A Dose of Nicki
Dose of Nicki is a personal development podcast hosted by Nicki Poleon where life topics are explored through a single word or phrase each week. Each episode is conversational, warm, and under 15 minutes. New episodes drop weekly on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, iHeart Radio, YouTube, and more. The companion guided journal A Dose of Nicki: A Guided Journal for Women Who Are Done Playing Small is now available on Amazon.
Before you go, a love letter to this season
In this episode of A Dose of Nicki, Nicki pauses before closing out Season 3 to do something she has never done before. She writes her listeners a love letter. From the frustration that opened the season to the love that carried it through, she looks back at twenty-five episodes of growth, awareness, and becoming and speaks directly to the people who made it all worthwhile. To the ride or dies who have been there since Season 1 and to the new listeners who found their way here somewhere in the middle, this one is for you. Because before...
Sisterhood comes with limits
In this episode of A Dose of Nicki, Nicki gets into a conversation that every woman and every man can relate to because the dynamics of loyalty, purpose, and expectations do not discriminate. Sisterhood comes with limits and understanding those limits is actually what makes it work. From the different roles each sister plays in your circle to knowing whose circle you are actually in, this episode is an honest conversation about showing up, staying in your lane, and letting the pride do what the pride was built to do.Â
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How much does it cost for your impatience?
In this episode of A Dose of Nicki, Nicki might hit a nerve about one of the most expensive habits we never think to budget for: impatience. From skipping the grocery circular to skimming a critical email to pushing through a yellow light, Nicki walks through the everyday moments where the urge to rush quietly costs us more than we realize, in money, in relationships, and in peace of mind. With her signature honesty and a few confessions of her own, she challenges listeners to consider what patience actually looks like in practice and why the people...
What are you feeding?
In this episode of A Dose of Nicki, Nicki asks one simple question that runs deeper than it appears. What are you feeding? Join her as she explores the patterns we all fall into when we consistently give our energy, time, and attention to things that drain us rather than grow us. From the dynamics we tolerate to the thoughts we water without realizing it, this episode is an honest look at what happens when we are the ones holding the spoon.Â
Tune in and discover what becomes possible when you finally redirect your water t...
Mirror Series Part 3: Put the mirror down
In this episode of A Dose of Nicki, we close out the Mirror Series with Part 3 and Nicki gets personal in a way that will stay with you long after the episode ends. After two weeks of looking honestly at the mirror and discovering who cracked it, this episode is about the moment she finally put it down. From being reduced to one word by someone who missed everything she was, to the little girl who sat in front of the television waiting for Romper Room to call her name, Nicki takes us through the exhaustion of...
Mirror Series Part 2: Who told you that about yourself?
The things people said to you when you were young did not stay in the past. They grew up with you. They show up in ways you do not even notice anymore.
In Part 2 of the Mirror Series Nicki gets personal, gets funny, and gets to the root of it all. Before you can fix the mirror you have to find out who cracked it.
Who told you that about yourself? And did they actually have the authority to?
Part 3 drops next week. You are not going to want to miss it.
Mirror Series Part 1: What are you really looking at!
In this episode of A Dose of Nicki, we begin the Mirror Series, a three-part journey into the most honest conversation you will ever have with yourself. Part 1 asks one powerful question: what are you really looking at? Join Nicki as she explores the difference between the reflection we show the world and the image we carry inside, and why so many of us have been walking around with a distorted view of ourselves without even knowing it. Tune in and get ready to look, really look, at yourself!
The version of you they refuse to see
Have you ever grown, healed, and evolved only to have the people closest to you refuse to see it? In this episode, we get real about what happens when your transformation makes others uncomfortable, why some people could only love the version of you that was small, and how to stop shrinking yourself for someone else's comfort. If you've ever been penalized for becoming better, this one is for you.
🎙️ Tune in, reflect, and remember the version of you they refuse to see is often your most powerful one.
Sit with it
In this episode of A Dose of Nicki, we explore the powerful yet uncomfortable practice of sitting with our emotions rather than running from them. From the habits we use to fill every quiet moment to the unprocessed feelings that show up uninvited, this episode gets real about what happens when we finally choose stillness over noise. Join Nicki as she discusses the courage it takes to acknowledge what we feel, the freedom that comes from naming it, and why getting still might be the most transformative thing you do today. Tune in to discover how sitting with it...
When Hot Water Runs Dry: Lessons in Patience and Awareness
In this episode of A Dose of Nicki, we explore the often overlooked value of hot water and the lessons it can teach us. From the unexpected plumbing challenges to the realization that hot water can become a luxury, this personal story reveals how adversity can lead to growth.
 Join me as we discuss the importance of being aware of our surroundings, embracing challenges, and of cultivating gratitude for the simple things in life. Â
Tune in to discover how these experiences can transform our perspectives!
How Insecurity Can Rob Confidence: Tame the Ego
In this episode of A Dose of Nicki, we dive into the unexpected emotional attacks we sometimes face and how they can shake our confidence. Discover how the whispers of doubt and the need to protect our pride can hold us back, and learn the importance of facing these challenges head-on.Â
Join us as we explore the dynamics of insecurity, ego, and the transformative power of confidence.Â
Remember, it’s okay to have insecurities—just don’t let them define you!
Breathe and Be: Mindful in Motion
In this episode of A Dose of Nicki, we look into the transformative practice of mindfulness and how it can enrich our everyday lives. Nicki shares insights on the importance of offering comfort to your mind and nurturing your mental space.
Explore what it means to be mindful in motion; staying fully engaged and present as you navigate through daily tasks. Nicki discusses the common distractions that pull us away from meaningful connections and offers practical techniques to cultivate mindfulness.Â
With relatable stories and valuable tips, this episode encourages you to start each d...
Sip & Spill: Like or Love?
Nicki dives into the nuanced differences between love and like. Through personal anecdotes and relatable insights, she explores how these emotions shape our relationships, especially within families. Discover how unconditional love can coexist with moments of dislike, and learn to navigate your feelings with clarity. Join Nicki for a warm cup of wisdom as she spills the tea on what it truly means to love and like someone. Tune in and embrace the journey of human connection!Â
Wash It Off!
In this rejuvenating episode of A Dose of Nicki, we explore the need for both physical and spiritual cleansing in our lives. Have you ever felt weighed down by responsibilities, anxieties, or the demands of others? Join Nicki as she discusses the importance of setting intentions during your daily routines and how a simple shower can transform into a ritual of release. Discover how to prioritize your needs, establish boundaries, and let go of what no longer serves you. Tune in for insights that will help you wash off the weight and embrace a refreshed, empowered self.<...
Harvesting Results
In this episode of A Dose of Nicki, we explore the theme of "Harvesting Results" as part of our gardening series. Join Nicki as she reflects on the journey of planting seeds of intention, nurturing growth through daily habits, and facing the challenges that life throws our way. Discover the importance of recognizing and celebrating your achievements, and learn how to plan for the next season of growth. This episode emphasizes the beautiful connection between gardening and life's journey, reminding us that every effort contributes to our personal harvest. Tune in for inspiration and practical tips to...
Seasons of Life
Join Nicki in this enriching episode of A Dose of Nicki, as we delve into "Seasons of Life," the next chapter in our "Gardening: A Metaphor of Life" series. Just like a garden flourishes through various seasons, our lives are filled with distinct phases, each bringing its own lessons and purpose.
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In this episode, we explore the roles of perennials and annuals in our lives, drawing parallels between the enduring relationships that nurture us and the fleeting connections that provide joy and insight. Discover how some people enter our lives for a reason, a season, o...
How Long Was the Mask On?
In this episode of a Dose of Nicki, we explore the hidden layers of human interaction masked by insecurity and ego. Have you ever felt like someone in your life was wearing a mask, pretending to be someone they’re not?
Join Nicki as she delves into the dangers of pretending, the emotional toll of deception, and the cycle of manipulation that can ensue when the truth is finally revealed. Discover how to recognize these patterns in your own relationships and empower yourself to embrace authenticity. Tune in for insights and reflections that can help you na...
Stop Thief!
In this episode of A Dose of Nicki, Nicki shares a gripping story from her recent trip to Paris, where a near encounter with a pickpocket taught her valuable lessons about awareness and resilience. Using the acronym THIEF, she explores the tension, hesitation, and fearlessness that emerged during the incident. Join Nicki as she reflects on how thieves may steal our peace of mind, but with vigilance and courage, we can reclaim our joy and experiences. Tune in for insights that will empower your travels!
The Virtuous Woman
In this episode of a Dose of Nicki, we explore the essence of a virtuous woman and the key virtues that define her. Join Nicki as she delves into the characteristics of strength, wisdom, and compassion that not only uplift her but also serve as a beacon of light for others. Discover how embodying these virtues can guide and inspire those around you, empowering you to lead with grace and integrity. Tune in for a journey of self-discovery and inspiration that will encourage you to embrace your own virtuous path!
Facing Adversity
In this episode, we draw inspiration from the resilient world of plants that endure various challenges, yet continue to thrive. Join us as we explore the parallels between their struggles and the personal adversities we all face in life.
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 Through insightful discussions, we’ll encourage you to embrace resilience and adaptability in the face of your own challenges. Discover the valuable lessons learned from overcoming adversity and how these experiences can foster growth and strength.
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 Tune in to find motivation and strategies to help you navigate life’s storms and emerge even stronger!
Nurturing Growth
In this episode, we explore the beautiful parallels between gardening and self-care. Just as a gardener lovingly tends to their plants by watering, fertilizing, and nurturing, we must also prioritize our own well-being and mental health. Join us as we uncover the essential practices of self-care, the importance of recognizing our own needs, and how nurturing ourselves can lead to thriving relationships.
If you are looking for an insightful discussion, practical tips, and heartfelt stories that will inspire you to cultivate a more compassionate relationship with yourself, tune in. Let’s grow together!
Planting Seeds of Intention
In this episode of the "Gardening: A Metaphor of Life" segment, titled **Planting Seeds of Intention**, we delve into the transformative power of setting intentions, likening it to the art of planting seeds in a garden. Join us as we discuss how defining clear intentions can guide personal growth and cultivate meaningful changes in our lives.
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We'll discuss the significance of nurturing these intentions, whether they relate to new habits, relationships, or personal goals. Through inspiring stories and practical insights, we illustrate how small, intentional steps can lead to significant growth over time. T...
Gardening: A Metaphor of Life
This inspiring episode will kickoff exploring the beautiful metaphor of gardening as it relates to our lives. Join us as we dissect how nurturing a garden parallels our personal journeys. Just as we plant seeds with intention, we must also cultivate our dreams and aspirations with care, patience, and dedication.
We discuss the importance of setting intentions for what we want to grow - whether that be nurturing new habits, cultivating meaningful relationships, or pursuing personal goals. Each seed represents a dream that requires our attention and love.
Tune in as we navigate the seasons of...
The Selfish Spectrum: Me, Myself, and I
In this thought-provoking episode of *A Dose of Nicki*, we dive deep into the complexities of selfishness and its impact on relationships. Join us as we explore two examples of selfish behavior identified in others, prompting a crucial question: are people attracting these individuals because they reflect traits they might not fully recognize in themselves?
We’ll unpack the concept of the "selfish spectrum"—how the discomfort with selfishness can reveal deeper insights into personal tendencies. Even when individuals claim to despise selfishness, is it possible that they are drawn to it? Tune in to hear all abou...
The Blame Game
In this episode of the “A Dose of Nicki,” we tackle a relatable and often frustrating topic: The Blame Game. Have you ever found yourself unfairly blamed for something you didn’t do?
Join Nicki as she shares a personal story about an unexpected situation where she became the scapegoat for someone else’s oversight.
Discover the dynamics of accountability, the impact of misplaced blame, and how we can shift our mindset to foster understanding instead of pointing fingers.
Tune in for an engaging discussion that will leave you empowered to stand firm...
Who Do You KNOW You Are?
In this exciting episode of “A Dose of Nicki,” we dive deep into the journey of self-discovery and the importance of understanding our true identity.
Join Nicki as she poses the empowering question: “Who do you know you are?” and invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences and values.
Nicki explores the impact of life experiences, societal expectations, and the masks we often wear. She shares practical strategies for self-reflection, embracing vulnerability, and celebrating our unique qualities.
This episode encourages you to embrace your authentic self and recognize the beauty of your in...
Self-Checking
In this insightful episode of A Dose of Nicki, we explore the powerful concept of self-checking and its impact on our well-being. Join us as we discuss the importance of being kind to ourselves and the role of positive affirmations in fostering self-love.
We often set boundaries for others but neglect to do the same for ourselves; this episode highlights the need to prioritize our own needs and establish healthy limits.
We’ll dive into why we tend to be our own worst critics and how that negative self-talk can shape our self-worth and...
I'm Sorry, Am I Bothering You?
In this episode of “A Dose of Nicki”, titled “I’m Sorry. Am I Bothering You?”, Nicki addresses the often-awkward nature of social interactions and the feelings of being a bother that can arise in these moments. Â
Have you ever greeted someone only to be met with grumbles, or found yourself in a social setting where the response was casual yet uncomfortable? Join Nicki as she explores these relatable experiences and what they reveal about our relationships with others.
Tune in to seek to understand the nuances of human connection and the importance of navigating these moments...
Silence the Noise. Please!
In this enlightening episode of "A Dose of Nicki," we tackle the overwhelming chaos of modern life and explore the essential practice of finding silence amidst the noise.
Come, join Nicki as she shares personal insights on the impact of distractions - both external and internal - on our mental well-being.
Discover practical tips and techniques for quieting the mind, such as mindfulness practices, digital detox strategies, and the healing power of nature.
Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by daily noise or simply seeking moments of tranquility, this episode offers valuable guidance...
The Art of Apology
In this episode of “A Dose of Nicki”, we explore the often-challenging yet essential practice of making a sincere apology. Nicki delves into the significance of acknowledging our mistakes and the power of taking responsibility in rebuilding relationships.
Listeners are guided through the key components of a meaningful apology, including expressing genuine remorse, understanding the impact of our actions, and offering a commitment to change. Â
By the end of the episode, listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with apologies – both given and received – and to embrace the transformative power of humility a...
Who Do You Adore?
In this episode titled “Who Do You Adore” on A Dose of Nicki, the host delves into Prince’s iconic song “Adore.” The discussion focuses on the emotional themes of longing, love, and devotion that the song conveys.
Nicki reflects on how the lyrics express profound admiration and unconditional love for a partner, highlighting the depth of feelings that transcend physical attraction. Â
Ultimately, Nicki invites listeners to consider their own experiences of love and longing, making the episode both personal and relatable.
Is a Lack of Verbal Response an Act of Being Ignored or Disrespected?
This episode discusses the impact of technology on interpersonal communication. It highlights how individuals can become so absorbed in their devices that they ignore or fail to engage in meaningful conversations.
We raise important questions about whether a lack of verbal response is a sign of disrespect or simply a reflection of our evolving communication landscape.Â
Join us to determine if it’s a concerning trend. Â
Who Are You and Where Do You Fit: Giver or Taker?
In this thought-provoking episode of “Who Are You and Where Do You Fit: Giver or Taker, we delve into the essential question of our roles within the broader community. Join us as we challenge ourselves to shift our focus from individual needs to the needs of those around us-a journey that requires no small amount of humility. Â
Together, we explore the significance of community and connection, uncovering how adopting a mindset of service enriches our lives and positively impacts others.
Tune in as we discuss practical ways to foster this mindset and the benefits that come...
The Intersection of Music, Relationships, and Society
In this episode, we get deep into the powerful connections between music, relationships, and the fabric of society. Music is more than just a form of entertainment; it is a universal language that influences our emotions, shapes our identities, and strengthen our bond with others.
Join us as we explore this fascinating intersection and discover the impact of music on our connections with one another and the world around us.
Beauty - The Beholder's Eye
In this episode of Beauty – The Beholder’s Eye we delve into the concept of beauty and its inherently subjective nature. We explore the idea that beauty is not a universal standard but rather a personal perception, encapsulated in the phrase “beauty is in the eye of the beholder.”
The episode highlights virtuous qualities that contribute to true beauty, emphasizing the power of confidence and self-assurance.
Throughout the episode, listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own definitions of beauty and the qualities that resonate with them, ultimately celebrating the diverse expressio...
Life is a Jigsaw Puzzle: Assembling the Pieces
In this episode, we delve into the intricate metaphor of life as a jigsaw puzzle, exploring challenges that arise when we encounter the various pieces that make up our existence. We discuss the feelings of uncertainty and concern that often accompany these pieces, especially when they seem mismatched or difficult to fit together.
Listeners will be guided through the common preconceived notions that hold us back. We will share personal stories and insights that highlight how these thoughts can create mental barriers, preventing us from even starting the task of assembling our lives.
Join us as...
Life is a Puzzle: Assembling the Pieces
In this enlightening episode of "Life is a Puzzle: Assembling the Pieces," we delve into the metaphor of life as a jigsaw puzzle and explore how each experience, whether joyful or challenging, contributes to our unique picture.
We emphasize the importance of patience and resilience in the assembling process, reminding listeners that it's perfectly normal to feel lost or out of place at times.
Join us for an inspiring chat that aims to motivate you to keep searching for those elusive pieces and to appreciate the intricate puzzle that is your life!
The Return of A Dose - Navigating Life's Sticky Situations
Welcome back listeners to today's episode. We're diving into a powerful theme that resonates with all of us: the moments in life where we've faced challenges, made imperfect choices, and how those experiences have shaped who we are today.
Let's tune in to get a dose.
Meet People Where They Are
Join us as we bring this season to a close with the Meet People Where They Are episode. This episode will leave listeners with an important message that by meeting people where they are, we can foster understanding, bridge divides, and create a more inclusive and compassionate society.
Throughout the episode you learn the significance of meeting people where they are in their journey. By embracing empathy and setting aside preconceived notions, we discover common ground and meaningful connections.
Come, let's close out the first season together..
Stay In Your Lane
In this captivating podcast episode, we delve into the subject of sidewalk etiquette and the challenges individuals face when sharing public spaces. Join us as we explore the evolving dynamics between pedestrians, dog owners, and stroller pushers, and discuss the importance of respecting boundaries and finding a harmonious balance.
Throughout the episode, we analyze real-life scenarios and discuss the frustrations that arise when individuals fail to prioritize courtesy and respect. We delve into the impacts of entitlement, obliviousness, and the changing dynamics between humans and their domesticated animals.
Tune in to gain insights and perspectives...