You at Your Best
The You at Your Best Podcast takes a compassionate, growth-oriented, and non-professional approach to life’s struggles. It’s for overthinkers who want to create their dream reality, live more authentically, and step outside of limiting social norms.Your host, Morgan, leads with vulnerability as she opens conversations around tender, meaningful parts of life. Through the lens of healing, self-trust, and self-love, she shares her own journey of tending to her feminine soul and creates space for reflections that acknowledge both the hurt and the hope that can live side by side.Listen along to explore themes of mental health, trau...
86. Romanticizing Fall On a Budget
From romanticizing everyday moments to letting yourself create imperfectly, this week’s fun episode is all about romanticizing fall on a budget and making the most of the season without spending lots of money.
In this episode, I discuss:
Simple and cheap ways to romanticize fall & make everyday life feel more specialCreating fall traditions through music, outfits, decorating, cozy mornings, & spending time outsideWhy being present with the little things can make regular days feel magicalMy experience writing poetry, learning to trust my own creative voice, & letting go of perfectionismWhy imperfect human art matters & how al...85. Receiving Is a Skill
In this week's insight episode, I build on an idea I shared in last week's episode: allowing others to help you, compliment you, love you, and give to you is an important part of being human. Receiving doesn't make you conceited, helpless, or a bad person. You don't have to immediately return every favor, and accepting someone's kindness doesn't mean you'll become dependent on them. Sometimes, we simply have to learn how to let good things reach us.
In this episode, I share:
Why women often struggle to allow others to help usHow to gracefully accept...84. Feminine Sensuality: Becoming Available to Your Own Life
In this week's reflection episode, I explore what feminine sensuality actually means to me and why I believe it has so little to do with sexuality. Sensuality is about presence, confidence, pleasure, embodiment, and becoming more available to your own life.
In this episode, I share:
What feminine sensuality means beyond sexuality and appearanceWhy being present in your body can change the way you experience your lifeHow confidence, pleasure, receiving, intimacy, and intuition connect to sensualityWhy sensuality is ultimately about learning to be fully here with yourselfMy Poetry & Reflections Notion Page:
<...83. Things I’m Glad I’m No Longer Too Cool For
In this week's fun episode, I share a list of things I used to struggle to allow myself to do because I was afraid they weren't “cool” enough. I talk about the importance of doing what makes us happy, even when we fear judgment, and why the things on this list are actually pretty cool.
In this episode, I discuss:
Allowing ourselves to express our emotions & be visibly excitedDressing for ourselves & caring less about how we lookAllowing ourselves to be sentimental & emotionalCaring about self-improvementNot being ashamed of loving & enjoying thingsMy Poet...
82. For the Sensitive Girls: Things I Would Tell My Younger Self
From feeling unlovable to learning how to trust myself, this week’s fun episode is all about the things I would tell my younger self if I could go back in time.
In this episode, I discuss:
Why it’s so important to love ourselves as we areSome of my childhood experiences and what I would do differentlyMy experience with early motherhoodWhy self-expression is such an important part of finding ourselvesLearning to stop abandoning ourselves and trust our own judgmentMy Poetry & Reflections Notion Page:
https://www.notion.so/Morg...
81. When Starting Over Becomes Avoidance
In this week's insight episode, I talk about the difference between starting over as a healthy choice and starting over as a way to avoid discomfort. Starting over isn't inherently bad. Sometimes, it's exactly what we need. But taking a small pause before making a big decision can help us understand what we're actually trying to change and gently notice the patterns behind our choices.
In this episode, I share:
Why starting over can sometimes become a form of avoidanceHow to tell the difference between healthy change and impulsive decisionsThe importance of pausing and...80. Integration: When Different Parts of You Become One
In this week's reflection episode, I share a life update about my mental health and finally receiving an OCD diagnosis before reflecting on the idea of integration. Looking back at my older podcast episodes reminded me that, even though I've changed, I've always been me. The biggest difference isn't who I am. It's the relationship I have with myself.
In this episode, I share:
Why being diagnosed with OCD brought me relief and changed how I understand myselfThe story behind re-uploading my older podcast episodes & what that taught me about healingHow shame can make...79. Type C: When You Feel Like a Walking Contradiction
For this week's fun episode, I share a lighthearted reflection on the reality of being type C and having a personality that feels like a walking contradiction. I discuss how one person can be both type A and type B at the same time, and how they actually complement each other way more than the outside perspective may think.
In this episode, I share:
Why I think I'm both Type A and Type B (aka "Type C")Funny ways my brain completely contradicts itselfHow this shows up in motherhood, podcasting, and everyday lifeWhy I've...78. Quick Ways to Positively Reframe Your Body Image Struggles
CW: This episode discusses disordered eating & body image struggles.
In this week's insight episode, I share tips on healing your body image that have helped me. These tips top-down and are especially useful for those who tend to overthink and overworry. It's a way to quickly reframe in moments of struggle.
In this episode, I share:
Quick tips for healing your body imageReframing the way you speak to yourselfTaking care of yourself with love instead of self-hatredChanging the way you view foodMy Poetry & Reflections Notion Page:
...
77. What Changed for My Body Image When I Stopped Fighting Myself
CW: This episode discusses disordered eating & body image struggles.
In this week's reflection episode, I open up about my past struggles with body image, self-hatred, and being incredibly unkind to myself. Then, I share ways that I have grown my mindset around my body and how releasing stress has helped me heal my body way more than trying to be perfect or calorie counting.
In this episode, I share:
A reflection on how body image used to feel for meHow a bad relationship with yourself impacts your body imageHow being kind to...76. My Current Obsessions: Fashion, Music, Creativity & Romanticizing Life
This week's fun episode is a deep dive into the things I have currently been obsessed with and little moments that make life feel meaningful. What started as a simple episode about random things I enjoy slowly became something deeper: a reflection on learning to embrace all the different parts of myself instead of feeling like I have to fit into one specific version of who I am.
In this episode, I discuss:
Personal styleWriting & poetryFamily & my personal lifeSocial mediaMusicMakeupPhotographyMy upcoming trip to JapanInterest cyclingBy Kayleigh on YouTube:
...
75. Things That Instantly Make Me Emotionally Spiral
This week's fun episode is a light-hearted yet reflective deep dive into some of the things that can make me emotionally spiral, as someone who overthinks basically everything, is deeply creative, and is always trying to balance meaning with overwhelm. From podcast editing and social media to parenting, perfectionism, and trying to figure out whether I'm intuitive or just anxious. By the end, this episode became less about the spirals themselves and more about what it's actually like to live inside my brain.
In this episode, I share:
Why being a creative person can easily turn...74. When the Fear of Being “Too Much” Starts Controlling Your Relationships
In this week’s insight episode, I talk about what happens when the fear of being “too much” starts controlling the way we show up in our relationships. This episode is the realization that sometimes, anxiety controls our behavior along with our emotions. I share some of the ways fear can turn emotions into panic, urgency, hypervigilance, and self-protection, and how healing is about learning to stay connected to ourselves without letting fear become our identity.
In this episode, I share:
How fear of abandonment can change the way we act in relationshipsWhy people are of...73. Maybe I Was Never Too Much
In this week’s reflection episode, I talk about the painful feeling that who you are, at your core, might be “too much” even for the people who love you deeply. After a recent experience with loved ones left me feeling emotionally overwhelmed and disconnected, I began unpacking the deeper emotions hidden beneath my anxious-avoidant attachment style, hyper-independence, and fear of being misunderstood. This episode is about recognizing what happens when we stop dismissing our emotions, learning that sensitivity is not the same thing as weakness, and understanding that healing can feel messy before it begins to feel peaceful.
I...
72. Small Things That Make Healing Worth It
This episode is part 3 of my three-part "realizing you're healing" series. In this week’s fun episode, I talk about the small things that make healing feel worth it. From bookstores and rainy days to deep conversations, outfits that finally feel like you, and moments where you realize you were fully present without trying to force it, this episode is a reminder that healing often becomes real through tiny moments first. I also share some life updates about burnout recovery, quitting my job, and the unexpected experience of being without a phone for two days after mine got run ov...
71. Signs You're Actually Healing
This episode is part 2 of my three-part "realizing you're healing" series. In this week’s insight episode, I talk about what healing can actually start to look like after surviving hard seasons of life. This episode is a continuation of last week’s conversation. This episode is not about “moving on” quickly, but about finally recognizing healing in real time. I share some of the small, overlooked signs that you may be healing, even if you still struggle, overthink, or feel deeply.
In this episode, I share:
Being able to sit with boredom, discomfort, and scar...70. Realizing How Resilient I Have Always Been
CW: This episode discusses the reality of living through and healing from emotional abuse.
This episode is part 1 of my three-part "realizing you're healing" series. In this week’s reflection episode, I talk about recognizing healing in moments that once felt like pure survival. I recorded this while reflecting on some of the hardest periods of my life, and realizing that even then, I was showing up for myself in ways I never fully acknowledged. This episode is about finding joy within hardship, understanding the deeper meaning behind difficult emotions, and seeing that growth can exist even wh...
69. My Flexible Nighttime Routine for Burnout Recovery
In this week's fun/extra episode, I share my current night routine that is helping me move through chronic exhaustion and get back into my body and the present moment. This routine is less about rigid structure and more about listening to myself. I am sharing this as a reminder that allowing ourselves time to recharge isn't only needed when we're overworked, but is also needed consistently to keep us charged. This episode is the third and final part of my chronic exhaustion mini-series.
This episode was recorded in a moment of deep exhaustion and low energy...
68. Learning How to Rest: What’s Helping Me Through Chronic Exhaustion
In this week’s insight episode, I share what I’m currently doing to start moving through chronic exhaustion and burnout, especially as someone who struggles to slow down, overthinks everything, and feels like they always have to “push through.” This episode is part 2 of my 3-part chronic exhaustion series.
In this episode, I share:
How I’m learning to trust my gut instead of overthinking everythingRewiring my inner voice with affirmations during moments of exhaustionChoosing rest before burnout & creating easy routinesListening to my nervous system and allowing flexibility without guiltThe different types of rest
67. What Chronic Exhaustion Feels Like For Me
In this week’s reflection episode, I talk about what chronic exhaustion actually feels like for me. Not just physically, but emotionally and mentally. I recorded this in the middle of a spiral, during a moment when I realized that my way of “pushing through” life wasn’t sustainable anymore. This episode is about hitting a breaking point, feeling everything at once, and starting to understand why.
This episode is more of a real-time processing moment than a structured explanation. As I talk through what I’m feeling, the deeper realizations begin to unfold naturally throughout the episode.<...
66. What I'm Excited for This Spring
In this week's extra/seasonal episode, I discuss things I'm excited for this coming spring. I made this episode because I have spent the last couple of months in my head a lot and struggling with depressive episodes, and spring coming up is reminding me to get out of my head and be more present. I also very briefly discuss where I stand politically near the middle of the episode.
In this episode, I share:
Why making this episode is so important to meMy sensory needs & struggles during the different seasonsWhat I'm excited for...65. Learning to Have Fun in Female Friendships | Healing Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style
In this week's insight episode, I discuss different ways to stop negative or toxic friendship patterns and how to truly enjoy friendships through having fun. This episode is part 2 of my 2-part friendship mini-series.
In this episode, I share:
What friendships used to look like for me vs. how they look nowGetting to know yourself and gaining awareness of your patternsPracticing small acts of vulnerabilityA reminder that different friends can meet different needsHow to have compassion for yourself and othersIn-Depth Breakdown of this Episode:
https://www.notion.so/323...
64. Why I Push Friends Away Even When I Care About Them | Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style
In this week's reflection episode, I discuss the reality of having a fearful-avoidant (disorganized) attachment style in friendships. I share my own experience and unpack the reason why I am stable/anxious romantically, but anxious/avoidant platonically. This episode is about facing the painful parts of ourselves so we can grow into better friends and better people.
This episode is more of a story than a structured explanation. As I talk through the experience, the deeper context and realizations unfold naturally along the way.
In this episode, I share:
What fearful-avoidant (disorganized...63. The Rebrand: Being Less Perfect & Finally Starting
Today's reflection episode introduces the rebrand of the You at Your Best Podcast. Which is still me, but a shift toward even deeper authenticity, less perfection, more fun, and more honest self-expression. This episode is especially helpful for anyone who feels stuck waiting to be “ready” before starting something they love, but also a reminder that you’re allowed to evolve, change, and show all sides of yourself.
In this episode, I share:
Why I decided to rebrand and what this new chapter meansLetting go of perfectionism and embracing authenticityAllowing myself to be both chaoti...62. Healing Perfectionism: Moral Scrutiny, Anxiety, Gratitude, & Resentment
In today's reflection episode, I discuss my struggle with perfectionism and read some of my journal entries.
In this episode, I share:
Deep-rooted perfectionismIntense moral scrutiny & OCD-like patternsSelf-acceptanceRelationship Anxiety/OCDSocial AnxietyFinding gratitudeReleasing resentmentIn-Depth Breakdown of this Episode:
https://www.notion.so/30ffbd79ed6380bda077f44029b208f7?source=copy_link
Poetry & Reflections Notion Page:
https://www.notion.so/Morgan-Sneed-Poetry-Reflection-294fbd79ed638009bf42dc1cddabf4fd?source=copy_link
My Socials:
All my links in one place...
61. Finding Daily Joy in Motherhood: Creating Routines & Choosing Yourself
Today's insight episode discusses ways to thrive as a mom. This episode is especially useful for stay-at-home moms, but also a great reminder for any mom struggling with guilt or shame around how they approach motherhood.
In this episode, I share:
How to choose yourself and your childLetting go of shameThe importance of self-care as a momCreating a mom-restricting routine for when you are home with your kid(s)Making decisions as a momThe daily routine I go by at home with my toddlerIn-Depth Breakdown of this Episode:
...
60. Thriving as a Highly Sensitive Person: Recognizing & Managing Overwhelm
This week's insight episode is a non-professional explanation of having a highly sensitive personality. I share characteristics of an HSP, how to thrive as an HSP, and ways to learn about your brain to aid in proper self-care.
In this episode, I share:
The emotional and inner world sensitivities, sensory & nervous system sensitivities, intense creativity & focus, and self-protective patterns of HSPs.How to thrive as an HSP.How I know when I am becoming overwhelmed as an HSP.In-Depth Breakdown of this Episode:
https://www.notion.so/2fffbd79ed6380569559...
59. How to Actually Be Confident
Content note: This episode touches on sexuality and personal empowerment. Nothing explicit, but shared honestly and openly.
This week's insight episode shows you how to actually be confident in yourself. Not through being like others, but through strengthening your relationship with yourself.
In this episode, I share:
How to focus on yourself instead of othersConnecting with yourself, including your sexualityHow to dress and present yourself in an authentic wayUtilizing your strengths rather than fixating on your weaknessesHow to speak kindly to yourselfIn-Depth Breakdown of this Episode:
...
58. Reflection on Being the Oldest Daughter
This week's reflection episode is about my experience and my take on being the oldest daughter. I share my experiences, some universal experiences, and the common childhood trauma of the oldest daughter.
In this episode, I share:
My personal experience & traumas as the oldest daughter.Common characteristics of the oldest daughter (codependency, hyper-independency, controlling behavior, cautious discretion, hyper-empathy, people-pleasing, etc.).A playlist I created for the oldest daughter & reasons why some of those songs are on there.Playlist from this episode:
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4k3A8sKpYMdhHwLwJiCuQd...
57. The Moment I Realized Healing Doesn't Always Look Like Peace
In today's reflection episode, I discuss a day this week that was really difficult for me. A day that changed everything about what I thought I knew. This was triggered by something that I knew I needed to do, but was terrified of.
In this episode, I share:
Parts from a journal entry of mineMoments where I connected to an older version of meMy realization that healing doesn't always mean staying safeWhat I am doing with this realizationMindset, Magic, & Manifestation Podcast by Mikayla Jai:
https://open.spotify.com...
56. Why You Avoid Being Alone & How to Start Loving Your Own Company
Being alone can be terrifying because it means we have to face all of the things we have been avoiding: repressed trauma or negative emotions. We sometimes have beliefs that negatively impact our relationship with ourselves. This insight episode challenges that belief.
In this episode, I share:
Why you avoid being aloneWhy enjoying your own company is so importantWhat you're really afraid ofHow to stop fearing alone timeTools for building self-connectionThings you can do when you're aloneIn-Depth Breakdown of this Episode:
https://www.notion.so/2e2fbd79ed638065...
55. Things That Actually Help
In today’s insight episode, I talk about the small, ordinary things that help me feel human again, especially on days when everything feels a little heavy or disconnected. This episode isn’t about fixing yourself or going deep. It’s about noticing the tiny moments that gently bring you back to yourself and remind you that you’re already okay, right here.
In this episode, I share:
The simple, everyday things that help me feel more grounded
Why small comforts matter more than big breakthroughs
How to permit yourself...
54. Discovering Your Gift & Truly Accepting Yourself
In today’s insight episode, I talk about discovering your gift and your purpose. Not by becoming someone else, but by finally accepting who you already are. I share the story of how I discovered mine, the moments that led me toward self-acceptance, and how your deepest sensitivities and quirks often hold the key to why you’re here.
In this episode, I share:
How I found my own giftWhy comparing yourself blocks you from discovering your purposeHow self-acceptance leads to clarityPractical ways to recognize your natural giftsWhy your purpose never requires you to aban...53. An Intentional Christmas: My Bucket List, Heart Intentions, & Traditions
In today’s seasonal episode, I open up about what it means to have an intentional Christmas that isn’t shaped by comparison, pressure, or trends, but by genuine presence and what truly matters.
In this episode, I share:
The shame I carried last year around my Christmas décor and comparison.How online trends convince us we’re “behind” or “less than.”Reclaiming what Christmas actually means to me.What I’m letting go of this year.The traditions we're creating.Journal prompt of the week:
What are 3 things you want t...
52. Showing Up Imperfectly
In today's reflection episode, I discuss some personal struggles I have been dealing with and what it means to show up even when you aren't perfect. I share ways I have been reframing my mindset around these situations.
In this episode, I share:
My struggle with perfectionism in parenthood, my podcast, relationships/friendships, and my homeWhy imperfect presence is still valuableShowing up imperfectly will help you gain self-trustPerfectionism is actually fearGentle remindersA poem I wroteJournal prompt of the week:
What is one tiny, imperfect way you can show...
51. Trusting Yourself Through Anxiety: Working With Your Mind, Not Against It
Our brains lie to us. Not because they hate us, but because they love us and want to protect us. That’s why intrusive thoughts and scary feelings appear. It's our brain’s way of keeping us safe from the things we don’t understand. But that doesn’t mean we have to let them control us.
In this insight episode, I explore:
My experience with OCD and intrusive thoughts, especially in my romantic relationship (ROCD)How to stop letting anxiety control you through self-compassionHow to work with your unconscious brain, not against itWhy an off-d...50. Why You Overshare & How to Stop Doing it When You Have Anxiety
I have always been someone who overshares. This is a trait I have come to love about myself, but there are times when oversharing is unnecessary and causes me an immense amount of distress and anxiety. This episode is for those times. In today's insight episode, I discuss oversharing - why we do it, how to stop doing it, and how trauma and anxiety can play a role in it.
In this episode, I discuss:
Three common reasons people tend to overshare.My own personal experience with oversharing.Coping mechanisms & strategies to become more...49. Turning Overthinking into a Gift, My Struggle with Self-Expression, & Some Exciting Changes
In today's reflection episode, I discuss a breakthrough I recently had and how this breakthrough inspired some really exciting changes that are coming to the podcast.
In this episode, I discuss:
WritingStruggling with words & self-expressionOverthinking is a giftExciting changesJournal prompt of the week:
Write in your journal about something you’re struggling with, but don’t try to fix it. Just focus on the feelings that come up. You can think about solutions later.
In-Depth Breakdown of this Episode:
https://www.notion.so/A...
48. Temporary Happiness vs True Fulfillment - Why You Need Both
This week's episode is short and straight to the point. It is about the difference between temporary happiness and true fulfillment.
Temporary Happiness:
Comes from things that may not be fulfilling long-term, but can help us feel better on hard days.Splurging on something you normally wouldn't buy, buying coffee, eating a yummy treat, watching a movie, going on vacationCan be unhealthy if overused.True Fulfillment:
Comes from a deeper, lasting sense of purpose and meaning.Is often nurtured throughout a lifetime.Personal values, nurturing relationships & friendships, self-reflection, helping others, eating healthier<...47. The Reality of Having an Addictive Personality & Beginning the Process of Letting it Go
CW: This episode briefly discusses disordered eating & body image struggles.
In this week's episode, I explore what it really means to have an addictive personality and why so many of us find ourselves dealing with different forms of addiction. An addictive personality isn't limited to drugs or alcohol—it can show up as food, social media, shopping, or even caffeine addiction. Often, these habits are ways we try to manage anxiety, stress, heartbreak, or trauma. Many of us pick up these coping mechanisms because we haven’t been taught healthier ways to handle life’s challe...