Old Money
If you weren’t born with a trust fund—but feel like you should have been—you’re in the right place. Old Money is the podcast for ambitious women building the wealth, lifestyle, and legacy they wish they were born into. Hosted by entrepreneur and brand strategist Amber Frankhuizen, this show is a bold, relatable take on money mindset, personal development, and financial freedom. Each week, Amber breaks down the tactical side of money—like saving, investing, and scaling your income—alongside the emotional and energetic work of becoming the kind of woman who feels truly wealthy. While we don’t have a...
Money is my Boyfriend: Building a Relationship with your Finances - Encore Episode

Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 1: Make Money your Boyfriend, originally released August 2023.
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Welcome to the first episode of Old Money! Shake up a martini, slip into some silky PJs and get ready to get intimate with your money- today we're talking about building a healthy relationship with cash.
Today, Amber breaks down her 3-step process to making money your boyfriend. From changing the negative dialogue in your head to taking your finances out on a...
Financial Fight or Flight is Ruining Your Life - Heal your Financial Nervous System - Encore Episode

Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 3: Financial Fight or Flight is Ruining Your Life, originally released August 2023.
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We've all heard about the physiology of fight or flight, but have you ever thought about how it affects your finances?
If you're in credit card debt or fall victim to impulse shopping, you may have a dysregulated financial nervous system. Breaking free from this can be intimidating, but calming your system is a key to building a...
Afford Everything you Want with Saving Systems - Encore Episode

Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 5: Afford Everything you Want , originally released August 2023.
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Get a pen and paper ready for this game-changing episode. ✍🏻
Today, Amber spills how she climbed out of debt while saving money. You'll hear about the temporary financial sacrifices she made to become debt-free. Plus, steal her framework on organizing some high yield savings accounts so you can spend intentionally (which means you can invest in the things you truly want!).
Talki...
Rich Girl Rituals: 11 Ways to Increase Your Abundance - Encore Episode

Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 36: Rich Girl Rituals: 11 Ways to Increase Your Abundance, originally released February 2024.
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Imagine starting your day feeling as wealthy as Lisa Vanderpump. And no, it's not by savvy investments and legacies but through mindset and nurturing abundance from the get-go. Learn 11 and a half rituals to start practicing now, along with manifestation journaling prompts to visualize clearly. From small, powerful practices like Feng Shui to romanticizing your money dates, you'll gain actionable st...
The Hot Girl’s Guide to Investing - Encore Episode

Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 11.:The Hot Girl’s Guide to Investing, originally released September 2023.
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Don't let the finance bros scare you off from investing—it's not that deep. If you're an absolute beginner to investing, you're in the right place. Today, you'll get the tools to get started, avoid overwhelm and invest without losing sleep. From index funds to dollar-cost averaging to potential pitfalls—we've got you covered. So let's put your money to work!
Bu...
Healing from Credit Card Debt: How to Get Out For Good - Encore Episode

Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 18: Drowning in Credit Card Debt: Healing Habits & Personal Loans, originally released October 2023.
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Escaping credit card debt requires self-forgiveness and accountability. Today, Amber helps a listener explore both the psychological and tactical approaches to debt repayment and if personal lo...
The High-Value Handbook: 15 Habits of Wealthy Women - Encore Episode

Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 80: The High-Value Handbook: 15 Habits of Wealthy Women, originally released January 2025.
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Are you ready to embody the essence of a Lily van der Woodsen or Margo Tenenbaum? This week we're breaking down the top 15 habits that give wealthy women their magnetic allure. Discover how perfecting your habits can elevate your presence instantly. Plus, dive into how savvy decision-making, privacy, and time management are crucial for a high-value mindset.
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Six Secrets to Building Wealth That No One Told You (Until Now) - Encore Episode

Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 97: Six Secrets of Building Wealth, originally released June 2025.
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If you've ever confused a fat bank account with true wealth, this episode is your wake-up call—with a wink. We're flipping the script on what it means to really build wealth—and spoiler alert: it’s way more than money in the bank.
In “Six Secrets of Building Wealth,” I am unpacking the juicy truth behind financial freedom, personal power, and why show...
Stock Market 101: How to Start Investing Today Without Fear - Encore Episode

Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 59: Stock Market 101: What the Rich Don’t Want you to Know about Fear & Greed, originally released August 2024 & March 2025.
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If Warren Buffet could start investing in Apple in 2016, there's still time for you. Buckle up because today, Amber's breaking down how to stay calm during market fluctuations, why she feels unshakeable as the economy changes, and why you should, too. Learn the principles of investing, how to calm your financial fight or fli...
European vs. American Old Money - Encore Episode

Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 55: European vs. American Old Money, originally released June 2024.
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Just how different are the old money vibes in Europe? Discover secrets from America and Europe's wealthiest families, from the Medicis to the Hiltons. Learn where the tax havens are and the age-old customs of the House of Grimaldi. You'll also hear about the four core differences in how the elite live in Europe, including growing up with language and cultural exposure to...
100. The 100th Episode! 10 Rich Tips from our Top 10 Episodes

100th EPISODE CELEBRATION!
We made it to 100 episodes—and like any good milestone moment, we’re rolling out the red carpet for the very best of the best. In this episode, we’re counting down our top 10 most-loved episodes of all time—the ones that made your earbuds tingle and your bank account smarter. 💸✨
From millionaire mindset hacks to cash flow confidence, this recap is packed with golden nuggets and mic-drop tips from each fan-favorite episode.
💌 PLUS: A special announcement at the end you won’t want to miss.
Hit play, turn it up, and let...
Million Dollar Mindset – 10 Mindset Hacks to Manifest More Money

Ready to break up with broke thinking? This episode is your permission slip to step into the version of yourself who doesn’t just chase abundance — she magnetizes it. Inside, we’re unpacking the mindset models millionaires live by (and no, it’s not just vision boards and affirmations — though we love those too).
We’re getting into the real rewiring: the quiet mental upgrades that change how you spend, hire, charge, rest, and say no. This isn’t hustle culture cosplay. It’s rich thinking for people who are building legacies — whether that looks like closing your first client...
Stop Working so Hard! The High Maintenance to Low Maintenance Principle

Tired of doing the most for the least?
In this episode, I'm breaking down the High Maintenance to Low Maintenance Principle—aka how to stop over-functioning, overdelivering, and overcomplicating your money (and life). If you're a high-achieving woman who’s been grinding for gold stars, it’s time to flip the script and create more ease, more elegance, and more income. We’re talking smarter systems, better boundaries, and the energy shift that turns burnout into balance. Hint: it's all about emotional regulation.
Tune in and learn how to do less, earn more, and finally stop wor...
Six Secrets of Building Wealth (That No One Told You—Until Now)

If you've ever confused a fat bank account with true wealth, this episode is your wake-up call—with a wink. We're flipping the script on what it means to really build wealth—and spoiler alert: it’s way more than money in the bank.
In “Six Secrets of Building Wealth,” I am unpacking the juicy truth behind financial freedom, personal power, and why showing up for yourself (especially when it’s hard) is the ultimate ROI. This isn’t your typical finance chat. We’re blending mindset shifts, powerful money mantras, and tactical tools to help you magnetize prospe...
Fly First Class for Free - The Secret World of Travel Hacking

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Welcome to the Platinum Age of Travel ✈️ 💳
Buckle up, because in this episode, I’m your personal first-class concierge through the world of points, perks, and perfectly planned getaways. I read "How to Win at Travel" by Brian Kelly—so you don’t have to. (You're welcome.)
But this isn’t just a book report. Oh no. We’re unpacking:
The credit score conspiracy no one talks about
How to turn your travel dreams into boarding passes...
What we get Wrong about The Wealthy & How it's Keeping us Broke

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This one hits deep. In today’s episode, I break down a viral Reddit post written by someone who works at a five...
The New Era of Old Money!

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Listeners, friends, family, fans- THANK YOU for all of your support! This sweepstakes celebrates YOU!
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Building Financial Freedom Through Real Estate with Marina Shiferman

What if your biggest setback could become the foundation of your wealth-building journey?
In this episode of Old Money, I sit down with Marina Shiferman—a former ballerina turned luxury realtor—to uncover how resilience, identity, and strategy intersect in both life and real estate. We explore three pivotal insights: the power of reinvention after personal loss, how education empowers first-time buyers in competitive markets, and why investing with a clear plan is the true key to financial freedom.
What You’ll Learn:
– How Marina transformed adversity into a thriving real estate career
– T...
The Business of Luxury with Mackenzie Belcastro

What if redefining luxury could unlock deeper self-trust and a richer life?
In this episode of Old Money, I sit down with luxury business insider turned women’s coach Mackenzie Belcastro to explore three captivating truths: the emotional psychology behind timeless brands, the rise of “quiet luxury” as a rebellion against flashy trends, and how adopting an abundance mindset can reshape your relationship with success.
What You’ll Learn:
– Why storytelling and heritage drive luxury’s emotional pull
– How “quiet luxury” is reshaping status and consumer behavior
– The real-world ethics behind fashio...
Become Unshakeable - Get Rich No Matter What

Enjoy this encore episode from August 2024- it's just as relevant today in March 2025.
If Warren Buffet could start investing in Apple in 2016, there's still time for you. Buckle up because today, Amber's breaking down how to stay calm during market fluctuations, why she feels unshakeable as the economy changes, and why you should, too. Learn the principles of investing, how to calm your financial fight or flight in the face of market volatility and what the wealthy are doing with their portfolios.
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In today's episode, we cover the following:
IntroFinancial...Managing Sudden Wealth with Kara Karman

Money can appear overnight, but keeping it is another story. Amber sits down with Sudden Wealth Coach Kara Karman to unpack why so many people fumble a financial windfall. From inheritance guilt to blowing through millions overnight, they break down the emotional and logistical challenges of coming into serious cash. Kara shares the mindset shifts, financial guardrails, and social boundaries that will keep your wealth intact.
Kara Karman is a certified life coach who specializes in Sudden Wealth. Having experienced sudden wealth, she launched her practice to assist others in navigating similar journeys. She works with clients...
Finance for Bravo Fans: Real Lessons from Reality TV

We're back for part two of Finance for Bravo Fans: Real Lessons from Reality TV, where in today's episode, Amber is breaking down some complicated financial concepts using real-life examples from your favorite reality shows.
We're exploring how the Toms on Vanderpump Rules could have saved their restaurant, what Katie and Ariana did differently to achieve success, what to know about cheater brands, copyrights, and trademarks (every entrepreneur needs to know this before launching a business!!,) and how to make good investment decisions—because picking the right stock is a lot like choosing the next breakout Bravolebrity!
...Housewives & Hustlers: Who’s Making Bank on Bravo

BRAVO FANS this episode is for you! 💰Get ready for Part One of a juicy deep dive into the bank accounts of Bravo’s biggest stars, where Amber is spilling all the financial tea on your favorite reality moguls—from Vanderpump Rules to Summer House, Southern Charm, and, of course, the Real Housewives. Who’s cashing in on smart investments, and who’s lighting their fortune on fire with doomed business ventures? Plus, we rank the richest Housewives and reveal how they really made their millions.
PLUS- tune in for an announcement about a Brand New Old Money Book C...
New Money Mistakes You Might be Making

True wealth whispers—new money shouts. Amber spills the tea on the cringiest signs of a new money mentality—from Instagram flexing overload to totally missing high-society social cues. She unpacks why real affluence thrives in understatement, the secret language of old money, and how to cultivate effortless sophistication (even if your bank account is still a work in progress).
Tune in for:
✨ The biggest mistakes that scream "new money"
✨ The unspoken social rules of wealth and status
✨ Why leading with designer labels won’t buy you class
✨ The difference bet...
Reprogram Yourself RICH with Clinical Hypnotist, Julia Balto

Real wealth starts in the mind, not the bank account. Amber and hypnotist Julia Balto break down how hypnosis rewires the subconscious for effortless abundance. Amber shares how hypnotherapy transformed her mindset, expanded her capacity for wealth, and erased burnout. You'll learn the science behind hypnosis and simple self-hypnosis tips to start thinking (and living!) like the richest version of you.
Julia Balto is a clinical hypnotist who helps high-achievers rewire their subconscious for effortless success. Blending clinical hypnosis, somatic work, and breathwork, Julia guides clients through transformative experiences that silence overthinking, dissolve limiting beliefs, and expand...
Freeze Your Credit, Not Your Assets- The Ultimate Guide to Protecting your Legacy

Think you're too smart to get scammed? Think again, my friend. In this episode, Amber spills the tea on how to outwit the tricksters, fortify your finances, and keep your hard-earned wealth exactly where it belongs—with you. From setting up Fort Knox-level password protection to freezing your credit like it’s a bad ex, we’ve got the essentials covered. Plus, we’re diving into next-level moves like tax hacks and financial literacy that’ll have you playing chess while the scammers are stuck on checkers. Ready to bulletproof your assets? Let’s do this.
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Old Money Merch Launch & a Little Taste of Life Lately

Surprise, rich girls! In this bonus “amuse bouche” episode of Old Money, Amber is serving up a tasty treat: the official launch of Old Money Merch!
Use code FIRST for 15% OFF your order until Feb 2, 2025 at 11:59 PM PST.
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From varsity sweatshirts that scream “stealth wealth” to cheeky country club hats perfect for hot girl walks, this drop is your new uniform for soft flexing.
But it’s not just about shopping—Amber gets real about the messy magic of starting something new, tackling resistance, and turning setbacks into glow-ups. Pl...
Dismantling the Patriarchy with Shay Bacani

Ready to take down the patriarchy while securing your bag? Meet financial strategist Shay Bacani, who shares the secrets of scaling women-led businesses, why femininity is a power move in finance, and breaking down the barriers to securing capital. Dive into the real deal on raising capital, strategic investments, and balancing your life’s P&L.
Shay Bacani, CEO of Centure Financial, is a premier financial strategist specializing in helping women-led brands scale and sustain their wealth. With a proven track record of managing $10M+ in client revenue, raising over $25M and delivering bespoke financial strategies, Shay em...
The NEW Status Symbols of Wealth

This episode of Old Money is your cheat sheet to decoding the new era of status symbols—and spoiler alert: it’s not about Bugattis or Birkin bags anymore.
Today we're breaking down why flexing with fakes, over-leveraging on luxury, and trying to Instagram your way into Kim Kardashian’s social circle is officially out.
Instead, we’re diving into six unexpected markers of modern wealth that scream class without the cringe so you can embody “quiet luxury” while stacking cash and staying classy.
The Best & Worst Investments of MY LIFE (& How Much They Cost Me)

There's no greater investment than in yourself. Amber reveals her four game-changing investments, from business to money to health & wellness, along with her four absolute worst ones. Learn why hiring the expert is better than a quick-fix and how leaving toxic friendships and relationships can actually make you glow. Tune in for the good, the bad, and the transformative insights that will make you rethink how you spend your time, money, and energy.
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In today's episode, we cover the following:
Intro (1:02)Last chance for Cash Consciousness (3:15)Birdie and bogey (6:32)Global Empowerment Mission for...The High-Value Handbook: 15 Habits of Wealthy Women

Are you ready to embody the essence of a Lily van der Woodsen or Margo Tenenbaum? This week we're breaking down the top 15 habits that give wealthy women their magnetic allure. Discover how perfecting your habits can elevate your presence instantly. Plus, dive into how savvy decision-making, privacy, and time management are crucial for a high-value mindset.
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In today's episode, we cover the following:
Intro (2:33)Habit #1: Posture (6:39)Habit #2: Poise (10:39)Habit #3: Emotional regulation (14:38)Habit #4: Valuing your time (18:52)Habit #5: Hiring experts to help you advance (23:37)Habit #6: Investing in your network (29:11)Habit #7: Education (39:08)Habit #8: Be disciplined (40:45...In your Rich Girl Era: How Changing your Identity Can Change your Life (ENCORE EPISODE)

This episode is so good we had to bring it back. Learn how to step into your rich girl era by redefining yourself. Amber drops wisdom on how changing your identity can automatically align your goals with your actions. From adopting the mindset of who you want to be to simple techniques to create habits that stick, this encore episode is packed with game-changing insights.
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In today's episode, we cover the following:
Intro (00:00)What to expect this episode (4:50)Amber's previous start-up (10:07)Habit formation techniques (15:21)Identity transformation for new habits (19:27)How to align your...Hindsight is 2024: A Year in Review + Your Annual Expansion Exercise

Need a fresh perspective on your year? Amber shares her year in review and your annual expansion exercise to kickstart your goals for the new year. From embracing the highs, lows, and in-betweens to setting meaningful goals, get the tools to reflect, recharge, and enter 2025 with a bang!
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In today's episode, we cover the following:
Intro (0:52)What happened in 2024 (18:01)Question #1: What did you do in 2024 that you'd never done before? (23:49)Question #2: Did you meet your New Year's resolutions or meet your goals, and what will you make more for next year? (29:27)Question #3: What...Lab Grown Diamonds are a Girl's Best Friend with Erica Sett of Besette

What if your diamond in the rough was lab-made? Erica Sett breaks down the differences between lab-grown and natural diamonds and the myths behind them both. Discover how consumer awareness is shaping the industry, unravel misconceptions, and get insider financial advice on making smart, pressure-free decisions. Plus, hear Erica's entrepreneurial journey from working corporate at Google to running her business crafting ethical fine jewelry.
Erica Sett founded Besette to bring true artistry back to engagement rings for modern couples. A California native with a tech background and GIA education, she blends innovation with timeless craftsmanship to create...
Luxury Unwrapped: Old Money Holiday Gift Guide Part 2

Ever struggled to find the perfect holiday gift for someone who has it all? We've got you covered! This episode dives into luxury gift ideas, impactful philanthropy, and self-care tips to navigate the festive season. From charms to silk pajamas and red light masks, you'll find plenty of inspiration.
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In today's episode, we cover the following:
Intro (0:53)Creative gift ideas (11:53)Home good gift ideas (12:30)Gifts for the It Girl (19:28)Things an It Girl needs (28:29)Gifts for kids (34:05)For the person who has everything (40:00)Travel gifts (45:14)The best beauty investments (48:49)The gift of time (56:25...Holidays the Old Money Way (Plus: Neiman Marcus Fantasy Gift Guide!)

Let's deck the halls with boughs of wealth! The second annual episode covering the Neiman Marcus Fantasy Gift Guide is here, plus the Old Money Fantasy Gift Guide (featuring a dream Kardashian X AFMKTG collab). Get tips on crafting a luxurious atmosphere and how to create balance by setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care this holiday season.
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In today's episode, we cover the following:
Intro (0:06)Setting boundaries during the holiday season (9:30)Planning your six senses of luxury in December (13:27)The levels of wealth (19:00)Neiman Marcus Fantasy Gift Guide (23:10)The Old Money Fantasy Gift Guide (39:37...Make 2025 Your Richest Year Yet with Financial Planner Emily Stead

Want to head into 2025 with the best financial game plan ever? Can you use your HSA for botox? Is there such a thing as good debt? Join us as Amber sits down with Old-Money-acclaimed financial planner Emily Stead, to answer all that and share actionable tips to build your wealth. From capitalizing on your 401(k) to creating long-term goals, you'll learn how to start a financial plan that's fulfilling and healthy.
Emily Stead is a Financial Planner with the mission of demystifying personal finance. With nearly a decade of working with individuals and families towards their financial...
Bust your Limiting Money Beliefs FOR GOOD

Does thinking about how rich Bezos is make you gag? Babe, there's a core limiting money belief lurking around there. Amber tackles limiting beliefs this week with practical tips on reprogramming your mindset. You'll learn how to unleash your true wealth potential with journal prompts and ways to challenge your beliefs. Plus, get a sneak peek into Cash Consciousness 2.0 and the Black Friday deals you do not want to miss out on.
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In today's episode, we cover the following:
Intro (0:54)What are core beliefs (6:30)Journal prompts to assess limiting beliefs (20:37)Understanding where your...Old Money Icks

You've heard of getting "the ick" while dating, but what about the icks of the ultra wealthy? Amber takes you through her top 9 Old Money icks, from name-dropping to not giving back to their community. We'll explore social media faux pas, acknowledging your privilege, and what defines a "caviar problem."
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In today's episode, we cover the following:
Intro (0:52)Cash Consciousness 2.0 (1:54)Birdie and bogey (8:41)Old Money icks #1: When people are weird about food (22:17)#2: People who tell the same story all the time and name droppers (27:20)#3: Complaining about 'caviar problems' (32:18)#4: Sloppiness (36:20)#5: The stay at home...The Politics of Money & Old Money Mornings – Answering Listener Questions

Looking for an escape from election day doomscrolling? Look no further. This week's episode is all Mailbox Money, where Amber answers listener's questions from morning routines to credit card hacks. You'll learn how to ask your job for education reimbursement, how to discern your minimum viable effort, why no routine is the best routine, and how to stay resilient amidst change.
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In today's episode, we cover the following:
Intro (0:46)Question #1: Credit Card Bonus points offersQuestion #2: Six Sigma certification (10:21)Question #3: Old Money morning routine? (15:38)Question #4: How to live old money without a lot of...