Old Money
If you weren’t born with a trust fund—but feel like you should have been—you’re in the right place. Old Money is the podcast for ambitious women building the wealth, lifestyle, and legacy they wish they were born into. Hosted by entrepreneur and brand strategist Amber Frankhuizen, this show is a bold, relatable take on money mindset, personal development, and financial freedom. Each week, Amber breaks down the tactical side of money—like saving, investing, and scaling your income—alongside the emotional and energetic work of becoming the kind of woman who feels truly wealthy. While we don’t have a...
Old Money Manners To Raise Your Reputation
Standards have dropped. Informality has become sloppy. Reliability is rare. Manners are now a modern advantage.
In this episode, I break down 10 old money manners that are used as modern leverage. In a culture built on chaos, composure is unforgettable.
In this episode, you will learn:
Why manners now function as trust accelerators and reputation buildersHow punctuality, responsiveness, and follow through quietly signal credibilityThe communication habits that make people trust you fasterWhy proper introductions and discretion are social power movesHow old money uses gratitude and closure without performanceWhy elegance is often about knowing when...Doomsday Prepping, Old Money Style: How to Stay Calm During Market Volatility
In this episode of Old Money, I break down why so many people feel like financial doomsday is coming and why panic is the most expensive response you can have.
From market crashes and bank runs to media fear cycles and financial fight or flight, I explain what is actually happening in your brain when money feels scary and how wealthy individuals stay calm when everything looks red.
In this episode, I cover:
Why financial anxiety does not disappear with more money and simply changes outfitsHow market downturns have historically created more millionaires, not...How to Win Friends the Old Money Way (Without Being Exhausting)
Adult friendships don’t fail because we’re bad at them. They fail because no one ever taught us how to maintain them without burning ourselves out.
In this episode, I’m talking about building wealth in relationships -how old money relationships last decades without drama, performance, or emotional exhaustion. Not by being intense. Not by being everywhere. But by being predictably present in ways that actually suit who you are.
I share how understanding your friendship operating system- whether you’re a one-touch friend or an all-in friend- changes everything. There’s no “right” way to be a fr...
Super Bowl, Sports Betting, Prediction Markets & the “Get Rich Quick” Trap
The Super Bowl isn’t just about football anymore — it’s become one of the biggest betting events in the United States. In this episode, we take a closer look at the rise of sports betting, prediction markets, and gamified trading apps, and why these systems are designed to keep people chasing the feeling of a win.
We break down:
What sports betting, prop bets, and prediction markets actually areHow platforms like Kalshi and betting apps blur the line between investing and gamblingWhy day trading often functions like gambling, even when it’s framed as financial sophisti...Get That Bag Part 2: 7 Secrets to Make More Money (For the Entrepreneur and Corproate Baddie)
This episode is the continuation of the most important financial conversation you’ll have in 2026.
In Part One, we built the foundation:
▪️ Why you cannot manage your way into wealth
▪️ Rule #1: Money Follows Value, Not Effort
▪️ Rule #2: Demand Sets Your Income Ceiling
▪️ Rule #3: Income Growth Requires Discomfort
If Part One explains how income grows, Part Two explains why some people scale—and others plateau.
In this episode, we cover:
▪️ Rule #4: Letting Go Is a Wealth Skill
▪️ Rule #5: Proximity to Power Is the Real Cheat Code
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7 Rules for Earning Money: The Cheat Codes to Building Wealth - Part 1
This is the most important episode of 2026. Bookmark it.
If you want to actually build wealth, Old Money Style, this is where it starts.
Here’s the reality no one likes to admit: You cannot save your way to wealth. You cannot budget your way to rich. At a certain point, wealth stops being about how well you manage your money and becomes about how much you can earn.
Today, we’re breaking down the 7 Rules for Earning Money - the real cheat codes behind how wealth is actually created. These are not mind...
20 Things I Find Unbelievably Chic for 2026
Welcome to the year of chic! In this episode, I'm naming “chic” as my word for 2026, not as an aesthetic, but as a way of being. Inspired by culture, identity, and a very millennial Victoria Beckham documentary moment, this conversation is about taste, resonance, and the quiet confidence that comes from knowing who you are (and not needing to explain it).
In this episode, we discuss:
Why chic is not a trend, look, or personality you performHow chic shows up in decision-making, composure, privacy, and timingThe connection between old money ethos, modern wealth culture, and self-permissionWhy “chic,”...2026 Predictions: What to Expect in Wealth, Culture, and Power
Everyone else will call 2026 a “surprise.” Not you.
This episode is for people who read patterns, not headlines- who understand that wealth, culture, and power move quietly long before they become obvious. While the internet debates aesthetics and algorithms, the real shifts are already underway.
In this episode of Old Money, I break down my 2026 predictions across money, lifestyle, wellness, work, family, and culture, through an old-money lens that values discipline, structure, and long-term positioning over noise. No hype. No hustle porn. No trend forecasting cosplay.
Just what’s actually changing-and who it will r...
End-of-Year Moves to make 2026 your Wealthiest Year Yet
In between après-ski, caviar and champagne… how do wealthy people actually end the year?
This winter, I’m taking a page out of the Old Money playbook.
To set myself up for the best 2026, I’m focused on systems, clarity, reflection, and removing friction - the behaviors that compound quietly while everyone else is distracted by holiday noise.
In this episode, I share the three things I’m doing before year-end to make 2026 my richest year ever. This isn’t about doing more... it’s about making next year easier to win.
In this...
2025 Neiman Marcus Fantasy Gifts: If You Have to Ask the Price… Let Me Tell You Anyway
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It’s our most bougie tradition of the year: the Neiman Marcus Fantasy Gifts Review is back for 2025, and yes, this year’s lineup is more unhinged, more luxurious, and more “wait, someone actually buys that?” than ever.
In this episode, we unwrap the psychology behind these once-in-a-lifetime presents, explore why wealthy people love them, and break down how to infuse wealthy-woman energy into your own gift-giving this holiday season. From exclusivity to intentionality to the f...
Have Yourself a Wealthy Little Christmas: The AMEX Flex, Surprise $10k Days & Tracking Cash
This week, we’re doing a full rich girl grab bag - no outline, no studio lights, just me, my screenshots, and a holiday latte level of chaos.
Join me for a cozy end-of-year kiki with your financially responsible, slightly unhinged rich aunt who tells you the truth and buys the best gifts.
Then we dive into rapid-fire rich girl questions pulled straight from my DMs and course community:
San Francisco, synchronicity & letting life be easyThe mirrored Amex card & old-money card philosophyShould you play the credit card points game… or chill?The money belief I had t...Becoming a Spiritual Investor with Elizabeth Ralph
In this transformational episode of Old Money, we’re joined by a woman whose work has radically expanded my understanding of wealth, energy, and true financial sovereignty — Elizabeth Ralph, former high-powered energy trader turned spiritual wealth mentor and host of The Spiritual Investor Podcast.
Elizabeth once lived the full Wall Street power-suit lifestyle. But at just 39 years old, she walked away - not because she had to, but because she’d mastered a new framework for wealth that blends practical investing strategy with energetic alignment. Today, she teaches others how to collapse time, build timeless wealth, and create...
Acting Rich vs. Being Abundant - 3D vs. 5D Wealth
Are we living inside of a simulation? A video game? The matrix?
This might be my most WOO-WOO episode yet, but today we’re breaking through the 3D world into the 5D, exploring what it’s like living inside a simulation-style reality - where money, time, and value are reflections of our internal frequency, not proof of our worth. I break down how to recognize when I’m playing the game as the character, the player, or the programmer, and how to elevate to the level where I’m actually coding my reality from the inside out.
I sh...
Old Money Method - Quietly Get Rich before 2026
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If you’ve ever thought, “I want to get it together financially… but I also want it to feel simple, calm, and kind of luxurious,” this one’s for you.
In this episode, I’m giving you a preview of Old Money Method - my new program designed to help you build wealth the elegant way: with systems that are simple, sustainable, and (most importantly) automated.
We’ll talk about what to expect inside the course, why it’s different from...
Wealth Codes: Holy Grail Hair & Skin, because the new Status Symbols are Glowing Skin & Peace of Mind
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Luxury isn’t the bag, the...
Money Envy & The Scroll of Doom: How to Stop Feeling Jealous Online
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Feeling jealous of someone’s highlight reel on Instagram? TikTok influencers got you down?
You’re not alone—and it’s not your fault.
In this episode, we unpack the science behind money jea...
The Inner Circle: Amber's Personal Board of Directors (& Why You Need One Too)
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Ever wondered how the most successful leaders, entrepreneurs, and creators make sharp decisions and stay accountable? They don’t do it alone. In this episode, we dive deep into the powerful concept of creating your own Personal Board of Directors.
You’ll learn:
What...Become the CFO of your Life with Shannon Weinstein
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This week we sit down with Shannon Weinstein, fractional CFO, CPA, CEO and host of Keep What You Earn. We're unpacking the strategies, systems, and mindset shifts that will help you take executive-level control of your money, just like a CFO.
What You’ll Learn
From Corporate to CEO: How Shannon built her fractional CFO firm and why leaving corporate requires strategy, no...Cultivating an Old Money Mindset in Times of Chaos
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When the world feels like it’s burning — political unrest, financial crashes, and pure chaos — how do we stay grounded? This episode dives into the art of emotional regulation, self-nurturing, and why your inner child might just be the key to surviving weeks like these.
The ripple effect of disregulation: how our unbalanced emotions create even more disorder in the wo...7 Magnificent Investing Myths (& Why You Should Stop Playing the Lottery)
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Last week’s Powerball jackpot ballooned into the billions. Tempting, sure- but your odds are slim. Meanwhile, the odds of growing wealth through investing? Much, much better… if you’re willing to start.
This episode breaks down the 7 Magnificent Myths About Investing - sneaky stories that keep too many women stuck on the sidelines while men play the game...
The Art of Effortless Elegance
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What makes someone truly unforgettable? It’s not the flashy logos, the loud flex, or the endless hustle- it’s elegance. In this episode, I break down the timeless principles of elegance- what it really means, how it’s connected to the “old money” aesthetic, and why it’s the secret sauce behind confidence, influence, and long-lasting success.
Women, Wealth & the Psychology of Power with Mira Katz
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What really separates how women and men approach money, business, and wealth-building? In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Mira Katz to unpack the money stories, societal conditioning, and psychological patterns that keep women from fully stepping into financial sovereignty.
We explore:
Wealth vs. virtue signaling: Why women often default to “the artist’s way” of nobility over profit, and how this limits our impactThe double judgment trap: How the wealthy judge the poor, and the poor judge the wealth...Happy Millionaire or Miserable Millionaire? How to Start Healing your Attachment Style
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Money doesn’t just sit in your bank account- it sits in your nervous system. Some millionaires are radiant and free, others are restless and empty. The difference? Their attachment style with money.
In this episode, we crack open the truth: whether you’re anxiously chasing cash, avoidantly ignoring it, or fearfully clinging to it- you can’t create lasting wealth without intimacy. And yes, money wants intimacy.
You’ll walk away with three healing steps for each att...
Trust Fund Energy or Trauma & Trust Issues? Unpacking your Money Attachment Archetype!
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Think you’re just “bad with money”? Think again. You might just have unresolved trust issues... with your bank account.
In this episode of Old Money, Amber unpacks the psychology of your financial habits through the lens of attachment theory- yes, the same one you cried over in therapy.
You'll learn:
The four money attachment styles (and which one you are)The sneaky ways your childhood dynamics still shape your relationship with cashHow your romantic patterns and ba...Financial Foreplay & Toxic Situationships
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Let’s be real—your relationship with money is just as messy, complicated, and emotionally charged as your relationships with people… maybe even more so.
In this episode, we’re peeling back the velvet curtain on the truth: we form deep, emotional relationships with things that aren’t people all the time—our jobs, food, time, our bodies, even our phones. So why wouldn’t money be the same?
You’ll learn:
How beliefs like “I never have enough time” or “I can’t leave this job” reveal emotional de...3 Easy Steps to Become Your Future Wealthy Self TODAY
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Ready to rewire your brain and build a richer reality—all while you walk the dog or grab your iced matcha? In this bite-sized episode, we’re guiding you through a 3-step process to tap into your most abundant, magnetic self using nothing but your imagination, your logic, and a little help from AI. Yes, ChatGPT’s pulling up a seat at the manifestation table.
You’ll learn how to:
Use your right brain to dream bigger and build a bold new identity (aka meet your Future S...I’M BACK! Time Wealth Is the New Trust Fund: Design Your Old Money Summer
Are you Cash Rich but Time Poor? Today Amber is exploring how 'time wealth' is the new status symbol and helping you create your wealthiest summer ever. We're talking about breaking routines, eliminating a false sense of urgency, and setting boundaries to make room for joy. PLUS- if you're ready to retire- Amber has a tip on how you can 'live your best retired life' TODAY!
In Today's Show:
Exploring the Five Dimensions of WealthNostalgic Summer VacationsEmbracing European Vacation CultureAmber's Elopement & Honeymoon Framework for a Wealthy SummerPAST: Revisiting Childhood JoysPRESENT: False Sense of UrgencyFUTURELiving Your Retired...Money is my Boyfriend: Building a Relationship with your Finances - Encore Episode
Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 1: Make Money your Boyfriend, originally released August 2023.
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Welcome to the first episode of Old Money! Shake up a martini, slip into some silky PJs and get ready to get intimate with your money- today we're talking about building a healthy relationship with cash.
Today, Amber breaks down her 3-step process to making money your boyfriend. From changing the negative dialogue in your head to taking your finances out on a...
Financial Fight or Flight is Ruining Your Life - Heal your Financial Nervous System - Encore Episode
Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 3: Financial Fight or Flight is Ruining Your Life, originally released August 2023.
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We've all heard about the physiology of fight or flight, but have you ever thought about how it affects your finances?
If you're in credit card debt or fall victim to impulse shopping, you may have a dysregulated financial nervous system. Breaking free from this can be intimidating, but calming your system is a key to building a...
Afford Everything you Want with Saving Systems - Encore Episode
Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 5: Afford Everything you Want , originally released August 2023.
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Get a pen and paper ready for this game-changing episode. ✍🏻
Today, Amber spills how she climbed out of debt while saving money. You'll hear about the temporary financial sacrifices she made to become debt-free. Plus, steal her framework on organizing some high yield savings accounts so you can spend intentionally (which means you can invest in the things you truly want!).
Talki...
Rich Girl Rituals: 11 Ways to Increase Your Abundance - Encore Episode
Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 36: Rich Girl Rituals: 11 Ways to Increase Your Abundance, originally released February 2024.
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Imagine starting your day feeling as wealthy as Lisa Vanderpump. And no, it's not by savvy investments and legacies but through mindset and nurturing abundance from the get-go. Learn 11 and a half rituals to start practicing now, along with manifestation journaling prompts to visualize clearly. From small, powerful practices like Feng Shui to romanticizing your money dates, you'll gain actionable st...
The Hot Girl’s Guide to Investing - Encore Episode
Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 11.:The Hot Girl’s Guide to Investing, originally released September 2023.
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Don't let the finance bros scare you off from investing—it's not that deep. If you're an absolute beginner to investing, you're in the right place. Today, you'll get the tools to get started, avoid overwhelm and invest without losing sleep. From index funds to dollar-cost averaging to potential pitfalls—we've got you covered. So let's put your money to work!
Bu...
Healing from Credit Card Debt: How to Get Out For Good - Encore Episode
Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 18: Drowning in Credit Card Debt: Healing Habits & Personal Loans, originally released October 2023.
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Escaping credit card debt requires self-forgiveness and accountability. Today, Amber helps a listener explore both the psychological and tactical approaches to debt repayment and if personal lo...
The High-Value Handbook: 15 Habits of Wealthy Women - Encore Episode
Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 80: The High-Value Handbook: 15 Habits of Wealthy Women, originally released January 2025.
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Are you ready to embody the essence of a Lily van der Woodsen or Margo Tenenbaum? This week we're breaking down the top 15 habits that give wealthy women their magnetic allure. Discover how perfecting your habits can elevate your presence instantly. Plus, dive into how savvy decision-making, privacy, and time management are crucial for a high-value mindset.
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Six Secrets to Building Wealth That No One Told You (Until Now) - Encore Episode
Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 97: Six Secrets of Building Wealth, originally released June 2025.
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If you've ever confused a fat bank account with true wealth, this episode is your wake-up call—with a wink. We're flipping the script on what it means to really build wealth—and spoiler alert: it’s way more than money in the bank.
In “Six Secrets of Building Wealth,” I am unpacking the juicy truth behind financial freedom, personal power, and why show...
Stock Market 101: How to Start Investing Today Without Fear - Encore Episode
Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 59: Stock Market 101: What the Rich Don’t Want you to Know about Fear & Greed, originally released August 2024 & March 2025.
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If Warren Buffet could start investing in Apple in 2016, there's still time for you. Buckle up because today, Amber's breaking down how to stay calm during market fluctuations, why she feels unshakeable as the economy changes, and why you should, too. Learn the principles of investing, how to calm your financial fight or fli...
European vs. American Old Money - Encore Episode
Counting Down the Top Ten Old Money Episodes! While Old Money is on Summer Vacation, join us for the encore presentation of Episode 55: European vs. American Old Money, originally released June 2024.
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Just how different are the old money vibes in Europe? Discover secrets from America and Europe's wealthiest families, from the Medicis to the Hiltons. Learn where the tax havens are and the age-old customs of the House of Grimaldi. You'll also hear about the four core differences in how the elite live in Europe, including growing up with language and cultural exposure to...
100. The 100th Episode! 10 Rich Tips from our Top 10 Episodes
100th EPISODE CELEBRATION!
We made it to 100 episodes—and like any good milestone moment, we’re rolling out the red carpet for the very best of the best. In this episode, we’re counting down our top 10 most-loved episodes of all time—the ones that made your earbuds tingle and your bank account smarter. 💸✨
From millionaire mindset hacks to cash flow confidence, this recap is packed with golden nuggets and mic-drop tips from each fan-favorite episode.
💌 PLUS: A special announcement at the end you won’t want to miss.
Hit play, turn it up, and let...
Million Dollar Mindset – 10 Mindset Hacks to Manifest More Money
Ready to break up with broke thinking? This episode is your permission slip to step into the version of yourself who doesn’t just chase abundance — she magnetizes it. Inside, we’re unpacking the mindset models millionaires live by (and no, it’s not just vision boards and affirmations — though we love those too).
We’re getting into the real rewiring: the quiet mental upgrades that change how you spend, hire, charge, rest, and say no. This isn’t hustle culture cosplay. It’s rich thinking for people who are building legacies — whether that looks like closing your first client...
Stop Working so Hard! The High Maintenance to Low Maintenance Principle
Tired of doing the most for the least?
In this episode, I'm breaking down the High Maintenance to Low Maintenance Principle—aka how to stop over-functioning, overdelivering, and overcomplicating your money (and life). If you're a high-achieving woman who’s been grinding for gold stars, it’s time to flip the script and create more ease, more elegance, and more income. We’re talking smarter systems, better boundaries, and the energy shift that turns burnout into balance. Hint: it's all about emotional regulation.
Tune in and learn how to do less, earn more, and finally stop wor...
