Crafted

This week we’re diving into the unexpected changes that come with marriage, the parenting situations that put our patience and values to the test, and the complicated world of celebrity culture! What happens when your spouse isn't the person you thought you married? How would you handle your child talking back, bullying, or stealing? And have celebrities become too entitled to special treatment? From growing together in marriage to making tough parenting decisions and questioning society’s obsession with fame, this episode is full of honest conversations & relatable moments

💍♥️ Forever Segment: I Do… But Who Are You...

This week we’re tackling some big questions about marriage, parenting, and pop culture! Is it healthy to expect your spouse to be your everything, or are we putting too much pressure on each other? Are today’s kids running the household, and how do we take back control without losing connection? Plus, we dive into the buzz surrounding Jay-Z and the Super Bowl halftime show. From marriage expectations to parenting power struggles and halftime headlines, we’ve got plenty to unpack!

💍♥️ Forever Segment: All of Me, All on You?

Your spouse is supposed to be your person, but are they supposed to be your everything? Best friend, therapist...

Married couples shouldn’t have joint bank accounts. 💳

Women should lead the marriage. 👀

Spending big money on a wedding is a waste. 💍

Have you heard these takes before? or maybe you secretly agree with a few of them? 😂

This week on The Crafted Podcast, we’re diving into some of the internet’s most unpopular marriage opinions and giving our takes after 16 years of marriage. Which ones make sense? Which ones have us side-eyeing? And which ones might actually spark a good conversation between couples?

Then we switch gears because… why does EVER...

This week’s episode is a mini-pod, but we promise you full size energy & laughs lol.

🎬 Lifestyle Segment: Daejon Love & The Scam of a Lifetime!

We’re diving into the viral story of Daejon Love, a 35-year-old man accused of posing as a wealthy San Francisco 49ers wide receiver and successful real estate investor while allegedly scamming at least 26 women out of a combined $1.3 million. How did he convince so many people? What makes us overlook red flags when money, status, romance, and trust are involved? And the ultimate question; would YOU have fa...

This week’s episode is all about navigating changing expectations in marriage, parenting, and entertainment. We unpack why marriage may no longer feel like the ultimate relationship goal, share practical ways to parent strong-willed and argumentative kids without turning every moment into a battle, and give our take on Netflix’s The Last House. From “I do” to “I’m not arguing with a child” to “Did AI write this script?”, there’s plenty to talk about this week!

💍♥️ Forever Segment: Why don't people want to be Husbands & Wives anymore?

Marriage used to feel like the destination...

This week’s episode is all about the things that leave a lasting impact. We discuss how feeling seen and appreciated can strengthen a marriage, why social-emotional skills are just as important as academic success in preparing our kids for life, and we share our review of The Odyssey and why Christopher Nolan continues to redefine modern filmmaking. From relationships to parenting to storytelling, this episode is packed with practical insight and meaningful conversation.

💍♥️ Forever Segment: Feeling Seen & Feeling Appreciated 

Feeling loved is important, but feeling truly seen and appreciated can transform a marriage. In...

This week’s episode goes beyond the highlight reel to explore the realities of relationships, parenting, and today’s culture. We reflect on the unseen moments that have shaped our 16 years of marriage, debate whether traveling with kids is truly a vacation, and unpack the recent racist attacks directed at Chelsea Gray and the larger conversation about accountability in sports. It’s an honest discussion about what happens behind the scenes, both in our homes and in the headlines.

💍♥️ Forever Segment: Behind the highlight reel - What you didn't see during our 16 years of marriage.

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This week’s episode is all about the legacy we leave and the reputation we build. We discuss how the health of your marriage quietly shapes your children’s future relationships, and we count down the biggest branding wins and blunders of 2026 so far; from celebrity controversies to corporate decisions that had everyone talking. It’s a conversation about influence, perception, and the lasting impact of the choices we make at home and in the public eye.

💍♥️ Forever Segment: The marriage you build is the childhood they remember

The marriage you build becomes the bl...

This week’s episode takes a closer look at why patterns repeat themselves; in marriage, parenting, and culture. We explore whether our grandparents’ marriages were truly better or simply built under different expectations, why our kids seem to struggle with the same behaviors despite countless reminders, and the debate surrounding Becky Hammon after the New York Knicks’ historic championship run. It’s a conversation about perspective, consistency, and what happens when the past collides with the present.

💍♥️ Forever Segment: Grandma stayed, but was she happy? Were our Grandparents Marriages really better?

In this segment, we ex...

This week’s episode is all about preparing for the future; in our marriages, with our children, and in the culture around us. We tackle the difficult question of when a marriage is worth fighting for and when it may be time to let go, discuss how to equip our kids with real relationship skills instead of just warnings, and explore how a new generation of filmmakers is reshaping Hollywood with creativity, passion, and shoestring budgets. It’s a conversation about wisdom, intentionality, and making better choices for the relationships and opportunities that shape our lives.

This week’s SPECIAL episode is all about balance; balancing love with boundaries, freedom with structure, and artistry with legacy. We discuss why healthy boundaries are necessary for strong marriages, how to create a fun but productive summer for your kids, and we break down Drake’s surprise album run and what it says about his place in music today. From relationships to parenting to culture, this episode is packed with honest conversation, practical insight, and plenty of debate. + Listen closely for the code word within this episode to be entered to win a special prize from to celebrate our 1...

This week’s episode dives into the pressures, habits, and cultural shifts shaping relationships, parenting, and everyday life. We explore how “mothering” in marriage can affect attraction and partnership dynamics, discuss the importance of intentionally teaching kids social and life skills in a screen-heavy world, and react to the shocking shutdown of Spirit Airlines and what it could mean for travelers and employees alike. It’s an honest conversation about balance, responsibility, and staying connected in today’s world.

💍♥️ Forever Segment: Are You "Mothering" Your Man & Is It Killing The Attraction?

At what point does he...

This week’s episode is all about understanding, intention, and navigating real-life tensions. We explore how different mental and emotional needs show up in marriage, the balance between supporting and spoiling our kids, and unpack the conversation sparked by KevOnStage around faith, love, and accountability. It’s a thoughtful discussion on how to show up with grace, wisdom, and clarity in the relationships and conversations that matter most.

💍♥️ Forever Segment: Different Brains, Same Marriage

Two people, two different brains, one marriage. In this segment, we talk about navigating relationships when anxiety, ADHD, or other challenges are part of th...

This week’s episode is all about communication, capacity, and accountability. We dive into how to communicate with your spouse in a way that builds connection instead of conflict, what it looks like to parent well when you’re running on empty, and we unpack the viral comments from LeBron James and the conversation around honesty versus responsibility. It’s a real and reflective conversation about how we show up when it matters most.

💍♥️ Forever Segment: Say it so They Hear You, Not Fight You!

How you say something matters just as much as what you say. In this...

This week’s episode is all about awareness, boundaries, and how we show up in everyday moments. We talk about navigating attraction while protecting your marriage, the difference between teaching and simply reacting as parents, and the growing trend of public filming and what it really means to know your rights. It’s a conversation that challenges you to move with intention in your relationships, your parenting, and the world around you.

💍♥️ Forever Segment: Just My Type, Now What? Dealing With Attraction While Married

Attraction doesn’t stop just because you’re married, but what you do with it m...

This week’s episode is all about systems, family choices, and cultural moments that spark conversation. We share the practical systems that help keep our marriage running smoothly, discuss the realities of deciding how many kids to have in today’s world, and break down the historic 83-point performance by Bam Adebayo of the Miami Heat and the debate surrounding it. From relationships to parenting to sports culture, this episode dives into the choices and moments that shape everyday life.

💍♥️ Forever Segment: Cook, Clean, Repeat! Our Marriage System

In this segment, we talk about the practical struct...

Ep. 94: Till Death Do Us Part! Remarrying After Loss, J. Cole’s Honda Civic Tour and The “Why” Behind Kids’ Behavior

This week’s episode dives into love, parenting, and culture in a way that’s honest and thought-provoking. We tackle the taboo question of remarriage after loss, unpack the “what” and the deeper “why” behind the behaviors that drive parents crazy, and break down J. Cole’s unconventional album rollout and what it says about authenticity in today’s culture. It’s a conversation about commitment, understanding, and staying real in every season of life.

💍♥️ Forever Segment: Till...

Ep. 93: Valentine’s Day; Love or Pressure?, Making Mornings Easier, & Bad Bunny at the Super Bowl

This week’s episode explores the expectations we carry in love, parenting, and culture. We unpack whether Valentine’s Day reflects genuine love or social pressure, share practical ways to make school mornings calmer and more connected for families, and break down the cultural impact of Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl halftime performance.

💍♥️ Forever Segment: Is It Love? Or Is It Pressure? Valentine's Day Expectations

Is Valentine’s Day really about love? or has it become about pressure and expect...

Ep. 92: Investing in Your Marriage, Letting Go as Parents, and the Cole Walliser's Glambot Email Controversy

This week’s episode explores what it really means to invest in what matters most. We talk about why marriages need intentional care to grow, how parenting requires releasing control as kids mature, and we unpack the Glambot controversy.

💍 Forever Segment: Reasons to Invest in Your Marriage

Marriage doesn’t thrive on autopilot. In this segment, we talk about why investing in your marriage matters just as much as investing in your health, faith, or career. Growth requires...

Ep. 91: The Kristy & Desmond Scott Experience, Being Present For Your Kids & iShowSpeed In Africa

This week’s episode covers love, legacy, and culture from three powerful angles. 

💍 Forever Segment: The Divorce of Kristy and Desmond Scott — Choosing Each Other Every Day

Every marriage faces crossroads. In this episode, we reflect on Kristy and Desmond Scott’s divorce and discuss what “choosing each other” actually looks like in real life. From communication to commitment, we break down practical ways to protect love before it starts slipping away.

🌱 Roots & Bloom Segment: Present on Purpose — How Not t...

Ep. 90: Looking Back to Move Forward: Our 2025 Family Reflection

To close out the year and step into a fresh start, we’re dropping a special mini pod in honor of the New Year. Shorter than our usual episodes, but packed with reflection, honesty, and intention as we look back on 2025 together.

💍 Forever Segment — Marriage Audit

We take a real look at our marriage in 2025. Did we grow closer? Where were the highs and the hard moments? What lessons did the year teach us about communication, partnership, and love moving forward?

🌱 Roots & Bloom Segment —...

Ep. 89: Married Young, Becoming Parents & Reviewing Disney World: Our Honest Truth

This week we’re looking at love, legacy, and life with kids. From getting married young, to deciding whether children are truly a “benefit,” to finally taking on the most magical (and exhausting) place on Earth as a family.

💍 Forever Segment — Was Young Love Destiny or a Developmental Delay?

We tell the truth about getting married young. Was it fate, immaturity, divine timing, or all of the above? We unpack what couples gain (and lose) when they commit early, how maturity affects marriage, and...

Ep. 88: Is Marriage Worth It? Raising Kids Who Still Choose You & A Disney Cliffhanger

This week, we’re diving into the realities of marriage, the long-term heart work of parenting, and a quick tease for what’s coming next!

💍 Forever Segment — Marriage: Benefit or Burden?

We unpack the age-old question: Is marriage something that elevates your life or something that weighs you down? We explore how perspective, partnership, and personal expectations shape the way couples experience marriage and why the answer isn’t as simple as it seems.

🌱 Roots & Bloom Segment — Raising Children Who...

Ep. 87: Escaping the Roommate Stage, Raising Kids Who Still Call & TikTok Church Experiment

This week’s episode is all about connection: rediscovering it in marriage, sustaining it with our children, and questioning it in the age of viral faith and social media.

💑 Forever Segment — The Silent Drift & The Intentional Return

We’re unpacking one of the quietest relationship killers: emotional distance. How do couples go from passionate partners to polite roommates and, more importantly, how do they find their way back? We talk about the small choices that rebuild intimacy and the dai...

Ep. 86: For Better, For Worse, For Outkast: Marriage Meltdowns, Parenting, and Atlanta Vibes

This week’s episode dives deep into faith, family, and fun; from navigating the hardest moments in marriage to learning how to regulate our emotions as parents, and even a firsthand look at a major music festival experience!

💍 Forever Segment — When the Fantasy Fades, Does Your Faith Remain?

We explore what the “worse” in “for better or for worse” truly means. When life tests your marriage through loss, stress, distance, or disappointment. . . how do you safeguard your relationship before...

Ep. 85: From ‘If He Wanted To, He Would’ to ‘Who Can We Trust?’ The Perfect Neighbor & Accountability

This week, we’re unpacking love, protection, and accountability. From how effort shows up in relationships, to the realities of parenting in an unpredictable world, to why honesty seems to be on life support in today’s society.

❤️ Forever Segment — Effort, Energy, and the Myth of Perfect Love

“If he wanted to, he would.” We’re breaking down this viral phrase and talking about what real effort looks like in marriage. How does social media shape our exp...

Ep. 84: Safe Love, Strong Kids & Ayesha Curry: What Real Security Looks Like

This week, we’re unpacking love, growth, and grace; from how we build safety in marriage, to how we nurture our children’s strengths, to how we respond to public opinions about other people’s relationships.

💞 Forever Segment — Safe Love: Building Security in Your Marriage

What makes love feel safe? We explore attachment styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful avoidant) and discuss how understanding your own can help you build deeper trust and connection in your relationship.

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Ep. 83: Love, Lies & Black Parent-isms: From Marriage Struggles to The Rapture on TikTok

This week, we’re mixing real talk about marriage, a nostalgic look at Black parenting wisdom, and a timely conversation about faith and misinformation online.

💔 Forever Segment — Love Beyond the “Like”

What happens when you love your spouse but don’t actually like them in the moment? We talk about navigating those seasons of tension, finding your way back to connection, and remembering why you chose each other.

👨🏾‍👩🏾‍👧🏾 Roots & Bloom Segment — Black Parent-isms

“Money don’t grow on trees.” “Because I said s...

Ep. 82: Can You Predict Divorce? Parenting A Digital Childhood & Charlie Kirk, Iryna Zarutska & America's Mental Health

This episode is full of hot takes, tough questions, and a little pop culture fun as we tackle marriage debates, family dynamics, and celebrity relationships in the spotlight.

💔 Forever Segment — Marriage Doom or Bloom?

We unpack Dr. John Gottman’s groundbreaking research on how he can predict when a marriage is headed toward divorce. What are the red flags to watch out for, and how can couples shift toward growth instead of separation?

Ep. 81: Taylor Swift Is Engaged! Taboo Marriage Questions & Nick Cannon Vs. The Nuclear Family

This episode is full of hot takes, tough questions, and a little pop culture fun as we tackle marriage debates, family dynamics, and celebrity relationships in the spotlight.

💍 Forever Segment — The Split Decision

We’re answering trendy but taboo marriage questions in 30 seconds or less! From joint vs. separate bank accounts, to spotting red flags, to whether too much sex talk is too much — we don’t hold back.

👨‍👧‍👦 Roots & Bloom Segment — Nick Cannon vs. Th...

Ep. 80: Baddies & Cutie Patooties, Jay-Z Vs. Black Thought, & Back To School

This week, we’re mixing playful debates, practical parenting tips, and a little hip-hop heat. From “baddie” culture to back-to-school hacks to rap royalty comparisons, we’ve got something for everybody.

💄 Forever Segment - Baddies vs. Cutie Patooties

Do women who call themselves baddies get an unfair reputation in society? Are cutie patooties just baddies with a shy streak? We break down the stereotypes, ask which one we’d marry, and figure out where we land on the spectrum.

📚...

Ep. 79: Kid Free Getaways, Family Vacays & The Fantastic Four

This week, it’s all about vacations, balance, and blockbusters! From kid-free getaways to full-on family adventures, we’re talking about what it takes to keep the spark alive in marriage and create core memories with your kids.

💑 Forever Segment - Gone, But Not Missing Them Kids!

We recap our recent kid-free trip to Salt Lake City, Utah — and why stepping away from parenting mode helped us reconnect, reset, and remember why we actually like each other.

🚂 Roots...

Ep. 78: A Trip To Turkey, Greece & Time Apart! How Distance Impacted Our Marriage, Kids, and Mindset

On today’s episode, we’re diving into some real conversations that challenge and inspire families to grow together!

💍 Forever Segment: Solo Flight, Shared Life!

We reflect on what it meant for Kristin to travel alone as a wife and mom, plus what it taught us about trust, independence, and the strength of our marriage as we approach our 15-year anniversary.

👩‍👧‍👦 Roots & Bloom Segment: Refreshed Mom, Stronger Family!

Being away from your kids is no joke! The guil...

Ep. 77: What Do Women Bring To The Table In a Relationship? Boys Playing With Girl Toys? & Nas Vs. Jim Jones

On today’s episode, we’re diving into some real conversations that challenge and inspire families to grow together!

💑 Forever Segment — Tables Turned!: What Do Women Bring To The Table In a Relationship?

We’re flipping the script on the age-old question often aimed at men. What do women bring to the table and why does this conversation keep coming up? We break down value, partnership, and how couples can avoid transactional mindsets.

🧸 Roots...

Ep. 76: Keep That Same Energy!: Holidays, Absent Fathers At Weddings & Tyler Perry’s STRAW

On today’s episode, we’re diving into some real conversations that challenge and inspire families to grow together!

💛 Forever Segment — Keep That Same Energy! Celebrating Father's Day, Mother's Day & Beyond

We’re unpacking the importance of consistency when it comes to celebrating all holidays not just Father’s Day & Mother's Day. How do we make sure our spouses feel valued year-round, not just on special occasions?

🌱 Roots & Bloom Segment — The Ultimatum: An Absent Father, A Present Mother & Their Child's W...

Ep. 75: Love Tanks & Opposite Day, 2025 NBA Finals & Love Lessons We Show Our Kids

In this episode we kick things off with our Forever Segment, where we dive into Opposite Day; a fun and intentional tradition where we model each other’s love languages for an entire day. We share the surprising ways this deepens our connection and gives us a renewed perspective on how to truly fill each other’s love tanks.

Next, in our Roots and Bloom Segment, we get real about Love Lessons; the importance of modeling healthy relationships in front of our kids. We...

Ep. 74: Forever Ever? Breaking Down Netflix’s ‘Forever’

In this episode, we dive into Netflix’s latest hit Forever, the coming-of-age drama that’s capturing hearts and sparking real conversations. Hosted by your favorite married duo, we break down the series in three powerful sections:

Young Love: We unpack the show’s portrayal of early relationships and first impressions, what felt real, what hit close to home, and how the teenage version of love still manages to teach us about ourselves today.

Parenting: As parents of teenagers ourselves, we reflect on the emotional tug-of-war o...

Ep. 73: To Share or Not To Share? Locations With Your Spouse, Sinners & Black Film Pt. 2 & Consequences For Kids Pt. 2

In this episode, we embark on a flavorful journey through time, exploring the rich history of tamales, a culinary tradition dating back to 8000 BCE .

Transitioning from the kitchen to the heart, we delve into the topic of To Share or not to Share? That is the question when it comes to location sharing between partners. Is it a gesture of trust or a potential invasion of privacy? We discuss the pros and cons, considering perspectives that hig...

Ep. 72: Work Bae Vs. Real Bae, Sinners & Black Film Pt. 1 & Raising Logical Littles

In this week's episode, my wife and I get real about Marriage Talk: Is having a "work husband" or "work wife" harmless fun or a slippery slope? We unpack the blurred lines and what respect looks like in relationships.

Then we shift gears to parenting in a world where common sense ain’t so common, how do we raise kids to be more self-aware, logical, and emotionally intelligent when the culture doesn’t always value it?

Finally, we dive into the cu...

Ep. 71: Sex, Gifts & The Silent Treatment, Disneyland California Adventure and Consequences For Kids

In this episode, we get real about Sex, Gifts & The Silent Treatment in Marriage specifically, what to do when needs go unmet, and how to respond in a way that builds connection instead of distance. We also dive into Parenting On Purpose: Consequences Without Chaos and what it really means to give consequences to our kids. Are they punishments, lessons to be learned or could it be something deeper? Finally, we lighten things up with a recap of our recent trip to Disneyland’s Califo...