Obedient Love Podcast

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Female Led Relationships, FemDom, D/s

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Obedient Love 52: The Nemesis Party
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#52
02/05/2026

Ms. V. envisions a new political party, named after the Goddess of Retribution, that builds a better country for everyone while prioritizing women's leadership, women's rights, and women's safety and comfort.

Would you cast your vote for the Nemesis Party?

https://nemsisparty.com

https://devidasa.org

https://gynarchy.io

 


Obedient Love 51: New Masculinity
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#51
01/29/2026

Ms. V. reads a chapter from The Dasa's Guide to Sacred Gynarchy on what it means to be a man in the Gynarchy, and the facets of gender.

https://devidasa.org

https://gynarchy.io


Obedient Love 50: Ritual
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#50
01/22/2026

Ms. Viola's short erotic story about a ritual...

Celebrating my 50th podcast!!!

 

gynarchy.io

devidasa.org


Obedient Love 49: Lilith
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#49
01/15/2026

Ms V. discusses the book Lilith by Nikki Marmery and declares it a canon religious text for the Gynarchy.

 

gynarachy.io

devidasa.org


Obedient Love 48: The Dasa Code
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#48
01/08/2026

Ms. V reads the code of conduct expected from those who live as her personal servants, a.k.a, dasas.

Included in her new book The Dasa's Guide to Sacred Gynarchy: How to Serve a Living Goddess.

https://devidasa.org

 

https://gynarchy.io

 


Obedient Love 47: The Dasa's Guide
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#47
01/02/2026

Ms. V reads from her new book The Dasa's Guide to Sacred Gynarchy, available wherever you buy books on January 12, 2026.

Get your special one-of-a-kind copy at devidasa.org.

 

https://gynarchy.io

https://cathexishouse.com

 

 


Obedient Love 46: The Gate to Women's Country
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#46
09/14/2025

Ms. V. discusses the book The Gate to Women's Country by Sherri S. Tepper, published in 1988.  Tepper solves the "man problem" in imagining matriarchy.

 

Sponsored by https://goodboygogo.com


Obedient Love 45: Pimps, Chimps, Simps
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#45
09/07/2025

If you are not a simp, you are a chimp or a pimp.  What kind of male are you?  Ms. V. talks about why she loves simps.

 

Sponsored by GoodBoy GoGo


Obedient Love 44: The Bliss of Denial
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#44
08/31/2025

Ms. V. introduces her dasa, Max, who has had placed his sexuality under her control for six months.  He talks about the intense journey of edging and cultivating erotic energy.  This is a firsthand account of long-term semen retention, surrendering control fully to a Goddess.  

#cockcontrol #semenretention #chastity #Ds #surrender

Sponsored by GoodBoy GoGo - good products for good boys.

 

Train with Ms. V. at https://obedient.love/


Obedient Love 43: Devi Dasa Sacred Gynarchy
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#43
08/23/2025

Ms. V. explains her overall vision and all that she is working toward to create an alternative to the patriarchy.  An introduction to the Devi Dasa Sacred Gynarchy, and he new church.

https://devidasa.org

https://gynarchy.io


Obedient Love 42: For Couples
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#42
08/06/2024

Are you hoping to transform your more traditional or egalitarian partnership into a female-led relationship?  MS. V. talks about the two most common roadblocks along the way and ways for women to find their power and for men to let go of their egos.

Sign up to get an e-mail when Ms. V.'s new couple workshop is about to launch:

https://obedient.love/flr4couples

 

 

Media, Education, and Community for a Women-led World:

https://gynachy.io

 

Ms. V's FREE 3 day FLR course for...


Obedient Love 41: Test Driving Men
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#41
07/23/2024

Ms. V. does not like to date in the ordinary sense.  Instead, she likes to test-drive men.  

 

https://gynarchy.io

https://violavoltairine.com

 


Obedient Love 40: CNC, Trauma, and Alchemy
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#40
07/16/2024

Consensual Non-Consent is a complicated topic; Ms. V. tells her story and invites you to consider the implications for trauma survivors and how to use it as a tool. 

 

https://gynarchy.io

https://violavoltairine.com

 


Obedient Love 39: My Dark Side
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#39
07/09/2024

How do I reconcile the dichotomy within me, between wanting an ethical world and enjoying the perverse play of power and degradation?  

 

http://gynarchy.io


Obedient Love 38: The Pivot
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#38
06/05/2024

You can feel it, can't you?  The result of a long history of struggle and progress leading to the inevitable end to male dominance.  How did we get here, and where are we going?  And why is this an exciting time for submissive men and Dominant Women?

 

https://pillarsofgynarchy.com

https://gynarchy.io

https://gynarchyshops.com

 


Obedient Love 37: The Hive
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#37
05/28/2024

A few of the men in my community made one of my big wishes for this summer come true. As promised, that means I'm bringing back the Obedient Love podcast! Welcome to Obedient Love 37, where I tell you about a place where women are safe and pampered, and men can serve them 24/7. Manifest our collective dream! Join me!

 

https://thepillarsofgynarchy.com

https://gynarchy.io

https://gynarchyshops.com

 


Obedient Love 36: What is Power?
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#37
02/19/2023

Ms. V. discusses the definition of power and how it plays out in different ways in relationships and in our everyday lives.

 

gynarchy.io

FREE FLR LESSONS: obedient.love


The Company: An Introduction
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07/03/2022

Ever wondered if the Company was real.  It is.  And here's your limited opportunity to serve us.

gynarchy.io


Succubus Tech: An Introduction
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06/25/2022

Ms. V's methods of erotic hypnosis and mind control for psychological edge play.

 

gynarchy.io


Obedient Love 35: Submissive in a Vanilla Marriage
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#36
05/26/2022

Ms. V asks: What if you are a submissive in a vanilla marriage?  What are your options? What are some roadmaps to make it work?

 

gynarchy.io


gynarchy.io
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#35
03/12/2022

A little change of pace from my usual philosophical and instruction podcasts to explain an exciting new project.

https://www.gynarchy.io


Obedient Love 34: Psychological Edgeplay, pt. 1
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#34
01/05/2022

In this first in a series of discussions of psychological edgeplay, Ms. V talks about erotic hypnosis, tulpamancy and an army of Bambis and bimbos.  She offers a brief intro to succubus tech.

 

Cathexis House 24/7 D/s household:  http://cathexishouse.com

Ms. V.'s book 150 Years of Gynarchy:  http://150yearsofgynarchy.com

Free 3-day FLR class:  http://obedient.love

 


Obedient Love 33: The Benefits of Long Term Chastity
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#33
10/04/2021

Ms. Viola talks about the benefits of semen retention, orgasm denial, and chastity for 30 days or more.  Happy Locktober!

 

Follow Ms. V's various projects at: http://violavoltairine.com

 


Obedient Love 32: For Women - Why Not Dominate Him?
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#32
09/06/2021

Ms. Viola asks women about their reaction to submissive men and dispels some misconceptions about FemDom for women who are new to (or put off by) Dominating men.  Women's feedback is welcome!

 

Lil Simz, Woman:  https://youtu.be/zHGf6tmnLYE

Kasia Urbaniak:  https://www.youtube.com/c/KasiaUrbaniakYT

 

Cathexis House - Ms. V's 24/7 D/s household + lessons in FLR for men: http://cathexishouse.com

Ms. V's movie based on the book by Renee Lane: http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm

Ms. V's book, 150 Years of Gyanrchy: http://150years...


Obedient Love 31: FemDom as Religion
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#31
07/13/2021

Ms. V. delves into the dangerous territory of the patriarchy vs. the divine feminine, witchcraft as liberation, and the Living Goddess tradition.

 

Caliban and the Witch: https://g.co/kgs/7Y6r3d

Can a woman be a Goddess? https://youtu.be/UOhZtpp5L9M

 

Cathexis House, journals and lessons from Ms. V's  24/7 D/s household:  http://cathexishouse.com

Ms. V's book, 150 Years of Gynarchy: https://g.co/kgs/Pf8PmY

Ms. V's upcoming movie, based on the book by Renee Lane:  http://artvamp.com/femdo...


Obedient Love 30: Submissive Pride
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#30
06/28/2021

As Pride month comes to a close, Ms. V. encourages you to follow the example of history and feel bold and proud in being who you are.

 

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Submissive Attraction (Alternative flag by me)

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Obedient Love 29: Generative Power
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#29
06/14/2021

Just the beginnings of some of Ms. V's rambling musings on how we might unthink hierarchy and focus on the nature of generative power.  This one is a bit less practical and more about changing our modes of thinking to facilitate new modes of of structuring consensual power relationships.

 

FOR MORE:

Follow Ms. Viola's full-time D/s household and take take lessons on how to find and maintain a FLR at http://cathexhishouse.com

Read Ms. Viola's book, 150 Years of Gynarchy at: http://www.smantics.com/VVoltairine/BookInfo.html

Si...


Obedient Love 28: Domestic Service - Level up!
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#28
05/26/2021

Ms. Viola rants a bit about what is and is not real domestic service, and and tells you how to take your service to new levels, beyond being simply a good considerate partner.  

Mentioned 

Marie Kondo:  https://shop.konmari.com/products/the-life-changing-magic-of-tidying-up-1

Do Easy: https://youtu.be/-pjQ0FNzkLQ

 

150 Years of Gynarchy, by Viola Voltairine:

http://150yearsofgynarchy.com

 

Follow the day-to-day life at Ms. Viola's 27/7 D/s household Cathexis House, and take lessons on being the best submissive you can be:

http...


Obedient Love 27: Pegging
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#27
04/29/2021

Ms. V goes over the ins and outs of anal play and pegging for men and their partners.

 

This is a segment taken from Obedient Love FLR classes, found at

http://cathexishouse.com

 


Obedient Love 26: The Hidden Dynamics of D/s
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#26
04/15/2021

Ms. Viola discusses the hidden dynamics of attention and energy as they relate to Dominance and submission.  

Learn more:

http://cathexishouse.com

Buy Ms. Viola's new book, 150 Years of Gynarchy:

http://150YearsofGynarchy.com

 


Obedient Love 25: Slave in My Pocket
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#25
02/23/2021

Ms. Viola talks about how long distance FLRs can be intensely intimate.

 

http://cathexishouse.com


Obedient Love 24: My Life in a Female Supremacy
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#26
02/08/2021

At the intersection of Female Led Society and Feminism, Natalia Stroika shares her essay My Life in a Female Supremacy where she envisions a world where women rule.  Afterward, she talks a little bit more about the role of imagination and what she might change if she rewrote this today.

Ms. V. mentions the film No Men Beyond This Point:  https://youtu.be/cH2LvXVx7uI

 

For daily journals about living in a 24/7 D/s household, and lessons in FLR:

http://cathexishouse.com

To see clips from Ms. Viola new...


Obedient Love 23: The Company, the Doctor
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#23
01/18/2021

A continuation of our story of slaveC38 as the Doctor preps his body for the initiation ritual.

 

Transcripts, journals and lessons in FLR at http://cathexishouse.com


Obedient Love 22: The Company, continued...
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#22
01/09/2021

We follow slave38 through his initiation into the world of the Company.  And finally, it's Her!

 

For journals, text, and early uploads: http://cathexishouse.com

Special thanks to Ms. Viola's Trainees and Devotees:

Brett

Phoenix

Wingnut

Jeffbezos

Felix

Hurtle

Soyokaze

rotwang1971

Bruce

Jack

Jason

Justin

Christopher

Nvrmore

 

and all of the Voyeurs of Cathexis House!

 

 


Obedient Love 21: Symbiosis
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#25
12/29/2020

Symbiosis - Ms. Viola discusses what types are there and how that relates relate to D/s and FemDom in particular, and the evolution of the human race in general.

 

Learn more at http://cathexishouse.com


Obedient Love 20
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#24
11/04/2020

Ms. Viola talks about the many aspects of long term chastity.

 

Custom devices:

https://www.maturemetal.com/

https://www.evotionwearables.com/

 

Uniquely Us by Ms. Rika:

https://www.lulu.com/en/us/shop/msrika-/uniquely-us/ebook/product-1v96ge7v.html

 


Obedient Love 19
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#23
09/08/2020

Part two of the story of The Company.  An application to sign your soul away... and a key...

http://cathexishouse.com

 

Learn how to find and attract Dominant Women by taking the free 3-day video course: http://obedient.love


Obedient Love 18
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#22
07/28/2020

The Company, Part 1: The story of a man draw into something that he may live to regret...

 

http://cathexishouse.com

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Obedient Love 17
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#21
06/22/2020

A quick first in what will likely become a series on Reality vs. Fantasy in a female led D/s lifestyle. Ms. V.  transgresses the taboo topic of raising a child in a real FemDom household, and the unrealistic fantasies about a gynarchic world.  Let's begin living the fantasy, and fantasizing about the world we want to live in.

Follow the daily life Ms. Viola's full-time D/s household at http://cathexishouse.com

Learn how to find and attract Dominant Women by taking the free 3-day video course: http://obedient.love

 


Obedient Love 16
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#16
06/04/2020

Ms. Viola reads a passage from Finding Love Through Female Domination, Chapter 6, Humiliation.  In it we get an idea of how Renee thinks and how devoted she has become to the life project of bringing Butler into a state of total surrender.  In her writing we get a sense of her persnality, and also how her lover Heather comes into play.

To learn more about the book and the upcoming movie:  http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm/

To contribute to the making of the first scene:  https://gogetfunding.com/finding-love/

To learn more about full time D...