Thoughts Of An Average Joe

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By: Taroy Jackson

Thoughts of an Average Joe Podcast is where thoughts of an average guy will come to life when it pertains to the dating, relationship, friendship spectrum, and topics within the black community. These thoughts will derive from past relationships and experiences. This podcast will have the female perspective on here as well to shed light on what they want and how they feel. Social Media: twitter: averagejtpc Instagram: averagejtpc Email: admin@averagejt.com YouTube Link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1u3ImmZFhw8wnXjqeRJp7g

Season 7 Episode 293: High Chronicles Vol. 4
#293
Last Wednesday at 11:00 AM

Welcome back to another episode of “Thoughts Of An Average Joe. Today Joe is under the influence and talks about a multitude of topics. Enjoy


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Season 7 Episode 292: The Pride Of Independence
#292
03/25/2026

Welcome to another episode of “Thoughts Of An Average Joe.” Today topic is “The Pride Of Independence.” The episode dives into the fine line between strength and self-sabotage. In a world where everyone is focused on getting it on their own, this episode explores how independence—while necessary—can quietly turn into pride, emotional unavailability, and isolation.

From relationships to personal growth, we break down how past experiences shape the “I don’t need nobody” mindset, and why that mentality might be blocking real love, connection, and support. This conversation challenges listeners to ask themselves:

Are you truly inde...


Season 7 Episode 291: The BBL Era: Why Natural Bodies Aren’t Enough Anymore
#291
03/18/2026

Welcome back to another episode of “Thoughts Of An Average Joe.” This episode explores the growing trend of cosmetic procedures like BBLs and fat transfers and asks a deeper question about modern beauty standards. Instead of criticizing women, the conversation examines the influence of social media, validation culture, and unrealistic body expectations. The episode also discusses the psychological and physical risks associated with chasing perfection and challenges listeners to think about whether modern beauty culture encourages confidence or insecurity.

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Season 7 Episode 290: Life Update: The Rebuilding Season ( Season 7 Premiere)
#290
03/11/2026

After a lengthy break, Thoughts Of An Average Joe returns with an honest life update. In this episode, Joe talks about moving into a new place and the pressure that comes with living alone, dealing with life after losing his car, adjusting to public transportation, and learning to rely on others during a difficult season. He also opens up about filing for bankruptcy as a way to reset financially, thinking about going back to school, and why he needed to step away from the podcast for a mental reset. This episode is about rebuilding, humility, and starting over when li...


Season 6 Episode 289: (Season 6 Finale)The Relationship Resume Part 4: Building A Healthy Relationship Resume w/ Tyler
#289
12/26/2025

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." In the final episode of The Relationship Resume Series, the focus shifts from awareness to action. After unpacking healing, over-qualification, and the fear of being truly seen, this episode breaks down what actually belongs on a healthy relationship resume.

We explore why money, status, looks, and lifestyle may attract attention but don’t sustain connection — and why emotional maturity, accountability, consistency, and communication matter far more. This episode challenges listeners to turn healing into real-life skills by showing up differently, not just talking about growth.

At...


Season 6 Episode 288: The Relationship Resume Series Part 3: The Fear Of Being Seen: When Love Feels To Exposing
#288
12/17/2025

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Today we dive into episode three of the Relationship Resume Series. In episode 3, we dive into one of the quietest but most powerful obstacles in modern dating: the fear of being truly seen. After exploring dating while healing and the pressure to be “over-qualified” in love, this episode focuses on what happens when the rĂ©sumĂ© drops—and the real person has to show up.

This conversation unpacks why vulnerability feels dangerous, especially for people who’ve been hurt, rejected, or misunderstood in past relationships. We discuss how emotion...


Season 6 Episode 287: The Relationship Resume Series Part 2: When Dating Feels Like A Job Interview w/ Tyler
#287
12/15/2025

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Today we dive into part two of The Relationship Resume Series. This episode is titled "When Dating Feels Like A Job Interview and I bring on Tyler to talk about this. In this episode we unpack how modern dating has turned into a checklist-driven job interview. From social media pressure to emotional rĂ©sumĂ©s, many people feel the need to oversell themselves just to be considered worthy of love. But being “over-qualified” on paper doesn’t mean you’re emotionally ready for connection.

This episode explores h...


Season 6 Episode 286: The Relationship Resume Series: Part 1: Dating While Healing: The Half Written Resume
#6
12/03/2025

Welcome back to another episode of “Thoughts Of An Average Joe.”After a lengthy hiatus we are back!!!In this kickoff to The Relationship Resume Series, we explore what it really means to date while still healing from past hurt. Most people think they’re “ready” simply because time has passed — but unprocessed pain always finds a way to show up. This episode breaks down the difference between avoiding your wounds and actually doing the work, and how those hidden fractures affect who you attract, how you love, and how you show up in relationships.

We unpack the signs tha...


Season 6 Episode 285: Discipline Over Desire Series Part 4: Building The Blueprint: Becoming A Disciplined Man
#285
10/09/2025

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." In the series finale of Discipline Over Desire, we shift from understanding the problem to taking action. This episode lays out a clear blueprint for men to build discipline, protect their priorities, and create lasting success.

Listeners will learn practical strategies for daily routines, setting boundaries, tracking progress, and maintaining consistency across health, finances, career, and relationships. This episode emphasizes that discipline is a skill that can be developed — and that every small, intentional action compounds over time to produce massive results.

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Season 6 Episode 284: The Discipline Over Desire Series: Part 3: The Cost Of Chaos: Life Without Discipline
#284
10/06/2025

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." In the third episode of the Discipline Over Desire series, we examine the real consequences men face when they live without discipline and boundaries. From financial instability and stalled careers to emotional burnout and lost self-respect, chaos silently creeps in when structure and focus are missing.

This episode highlights the hidden costs of drifting through life, constantly reacting instead of planning, and always putting others’ needs above your own. Through real-life examples and practical insights, listeners will gain clarity on why discipline isn’t just a choice — it’s ess...


Season 6 Episode 283: Discipline Over Desire Series: Part 2: The Power Of Strategic Selfishness w/ Tyler
#283
09/25/2025

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe". In part two of the Discipline Over Desire series, we explore why men must learn the art of being strategically selfish to protect their growth. This episode flips the script on what it means to be “selfish,” showing how saying no to distractions, energy-drainers, and people-pleasing can be the key to staying focused and building the life you want.

We’ll dive into how healthy boundaries preserve your time and mental energy, why over-giving leads to burnout and resentment, and how protecting your priorities actually makes you a stronger m...


Season 6 Episode 282: Discipline Over Desire Series: The Foundation: Why Men Need Discipline Part 1
#282
09/17/2025

Sorry for the mini break but Thoughts Of An Average Joe Is Back!! Today we kick off a new series Discipline over Desire. In this powerful kickoff to the Discipline Over Desire series, we break down why discipline is the cornerstone of every man’s success. From building structure and consistency to creating confidence and respect, this episode explores how discipline shapes every area of a man’s life — career, health, relationships, and mindset.

We’ll talk about what discipline really is (and isn’t), the massive advantages it brings, and the hidden costs of living without it. If you’v...


Season 6 Episode 281: Living Paycheck To Paycheck: The Silent Struggle Series: Part 3: Love Costs Too: Dating While Broke w/ Tyler
#281
07/30/2025

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Taroy is back with the part of the Living Paycheck to Paycheck: The Silent Struggle Series. Today's topic is Love Costs Too: Dating While Broke. While Money might not buy love, but being broke can definitely complicate it. In this episode, Taroy & Tyler unpacks the realities of dating when your bank account is on life support. From awkward money conversations to feeling “less than” in relationships, this episode explores the emotional toll and social pressure of trying to find or maintain love while living paycheck to paycheck. It’s honest...


Season 6 Episode 280: Living Paycheck To Paycheck: The Silent Struggle Series: Part 2: Mental Rent Is Due Too: The Emotional Cost
#6
07/23/2025

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." In the second part of the Living Paycheck to Paycheck Series today Taroy talks about the emotional toll of it. Living paycheck to paycheck doesn’t just drain your wallet—it takes a toll on your mind, body, and spirit. In this episode, Taroy dives into the emotional cost of constantly being in survival mode. From anxiety over unexpected bills to the shame of financial struggle, this conversation unpacks the hidden weight that comes with trying to stay afloat. Because even when the lights are on, sometimes your ment...


Season 6 Episode 279: Living Paycheck to Paycheck: The Silent Struggle Series: Part 1: The Cycle: Why We're All Just Getting By
#279
07/02/2025

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Today Taroy kicks off a new series called "Paycheck To Paycheck." The first episode is titled The Cycle: Why We're All Just Getting By, This episode kicks off the series by breaking down what living paycheck to paycheck really looks like and why so many people are stuck in it. From rent increases to stagnant wages and student debt, Taroy dives into the economic and systemic factors that trap even the hardest-working people in survival mode. Tune in share it with a friend and watch the YouTube as well!<...


Season 6 Episode 278: Men & Mental Health: Why We Don't Open Up
#6
06/25/2025

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Today Taroy is solo and the topic is mental health. This episode tackles one of the most important yet often overlooked topics—men’s mental health. Why do so many men suffer in silence? Why is vulnerability seen as weakness? Taroy digs into the cultural stigma, emotional barriers, and societal expectations that keep men from opening up, and explore how we can create a space where being real is a sign of strength, not shame.


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Season 6 Episode 277: What "Being Average: Really Means- And Why It's "Okay"
#277
06/12/2025

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Today Taroy talks about what it means to be really average since he is the "Average Joe." In this episode, we challenge society’s obsession with being “exceptional” and explore what it truly means to be average in today’s world. Taroy breaks down the pressures we all feel to constantly outperform, glow up, or go viral — and asks the honest question: What’s so wrong with just being good enough?

Taroy dives into how social media skews our sense of self-worth, why hustle culture makes people feel like fai...


Season 6 Episode 276: Adult Friendships: Why They're Hard To Maintain
#276
05/21/2025

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In this episode of Thoughts Of An Average Joe, Taroy dives into the real reasons why adult friendships can be so hard to maintain. From the carefree days of school and college to the demanding responsibilities of adulthood—like work, relationships, and family—we explore how and why the dynamics of friendship shift as we grow older. Taroy breaks down the signs of fading friendships, talk about whether it’s worth rekindling certain bonds, and share tips on how to keep meaningful connections alive even when life gets hectic...


Season 6 Episode 275: The Pressure Of "Making It" By 30 w/ Tyler
#275
05/14/2025

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." In this episode Taroy brings Tyler on they dive deep into the overwhelming pressure many people feel to “have it all together” by the time they hit their 30s. From career goals and home ownership to relationships and starting families, society often pushes a strict timeline of what success should look like leaving many of us feeling behind, anxious, or like we’re failing at adulthood.

They unpack where these expectations come from, how social media and culture fuel the comparison trap, and why it’s okay if...


(Bonus) Season 6 Episode 274: Make Wrestling Great Again (WWE Backlash PPV)
#274
05/11/2025

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Today is a bonus episode for my wrestling fans!! This is recap for WWE PLE Backlash. Taroy goes over what happens and what can come from the results of the PLE.


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Season 6 Episode 273: The Pressure Of Being A Black Man Part 1
#273
05/07/2025

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe. Today Taroy is solo talks about being a black man in America and the challenges that he faces in his day to day life.


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Season 6 Episode 272: Standing On Business
#272
04/30/2025

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Today Taroy is solo once again and he discusses that men in relationships needs to stand up for themselves. He also talks about how from here on out he needs to stand on business and talks about his struggle at work as well.


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Season 6 Episode 271: Don't Let People Find You Where They Left You
#271
04/23/2025

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Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Taroy talks about how not to let people find you where they left you meaning if someone decides to end a relationship with you or whatever the case may be always keep progressing. Also, Taroy challenges the men to hold women to the same standards they hold the men to as...


(Bonus) Season 6 Episode 270: The Last Time Is Now (WrestleMania Night Two Thoughts)
#270
04/21/2025

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Welcome back to another episode of Thoughts Of An Average Joe. Taroy recaps night two of WrestleMania and what he thinks is in store for the fallout of WrestleMania.




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(Bonus) Season 6 Episode 269: Seth Rollins The Architect Is Back!! (WrestleMania Night 1 Thoughts)
#269
04/20/2025

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Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Today Taroy nerds out and talks about WrestleMania Night 1. The events that happened and what he thinks what will happen night two and the fallout from all of that. This was spur of the moment. thank you for listening and supporting!!!<...


Season 6 Episode 268: Figuring Out My Future w/ Tyler
#268
04/16/2025

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Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe. Today Taroy brings Tyler on to discuss their futures. Taroy wishes at times he would have finished school and feels unfulfilled at what he's doing in life as he knows what he wants to do just doesn't know how to get there.


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Season 6 Episode 267: The Provider Part 3 w/ Tyler, Harvey, & Tiara
#267
04/02/2025

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." This is part of The Provider which Part 1& 2 I did way back in Season 1. I will put that episode in the description so you can listen to Part 1. Taroy brings on Harvey, Tiara & Tyler as they discuss what providers are, what the wife role is, if they think they are providers. Also, they talk about babies as well. Thank you for listening and supporting.


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Season 6 Episode 266: I'm A No Good Ain't S*** N*gga w/ Tyler
#266
03/12/2025

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Today's episode Taroy brings Tyler back on to discusses why women need Mutiple guy friends to steer them in the right direction sometimes. Tyler discusses why they don't.


(Bonus) Season 6 Episode 265: Running Your Own Race Part 1 w/ Clint Coley
#265
03/05/2025

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Welcome to another episode of "Thought Of An Average Joe." Today Taroy brings on someone he looks up to in the podcast space Clint Coley. They discuss podcasts, sports, women, and running your race. This episode is old but Taroy wanted to drop it so the listeners can say just how far he has come from five years ago to now. Thank you for listening.


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(Bonus) Season 6 Episode 264: The Sell It Economy Part 2 (Six Year Anniversary Episode) w/ Tyler
#264
03/01/2025

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Taroy brings back Tyler to talk about his six years of running "Thoughts Of An Average Joe", his thoughts of the "Sell It Economy", and why women hate to be told No. Thank you for everything over the last six years!! Here is to six more!!


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Season 6 Episode 263: The "Sell It" Economy Part 1
#263
02/26/2025

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Today Taroy is solo and talking about how women say they rather have the money than go on dates and when they happens men get to have sex with them instead of getting to know them. This leads to an epic rant and other instances of how women say they want one thing but really want another. Subscribe to the pod and thank you for listening!!!


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Season 6 Episode 262: For The Real Lovers (Valentines Day Edition) w/ Tyler
#262
02/12/2025

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Taroy is back with another episode with Tyler. The discussion around todays topic is "Are You A Real Lover." We discuss if valentines day is important, how romantic we are, want romantic ideas we would like to execute, and so much more. Happy Valentines Day on Friday!! Don't make no babies!!!


(Bonus) Season 6 Episode 261: Category Game Vol. 2 w/ Socially Thotful Podcast
#261
02/11/2025

Welcome to another bonus episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Taroy brings back Socially Thotful to have another game of the category game.


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(Bonus) Season 6 Episode 260: A Glimmer Of Hope
#260
02/11/2025

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Taroy shares his quick thoughts on the Philadelphia Eagles winning the Super Bowl and why this means so much to him. Fly Eagles Fly.


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Season 6 Episode 259: Adjusting To The Economy
#259
01/22/2025

Welcome to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Todays topic and episode is a solo episode. Taroy is talking about the economy. On the heels of President Trump being elected and his elected treasury official saying he believes min wage should not be increased. Taroy talks about politicians should live like struggling Americans to see how it really is in the USA and how to adjust to this struggling economy.


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Season 6 Episode 258: Having D*ck Control w/ Tyler
#258
01/15/2025

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Taroy is joined by Tyler and they talk about having d*ck control what it means and why every man should have it.


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Season 6 Episode 257: Did Black Men Create BBL Cuture? w/ Tyler
#257
01/08/2025

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Taroy is back with another episode and is joined by Tyler. They discuss if Black men created the BBL Culture and how to fix it if that's possible.


Season 6 Episode 256: The Black Draft w/ Tyler
#256
12/11/2024

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Taroy is back and joined by Tyler as they talk about if there was a black draft who would be drafted and why.


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Season 6 Episode 255: Can Friends Have Sex? w/ Jazz
#255
12/05/2024

Welcome to another "Thursday" drop of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Taroy is back and he brings back Jazz to discuss can friends have sex or does it turn into something more?


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(Bonus) Season 6 Episode 254: Category Game w/ Socially Thotful Podcast
#254
11/28/2024

Welcome back to another episode of "Thoughts Of An Average Joe." Today is a bonus episode I did with socially thotful called The Category Game." Happy thanksgiving to everybody!!


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Instagram: (@_somebodys.son)


Warren Social Media:

Instagram: (@therealdjlevy)


Socially Thotful Podcast Link:

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