You Forgot That I Existed

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You Forgot That I Existed is conversations between two friends with moms with Alzheimer's Disease.  Joanna's mom is currently in a memory care facility.   Sue's mom has passed from this cruel disease.   While Joanna and Sue are not experts in the field of Alzheimer care,  they will share what they have learned re: assisted living , finances, and legally caring for aging loved ones.   The hosts keep it light by peppering in stories of their college kids, dogs, books,  & pop culture.     

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It's Our Leather Anniversary!
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It's our 3 Year annivrsary this week.  Can you believe?!?

This week we are updating you on GAGA,  promoting the Dallas Dementia Symposium in Dallas SEPT 18,  & introducing you to GUIDE, a federal program that can help provide cargiving help.

This episode starts off strong with Joanna throwing a fit.  Lots of menopause talk this week :)

Also discussing The Pastor's Wife and Earle Meets World on Netflix.


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Search Party
08/18/2026

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This Week!

 Sue, her friend Michelle,  and Tina from Ruby Care Senior Advisors set out on a search for memory care for Michelle's awesome dad!   Sue explains what Ruby Care does and how beneficial this service is when looking for senior living.

Sue & Joanna discuss MAID,  University Of Alabama chapter of Sigma Kappa and their support of The Alz Assoc.,   and for fun  they are both watching Sterling Point on Amazon Prime.  YAY! 


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Robot Wheelchairs
07/16/2026

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We're all over the place today!  

Our Bff gets married.

Katie Couric gets amnesia.

The UK continues to make breakthroughs in Alzheimer's research.

Hearing loss contributes to dementia.

Robot wheelchairs at LAX.

Booty padded undies.

Enjoy!



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Can I Ask You a Question? #10
06/11/2026

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This Week!  Listener's Questions!

More crafty scams are targeting you.  Recognize the signs of a scam and protect yourself and loved ones.

Dying with Dignity...Where do you stand and is this even considerable for Alzheimer's  or Dementia patients?

Father's day !  Gift ideas and when do you let the kids handle dad's day.


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Grad Season!
05/20/2026

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We're celebrating 2 graduations this week!  Joanna graduated from Flight Attendant training (again) and Sue's son graduates college!

Also!  We have and update on Gaga,  talk GLP-1 for Alzheimers, and preventative health screenings and vaccines.

Things we are loving this week:  Famesick by Lena Dunham,  Margo's Got Money Troubles on Apple, and The Testaments on hulu.


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Wildest Dreams
04/30/2026

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This Week!  Special Guest Suzanne McElhaney shares her journey through caregiving for her mother, navigating emotional and physical challenges, and finding support and coping strategies. Discover practical advice, community insights, and mindfulness techniques to support caregivers in similar situations.

Joanna shares her new career move (again). and shares What's Up With Gaga!

Sue gets her 2nd colonoscopy!  yay!

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When Working Together Doesn't Work
04/08/2026

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In this episode, Joey Shewee, a seasoned Enneagram expert and author of When Working Together Doesn't Work, shares her deep understanding of this personality system and how it can transform personal and professional relationships. Whether you're new to the Enneagram or looking to deepen your knowledge, Joey offers practical insights for everyday life.    

We discuss how the enneagram and Joey's book can help with family and workplace environments!

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How Old Are You Today?
03/26/2026

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This week Sue chats with author Glenna Hecht who shares her inspiring journey of caring for her mother with dementia, introducing her transformative game that rekindled their relationship and offers practical insights for caregivers. This episode explores emotional resilience, innovative caregiving strategies, and the power of love and presence.

What started as a personal experience has become a movement. Glenna's goal is to get this book into 200,000 hands and donate $2 million to Alzheimer's dementia research. She is donating 30 % of this book's profits to that cause. 

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Sko Buffs!
03/18/2026

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This Week! 

 We discuss a recent study out of CU Boulder ,  The other 'Alzheimer's protein': The quest to prevent toxic tau buildup in the brain.   CU Boulder Today | University of Colorado Boulder  

We're always looking for hope in Alzheimer's treatment and want to share latest breakthroughs  in neurodegenerative disease treatment.

We also recap the oscars and share some favorite things!  

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Bonus! Talking TV
03/11/2026

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This week we chat about television shows and the comfort or escapism it provides.

Do you escape into Reality TV?  competition shows?  Medical dramas?  We love it all!

We also preview what's coming up on the pod! 

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Can I Ask You A Question? #9
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03/03/2026

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We love answering listener's questions!  

This week we answer a question that comes up a lot!   Is Joanna always so cheery? The answer is of course,  no, and trigger warning, we play an audio of her in the depths of sadness after a rough visit with Gaga.  

When do you look into rehoming pets if your loved one is starting to neglect?

How do you feel about therapy? How important is finding a therapist you vibe with?


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I Don't Want To Wait
#5
02/19/2026

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Are you putting off any health or cancer screenings?   Please make that call.  What are you waiting for? 

This week we discuss our disappointment in finding out a revered longevity Dr.  is in the E Files  &

You don't truly understand challenges until you experience them yourself.Caregiving involves learning from mistakes and adapting to new situations.Health awareness is crucial, especially regarding preventative care like colonoscopies.Media representations can influence our understanding of aging and illness.

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A Little Help From Our Friends
#4
02/03/2026

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This Week!  

We reached out to members of our facebook group and asked what advice they would share with someone starting a caregiving journey.    The information and advise is really great!!   Things we had never thought of before.  Good Stuff!


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A Bridge Too Far
#3
01/28/2026

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This week!  

We reflect on recent violent events, & discuss the implications of current events on personal lives.

 -navigate the complexities of power of attorney and guardianship. 

 - define the role of ombudsman in care facilities.

What's Up With Gaga & Tales from the Bus Barn!


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Shannon Beard : Rock On part 2!
#2
01/21/2026

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Friend of the POD, Shannon Beard, is back to  share her journey of caring for her mother with dementia, detailing the challenges faced in medical care & the importance of guardianship. 

She discusses the changes that occurred after her mother's placement in a care facility, the struggles with communication and care, and the eventual need for end-of-life decisions.  Shannon also reflects on her coping mechanisms after her mother's passing and offers valuable advice for others in similar situations.

Great Conversation with so much useful info!

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Back To Reality
#1
01/14/2026

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YAY!!! We're Back!   We have updates on our holiday experiences, family dynamics, and the challenges of raising adult children. 

Sue was ordained and performed her first wedding ceremony!  Joanna had a family filled Christmas vacation and shares What's Up With GAGA!

As we transition into the New Year, Joanna set her intention and it's a doozy!

The conversation wraps up with a preview of future episodes, including a discussion on Heated Rivalry.   

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Can I Ask You A Question # 8
#25
11/11/2025

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We're going to start our Holiday Hiatus but first ....

Joanna & Sue answer some listener's questions regarding the upcoming holidays.

We celebrate TX passing Prop 14,  which will fund Dementia research including Alzheimer's and Parkinson's.  


Tales From The Bus Barn,  the benefits of Snapchat filters,  & Favorite Things. This week we are loving the new Apple  tv show Pluribus and memoir " I Wrote This For Attention "  by Lukas Gage.



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Proposition 14 !!!
#24
10/28/2025

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In the upcoming November 4, 2025, election, Proposition 14 is a proposed Texas constitutional amendment to create and fund the Dementia Prevention and Research Institute of Texas (DPRIT). If approved, the proposition would establish the largest state-funded dementia research program in the United States. 

 The amendment would allocate an initial $3 billion from the state's general revenue to establish the Dementia Prevention and Research Fund.The funding is designated for research, prevention, and treatment of dementia, Alzheimer's disease, Parkinson's disease, and related neurological disorders.



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Finger Fun!
#23
10/21/2025

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Can hand coordination exercises really increase cognitive functions? 

In this  episode, Joanna & Sue  discuss a variety of topics ranging from brain health exercises to the importance of strength training and the challenges of parenting. They share personal anecdotes, explore cultural commentary, and delve into their current interests, including history and recommendations for shows and books. The conversation flows naturally, highlighting their chemistry and shared experiences, while also addressing serious issues like Alzheimer's prevention.

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Changes
10/01/2025

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Change is inevitable.   Sometimes exciting, sometimes sad. 

This week Joanna attends her 30th HS class reunion and realizes so much can change but still be exactly how you remember it.  

We also talk about Gaga's decline and how this recent change effects Joanna and her strategies used to take care of herself.

Tales from The Bus Barn is back with the cutest 4 yr olds!

Favorite Things :  The Swifty and The Scholar.  Check it out!



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Tales From The Bus Barn
#21
09/09/2025

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We share some life updates that include Joanna's hilarious stories from the bus barn with her amazing pre-schoolers.  This is going to be fun.

We highlight Emma Willis' new book, 

The Unexpected Journey: Finding Strength, Hope, and Yourself on the Caregiving Path.

Our Fave Things this week are Ohora Nails,  The Runarounds on Amazon Prime,  The Gambler & His Cowboys on Netflix,  & Unknown Number, The High School Catfish.


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Bonus Tracks!
08/28/2025

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This Week we were playing with a new sound and camera situation and this ended up being some bonus content!

A caregiver team hit with new challenges.Getting the kids moved for fall semester and new jobs!Joanna's newest side hustle.The positive effects of a Parks and Rec rewatch!



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Showgirls!
#20
08/13/2025

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This Week!  

 We discuss Taylor Swift's upcoming appearance on the New Heights podcast.  You're Welcome!

 Explore fascinating research on lithium and its potential benefits for Alzheimer's.

 Navigate the complexities of Filial Responsibility Laws. 

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Meet Susanne White, Caregiver Warrior!
#19
08/05/2025

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 Joanna talks with Susanne White, the Caregiver Warrior, about her personal journey as a caregiver and the lessons learned along the way. They discuss the importance of self-care for caregivers, coping strategies, and the emotional toll of caregiving. Suzanne shares insights on building relationships with loved ones, understanding parental resistance to help, and the significance of community support. The conversation emphasizes the need for caregivers to trust themselves and find joy amidst the challenges they face.

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The Wheels On The Bus
#18
07/30/2025

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This Week!  Joanna is back behind the wheel of the big bus!

Navigating Health Insurance 

Mind-Bending Medical Advances: Dogs Detecting Parkinson's 

"Walk With Me " Upcoming documentary about navigating early onset Alzheimer's 

Some favorite things this week are 

The Hunting Wives & Happy Gilmore 2

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Alzheimer's, Ozempic, & Bears! Oh My!
#17
07/22/2025

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Sue is back from hiking in Montana with BEARS!

Joanna masters cooking rice.  

Are weight loss / diabetes medications reducing your risk of Dementia?

Listen to WUWG segment to see what Gaga is getting up to this week.

Some favorite things are  docs My Mom Jayne (hbo), & Amy Bradley is Missing (netflix ),  and Stick on appleTV

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Truth, Strength, & Clarity w/ Sandy Moss Moder
#16
06/24/2025

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Meet author Sandy Moss Moder!  This conversation delves into the deeply personal journey of caregiving for a loved one with frontotemporal degeneration (FTD).   Sandy wrote a stunning memoir,  If I Have One More Brain Thing..., chronicling her experiences, the emotional and physical challenges she faced, and the importance of self-advocacy and support systems. 

Our discussion highlights the complexities of  loss, financial struggles, and the necessity of self-care. 

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Call Her Gaga!
#15
06/18/2025

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Fun Episode with lots of updates on our Favorite Gaga!  Her personality and musical talents are shining!

We highlight Lauren and Seth Rogan's collab with Caring Across Generations. We need to understand the  potential cuts to Medicaid and call our legislation and try to prevent.   

 Fave Things This Week!

Joanna throws herself into learning history and we both love the Call Her Alex documentary on Hulu!





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Meet Karen Klassen, Encourager
#14
06/11/2025

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This week we welcome Karen Klassen to the pod.  Karen shares her experiences from her time in the corporate world , caregiving for her parents,  and   starting her multiple businesses.  She reminded us that caregiving, while challenging, is also a powerful teacher. There’s so much purpose and possibility.  To learn more about Karen's work or to connect with her coaching programs visit her on instagram @recipesforyourlife or her website https://recipesforyourlife.com/



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Smell The Rosemary Sharpen The Mind
#13
06/03/2025

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Joanna is back from her big girl work trip to Greece!  Yay!  

This Week

 *A new blood test for diagnosing Alzheimer's, emphasizing the importance of early detection. 

*Rosemary and it's brain benefits!

*The Handmaid's Tale finale,  Sirens,  The Better Sister, and Pee Wee As Himself are some of our favorite watches this week.

*Taylor buys her Master's back!!!!!!!


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Mother's Day
05/14/2025

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 This week we reflect on the complexities of Mother's Day, sharing personal stories of loss and remembrance,  discussing the emotional challenges faced by those who have lost their mothers or have complicated relationships with them. The conversation shifts to recent developments in Alzheimer's drug research, highlighting the potential benefits of a new experimental drug.

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Telepathy Tapes & Taking Care
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04/29/2025

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This Week - Joanna & Sue saw Kendrick & SZA :)

We discuss an episode of The Telepathy Tapes where a man begins telepathically communicating with his nonverbal wife w/ Alzheimer's.

Check out the documentary Taking Care by Lauren Miller Rogen and Seth Rogen. We learn how caring for Lauren's mom with early Alzheimer's has inspired Lauren and Seth to start Hilarity For Charity . The film hopes to encourage brain health, support caregivers, and advocate for a future centered on dementia prevention, treatment, and support. 

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Can I Ask You A Question? #7
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04/22/2025

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This week we share recent experiences with Easter celebrations, family traditions, and the challenges of caregiving, particularly in relation to Alzheimer's. 

We answer listeners questions about holidays and Assisted Living,  Adult Day Care,  and when your loved one loses their filter.

Keep the Questions Coming!  

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Understanding Medicare: What You Need to Know
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04/15/2025

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In this episode, Joanna, Sue, and guest Rory Payne discuss the complexities of Medicare and insurance, focusing on the different parts of Medicare, the costs associated with it, and the importance of long-term care and final expense insurance. 

Rory explains the differences between Medicare supplements and Advantage plans, the significance of timing when purchasing insurance, and how family history can impact insurance eligibility. 

The conversation emphasizes the need for trusted guidance in navigating the healthcare system and insurance options.

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Hormones, Herpes, and Gaga's Need For Speed
04/02/2025

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This week's Takeaways...

Don't make hair decisions when you have PMS.   

Herpes, Antiviral Meds, and Alzheimer's.  Read about this study at cle.clinic/ALZstudy

When Gaga mentions she misses driving, Joanna takes her to the grocery store to drive a scooter cart.  She was a pro! 

We also chat Severance, The Pitt, and White Lotus!  

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Only The Young
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03/18/2025

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In this episode, Joanna and Sue interview Emma Lewis and Morgan McCrea, first-year PhD students in the Developmental and Regenerative Sciences program at UTSA. They discuss their research in neuroscience, particularly focusing on Alzheimer's disease, and share their personal motivations for pursuing this field. The conversation covers the challenges of funding in research, innovative techniques being used in studies, and their aspirations for the future of Alzheimer's treatments. The episode highlights the importance of research in understanding and potentially preventing neurodegenerative diseases.

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Lady Brains & the Key To Alzheimer's
03/11/2025

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Do women's brains hold the key to Alzheimers?

Can eating 2 eggs a day reduce Alzheimer's risk?  

We're sharing everything we learned this week re: this research.

Also chat about the passing of Gene Hackman,  Medicare Questions, and the delightful escape show

With Love, Meghan  w/ Meghan Duchess of Sussex!


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Oral Health, Alzheimer's , and The Oscars!
03/04/2025

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This week we recap the Oscars,

Get an update on our amazing Gaga,

 and chat about the potential  link between Oral hygiene and Alzheimer's disease.


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Little Lies
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02/18/2025

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Sometimes you gotta lie, fib, and fabricate a story to break news to your loved one.  The term "Compassionate Deception "sounds so much nicer.

We discuss creative approach to breaking difficult news and share how one family used celebrity Cameo messages to tell their dad he was being move into Assisted  Living.  

 Joanna and Sue  explore the emotional challenges involved, the importance of compassion,  strategies for navigating tough conversations, and the  role of external resources and support systems for caregivers.

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Remembering Janet on her Birthday!
#3
02/11/2025

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This week Joanna and Sue welcome Sue's brother Tom to the podcast!   Janet would have been 91 today so we wanted to celebrate her and share some memories! 

Tom & Sue reflect on their mother's life, her influence as a single parent, and the challenges they faced as a family. They discuss the signs of Alzheimer's, share cherished childhood memories, and explore the dynamics of their upbringing, emphasizing the lessons learned from their mother's resilience and support. 

The discussion then shifts to Tom's journey into wrestling refereeing, highlighting the challenges and exp...