A Time to Care: The Caregivers Podcast
I’m Isabel Melgarejo, and I was raised never to talk about the uncomfortable things in life and to put myself after everyone else’s needs (just like any other woman I know). In college, after Dad’s passing, I had to change all my beliefs. I had to talk about death, about my mom’s future, and I had to ask for a LOT of favors. After connecting with many caregivers when I moved to Texas and remembering one of the toughest seasons in my life, I created a program to help caregivers navigate these very uncomfortable conversations and help them...
Travel as Medicine: Restoring the Caregiver’s Spirit with Dr. Clay Lowder

In this episode of A Time to Care: The Caregivers Podcast, Isabel welcomes Dr. Clay Lowder, family physician and founder of the Winners Travel Foundation. Together they explore the realities of caregiver syndrome, the importance of rest, and how travel can renew body, mind, and spirit. Dr. Louder shares his journey from medicine to creating life-changing retreats and free travel opportunities for caregivers, reminding us all that renewal is possible and community makes the journey lighter.
Finding Your Voice in Healthcare with Claudia Cometta

In this episode of A Time to Care: The Caregivers Podcast, Isabel Melgarejo welcomes Claudia Cometta, a pharmacist who transformed her own family’s health crisis into a mission of hope and advocacy. Claudia shares how her father’s illness opened her eyes to the struggles patients face and inspired her to guide others with compassion, clarity, and courage. Together, they explore how to reclaim your voice in healthcare, set meaningful goals for well-being, and embrace a new paradigm where patients and families are empowered to shape their own health journey.
Finding Beauty in Life’s Final Chapter with Martha Jo Atkins

Why do we fear death—and how can we see its beauty? In this heartfelt episode, host Isabel Melgarejo speaks with death doula Martha Jo Atkins about end-of-life care, breaking taboos, and finding peace in life’s hardest goodbyes.
What if the secret to abundance is simply choosing joy today?

In this episode, Isabel shares how a simple shift in mindset—choosing love, care, joy, and abundance—can transform everyday life. From self-talk to daily habits, she shows how to replace guilt with gentleness and discover the abundance already around us. A gentle reminder that you deserve more kindness, more joy, and more peace—starting with yourself.
What if the biggest challenge in caregiving isn’t age, but ageism? An Interview to Dr Mara Karpel

In this episode of Time to Care Like Caregivers, Isabel Melgarejo sits down with psychologist, author, and podcast host Dr. Mara Karpel to explore the hidden impact of ageism in healthcare and caregiving. From her personal journey advocating for her mother to her upcoming book on navigating an ageist system, Dr. Karpel shares insights, tools, and hope for caregivers who often feel unheard. A powerful conversation about dignity, advocacy, and finding passion at any age
Hobbies: Your Secret Care Tool

In this episode of A Time to Care: The Caregivers Podcast, Isabel Melgarejo reminds us that life is more than work and responsibilities. She explores the power of hobbies and joyful activities, why we often postpone them, and how even small steps—like researching or trying something new—can bring energy and fulfillment into our daily lives.
Transforming Caregiving into a Season of Growth

In this episode, Isabel invites listeners to pause, reflect, and imagine their future as caregivers—or as care receivers. Drawing from her experience leading her first Planning Lab for Caregivers and Retirees, she shares how planning for care can be just as meaningful and intentional as planning a trip, a new home, or retirement dreams.
Through a guided journaling and reflection exercise, Isabel encourages listeners to:
Explore their expectations and emotions around caregiving.Identify the mix of feelings that come with this life stage—honor, sadness, guilt, joy, or overwhelm.
Recognize which emotions they may...
Looking Ahead: Exciting Upcoming Projects at Tum Coeur

In today’s episode, we take you behind the scenes at Tum Coeur to share an exciting glimpse of what’s coming next. From new podcast series and live workshops to community events and creative collaborations, we’re building meaningful spaces to grow, connect, and care—together.
Whether you’ve been with us from the beginning or you’ve just joined our community, this is the perfect time to tune in and learn about the vision that inspires everything we do. We talk about our goals for the months ahead, the new resources we’re working on for...
Healing What We Inherit: Understanding Generational Trauma with Eve Buck

In today’s episode, we speak with Eve Buck, an expert in generational trauma—the emotional and psychological wounds that are passed down from one generation to the next.
Eve helps us understand that trauma isn’t always caused by a single event. Sometimes, it’s inherited. We may carry the weight of experiences we didn’t personally live through, but that were passed to us through learned behaviors, emotional responses, and even family silence. These patterns often show up in our lives as chronic stress, anxiety, over-vigilance, or feelings of fear or...
When Life Feels Uncomfortable: Choosing Curiosity and Clarity Over Confusion

In this episode of the podcast, we explore those seasons in life when something just doesn’t feel right—when discomfort lingers, but we’re not quite sure what to do about it. These moments can feel heavy or confusing, especially when we silence the voice of curiosity.
Often, when we stop being curious, we also stop exploring new perspectives. We fall into autopilot, tolerate discomfort, or assume there’s no solution—just "A or B," black or white, this or that. But what if there’s a third way?
We share three key lessons t...
Letting Go: Making Space for What Matters

In today’s episode, we take a thoughtful look at the things we hold on to—especially the clothes and belongings that no longer serve a real purpose in our lives. It’s easy to keep items simply because they once worked for us or because they hold sentimental value. But just because something was useful or meaningful in the past doesn't mean it's still helping us thrive today.
We invite you to consider: Do the objects around you bring joy, comfort, or inspiration? Or are they simply taking up space—physically and emotionally?
Letting go isn’t...
"Understanding Grief: Giving Space to What Was Lost"

In today’s episode of A Time to Care: The Caregivers Podcast, we welcome grief expert Danielle Southwick for a heartfelt and enlightening conversation on one of the most universal yet often misunderstood experiences: grief.
Danielle reminds us that grief is a normal and natural part of life—it’s not something to hide, fix, or rush through. She expands our understanding of grief by explaining that it doesn’t only come from the death of a loved one. Grief shows up in many forms:
Tangible losses, such as the death of someone close, graduati..."Taking the Fear Out of Finances: A Caregiver’s Guide to Financial Confidence"

In today’s episode of A Time to Care: The Caregivers Podcast, we sit down with financial advisor Joel Arsenault for an eye-opening conversation about personal finance—especially for caregivers and families navigating later stages of life.
Joel encourages us to go deeper into the topic of finances, reminding us that financial planning is not just for experts or investors—it’s for everyone, especially those in caregiving roles. He reflects on how, in the past, financial decisions were often left solely to men, which created an imbalance in knowledge and confidence that still lingers today. Many people—p...
Faith, Healing, and the Sacred Work of Caregiving

In today’s episode of A Time to Care: The Caregivers Podcast, we speak with Amy Chastain, author of How to Find God in the Caregiver’s Journey. Amy opens her heart and shares how her personal relationship with God was both tested and strengthened through her caregiving experience. She candidly describes a time when she felt unworthy and had to return to the foundations of her faith to rebuild from within.
Amy emphasizes the vital importance of community, even when it feels incredibly vulnerable to admit we need help. She reminds us that healing is not a on...
Healing the Body, Shifting the Mind: A Conversation on Recovery, Joy, and Acceptance with Brian Lerch

In today’s episode of A Time to Care: The Caregivers Podcast, we sit down with Brian Lerch, a seasoned executive in healthcare who works at a rehabilitation hospital that supports individuals recovering from traumatic events—such as car accidents or major strokes.
Brian shares valuable insights into the journey of rehabilitation, where the goal is not just physical recovery but also emotional and mental transformation. Patients at his facility participate in three hours of therapy a day, focusing on regaining the ability to perform daily tasks. But the journey doesn’t stop there. A crucia...
Peace Within the Storm: Finding Calm as a Caregiver with Rick Henkin

In this deeply moving episode of A Time to Care: The Caregivers Podcast, we speak with Rick Henkin, who shares his personal journey as a caregiver for his wife after she was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. Faced with overwhelming emotions, unanswered questions, and a heart heavy with grief, Rick found little external guidance to help him cope. So, he turned inward.
What followed was a profound internal transformation—a path toward peace, self-acceptance, and emotional resilience.
Rick opens up about the lessons he’s learned in this intimate caregiving journey. He encourages caregivers not to be too...
Talk Kindly to Yourself: Rewriting Your Inner Dialogue with Traci Poe

In today’s episode of A Time to Care: The Caregivers Podcast, we sit down with Traci Poe, a communication expert with a powerful message—not about how we speak to others, but how we speak to ourselves.
Traci explains that one of the most damaging and overlooked forms of communication is our inner dialogue. Far too often, we mistreat ourselves with negative self-talk, using harsh labels or being overly critical. This internal narrative can quietly erode our confidence, especially during challenging life stages like caregiving or retirement.
To help shift this dynamic, Traci offers a sim...
Breaking the Silence: How to Support Older Adults Facing Loneliness with Deborah Armstrong

In this heartfelt episode of A Time to Care: The Caregivers Podcast, we speak with Deborah Armstrong, a specialist in senior isolation and loneliness. Deborah sheds light on a reality many older adults face: feeling disconnected from their families and the world around them. Whether it’s an inability to relate to the fast-paced conversations of their children and grandchildren or the impact of cognitive or mental health issues, isolation often leads to deep sadness or depression.
Deborah also reminds us how the COVID-19 pandemic heightened this problem, as everyone became more familiar with the toll that pro...
Redefining Life After Retirement: A Conversation with Alara Rosenberg

In this inspiring episode of A Time to Care: The Caregivers Podcast, we sit down with Alara Rosenberg, a retirement coach who helps individuals navigate the emotional and practical transition into post-career life. Alara shares that one of the most essential steps in this phase is taking the time to reflect on key questions: Who are you now? What do you want to do? Who do you want to become?
She emphasizes the importance of social connection, encouraging retirees to build meaningful relationships and embrace the freedom to explore new interests. Retirement, she reminds us, is not a...
Empowering Elder Care: Giancarlo Paolillo on Safety, Innovation, and Real-Time Support

In today’s podcast episode, we have the pleasure of speaking with Giancarlo Paolillo, whose background in law enforcement has inspired him to develop a cutting-edge mobile application designed to enhance safety and communication in elder care. Drawing from his experience on the police force, Giancarlo recognized the urgent need for real-time information sharing and reliable systems that support both caregivers and families.
His app—available for both Android and iOS—is versatile and scalable, making it ideal for individuals, small businesses, and large organizations alike. The platform allows users to document real-time biometric testing results, track medica...
Money, Mind, and Memory: Proactive Planning with Michael Lewis

In this episode of the podcast, we sit down with financial advisor Michael Lewis, who shares insightful perspectives on the intersection of brain health and financial planning.
Michael points out that certain cognitive decline conditions can begin developing 7 to 10 years before any noticeable symptoms appear. With this in mind, he strongly recommends that just as we schedule annual physical checkups, we should also routinely assess our cognitive function. Proactive brain health screenings can make a significant difference in long-term financial decision-making and personal well-being.
He also emphasizes that periods of high stress are some of...
Unlocking Inner Strength: Mental Wellness for Peak Performance with Aneesh Chaudhry

Today, we have the pleasure of speaking with Aneesh Chaudhry, who shares powerful insights into the connection between mental health and athletic performance. Through his work, Aneesh discovered that many athletes struggle to reach their full potential not due to physical limitations, but because of psychological barriers that often go unaddressed.
Motivated by this realization, he developed a specialized program designed to support athletes in nurturing strong mental well-being. His approach focuses on helping individuals build emotional resilience, foster inner peace, and maintain a balanced mindset—essential tools not only for sports but for life.
An...
More Than a Move: Navigating Emotional Transitions with Miriam Bahar

Today on the podcast, we are joined by Miriam Bahar, a specialist in movement and transitions, who provides compassionate support to individuals—especially older adults—during the significant life event of relocating to a new home.
Miriam shares how moving is not simply about changing addresses; it is a deeply emotional and meaningful process. For many seniors, parting with personal belongings can be difficult, as these items often hold sentimental value and are linked to cherished memories. She emphasizes the importance of having support during this time—someone who can walk alongside them with empathy and understanding, helpin...
Speaking the Language of Love: Connecting Through Communication with Traci Poe

In this episode of our podcast, we have the pleasure of interviewing Traci Poe, a communication specialist with a deep understanding of human connection and emotional intelligence. Tracy shares valuable insights on how we can learn from others by observing and even mirroring their ways of expressing love, helping us to better connect with those around us—whether it's our partners, family members, or friends.
One of the key highlights of the episode is Traci’s explanation of the Five Love Languages, a concept developed by Dr. Gary Chapman that has transformed how many people understand and expr...
Embracing Joy and Self-Kindness: A Conversation with Judy Swanson.

In today’s podcast episode, we have the pleasure of speaking with Judy Swanson, who shares valuable insights on mental health and well-being. She provides practical tips on how to cultivate small sparks of joy in everyday life and emphasizes the importance of being kinder to yourself.
Judy encourages us to practice gratitude daily, engage in acts of kindness, smile more often, and find joy in the simple beauty of nature. She also explains how the way we phrase our thoughts and words can significantly impact our mood. For example, shifting from saying “I have to” to “I get to...
Finding the Perfect Home: A Conversation with Geriatric Consultant Jodi Benusa

In this episode of our podcast, we have the pleasure of interviewing Jodi Benusa, a dedicated geriatric consultant who helps families find the ideal living arrangement for their aging loved ones. Her work is truly remarkable, as she goes beyond the surface to ensure that every placement is a perfect match.
Jodi follows a unique and thorough approach to finding the right senior living community. She starts by asking the right questions to understand not only the medical and physical needs of the elderly person but also their personality, lifestyle, and personal preferences. She then reaches out...
Celebrating a Milestone: Our 100th Podcast Episode!

Today, we are thrilled to celebrate a major milestone—our 100th podcast episode! This journey has been incredible, and we are so grateful to have you as part of our community. Every episode has been an opportunity to learn, grow, and connect, and we couldn't have done it without you.
No matter where you are, we invite you to celebrate with us! Whether it’s by sharing your favorite episode, reflecting on the insights gained, or simply taking a moment to appreciate this journey, let’s make this a special occasion together.
Thank you for being...
Honoring Life’s Journey: A Meaningful Farewell with Amy Bridger at Farmstead Scattering Garden

In this podcast, we have the pleasure of interviewing Amy Bridger from Farmstead, an organization dedicated to honoring those who have passed away in a truly unique and heartfelt way.
Farmstead offers a special service that allows families to commemorate their loved ones in a serene and picturesque setting—a beautiful farm where ashes can be laid to rest in a manner that truly reflects the essence of the departed.
This peaceful haven provides a personalized farewell, ensuring that the final tribute aligns with what would have been most meaningful to the individual. Whether it’s du...
Navigating Perimenopause: Self-Care, Confidence, and Caregiving with Alex Hall

In this episode, we interview Alex Hall, a healthcare professional who shares valuable insights on the challenges women face during perimenopause—a transitional phase in life that often coincides with the responsibility of caring for aging parents.
Alex highlights the importance of self-care, not just as a way to manage stress but as a powerful tool for self-discovery and renewed confidence. He offers practical advice on prioritizing personal well-being and maintaining balance while navigating this demanding stage of life. Tune in to hear his expert tips and strategies for embracing self-care during this transformative period.
Embracing the Renewal of Spring: A Season of Growth and Change

In this episode of our podcast, we delve into the beauty and symbolism of the arrival of spring. As the season changes, we witness the rebirth of flowers, the lush green transformation of fields, and the return of migratory birds that had flown south during the winter months.
Winter often keeps people indoors, not only physically but also emotionally, as the cold and shorter days encourage a period of introspection and solitude. However, this retreat isn’t just within our homes—it happens in our minds as well. If we’re honest, the things we tell ourselves during...
Finding What Truly Matters: An Intergenerational Perspective with Jeremy Holloway

In this episode, we sit down with Jeremy Holloway, who works on an inspiring project focused on intergenerational communication. He shares insights on what he considers the four key aspects of well-being: Mobility, Meditation, Medicine, and What Matters—the "4 Ms," as he calls them.
Among these, Jeremy emphasizes that the most important element is what truly matters to each individual. He reflects on how, from a young age, we have an innate desire to help and bring joy—first to our parents and later to others around us. This natural inclination to care for...
The Power of Noticing Others: Building Community as a Caregiver

In this episode, we explore how we tend to write everything down—our to-do lists, things we've learned, important points, and even our thoughts. But one thing we often overlook is keeping track of what happens in the lives of others.
Being a caregiver can be a lonely journey, and having a list of what others are going through can serve as a powerful tool. It allows us to ask thoughtful questions, deepen our conversations, and foster genuine connections. This simple act of paying attention creates a sense of community—one that can offer support, understanding, and comp...
Learning to Say “No”

Many of us were raised to prioritize others' feelings so much that we’ve forgotten how to say “no.” We’ve been conditioned to avoid discomfort and ensure we don’t hurt anyone, but in doing so, we often neglect our own needs.
Saying "no" isn’t about rejecting others; it's about honoring yourself. When we refuse something that doesn’t serve us, we’re making space for what truly matters. Sometimes that means certain tasks might not get done—or someone else will step in to handle them—and that's okay.
It’s also important to remember...
Financial Planning with Christopher Hensley

In today’s episode, we sit down with Christopher Hensley, a financial advisor with years of expertise in guiding families through financial planning. Christopher shares invaluable advice tailored specifically for caregivers, focusing on how to manage the finances of their loved ones with care and foresight.
One of his key messages is the importance of taking proactive steps: “Do it before you need it.” Christopher emphasizes the significance of planning ahead to avoid stress and ensure that resources are available when they’re most needed.
From budgeting for medical expenses to setting up a sustainable financia...
Celebrating You: A Valentine’s Day of Self-Love and Achievements

This episode is a heartfelt invitation to practice self-appreciation and self-care. Isabel shares practical tips on how to be gentler with ourselves, acknowledge our efforts, and treat ourselves with the same care and affection we offer to others. Whether it's indulging in a small treat, taking a quiet moment to reflect on your progress, or simply speaking kind words to yourself, she encourages you to embrace the day as an opportunity to honor your own journey.
Don't miss this inspiring episode filled with warmth, encouragement, and self-love.
Chocolate and Yoga: Mindfulness and Self-Care with Paul and Rachell

In today’s podcast, we’re thrilled to welcome Paul and Rachel, who share their wisdom on mindfulness, chocolate, yoga and self-care. They dive into the incredible benefits of cacao, highlighting it as one of the most powerful antioxidants available. They also explain how combining cacao with other natural ingredients from the earth can help us feel more grounded and connected.
Beyond the science, Paul and Rachel offer practical tips on how to enhance your everyday experiences, turning ordinary moments at home into opportunities for emotional connection and joy. Whether you’re looking to bring more mindfulness into y...
Breaking Free from the Past

In this episode, I share practical tips to help you break free from dwelling on the past and bring your focus back to the present. It's easy to get caught in the cycle of reliving moments that are long gone, but there are ways to regain control of your thoughts and emotions.
The first step is awareness. Recognize when your mind has wandered back to the past. Ask yourself:
How do I feel about this memory?What emotions are surfacing?How is my body reacting—do I feel tension, heaviness, or unease?Acknowledging yo...
Embracing the Present Moment

In this episode, we ask a simple yet profound question: Are you truly enjoying the present moment? So often, we find ourselves stuck in the past or consumed by the future, missing the beauty and joy of the now.
The past is gone—it no longer exists except in our memories. Holding onto it, whether through regret or nostalgia, can weigh us down. The key is to let it go and release its hold on our present.
The future, on the other hand, is where our minds often wander with worry. When we think ahead, we...
Auditing Your Relationships for a Better You

In this episode, we dive into the vital yet often overlooked practice of auditing your relationships. Our connections have a profound impact on our emotions, energy, and personal growth.
It's often said that we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with. If we surround ourselves with individuals who are consistently negative or sad, we may find ourselves feeling emotionally drained or weighed down. On the other hand, being around uplifting, supportive people can inspire us to become the best versions of ourselves.
The purpose of this practice isn’t to...
The Power of Auditing Your Daily Activities

In this episode, we explore the transformative practice of auditing your daily activities to create a more fulfilling and intentional life.
Many people take time to track their daily routines over the course of a few days, writing down every activity they engage in. This process provides valuable insights into how you spend your time and how those activities make you feel.
When it comes to decluttering your schedule, your emotions are a crucial guide. Ask yourself:
Which activities bring me joy or fulfillment?Which ones feel draining or uninspiring?For tasks that...