journey through estrangement, addiction, recovery, and transformation...

Julie and her husband Wilson (him), explore the dangers of patriarchal philosophies promoted by figures like Doug Wilson and his wife, and emphasizes biblical principles of respect, partnership, and biblical roles within marriage. This episode highlights the importance of critical thinking and maintaining a Christ-centered approach in relationships.

Julie and Wilson share candid insights from their own experiences—from the post-9/11 world to today’s geopolitical tensions—and uncover timeless truths about trust, peace, and faith. You’ll discover how perspective shapes resilience and why trusting God's plan is more vital now than ever.

Julie talks about what's on her heart, and that is the gossip about her that she learned recently. She asks for this to stop.

Julie and Wilson discuss the difficult topic of the release of Epstein files which reveal the wickedness in our country and across the globe. Should our prayers life change? How do we rise above this, or do we?

Julie and Wilson each bring three things to talk about that include, the Good, the Bad and the Ugly. Each share things that are funny, but also troubling with current culture and that which anyone can do...and that's pray.

Julie and Wilson talk about the recent ice storm and share memories of those past snow and ice storms as kids and how we survived it!

In this episode, Julie discusses the concept of embracing imperfection, particularly in the context of religious trauma and self-acceptance. She reflects on her experiences with snow and the unpredictability of life, drawing parallels to the unrealistic expectations of perfection that many people face. Julie emphasizes that perfection is unattainable and that the pressure to be perfect can lead to feelings of shame and inadequacy. She shares insights from David Rubelid's work, highlighting how religious trauma often intertwines with perfectionism, creating a cycle of fear and shame that can hinder personal growth and self-acceptance.
Throughout the conversation, Julie encourages listeners...

In this episode, Julie discusses the current cultural climate marked by chaos and disorder, reflecting on the value of life and authority. She emphasizes the importance of integrity in society and explores God's promises, both conditional and unconditional, as a source of hope amidst turmoil. The conversation concludes with a reminder to find strength in faith and to practice kindness.