Zen Habits Podcast

Parenting often feels like a whirlwind of challenges, leaving us searching for quick fixes and one-size-fits-all solutions. But the truth is, focusing solely on our children’s behavior can leave us disconnected from the deeper work required for real transformation.

This week, I’m excited to welcome Eran Katz, a clinical psychologist, father, and creator of the Parenting MAP framework and the Apparently Parent podcast. Eran’s mission is to guide parents out of stress and confusion into confidence and harmony, fostering enduring, meaningful relationships with their children.

In this episode, we explore Eran’s journey...

In our drive to be productive, it’s easy to miss out on one essential step: reflection. Often, we focus on doing more and checking things off without truly understanding our progress or the adjustments that might lead to deeper fulfillment and ease in our work.

In the final episode of the season, we dive into the role of regular reflection and adaptation in our productivity journey. I guide you through techniques for self-assessment that help you identify what’s working, what’s not, and why. I also explain how to use accountability groups, intentional reflection practices, and mo...

The conventional approach to productivity focuses on output and discipline—often at the expense of joy and fulfillment. We push through tasks, trying to be more efficient, only to find ourselves feeling disconnected from the work we’re doing. This mindset can turn each day into a grind, leaving us drained and unfulfilled.

In this episode, we explore how shifting our mindset towards gratitude and wonder can not only boost productivity but also make our daily tasks more meaningful. I discuss how practices rooted in Zen can help us fully appreciate each moment, from mundane chores to majo...

In our work, there’s often pressure to focus on getting results, closing deals, or following scripts that can feel transactional or impersonal. But for those of us who value genuine connection, this approach often feels misaligned, leaving us questioning how we can serve others in a way that’s true to our values and leads to more meaningful impact.

This week, I’m thrilled to welcome Toku McCree, a close friend, coach, and someone who has redefined the way we think about client relationships. Toku’s background as a Zen practitioner and coach led him to develop...

When we aim for perfection in our work, it’s easy to fall into a cycle of anxiety and procrastination. We hesitate to start, or we push ourselves until we’re burned out, afraid that anything less than flawless won’t be good enough.

In this episode, I invite you to reconsider the value of imperfection. I discuss why flaws can make our work more unique and valuable, how imperfection is an inevitable part of challenging projects, and ways to shift from striving for the ideal to embracing the messy process of growth. I also dive into the Ja...

Many people approach productivity by focusing on systems and discipline, trying to push through tasks with force. This approach often leads to burnout and frustration, especially when we don't address the internal resistance that holds us back. We push ourselves harder, only to feel more closed off and disconnected from the work we aim to do.

In this episode, we dive deep into what it means to cultivate an inner state of flow. I explain how being open—filled with curiosity, love, and purpose—can make even the most challenging tasks feel lighter and more fulfilling. I also...

We often overlook the early warning signs of burnout—subtle hints like exhaustion, irritability, or loss of motivation. Instead, we push forward, believing that powering through will get us to the finish line faster. But ignoring these signs only brings us closer to a breaking point, where recovery becomes much more difficult.

In this episode, we take a closer look at how stress leads to burnout and explore the importance of balancing stress with recovery. I share strategies to help you recognize when you're overloading and depleting yourself, and how to build sustainable recovery practices through mindful se...

We live in a culture that constantly tells us to push harder, achieve more, and stay on top of everything. But this relentless striving often keeps us from the fulfillment we seek. Many of us face anxiety, procrastination, and burnout as we struggle to accept that the key to a more meaningful life lies in embracing our limitations rather than fighting against them.

This week, I’m honored to welcome Oliver Burkeman, bestselling author of Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals, as our special guest. Oliver’s work challenges the conventional approach to productivity, urging us to f...

Procrastination can feel like an endless battle, one that we keep trying to win through discipline and force. We push ourselves harder, use stricter schedules, or employ rigid systems, only to find ourselves falling back into the same patterns. It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that procrastination is simply about lacking motivation or willpower, but the roots run deeper.

In this episode, we explore the true nature of procrastination, examining its roots in fear, uncertainty, and avoidance. I guide you through understanding why we often resist tasks that challenge our sense of self an...

Distractions are a universal challenge, keeping us from fully committing to the tasks that matter most. Whether it's the pull of social media, a buzzing phone, or even seemingly productive activities like organizing, these distractions often derail our focus and creativity.

In this episode, we take a closer look at the root causes of distractions and explore mindful strategies to counter them. From minimizing digital interruptions to creating a workspace that fosters focus and deep work, I break down actionable steps to help you stay on track. You'll learn how to build a mindful, distraction-free environment, manage...

In a world obsessed with constant productivity, many of us feel pressured to do more and more, often at the expense of our well-being and personal fulfillment. This relentless pursuit can lead us to overlook the deeper, more meaningful aspects of how we spend our time.

This week, I’m thrilled to welcome productivity expert, author, and creator of the TimeCrafting system, Mike Vardy. Mike has spent years helping people shift their focus from traditional productivity to something deeper—what he calls “productiveness.” Through his work, he shows us how to approach time with greater intention, crafting a life t...

For many, time management is about squeezing in as much as possible, often leading to stress and burnout. But what if we could approach it as a practice of presence rather than productivity—one that aligns with our values and helps us create meaningful impact?

In this episode, we explore mindful time management, a Zen-inspired approach that focuses on creating impact rather than simply doing more. I discuss the power of single-tasking, the importance of showing up on time, and how structuring your day can help you stay committed and focused. Through personal stories and Zen teachings, I...

Many of us feel overwhelmed by the sheer volume of clutter in both our physical and digital workspaces. We try to manage it all, but constant distractions pull us away from what really matters. This often leads to stress, inefficiency, and a lack of focus.

In this episode, I explore how we can simplify our workspace and workflow to reduce distractions and foster a more productive environment. I share practical tips on decluttering our space, managing our digital tools, and streamlining our workflows to create more calm and clarity. By organizing both the physical and digital aspects...

We often set out to improve our productivity by adopting new habits, yet we struggle to maintain them over time. This challenge typically arises when we approach habit formation with rigid expectations, without considering the need for sustainability and joy in the process.

In this episode, we explore how to build sustainable habits that not only support our productivity but also align with our deeper goals and values. I discuss the importance of starting small, using mindfulness to enhance the habit-forming process, and employing positive reinforcement to keep the momentum going. Plus, I'll talk about how to...

Many of us start new projects or set goals with enthusiasm, only to find ourselves losing direction along the way. This often happens when we lack a clear understanding of the deeper intentions that should guide our actions. Without aligning our goals with our intentions, we risk moving forward without purpose, leading to frustration and burnout.

In this episode, we dive into the distinction between goals and intentions, exploring how these concepts play out in both Zen practice and our everyday lives. I discuss the importance of setting intentions that are aligned with our values, and how...

Welcome to season 3 of the Zen Habits Podcast!

In our pursuit of productivity, it's easy to get lost in the endless cycle of doing more, often at the cost of our mental and emotional well-being. Many of us find ourselves trapped by distractions, procrastination, and the pressure to constantly produce. However, traditional productivity methods may not address the deeper issues that hold us back from meaningful and impactful work.

In this new season, titled "The Zen of Productivity", we'll explore how Zen principles can transform our approach to work and productivity. We'll discuss how to...

In our fast-paced lives, it’s easy to finish one project and quickly move on to the next, often leaving behind a trail of unresolved feelings and incomplete experiences. This common approach can hinder our personal and professional growth, leading to a cycle of ongoing dissatisfaction. But what if we could transform the way we conclude our projects to feel truly accomplished and fulfilled?

In this episode, I introduce the concept of "closing with completion," a powerful practice designed to help us conclude our projects and life chapters with a sense of fulfillment and clarity. We explore th...

In our daily lives, we often find ourselves stuck in a cycle of routines and habits, going through the motions without much thought or intention. This can lead to feelings of emptiness and disconnection. But what if there was a way to bring more meaning and presence to our everyday tasks?

In this episode, we explore the power of rituals and how they can transform ordinary activities into moments of sacredness and devotion. By understanding the difference between a habit and a ritual, we can begin to infuse our daily actions with a sense of wonder and...

In an age of endless distractions and obligations, it's easy to lose sight of the importance of self-care and mindfulness, especially for parents juggling the demands of raising children while pursuing their passions. But what if we could find a way to integrate mindfulness into our creative pursuits and parenting journey, leading to greater well-being and deeper connections?

This week, I'm delighted to welcome Maria Gehrke, a watercolor artist and IT professional who beautifully embodies the intersection of art, mindfulness, and parenting. Maria shares her inspiring journey of rediscovering her creativity after becoming a mother and how...

Fear of failure can be a significant barrier to achieving our creative goals, often causing us to doubt our abilities and hesitate to share our work with the world. This fear can keep us stuck in a cycle of inaction and self-criticism, preventing us from realizing our true potential.

In this episode, we examine the deep-seated fear of failure and its impact on our creativity. We explore the underlying causes of this fear, such as self-doubt and fear of criticism, and discuss practical strategies for overcoming it. By building self-trust and learning to reinterpret criticism, we can...

Creativity thrives not just on inspiration but on the steady accumulation of small, deliberate actions. Yet, many creatives find themselves challenged by the need to maintain a consistent practice. The key to overcoming this challenge lies in building a foundation of sustainable habits and practices that support incremental progress and ongoing creativity.

This week, I’m thrilled and honored to welcome special guest James Clear, a celebrated author, blogger, and thought leader. His book, Atomic Habits, has transformed the lives of millions with its practical approach to habit formation and improvement. James brings a wealth of knowledge on...

Many of us find ourselves trapped in a cycle of avoidance and procrastination when facing projects that matter deeply to us. This resistance often stems from a mix of fear, uncertainty, and a lack of effective strategies to navigate these challenges. But what if we could harness the power of rituals and structure in our daily routines to overcome these common pitfalls?

In this episode, I introduce the Fearless Ritual, a powerful daily practice designed to help us face the uncertainty and fear that often derail our creative projects. We dive into how this ritual, together with...

In the world of entrepreneurship, it's all too common to see an overemphasis on quick success and profit maximization, often at the expense of the deeper, more sustainable aspects of business creation and personal fulfillment. This narrow focus can leave entrepreneurs feeling unfulfilled and isolated despite their outward success.

This week, I’m delighted to welcome Abi Mandelbaum, an entrepreneur who stands out for his commitment to integrating creativity and deep personal values into his business ventures. Abi's approach not only fosters innovation but also nurtures the human spirit, creating a more holistic model for success.

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Navigating the complex landscape of creative work often means facing a myriad of internal and external challenges. Every creator grapples with profound questions about purpose, direction, and the anxiety of venturing into uncharted territories.

In this special episode, we dive into such universal concerns, providing guidance and insight for those at a crossroads in their creative lives. I answer questions submitted by our listeners, who share their struggles with sustaining creativity in the face of daunting challenges. We unpack the emotional and practical sides of these issues, addressing topics such as overcoming creative blocks, the fear of...

At the intersection of technical precision and creative insight lies a unique pathway to understanding the world around us. By blending the analytical skills of engineering with the reflective practices of writing and mysticism, we unlock new dimensions of personal and professional growth, transforming challenges into innovative solutions.

In this episode, I'm excited to welcome Beth Adele Long — an engineer by training, a writer by passion, and a mystic by inclination — who embodies this unique convergence of skills. Beth shares her experiences of writing both a memoir and a technical guide, providing a fascinating look at how dive...

As creators, we often find ourselves entangled in a web of indecision, perfectionism, and self-doubt, which prevents us from fully unlocking our creative potential. To liberate ourselves, we need to embrace the unknown, confronting and accepting the risks of failure, judgment, and feelings of inadequacy. But how can we transform our fear of the unknown into a playground of creativity and discovery?

In this episode, we explore the challenges and fears that hold us back from stepping into the unknown of our creative projects, and how adopting a stance of playful curiosity can lead us to unexpected...

At the heart of every challenge lies the potential for innovation, unity, and profound personal growth. Music, with its boundless capacity to express, heal, and unite, offers a unique vantage point on life's challenges.

This week I have the privilege to be joined by Linda McIntyre, a composer, conductor, and pioneer at the forefront of using music as a transformative force to bring light to the shadows of Parkinson's disease. Her work with the New Voice Choir not only showcases the transformative power of music but also the strength found in community and shared experiences.

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Questioning our commitment to a project each time we face resistance or doubt undermines the foundation of our creative practice. However, attempting to create without acknowledging and incorporating our fears into the process can result in a lack of authenticity and depth in our work. By understanding and embracing our fears, we uncover ways to forge a deeper, more resilient commitment to our projects.

In this episode, we discuss the critical role of commitment in creative work and examine the fears and doubts that challenge it. We unpack how these forces, seemingly at odds, can actually fuel...

Embracing the full spectrum of our experiences, including the shadows, is essential for true personal transformation and growth. Viewing challenges not as barriers but as opportunities for growth—through the lens of alchemy, where difficulties are transformed into raw materials for personal evolution—can fundamentally shift our approach to life's obstacles.

In this episode, I'm thrilled to be joined by Salem, a visionary artist and co-creator of the Zen Habits podcast theme song, who masterfully weaves the transformative power of alchemy into her music and life. Together, we explore the depths of artistic expression, the challenges of ment...

Many of us resist stepping into the unknown, clinging to comfort zones that stifle creativity and self-discovery. We shy away from new challenges due to a deep-seated fear of failure or embarrassment, missing out on invaluable learning opportunities, and limiting our capacity for innovation.

In this episode, we shine a light on the power of embracing the unknown to discover our true creative potential. We discuss the challenges of starting and continuing creative projects, examining the fears and uncertainties that often arise. We introduce strategies for overcoming these challenges, emphasizing the importance of being present, practicing with...

What lies at the heart of unlocking our creative energy? What steps can we take to transform our creative blocks into productive energy?

Creative blocks are not solely the result of a lack of ideas but are deeply intertwined with our emotional state and our surroundings. Embracing and expressing the chaotic energies of our environment can be a powerful method to unblock and harness our creative potential.

In this episode, we discuss the dynamic nature of creativity, challenging the traditional views that confine it to being either a mystical muse or a mere skill, and...

Many of us approach creativity with preconceived notions, assuming that the act of creating is a straightforward process of bringing an existing idea into reality. Yet, true creativity often emerges from venturing into the unknown, challenging our expectations of what it means to create.

In this episode, we dive into creativity as an act of discovery, where the unknown plays a central role in shaping our creations. We examine the interplay between intention and spontaneity, the importance of playfulness, the role of ego, and the transformative power of embracing outcomes, regardless of their success.

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When it comes to our creative projects, we often fall into the trap of waiting for inspiration to strike before taking action. But what if we shift our mindset and commit to showing up every day, regardless of whether we feel inspired or not?

In this episode, we explore how to create structure and discipline in our creative projects, allowing us to tap into our creativity consistently. We'll discuss the importance of having a structure for our creative work, while also leaving space for spontaneity and discovery.

Join me as we dive into the tension...

What does it mean to choose from the heart and trust the creative process? How can we reconnect with our 'why' and infuse love into our creative projects?

When embarking on a creative project, we may fall into the trap of focusing solely on the end result or outcome. We become fixated on the destination, losing sight of the joy and love that can be found in the process itself. This episode reminds us to cultivate a love of creation, allowing us to find fulfillment in every step of the journey, from the moment we choose what...

Welcome to Season Two of the Zen Habits podcast!

In this new season, titled 'The Love of Creation,' we'll explore creativity in all its forms, beyond traditional artistic expressions, diving into every aspect of life. We'll examine how love influences our creative process, guiding us towards authenticity and unlocking our full potential as creators.

Throughout the season, we'll dive deep into the source and nature of the creative process, explore the role of love in our creations, and learn to relate to creativity and creation in a different way: through the lens of love...

Fear often keeps us from diving into what we really care about, nudging us to play it safe instead. But this safety net leaves us feeling like we haven't accomplished much. Ironically, avoiding fear just makes us feel worse about ourselves. But here's the twist: we can change that narrative. We have the power to use fear to make us stronger and help us grow.

In this coaching session, I team up with Dave, a psychologist with a passion for music. Together, we'll dive into how fear prevents us from pursuing our dreams. We'll examine how avoiding...

The way we conclude our projects, seasons, or life cycles holds the power to shape our growth and evolution. Therefore, in this final episode of Season One, we're diving into the concept of 'closing with intention.'

Much like our previous explorations into self-trust, finding balance, embracing resistance, and the resilience of human connection, intentional closure stands as a pivotal force in shaping our personal narratives.

Join me as we explore the significance of purposeful conclusions. We'll delve into celebrating achievements, embracing the wisdom inherent in both completed and ongoing projects, and creating space for...

What unfolds when we learn to navigate life's complexities with a newfound grace and trust in ourselves?

In this live coaching session, we delve into the compelling story of Sofia, a massage therapist turned aspiring coach, as she grapples with the overwhelming landscape of juggling multiple passions. Together, we unravel the delicate dance between personal development and entrepreneurial pursuits, emphasizing the profound significance of trusting one's heart-driven decisions over societal expectations.

Discover with us the power of embracing life's messiness and the freedom found in prioritizing tasks based on desire rather than obligation. Through Sofia's...

How can we steer toward work that authentically resonates with our essence? How do we align our work with a deeper sense of purpose?

In this episode, I'm joined by special guest Jonathan Fields, a renowned author, podcast host, and the creator of Good Life Project and Spark Endeavors. Together, we dive into the transformative journey of deriving a profound sense of meaning from our work and its pivotal role in personal fulfillment.

Jonathan unravels the secrets behind work-life satisfaction and introduces us to the concept of 'Sparketype'—a unique tool to identify our work in...

How can we cultivate, nurture and amplify the transformative power of human connection in the face of profound uncertainty and societal stigmas?

In this episode, we embark on a thought-provoking conversation with my friend and member of the Fearless Living Academy, Joshua Goldberg. His personal experiences with marginalized communities, and insights from navigating disability and agorafobia, offer a unique perspective on uncertainty and resilience.

Joshua's journey serves as an enlightening and inspiring reminder of the human potential for transformation, growth, and change.

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