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Professional adult voice actress and sex expert, Lewd Lexi answers your questions about sex, relationships, the adult industry, and how you can enhance your sex life in ways you never imagined possible.
105. Don't Think You're Worth Dating? Here's How To Fix That
The single best thing you can do to improve your luck in the dating market? Become a person that you, yourself believe is worth dating. Because if you can't value you yourself, you can't expect anyone else to, either.
This episode is a detailed breakdown on how you can become the 'catch' in the relationship, and start being someone who has women chasing them rather than the other way around.
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104. Should You Talk About Sex On The First Date?
Sexual compatibility is important. No doubt about that. And building sexual tension is a vital part of attraction.
But when do you introduce the topic of sex when meeting a new potential partner? In this episode, I help you master this critical moment!
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103. Why BDSM Went Mainstream
BDSM used to be the sort of thing that nobody ever talked about. Now, you see BDSM equipment being sold openly at shopping malls.
What changed? In this episode, I share the events and the cultural changes that led to so many people embracing the BDSM lifestyle openly!
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102. Stop Ruining Your First Dates By Avoiding These Mistakes
First dates can feel like a lot of pressure. And if your relationships aren't going anywhere after the first date, it can feel like something's genuinely wrong with you.
While nothing can save the date if you two just aren't a match, most people make at least one of the mistakes I share in this episode!
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101. What Are Some Dark Truths About The Porn Industry?
Although many advancements have been made, the porn industry is still full of unethical - and sometimes illegal behavior.
In this episode, I go behind-the-scenes to unveil some of the harsh realities that happen behind closed doors, that most consumers aren't aware of.
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100. 7 Quick Tips To Help Get Over Your Ex
If you recently had a breakup, it can feel like your entire world collapsed, and your entire life is put on hold. The feeling sucks, and I can empathize with you.
However, it's not pleasant to be stuck feeling this way forever. So, in this episode, I'll go over some of my best tips to help you move forward and get your life back!
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99. Can You Give Yourself A New Fetish?
In one of the first episodes of this podcast, I covered whether or not you can make yourself get rid of a fetish. Now I'd like to look at the opposite side of the coin - can you give yourself a new fetish on purpose?
Sexuality isn't fixed, and tastes change. So, I thought this would be an interesting topic to delve into!
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98. How Do You Know If You Are 'Settling' For Your Partner?
Are you truly happy with your partner, or have you just convinced yourself that they're the best you'll get? This is a scary thought, and can lead to resentment, disappointment, and dissatisfaction in the relationship.
In this episode I help you take an honest look, and help you decide whether you two are truly meant for each other or not.
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97. Does Penis Size Actually Matter?
Ahh, the ultimate question. Does penis size actually matter, or is it truly about 'how you use it?'
I dug into actual blind studies to find the answers to this question, so we can finally settle this once and for all.
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96. Do Women REALLY Like Dad Bods?
We're trained to think that women's ultimate fantasy is the bodybuilder with six-pack abs. So when women say that they also appreciate a nice dad bod, are they actually telling the truth, or just being nice?
There are biological and psychological reasons why women prefer one over the other, and I found the science behind this one really interesting. In this episode, I uncover the truth!
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95. Is It Normal To Think About Other People During Sex?
Let's be honest - when we're horny, our minds wander. And if you're actively thinking about another person during sex, you may be wondering if something's wrong with you.
But is this normal? Is it considered a form of cheating? And finally, what if (if anything) should be done about it? I answer all of these questions and more in today's episode!
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94. Body Language Cheatsheet: Practice These To Become More Attractive!
Studies show that 55% of our communication is done through body language alone. And the same person can be seen as 'incredibly attractive' or 'uncomfortable creep' simply due to the signals you're giving off.
In this episode I give you some pointers on body language, and how to use it to instantly make yourself appear more attractive to others!
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93. Why Is Step-Cest Porn So Popular?
Go to the front page of any major tube site, and you're bound to run into plenty of step-mom, step-sister, and step-daughter content. But it didn't used to be like this.
In this episode, I delve into why step-cest porn suddenly became so popular, why studios love to produce it, and what this means about our sexuality.
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<...92. Should You Really 'Be Yourself' While Dating?
'Just be yourself' is one of the most overused pieces of dating advice ever shared. But is there truth to it? What if you're not proud of who you actually are?
In this episode, I talk about how you can present your authentic self while meeting new people, while maximizing your chances for a successful date.
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91. What To Do When One Partner Has A Higher Sex Drive
Mismatches sex drives can put a strain on any relationship, but it doesn't mean that you two are fundamentally incompatible. In this episode, I cover practical solutions when one partner has a high sex drive than the other, and how you two can tackle this common problem together!
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90. How To Approach Women When You're Very Shy
You know you have to talk to women if you want to get a date, but the thought of doing so can be agonizing. Thankfully, there is a method that anyone can try that takes the fear away - and builds your confidence to approach people more casually in the future.
Because if you can master the approach, you WILL get a date, no matter what you look like, or who you are. Tune in to today's episode to learn more!
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89. Why Is Japan So Obsessed With Boobs (And Why No Love For The Butt)
It's no secret that Japan loves boobs. Everything from to their art to their clothing are made to accentuate the breast. But how did this love for breasts come to be, and more importantly, why no love for the butt? I tackle this extremely important question in today's episode!
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88. How To Move On After A Long-Term Relationship
When a long-term relationship ends, it can be devastating to deal with - even if you agree it was for the best. While some grieving for the relationship is natural, it can be very easy to get stuck in cycles of depression and longing for the life you once had.
In this episode, I'll go over how you can process your feelings and move on from the relationship in a healthy and satisfying way.
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87. Dating - Should You Wait Until You're Ready?
Dating is tough - especially in the modern age, where real human connection is seriously lacking. But how do you know when you're ready to tackle the challenge of dating someone new, and when should you actually start trying? Answers in today's episode!
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86. Why Are We So Lonely? - Analyzing Modern Isolation
Scientists say we are in a 'loneliness epidemic', and having worked with so many people, I believe this to be absolutely true. But in a world where we are supposedly more connected than ever, why are so many people feeling so alone - and what can we do about it?
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85. Why Do Some People Like Rough Sex (And Others Don't?)
Rough sex - some people love it, and others loathe it. Which, can pose a problem if your partner holds the opposite stance as you. In this episode, I cover both what makes it appealing to some, while repulsive to others - and why your stance is legitimate, regardless of how you feel about it.
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84. Where Can You Meet Women These Days (Outside Dating Apps?)
I'll be honest - dating isn't even remotely similar to it was when your parents were doing it. With Tinder and swipe culture running the dating world, it can make you feel like there's no way to actually meet women in the real world these days.
Thankfully, if you know where to look - and how to approach meeting people in person, you can have a FAR better experience than dating apps could ever provide!
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<...83. Do Men Or Women Enjoy Sex More?
We know that both men and women love sex, but at the same time, we experience it differently. This episode covers what aspects are better for men, which are better for women, and how you can ensure the BOTH of you are having a great time in bed!
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82. The Rise Of Ethical Porn - Why More People Are Enjoying It
Porn isn't exactly known for being the most wholesome of industries - and even today, there is still a lot of manipulation and abuse going on behind-the-scenes. Thankfully, new ethical porn options have popped up over the last 10 years, and more people are flocking to it than ever! This episode acts as an introduction to ethical porn, and why it's worth thinking more about!
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81. Are Pickup Lines Dead?
Pickup lines used to be all the rage - but they've transformed dramatically in the past few decades - and even the last few years! Do they still work, or should they be left in the past? And how do you deliver them without embarrassing yourself? This episode takes a critical look at modern dating culture, and where the pickup line fits within it.
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80. The Psychology Behind Fetishes And Kinks
How are kinks and fetishes developed? Heck, what is the difference between the two? And how can our life's experiences shape what we become interested in sexually? In this episode, I'll be answering all of these questions and more!
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79. How Long Does Sex Last On Average? (Plus Science-Based Ways To Last Longer!)
Porn gives the impression that sex is meant to be a marathon, but reality paints a far different picture. In this episode, we'll cover how long sex ACTUALLY lasts based on real couples, plus some neat ways you can last longer in bed while still having a good time!
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78. Do Soulmates Really Exist? Here's The Truth...
Soulmates - or the idea that there is one perfect person out there we're destined to be with, is a tale as old as time. Or is it? This episode covers the arguments both for and against the idea of soulmates, as well as examining the idea of soulmates throughout history.
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77. Why Don't I Find Masturbation Satisfying Or Pleasurable?
Masturbation is supposed to be fun, and feel good. But for some people, it can feel like a chore at best, or even physically unpleasant at worst. Why does this happen, and how can we fix it? This episode will share some ideas that might help!
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76. Why Do So Many Porn Sites Abandon Their Series'?
Ever wonder why so many porn websites haven't updated certain series' or channels in years? It turns out, there's a lot of good reasons for it... and some shady ones as well. This episode digs behind-the-scenes of the ways porn sites operate to help give you some insight!
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75. Do Men Get Hotter With Age? (And Why You Should Feel Optimistic!)
Aging affects all differently, but men have more reason to be optimistic than women do. In this episode, I'll cover how to use your age as an asset, ensuring that you only get MORE attractive as time goes on!
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74. 9 Stigmas Sex Workers (Like Myself) Face
Although it comes with its rewards, the life of a sex worker isn't always easy. This episode delves behind-the-scenes and covers some of the stigmas sex workers face, both from individuals and from society at large.
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73. Are There Any Legitimate Ways To Increase Penis Size?
The internet is riddled with fake ads for penis enlargement pills, magical supplements and other nonsense that claims to help enlarge your penis. But are there really any legitimate ways to make your penis larger? This episode delves into the science of penis enlargement, helps you identify scams, and shares what ACTUALLY works!
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72. Should You REALLY Be Friends With Your Ex?
Remaining friends with an ex is risky - some people can make it work, while for others it's a recipe for disaster. This episode will help you decide when it's a good idea, and when you should leave your former partner in the past!
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71. 5 Ways To Enjoy Porn That You Might Not Have Tried
With technology changing faster than ever, there are entirely new ways to enjoy porn that you might not have heard of before!
They say porn is the main driver of new technology, after all.
So, in this episode, I'll cover 5 ideas worth considering if you want to mix things up!
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70. 12 Good First Date Ideas (That Aren't A Movie Or Dinner!)
If you want to stand out, you'll want to skip out on the classic movie or dinner date idea. There's nothing wrong with them, but they are forgettable at best, while giving you chance to actually get to know each other at worse.
In this episode I'll go over 12 first date ideas that are unique, memorable, and fun - creating a great memory for the both of you!
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<...69. The Hymen - What It Is, And Breaking Myths
Few pieces of the human body are as mystical as the hymen. While simply a tiny part of a woman, the hymen has been given great cultural significance.
This episode will share in detail what the hymen actually is, why most girls have one, and break down some of the myths regarding it!
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68. Why People Ghost (And How To Handle It)
One of the worst things to come out of modern dating is the concept of ghosting.
Now that things are done over text, one can simply disappear forever at a moment's notice. But what is the reasoning behind this phenomenon, and what should you do if you are in fact ghosted?
This episode shares my best advice!
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67. Does Porn Change Your Sexual Orientation?
In recent years, we've seen a rise in people questioning their sexuality, believing that it has been permanently changed or altered by porn.
But does porn have the capability to actually change your underlying sexual orientation - and if so, under what circumstances?
In this episode, we look over the evidence - both scientific and anecdotal, to uncover how exactly porn shapes our sexuality.
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66. Attachment Styles - Everything You Need To Know
Did you know that everyone falls into one of 4 'attachment styles', that shape how you approach relationships, and handle conflicts?
By understanding which of these you and your partner fall into, you can take steps to resolve disagreements quicker, grow more close, or seek out more compatible partners while dating!
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