From Guilt to Good with Jeanette Yates
Support for caregivers, plus care tech you can trust.Practical guidance on burnout, boundaries, and guilt, with simple care-tech translation so tools feel safe, supportive, and straightforward.
Patrick Coughlin on Protecting Aging Parents From AI Scams
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AI scammers can now clone a loved one’s voice, impersonate trusted organizations, and create messages that are almost impossible to identify as fake.
In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with cybersecurity expert Patrick Coughlin about the AI-powered scam economy targeting older adults, caregivers, and families.
Patrick shares how his mother was targeted by a fake kidnapping call using a cloned version of his sister’s voice. That experience led him to create Savi Security and a great free tool called Scamwise, which easily chec...
Kabir Bhatia on Helping Aging Parents Stay Home Safely Without Watching Them
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Most aging parents want to stay home, but how do caregivers keep them safe without taking away their independence, dignity, or privacy?
In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Kabir Bhatia, co-founder and CEO of Hello Everyday, about aging in place, caregiver worry, senior safety technology, and how families can support loved ones without making them feel watched.
Kabir’s work began from personal experience. After supporting his father through three rounds of cancer and watching his mother adjust to living alone after his fa...
Arvind Sarin on How AI Is Changing Home Health Care Without Replacing Nurses
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AI is already changing home health care, but does that mean it is replacing nurses?
In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Arvind Sarin, founder and CEO of Copper Digital, about how AI can support home health clinicians without taking the human out of care.
Arvind explains what many family caregivers never see: the paperwork, documentation, compliance forms, billing pressure, visit notes, and after-hours charting that home health nurses often carry long after they leave a patient’s ho...
Annalee Kruger on Caregiver Burnout, Guilt, and Why Families Need an Aging Plan
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Caregiver burnout does not happen all at once. It often starts with love, responsibility, and the belief that you can keep figuring things out as you go.
In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Annalee Kruger, founder and CEO of Care Right Inc. and author of The Invisible Patient, about what happens when family caregivers become overwhelmed, invisible, and responsible for decisions they were never prepared to make.
Annalee explains why so many adult children and spouse caregivers end up in crisis, why guilt...
Dr. Rondalyn Whitney on Why Grief Changes Your Body, Identity, and Daily Life
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Grief is not just sadness. It can affect your body, your brain, your routines, your relationships, and your sense of who you are.
In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Dr. Rondalyn Varney Whitney, an occupational therapist, narrative medicine practitioner, and author of Habits of Widows and Lies in the Afterlife. After the traumatic death of her husband in 2020, Rondalyn began writing every day for a year and a day, using...
Dr. Julie Merriman on Why Midlife Women Feel Exhausted Even After Rest
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Dr. Julie Merriman explains why so many midlife women feel exhausted in a way rest no longer fixes.
In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Dr. Julie Merriman, a counselor educator, licensed clinician, speaker, author, and podcast host who works with professional women over 50 experiencing burnout, compassion fatigue, nervous system depletion, disconnection, and shutdown.
Julie’s work focuses on women who are high-achieving, high-responsibility, and still functioning — but operating far beyond capacity. These are women who have spent years holding families, workplaces, caregiving responsibilities, and...
Mark Wilson on the 5-Pillar Framework Every Dementia Caregiver Needs
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Mark Wilson shares the 5-pillar framework every dementia caregiver needs to lead care.
Mark Wilson believes dementia caregivers need more than love and good intentions — they need a system.
In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Mark Wilson, author of Breakthrough Alzheimer’s Care, about what happened when he brought executive leadership skills into hands-on Alzheimer’s and dementia caregiving.
Mark spent more than 25 years leading leadership development, organizational effectiveness, and HR functions at Fortune 500 companies, including PepsiCo and Taco Bell. But when h...
Kait Giordano on Raising a Baby While Caring for Parents With Dementia
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Kait Giordano is raising a baby while caring for both parents with dementia.
In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Kait Giordano, co-founder of The Melty Middle, about life inside the sandwich generation and what it really looks like to build a home, routine, and family life around dementia care.
Kait shares how caregiving became part of her life long before motherhood, beginning with her grandmother and sister, and later continuing as both of her parents were diagnosed...
Why Family Caregiving Feels So Overwhelming Featuring Lance A. Slatton
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Most families become caregivers before anyone tells them what help exists.
In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Lance A. Slatton, host of All Home Care Matters, senior care advocate, author, healthcare professional, and president of AlzAuthors.
Lance shares how caregiving entered his life unexpectedly when his father needed serious medical care after a fall, infection, surgery, and a long recovery. What was supposed to be “a couple of weeks” of support turned into almost three years of caregiving. During that time, Lanc...
When Your Phone Is the Problem: Emotional Firewalls, Boundaries, and Caregiving with Sol Kennedy
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Caregivers are used to being “on call” for the person they care for. But what happens when the person blowing up your phone is just as stressful as the person you’re caring for—and you can’t simply block or mute them?
In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette talks with Sol Kennedy, founder of BestInterest, an AI-powered co-parenting communication app built to help people navigate high-conflict relationships after divorce. Sol shares how his own high-conflict divorce and co-parenting experience led him to create what he calls an “emotional fi...
FINDING JOY IN THE RUINS: A STORY OF CAREGIVING, LOSS, AND UNWAVERING LOVE
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In this heartfelt interview, Susie McNamara shares her caregiving journey through her husband's early-onset Alzheimer's, exploring themes of grief, dignity, and finding joy among ruins. Jeanette Yates delves into the importance of honoring loved ones' identities and the power of storytelling in healing.
00:00 Introduction to Caregiving and Grief
01:48 Suzy's Caregiving Journey
04:16 The Invisible Weight of Grief
06:23 Finding Joy Among Ruins
14:01 Preserving Dignity and Autonomy
20:39 Navigating Family Dynamics in Caregiving
24:25 Navigating Grief and Change
26:51 The Impact of Caregiving on Family Dynamics
29:33 Understanding Grief...
Caregiving Must Be Designed For, Not Endured: Childhood Caregiving, Long-Term Care, and Real Self-Care with Tim Otis
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Caregiving that starts in childhood changes everything. In this episode, Jeanette talks with Empaira founder and “care-led innovator” Tim Otis, who became a caregiver at four and later cared for his dad with Parkinson’s. They unpack long-term caregiving, complicated parent-child dynamics, and why most self-care advice fails caregivers—and what more realistic support can look like.
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The Power of Conversation in Estate Planning with HeirLight Founder, Jermaine Ee
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In this episode, Jermaine Ee shares his journey of building HeirLight, a tool that transforms difficult conversations about estate planning into meaningful storytelling...and a legal document! Discover how technology can facilitate family discussions, honor loved ones' stories, and simplify legal planning, all rooted in real human connection.
This is about tech, but more than that, Jermaine shares his heartfelt story about how having conversations with his mother and grandmother inspired him to do the hard work of creating HeirLight.Â
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Revolutionizing Care: How Care2U Brings ER-Level Treatment to Your Home
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In this episode, healthcare executive and caregiver Lon Hecht shares insights on high acuity care at home through Care2U, the importance of timely intervention, and how innovative healthcare models are transforming caregiving and patient outcomes.
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Advocating Personalized Care & Workplace Support for Caregivers with Brooke Holmes, American Senior Home Finders
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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, host Jeanette Yates welcomes Brooke Holmes, CEO of American Senior Home Finders. They discuss the challenges caregivers face, the importance of personalized care, and the need for workplace support for caregivers. Brooke shares her unique journey into senior care and how her company helps families navigate complex decisions around aging. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding caregiver guilt, raising awareness, and the need for workplace flexibility to support caregivers effectively.
Takeaways
Caregivers often feel guilt and...
Building Family Support Systems: With "Stay At Home Grandbaby" Jazmyn Rivers
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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, Jeanette Yates and Jazmyn Rivers discuss the multifaceted journey of caregiving, focusing on family dynamics, community support, and the role of technology. They explore the importance of intentional sharing on social media, the need for self-care among caregivers, and the innovations in care tech that can enhance the caregiving experience. The conversation emphasizes the significance of communication within families and the value of sharing caregiver stories to foster a supportive community.
Takeaways
* Caregiving is often a complex...
Navigating AI Companions: Are They the Solution to Senior Loneliness?
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Quick Bonus Episode today based on this recent article on my blog
In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, I discuss the role of AI companions in alleviating loneliness among seniors and caregivers. I explore the benefits and risks associated with these technologies, emphasizing the importance of informed decision-making. I cover the emotional isolation faced by older adults, the potential for AI to provide companionship, and the critical privacy concerns that arise from using such tools. I also highlight manipulation tactics used by AI systems and the vulnerability...
Building Healthy Digital Relationships in Caregiving: A conversation with Offline.Now founder, Eli Singer
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In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates speaks with Eli Singer about the dual nature of technology in caregiving. They explore how digital tools can both support and hinder caregivers, emphasizing the importance of balance and self-awareness in technology use. Eli shares insights from his book and platform, Offline.Now, which aims to help individuals create healthier relationships with their devices. The conversation also touches on community building, the impact of AI, and the nuances of digital engagement, including the concepts of zombie scrolling and doom scrolling.
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Navigating Tech Decisions When The Tech Keeps Changing | Ring Camera "Search Party" Considerations
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BONUS EPISODE:
In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, Jeanette Yates discusses the emotional impact of technology on caregivers, with a particular focus on the Ring Search Party feature introduced in a Super Bowl ad. She emphasizes the importance of understanding how this technology works, the implications for privacy and dignity, and the need for caregivers to make informed choices that align with their values. The conversation also addresses the guilt caregivers may feel when making decisions about technology use and encourages open discussions within care circles.<...
Challenges for Caregivers in AI Adoption with Billy Miranda, Licensed Therapist and Family Caregiver
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In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates speaks with Billy Miranda, a licensed therapist and caregiver, about the intersection of caregiving and technology, particularly artificial intelligence (AI). They discuss the emotional realities of caregiving, the potential benefits and ethical considerations of using AI tools, and the importance of self-care for caregivers. Billy shares his personal caregiving journey and insights into how AI can support mental health and caregiving tasks, while also emphasizing the need for awareness of privacy and compliance with regulations such as HIPAA. The conversation highlights...
The Power of Communication in Caregiving: A Conversation with Caily Co-founder, Wynter Johnson
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In this episode of 'From Guilt to Good,' host Jeanette Yates talks with Wynter Johnson, co-founder of Caily, about communication challenges and solutions in caregiving. They discuss the inception of Caily, a platform designed to streamline caregiving tasks and improve communication among family members. Wynter shares personal stories that highlight the importance of effective communication and the role of safe technology in caregiving.
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The Ethics of Sharing Caregiving Advice Online with Stephanie Muskat, MSW
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In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates and Stephanie Muskat discuss the complexities of caregiving, with a particular focus on the emotional and mental health challenges caregivers face. Stephanie shares her personal journey as a caregiver and how it led her to create Compassion and Caregiving, a platform that supports caregivers. They delve into the importance of acknowledging feelings of guilt, shame, and grief, and how these emotions can impact caregiving. The conversation also touches on the role of content creation in the caregiving space, the ethics...
The Future of AI in Caregiving with Dr. Ashish Aggarwal of JubileeTV
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In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates interviews Dr. Ashish Aggarwal, founder of Jubilee TV, discussing the intersection of caregiving and technology. They explore personal caregiving experiences, the innovative features of Jubilee TV that enhance remote caregiving, and the transformative role of AI in improving the lives of caregivers and their aging loved ones. The conversation emphasizes the importance of technology in fostering social connections and reducing caregiver guilt, while also addressing the future of AI in personalizing care.
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Navigating Elder Law and Estate Planning, Essential Insights for Caregivers with Michelangelo Mortellaro
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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, Jeanette speaks with Michelangelo Mortellaro, an elder law attorney, about the critical aspects of caregiving, estate planning, and elder law. They discuss the importance of understanding the differences between elder law and general estate planning, the necessity of having the right legal documents in place, and the impact of Medicaid on asset protection. The conversation emphasizes the need for proactive planning to ensure that caregivers and their loved ones are prepared for future care needs, highlighting the emotional and financial benefits of proper...
The Emotional Landscape of Caregiving with Mark J Ropeleski, host of The Caregivers Podcast
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In the latest episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, host Jeanette Yates sits down with Mark J Ropeleski , a seasoned physician and host of The Caregivers Podcast. Together, they explore the multifaceted nature of caregiving, reflecting on personal experiences and the often unspoken challenges that caregivers face. This conversation sheds light on the importance of self-care, the emotional complexities of caregiving, and the rationalizations we make that can hinder our well-being.
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The Hidden Struggles of Caregiving Youth with Dr. Connie Siskowski
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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, Jeanette Yates speaks with Dr. Connie Siskowski, founder of the American Association for Caregiving Youth (AACY). They discuss the challenges faced by youth caregivers, the impact of caregiving on education, and the importance of raising awareness and support for these children. Dr. Siskowski shares her personal caregiving journey and the research findings that highlight the need for resources and flexibility in schools for caregiving youth. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community support and advocacy to improve the lives of these...
From Guilt To Good Enough: An Introduction
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In this short episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, Jeanette Yates reads from her book, From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood Trauma
. You can get your copy here: https://www.theselfcaregiver.com/book
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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll careg...
Men Are Caregivers Too with Jeff Rossi
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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, Jeanette Yates speaks with Jeff Rossi, caregiver for his elderly parents. They discuss the complexities of caregiving, including the emotional challenges, the balance between personal life and caregiving responsibilities, and the importance of advocacy. Jeff shares his personal journey, the guilt he sometimes feels, and the frustrations that arise in caregiving situations. They also address common myths about caregiving and emphasize the need for caregivers to maintain their own lives outside of their caregiving roles.
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<...Understanding Temperament in Caregiving Relationships with Edla Prevette
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In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates speaks with Edla Prevette, a licensed clinical mental health counselor and caregiver, about the complexities of caregiving, particularly the emotional and psychological challenges faced by caregivers. They discuss the importance of understanding temperament in caregiving relationships, the dynamics of role reversals between parents and children, and practical strategies for managing these relationships effectively. Edla shares insights from her own caregiving journey and emphasizes the need for self-care and communication in navigating the caregiving experience.
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Caregiving For The Long Haul with Bernadette Evans
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In this episode of the From Guilt To Good podcast, host Jeanette Yates speaks with Bernadette Evans about the complexities of caregiving, particularly in the context of family dynamics and personal health. Bernadette shares her ten-year journey caring for her elderly parents, discussing the challenges of setting boundaries, the impact of sibling relationships, and the importance of self-care. The conversation emphasizes the need for caregivers to prioritize their own health and well-being while navigating the emotional landscape of caring for aging loved ones.
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We Have To Talk About Hospice (with Matthew Tyler, MD)
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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, host Jeanette Yates interviews Matthew Tyler, a dual board-certified physician in internal medicine and hospice and palliative care. They discuss the often misunderstood concepts of palliative and hospice care, emphasizing the importance of quality of life and support for both patients and caregivers. Matthew shares insights on how social media can educate the public about these services, the role of the family in caring for their loved ones, and the critical need for effective communication in healthcare. The conversation aims to empower caregivers...
The Things No One Wants To Say About Caregiving with Nina McCollum
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When I first saw Nina on TikTok sharing the harsh realities of caregiving in a no-b.s. way, I KNEW I had to have her on the From Guilt to Good podcast! Nina McCollum is a caregiver navigating the complexities of caring for her mother, and we discuss the emotional and physical challenges of caregiving, the importance of legal preparations, and the guilt often felt by caregivers. Nina shares openly about the impact of caregiving on her life, emphasizing the need for community support and understanding. Be warned! In this episode, we d...
"It's Complicated" and other Caregiving Truths with Elizabeth Miller, The Happy Healthy Caregiver
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I met the GOAT! In this week's episode, I chat with Elizabeth Miller, founder of Happy Healthy Caregiver. We talk about how complicated things can be, the challenges of guilt, and the need for community support. We also bust some myths about self-care, share realistic ideas for healthy routines, and get real about managing frustration while caring for loved ones.Â
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The Healing Power of Hypnosis for Caregivers with Christina Honkonen, CH
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In this episode of From Guilt to Good, host Jeanette Yates discusses the transformative power of hypnosis in caregiving. Joined by certified consulting hypnotist Christina Honkonen, they explore the misconceptions surrounding hypnosis, its practical applications for stress relief and pain management, and the profound impact it can have on both caregivers and their loved ones. Jeanette shares personal anecdotes about her and her mom's experience working with Christina, highlighting the importance of finding joy in memories and navigating caregiver guilt.
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Care, Court Cases, and Healing from Traumatic Caregiving Experiences
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In this episode of From Guilt to Good, host Jeanette Yates speaks with RubySam, a former caregiver based in the UK, and current energy medicine practitioner. RubySam shares her compelling caregiving journey, the challenges she faced, and the trauma that followed. They discuss the importance of self-care, the heart-brain-body connection, and how caregivers can reconnect with themselves amidst the demands of caregiving. Sam emphasizes the significance of mindfulness and listening to one's body as essential tools for healing and emotional health.
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Why Everyone (even you) Needs An Estate Plan with Adam Zuckerman
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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, Jeanette Yates speaks with Adam Zuckerman, founder of Buried in Work, about the complexities of caregiving, estate planning, and the emotional challenges that come with end-of-life tasks. Adam shares his personal caregiving journey, the inspiration behind his company, and the importance of having a comprehensive estate plan. They discuss the need for open conversations about healthcare decisions and the resources available to help caregivers navigate these difficult topics. Adam emphasizes the importance of being proactive in organizing information to ease the burden on...
Navigating Grief with Death Doula, Jen Venegas
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In this episode of 'From Guilt to Good', I speak with Jen Venegas, a death doula and spiritual activist, about the complexities of caregiving and grief.Â
She helps us understand the role of a death doula in providing emotional support during the dying process, the importance of legacy projects, and how to incorporate joy into the final days of life. I learned a lot during this conversation and I hope you do too!
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A Guide to Understanding Dementia with Morgan Donahue
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In this episode of 'From Guilt to Good', I speak with Morgan Donahue, a dementia care expert, about the challenges caregivers face when caring for loved ones with dementia. We discuss the importance of understanding dementia, recognizing early signs, the significance of socialization, and the need for caregiver self-care. Morgan shares insights on navigating family dynamics and busts some myths about dementia.Â
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...Caregiving: The Blessing, The Burden, The Bat-đź’© Crazy... We Spill It All
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In this conversation, Catherine Miguel shares her experiences as a caregiver for her mother. Her insights offer a candid glimpse into the realities of caregiving, and we discuss what we've lost and gained as caregivers, the "blessing" and burden, and the bat-đź’© crazy parts of caregiving.
Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving?Â
In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can...
Boundaries, Burnout, and Caregiver Battles (and how to succeed!)
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"Even warriors know when to rest, " says Susanne White, founder of Caregiver Warrior.Â
In this week's episode, Susanne and I share our experiences and insights into our caregiving stories.Â
We discuss:
the emotional complexities of caregivingthe challenges of codependencythe importance of self-awarenessthe necessity of setting boundaries for self-carethe reality of caregiver burnoutthe need for caregivers to reevaluate promises made to loved ones regarding care options.ÂAnd so much more!Â
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