The Redeemed Marriage Podcast
Rusty and Heather guide couples as they encourage healthy marriages, heal wounded marriages, and begin restoration of broken marriages.
What Does Pursuit Look Like to Your Spouse?
This week, we tackle a listener question that sparked a really honest conversation in our own marriage: How do you pursue your spouse without making them feel like your pursuit […]
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You Hear Me, But You Don’t Hear Me
This week we’re celebrating a huge milestone—250 episodes of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast! To mark the occasion, we’re answering a question about one of the most practical tools we’ve ever […]
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Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?
This week in our Summer Shorts series, we’re answering a hard but honest question that so many couples wrestle with after betrayal: “Once a cheater, always a cheater?” We talk […]
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Summer Shorts: The “Even-If” Kind of Love
This week’s episode is a special one for us. We just walked through one of the most meaningful weeks of our lives as we celebrated our son Luke’s wedding, and […]
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Dating Then vs Now: When Love Took Effort
In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, we found ourselves feeling a little nostalgic. With our oldest son’s wedding just days away and a Chicago concert on the calendar, […]
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When Life Gets Chaotic, Stay Connected
Are you in a busy season of life where everything feels overwhelming and your marriage is starting to feel the strain? In this episode, we share what it looks like […]
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Why Your Marriage Isn’t Changing
We used to believe that if we prayed hard enough, stayed hopeful enough, and just waited long enough… our marriage would eventually get better. But what we’ve learned—both personally and […]
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You Didn’t Choose Them…You Chose You
In this episode, we talk about one of the hardest questions that comes up in marriage, especially after betrayal: how could you choose that over me? We’ve come to realize […]
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Resurrection Is Possible in Your Marriage
Resurrection is not just something we celebrate at Easter. It is something we can experience in our marriages. We know what it feels like to be stuck. We know what […]
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24 Hours Can Change Your Marriage
Sometimes we look at our marriage and feel overwhelmed by everything that needs to change. The conversations. The habits. The distance. The hurt. And if we’re honest… it can feel […]
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The Conversations You’re Afraid to Have
In working with couples, one of the things we hear over and over again is that communication is their biggest struggle. But when we slow that down and really look […]
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Breaking the Chains of Shame: Rewriting Your Identity After Infidelity
This week we’re sitting down to talk about something that can feel absolutely suffocating — shame and guilt. During a recent Q&A, someone asked how you move forward when it […]
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Breaking the Chains of Shame
This week we’re sitting down to talk about something that can feel absolutely suffocating — shame and guilt. During a recent Q&A, someone asked how you move forward when it […]
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Build the Fortress: Boundaries That Protect What You Love Most
In this episode, we’re talking about something that can make people uncomfortable pretty quickly: boundaries. Over the past few months, we’ve received a lot of questions about opposite-sex friendships, digital […]
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How to Pray For Your Marriage (Without Trying to Control the Outcome)
This month, we’ve had the privilege of praying for marriages every single day — reading names, lifting up stories, and standing in the gap for couples who are hurting, hoping, […]
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The Wait Is Over: Our Story Like You’ve Never Seen It Before
After years of being asked for a way to share their story in a deeper way, Rusty and Heather Bryant are finally unveiling something that has been over six months […]
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Why Your Expectations Are Killing Your Intimacy
In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant address one of the most common sources of frustration in marriage: unmet expectations. Using Valentine’s Day as a […]
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Choosing To Stay When Walking Away Feels Easier
In this deeply honest episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant continue the conversation around healing after infidelity by turning the focus to a perspective that is […]
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Choosing To Stay When Walking Away Feels Easier
In this deeply honest episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant continue the conversation around healing after infidelity by turning the focus to a perspective that is […]
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What I Needed You to Know After You Broke Trust
In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage, Rusty and Heather step into one of the most critical—and often misunderstood—moments in the healing journey: the days immediately following confession. Speaking honestly […]
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This Is All I Have Left
This week on The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant share what happens when prayer is no longer a routine—but the only place left to turn. In this episode, […]
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Why Healing Feels Stuck After Betrayal
In this episode of the The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, we talk about a season many couples don’t expect—and few are prepared for—the frustration stage of healing after betrayal. After confession, […]
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Starting the Year Right: Personal Goals That Lead to a Healthier Marriage
As the new year begins, Rusty and Heather invite listeners into a conversation about goals, growth, and the role personal responsibility plays in a thriving marriage. In this first episode […]
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Everyone Needs a Pennye: Walking Faithfully Through Marital Crisis
What does real healing look like after betrayal—and who walks with you when the shock wears off and the long road begins? In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, […]
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Heather Pressed Play. Rusty Turned Christmas Songs into Marriage Advice.
In this lighthearted and completely unscripted Christmas episode, Rusty and Heather shake things up with a game that was not planned and definitely not rehearsed. Heather presses play on a […]
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Naughty or Nice? Let Santa Call Your Spouse
The Christmas season is full—but marriage still matters. In this episode, Rusty and Heather take a lighter turn and talk about the importance of intentional fun, laughter, and making memories […]
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The Christmas Our Marriage Wasn’t OK
In this deeply vulnerable Christmas episode, Rusty and Heather revisit their first holiday season after the affair—only four months into the most painful chapter of their marriage. While Christmas is […]
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More on Healing Intimacy After Betrayal with Debby Wade
In this follow-up conversation, Rusty and Heather continue their discussion with certified sex therapist Debby Wade as they discuss the real questions couples face when rebuilding intimacy after betrayal. Debby […]
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From Fixing My Spouse to Surrendering My Heart
There’s a reason certain questions rise to the surface at 2:00 a.m.—the hour when the house is quiet and the worries feel loudest. One of the questions couples wrestle with […]
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The Midnight Lie: I Wasn’t Enough
We’re continuing our discussion on the questions that keep us awake at 2 a.m.—the ones that every married couple wrestles with at some point, especially those walking through betrayal or […]
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When Shame Whispers: What’s Wrong With Me?
We all have those 2 a.m. moments—the questions that swirl in our minds when everything feels quiet but our thoughts are loud. This week, Heather leads the conversation with raw […]
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Can I Ever Trust You Again?
It’s 2 a.m. and your mind won’t stop racing. The question that keeps circling is one that hurts the most: Can I ever really trust you again? In this raw […]
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Can Our Marriage Really Survive This?
What do you do when you’re lying awake at two in the morning, wondering if your marriage can really survive what’s happened? In this episode, Rusty and Heather Bryant open […]
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Montana Moments: Behind the Scenes of Our Retreat and New Book
Rusty and Heather take you behind the scenes of their recent marriage retreat in breathtaking Montana — where four couples joined for an intimate, unforgettable experience. Between hiking Glacier National […]
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Rethinking Spiritual Leadership in Marriage: From Pressure to Partnership
In this live episode from beautiful Montana, Rusty and Heather unpack what spiritual leadership in marriage truly looks like—and what it doesn’t. Many couples carry confusion or guilt around who […]
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Stop the Crazy Cycle: Love the Way They Want to Be Loved
Newly engaged or decades in? This candid conversation with Rusty and Heather unpacks one of the most practical skills for a healthy marriage: love your spouse the way they want […]
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Expectations: The Silent Marriage Killer
Expectations can make or break a marriage—and they’re usually invisible until they collide. In this honest, light-hearted episode, Rusty and Heather share real stories (toilet seats, toothpaste, yard work, and […]
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Protect Your Marriage: Boundary Conversations for Every Couple
This week on The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather continue their special “Before the Vows” series—an honest, hope-filled look at what every couple needs to know before (and after) […]
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Before the Vows: Marriage Truths We Wish We Knew Sooner
This week on The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather kick off a brand-new series called “Before the Vows.” Inspired by their son’s recent engagement, they share timeless truths that […]
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August 23, 2011: The Confession That Changed Our Marriage Forever
In a single night, a confession of infidelity shattered their marriage—and opened the door for God to rewrite their story. On August 23, 2011, Rusty and Heather Bryant’s marriage faced […]
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