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Vogue called Tracy Ellis Ross’s afro a “cloud bob,” and I couldn’t let that slide. Not because the photo wasn’t stunning, but because that one little rename reveals a whole system: the way Black hair gets rejected as “too much” until it’s repackaged with softer language for a wider audience. The hair didn’t change. The narrative did. And when the narrative changes, so does who gets access, who gets praised, and who gets policed.

As a hairstylist, I’ve watched Black women carry the weight of other people’s opini...

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Hair Loss, Homelessness, and Hope; Arianna Howell shares a powerful journey from childhood instability and homelessness to becoming a licensed natural hairstylist and founder of The Hair Care Project. What happens when you have always been known for your hair, and suddenly you are experiencing hair loss from stress and iron deficiency anemia? We talk about the emotional side of that shift; identity, confidence, and what it really feels like when your “crown” starts to change.

Arianna also breaks down the real science behind hair...

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In this episode of Hair What I’m Saying, we unpack Black men, texturism, and identity through one deeply personal story.

DK shares his journey from high-top fades to S-Curls, chasing a look that felt polished, acceptable, and confident. What started as influence from a cousin turned into years of chemical processing, wave caps, brushing routines, and the legendary “red box.” But when thinning began at 25, the conversation shifted. Was it genetics, chemicals, or something bigger?

We explore how texturism shaped his understanding of “good hair,” h...

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Hair isn’t just style; it’s code, history, and identity. In this episode on texturism and Black men, we sit down with Darius of Premium Fade League to explore how styles like Duke and S-Curl shaped Black men’s identity, masculinity, and ideas of what looks “professional” or “clean.” From the 70s through the 90s and into today, we unpack how texture became tied to acceptance and survival.

Darius shares his personal journey, barber-chair insights, and the technical truths behind fades...

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Memory carries what our kids forget, especially when those memories live in our hands. In this Black girl hairconversation, I sit with my daughter, Majik, for a mother and daughter reflection on Black girl identity and the emotional roots behind our hair journeys. As a mother, I revisit the moment a little boy called her locs ugly, and how that moment shaped her early sense of identity as a Black girl.

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In this episode of Hair What I’m Saying, we unpack the haircut that went viral on TikTok and why it sparked so much emotion. From the fear many Black women have around cutting their hair to the deep emotional attachment we place on our strands, we dive into the psychology behind why haircuts can feel personal.

I break down the importance of consultations and clear communication with your stylist, showing why understanding your hair’s health is more important than just chasing leng...

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Labels make hair feel simple, until they don’t. In Curl Myths Pt. 2, we move past the alphabet soup of curl types and dig into what actually matters for real results in hair care. Let’s talk texture, not type, and shift the focus to porosity, density, elasticity, moisture–protein balance, and how your scalp and strands respond to water, products, heat, and climate.

I share why the popular curl pattern chart feels validating yet fails to guide actual care, how marketing leans on those labels to sell you more, and what y...

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The curl chart went viral, but it never learned your life. We sit down with Minnie of Shag Noir Salon ATX to unpack why letters and numbers can’t tell you what your hair needs; and what actually can. From porosity and pH to water hardness, climate, and stress, we share a simple way to decode your hair’s real behavior and build rituals that work in the real world, not just on a grid. Minnie takes us through her journey working with every texture, the hard...

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Celebrating two years of podcasting growth from nervous beginnings to international reach and award-winning status. This anniversary episode reflects on the journey, impact, and future of Hair What I'm Saying. 

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Have you noticed how quickly conversations about Black baby girls turn to their hair texture and skin tone? This episode dives into the uncomfortable reality of how our community scrutinizes Black girls from the moment they're born, sometimes even before. When Cam Newton's child's mother, Jasmine Brown, spoke out about the constant questioning of her daughter's hair and complexion, she hit a nerve that resonates with countless Black mothers. "Why are y'all so freaking critical of little black girls?" she asked, calling out a practice so normalized we barely recognize it anymore.

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Our conversation about Black hair takes an unexpected turn when a clip that almost went viral before I turned off the comments to slow down the engagement, showcasing the messy yet necessary path toward healing from texturism and lenthism in our community.

• Addressing the fallout when a short TikTok clip from a longer conversation about "long hair for a black woman" sparked cruel comments

• Examining how the same content created different reactions across platforms; war on TikTok versus reserved engagement on Instagram

• Clarifying that repeating harmful language to exa...

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Nia Ford returns to unpack the deep, quiet ways texturism affects Black women's relationship with their hair, from childhood experiences to adult self-acceptance. We explore how external criticism and family dynamics shape our perception of beauty, particularly for those with kinky, coily textures. Nia shares how her childhood love for big hair shifted after hearing classmates with looser textures praised for having “good hair,” and we discuss the role family members play in either perpetuating or challenging texturism, including how parents with different hair textures approach thei...

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Use code: DEWY at checkout to save 20% on my Dewy Curls Shampoo and Conditioner on my website at https://www.thevintagehipster.net/natural-hair-products and experience the intentional balance of silicones we discussed today.

Silicones have long been demonized in the natural hair community, but is this fear based on facts or misinformation? In this enlightening deep dive, we unravel the truth about these controversial ingredients and why they might actually be beneficial for your curls. 

Discover the science behind common silicones l...

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This season on Hair What I’m Saying, we’re going beyond the surface to explore the hidden biases and pressures around hair texture and length — known as texturism and lengthism. We’ll dig into how these biases show up in our families, schools, workplaces, and even within ourselves.

Through honest conversations, personal stories, and guest perspectives, we’ll uncover how these ideas have shaped our self-worth and disconnected us from truly loving our hair. We’ll talk about the cultural, social, and emotional impact of hair discrimination — from microaggressions to dress code pol...

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Time is the most valuable asset in the hair braiding business, and it's something veteran stylist Vandy of VLS Hair ATX has mastered through years of perfecting her craft. In this candid conversation, we dive deep into the realities of professional braiding that clients rarely see and stylists often don't discuss.

Vandy shares her journey from doing hair as a side hustle while working as an accountant to opening her own salon and preparing for a second location. Her perspective combines artistic talent with...

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When Raeshetta Thompson discovered her first sign of hair loss at age 12, she couldn't have known it would become the foundation for her life's purpose. After hiding her alopecia for nearly 30 years while building a successful career as a hairstylist, Raeshetta finally embraced her natural self and discovered a world of women who needed exactly what she could offer.

This conversation takes us through her emotional journey from feeling "cursed" to recognizing her experience as a blessing that allows her to serve others with profound empathy...

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Angel Henderson turns conventional wisdom about "protective" braided styles upside down in this eye-opening conversation about hair health, scalp care, and the true cost of convenience styling. The natural hair expert begins by challenging our fundamental understanding of protective styles, asking the provocative question: "What are we actually protecting?" Most of us aren't protecting our hair at all; we're protecting our time. This mindset shift sets the stage for a deep exploration of when braids help versus when they harm. Hair loss warning signs get special attention as Angel outlines exactly what to...

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Postpartum hair loss is a reality for many women, yet it's rarely discussed in mainstream pregnancy and postpartum care. In this episode, Hillary Washington-Goodner shares her personal journey; from minimal shedding after her first pregnancy to significant, unexpected hair loss after her second. She opens up about the emotional toll of watching her hair change, the surprising timeline of postpartum shedding, and the lack of medical guidance that leaves many women unprepared. For Black women, the conversation is even more limited, making it difficult to find relatable...

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In this eye opening episode, we engage with Empress, a multi-licensed beauty ritualist and founder of Root Honey, who bridges the worlds of beauty and holistic wellness. Our conversation delves into the transformative power that hair has in our identity and emotional well-being, revealing how beauty rituals serve as a portal to self-care and acceptance.

Empress shares her journey and cultural connections to beauty, emphasizing that hair is much more than just a physical trait — it holds deep significance linked to our histories, communities, and mental health. Together, we explore emotional ch...

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Ever wondered how a mother's love can spark a revolution in the beauty industry? Kameese Davis, the founder of Nyla's Naturals, shares her incredible journey of creating a hair care brand inspired by her daughter Nylah's challenges with seborrheic dermatitis. Faced with the lack of suitable products for textured hair in the UK, Kameese turned necessity into innovation, crafting a line that not only addresses these needs but also promotes...

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Discover the passionate journey of Dr. Saya Obayan, a celebrated board-certified dermatologist, as she shares her inspiring story from her childhood in Nigeria to founding Nature of Skin Dermatology in Austin, Texas. Her unique insights on treating hair and skin conditions for people of color are informed by personal experience and a deep-seated commitment to her patients. With a special emphasis on hair care challenges, Dr. Saya Obayan offers invaluable guidance on maintaining healthy hair without compromising style, addressing emotional and practical hurdles faced by those dealing with...

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After witnessing a friend's struggle with hair loss during cancer treatment, Aoife, a trichologist from Austin, Texas, embarked on a journey of empathy and innovation in hair health. In our latest episode, she shares her personal story and offers insights into the world of trichology, emphasizing the necessity of understanding hair loss as a complex issue intertwined with overall health. We explore how factors such as childbirth, medication, and stress play pivotal roles in hair shedding, with Aoife providing enlightening anecdotes and expert commentary on why your...

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Unlock the secrets to restoring your hair and confidence with our latest episode of Hair What I'm Saying.

Discover how medications like Ozempic may impact your hair, and learn about powerful, natural ingredients like ashwagandha, saw palmetto, and beringaraj that can potentially reverse hair loss and promote growth.

Join us as trichologist Aoife Marie from Aoife Marie Beauty and board-certified dermatologist Dr. Saya Obayan from Nature of Skin share their vast expertise. They offer invaluable insights into scalp health, stress-induced hair conditions, and the importance...

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Essence Farmer, a pioneering force in the natural hair industry, shares her extraordinary journey from braiding hair in her parents' laundry room to becoming a prominent figure who reshaped industry regulations. At just 23, she bravely confronted the Arizona State Board of Cosmetology, winning a landmark legal battle that opened doors for countless natural hair stylists. Essence's story is a testament to youthful determination, fueled by family support and a relentless pursuit of her passion for natural hair care, even when it meant stepping away from a...

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What happens when impatience with conventional education leads to an unexpected and successful entrepreneurial journey? Join us as Omar Lavender, a former barbershop owner, shares his inspiring transition from a frustrated student to a successful entrepreneur in the barbering industry. Omar's candid storytelling in this episode highlights the bold decisions that shaped his career, the pivotal support from his mother, and the serendipitous moments that helped him build a thriving barbershop business from the ground up.

Omar reveals the emotional rollercoaster that comes with entrepreneurship, including...

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Discover the inspiring journey of Aiko, a talented nail artist from Kazakhstan, who transformed her dreams into reality by establishing her own nail salon, Moon Glow Nails, in Austin, Texas. Aiko shares her story of resilience, detailing her transition from the bustling streets of New York to the vibrant opportunities in Austin. Learn how her unique specialization in Russian manicures and pedicures set her apart in the beauty industry and turned a cultural gap into a successful entrepreneurial venture.

Join us as we explore the intricacies of Aiko's career, including the...

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Feeling the pressure from social media's relentless demands? Discover the hidden truths behind these platforms as we welcome back Minnie from Shag Noir Salon, a beloved guest and beautypreneur, whose honest insights offer both comfort and clarity. Together, we navigate the high-wire act of maintaining an authentic online presence in a world that seems to demand perfection. Minnie candidly shares her own journey from Facebook's familiar territory to the vibrant world of Instagram, highlighting both the creative possibilities and the mental toll...

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What happens when beauty meets movement? Join us for an enriching conversation with Jessica Washington, a gifted makeup artist and pole dancing coach, who illustrates the transformative power of embracing one's unique beauty and movement. Jessica shares her compelling journey into pole dancing, ignited by a client's inspiring story of vitality and self-discovery. We explore how makeup and pole dancing can shatter confidence barriers and empower women to reclaim their beauty on personal terms, offering a supportive space to...

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What if you could balance a full-time career and a thriving side hustle without losing your mind? Our latest episode of "Hair What I'm Saying" answers this question with the incredible story of Raven Cornwall. Raven juggles a demanding job at a financial firm while running a successful bridal makeup business. She shares her game-changing strategies for time management, leveraging PTO and sick time, and utilizing HoneyBook for seamless client communication. Hear firsthand about the personal sacrifices and meticulous planning required to...

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In this highly anticipated season, Hair What I’m Saying takes an even deeper dive into the entrepreneurial journey. Host Kinetra, a seasoned cosmetologist and entrepreneur, explores how personal experiences, upbringing, and the evolving landscape of social media shape the way we run our businesses. From navigating the pressures of constantly changing algorithms to finding balance between personal and professional growth, this season is packed with valuable insights, raw conversations, and practical strategies. For the first time, Hair What I’m Saying brings video podcasts to give you an even more enga...

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Have you ever felt the weight of generational beauty standards on your shoulders, or had a moment where you truly embraced your natural self? Join us as we walk with Nia Ford of I Bless Faces through a deeply personal narrative, exploring the landscape of generational hair standards and the resilience required to define beauty on one's own terms. From the impact of family beliefs on self-perception to the emotional journey of returning to one's roots, this episode is a testament to the ties that bind us and the strength found in accepting...

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In this episode of "Hair What I'm Saying," we sit down with Darius from Premier Fade League to explore the dynamic world of barbering. From tracing Darius' journey in the industry to discussing the resurgence of barbering as a cultural phenomenon, we delve into the evolution of barber artistry and the trends shaping men's grooming. Darius shares valuable insights on blending timeless techniques with modern styling, offering practical tips for staying ahead in the ever-changing beauty landscape. Join us as we uncover Darius' philosophy on barbering and his vision for the future of...

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In this enlightening conversation with Ruth Annan, the mastermind behind Annan Productions, we explore her fascinating journey from a passion for television production to becoming a distinguished photographer and videographer. Ruth candidly discusses the profound impact of the pandemic on her business and the delicate balance between artistic expression and business acumen.

A focal point of our discussion is Ruth's profound connection with her clients, particularly in her love for capturing headshots. She also sheds light on the challenges she faces in photographing people of color, emphasizing the importance of education...

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In this episode of Hair What I'm Saying, host Kinetra delves into the intersection of beauty and self-care, focusing on the importance of setting boundaries to nurture inner radiance. After a brief hiatus due to personal health challenges, Kinetra returns with insights gained from her own journey, sharing valuable lessons on prioritizing well-being and distinguishing between being nice and being good. Through candid discussion, listeners will learn practical strategies for navigating overwhelm, combating people-pleasing tendencies, and safeguarding their energy. Join us for an empowering conversation on self-care, resilience, and the beauty of setting...

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In this episode of "Hair What I'm Saying," we embark on a captivating journey through the beauty dynamics of "The Color Purple," focusing on Celie's transformative journey from being labeled the 'ugly sister' to discovering her inner strength and unique beauty. 

Exploring the societal norms of the early 1900s, we dissect the intersection of race, gender, and beauty standards that shape Celie's narrative. Contrasting Celie's perception with that of her sister Nettie, deemed conventionally beautiful, sets the stage for an in-depth discussion on societal influences and cinematic brilliance. 

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In this enlightening episode of "Hair What I'm Saying," we embark on a profound exploration of the intricate world of beauty's pricing structures. We unravel common misconceptions and shine a spotlight on the challenges that beauty professionals face, from financial intricacies to societal attitudes.
 A comparison with traditional employment models provides insights into the unique financial dynamics of beauty professionals.
Our discussion extends to the impact of family and friends, examining how their attitudes contribute to the industry's challenges.
We emphasize the critical role of customer service and professionalism in c...

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In this thought-provoking episode of "Hair What I'm Saying," host Kinetra engages in a dynamic conversation with Minnie, a seasoned entrepreneur in the beauty industry. Together, they explore the intricacies of financial literacy for black-owned businesses, the ever-evolving dynamics of sharing knowledge within the industry, and the delicate art of setting boundaries while maintaining exceptional customer service. The discussion also delves into the challenges of navigating perceived bad customer service and the nuanced task of creating inclusive spaces in mixed-race salons. Throughout the episode, Minnie shares personal experiences, practical insights, and strategies...