Dear Future Husband

Are you holding out for the right person, or could your expectations be holding you back?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere brings back the men and women of our *Tall Tales of Love* panel for Part 2, and this time, the conversation gets even more honest!

From feeling the pressure to settle in your 30s to questioning whether your dating standards are helping or hurting you, the panel discusses what really matters when choosing a future spouse. They unpack missionary dating, giving someone a chance outside your usual "type," and...

Do men or women have the most to navigate in dating?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere brings the guys and girls together for a new Men and Women Panel, "Tall Tales of Love", a heartwarming and honest conversation about modern dating, attraction, and what we're really looking for in a future spouse.

Does height actually matter? Are your dating preferences holding you back? And who really has it harder in dating, men or women?

From unexpected dating dealbreakers to the unspoken differences between men and women, this...

Can you guard your heart so much that you actually become afraid of love? And what happens when God's plan for your life looks nothing like the one you imagined?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with former Miss Tennessee USA and author Justice Enlow Kuehl to talk about her journey from pageantry and feminism to embracing biblical femininity, marriage, and motherhood.

Together, they unpack the dating lessons they had to unlearn, how purity culture can shape our relationships, the difference between guarding your heart and dating out...

What happens when everyone has an opinion about your relationships, your choices, and who you should be dating?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with Sadie Robertson Huff for an honest and reflective conversation about dating in the public eye, the lessons she learned during singleness, and what she would NEVER do again. Inspired by Sadie's new book, It's Not Personal, they unpack the freedom that comes when you stop letting other people's opinions define your life.

In this episode, you'll hear:
1. What Sadie would do differently if she...

What do you do when the story you prayed for starts falling apart?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with Susie Larson for a powerful conversation on faith, marriage, surrender, and what it looks like when God meets you in the middle of deep disappointment. Susie shares the story of a painful season in her marriage, the moment she told her husband to divorce her, and how God began to heal what looked too broken to restore.

This conversation is not just for married women. It is for anyone who...

Have you ever felt like your desire for love was too much?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with bestselling author Stasi Eldredge, known for Captivating, to talk about the way women are wired for love, connection, beauty, and deep relationship.

Together, they unpack why your longing for love is not something to shame, bury, or ignore, but something to understand through the lens of God’s design. They also talk about communicating your needs, navigating disappointment, and learning how to let God shape yo...

What does faithfulness look like when what God asks you to do does not make sense to everyone else?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with Faith to talk about the moment she felt led by God to begin handwriting the Bible for her future husband while still single. What started as a private act of obedience quickly went viral on TikTok, bringing both encouragement and criticism from people who thought it was “too much.”

Together, Christian and Faith talk about preparing for marriage without idolizing it, staying pres...

What do you do when the life you worked so hard to create still doesn’t give you peace?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian sits down with Madison Crossan for a vulnerable conversation about manifestation, surrender, anxiety, faith, and what it means to trust God with the future you deeply desire.

Madison shares how she went from a high-achievement mindset and manifestation business, asking the universe for the life she wanted, including a husband, to encountering Jesus in a way that changed everything. She opens up about striving for success, wa...

What do you do when you deeply desire marriage, but you do not want to miss the beauty of the season you are living right now?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with Ruth Chou Simons, author of GraceLaced and This Moment Matters, for a tender and honest conversation about longing, waiting, beauty, and learning to live fully in the in-between.

Ruth shares wisdom for the woman who wants marriage but is tired of feeling like her life is on pause. Together, Ruth and Christian talk about how...

Have you ever wondered if something you’re doing in dating is quietly pushing a good guy away?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian sits down with Arden for a playful but honest conversation inspired by How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days. They unpack the things single women can unknowingly do that create distance, confusion, or pressure in dating, and the things women are often scared to say or do that may actually invite the right man closer.

What to expect:

Sometimes the clarity you need comes through the people God places around you.

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian is joined by Rebekah Lyons for a heartfelt conversation on relationships, wisdom, and the voices we allow to shape our decisions. Rebekah shares the motherly advice she gave her daughter before getting married young, how to handle conflict with humility, and why no woman should have to process love, dating, or marriage alone.

Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or praying for the right relationship, this conversation will remind you that wise co...

What if engagement season has more in store than you've prepared for?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere talks about what to do, what not to do, and what many couples miss during engagement. From handling pressure and expectations to building healthy communication, preparing spiritually, and keeping your focus on the covenant ahead, this conversation will help you approach engagement with wisdom and peace.

Whether you’re engaged, dating seriously, or praying for your future husband, this episode will help you think deeper than the wedding day and prepare for th...

Could dating be wasting your money? 🫨

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with Anthony O’Neal to talk about money, dating, and preparing for marriage with wisdom.

From spending too much on dates to recovering from past financial mistakes, Anthony shares practical advice for singles who want to build a healthier relationship with money before marriage. They also discuss investing, breaking generational cycles, stewarding what God has given you, and why your financial choices now can shape the future you’re praying for.

Whether you’re...

What if the story you never would have chosen became the place where God met you most deeply?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with Alexa PenaVega for a heartfelt conversation about faith, surrender, marriage, motherhood, and trusting God through the seasons that don’t make sense.

Alexa shares how she came to know Jesus, what God taught her through her first marriage and divorce, how she met her husband Carlos, and the ways God has carried their family through both beautiful and heartbreaking moments, including the loss of...

Heartbreak... No one's friend or favorite word. It can leave you questioning your worth, your future, and even whether love is worth pursuing again. But there's a purpose past the pain and a joy set ahead!

In this episode, we talk about the reality that rejection isn't always fair—but it doesn't have to define your story. We'll explore how God can redeem even the deepest pain, use it to shape your purpose, and restore hope without hardening your heart. If you're healing from disappointment or wondering whether to believe in love again, this conversation is for yo...

Christian dating can be fun, honest, and full of surprises.

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere brings back the single men and women’s panel for Part 2, where they play dating icebreakers, answer real questions, react to each other’s responses, and explore what actually helps Christian singles connect.

You’ll hear funny first impressions, honest thoughts on chemistry, what makes someone easy to talk to, and how men and women approach dating differently.

Watch this episode on YouTube for a more interactive experience here: https://youtu.be/_vjWoIr...

Will They Be Blinded By Love or Blind-Sided by the Others' Answers?!

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere hosts our first blind-dating panel, where single men and women answer honest questions about attraction, standards, communication, and what they’re really looking for before meeting face-to-face.

From funny first impressions to surprisingly honest reveals, this conversation opens up the dating questions Christian singles are often thinking but rarely ask out loud.

Subscribe for more conversations on dating, faith, relationships, and becoming the person God has called you to be...

What if your waiting season is revealing where your trust truly lies?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with worship leader Rita Springer for an honest conversation about singleness, surrender, longing, and refusing to settle.

Rita shares what it looks like to stay desperate for Jesus, not marriage, when the wait feels longer than expected. Together, she and Christian talk about unmet desires, the temptation to lower your standards, and how to trust God when the timeline still has not changed.

If you’ve ever wondered ho...

What if men are not as hard to read as women think?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with author and speaker Jeff Bethke for an honest conversation about men when it comes to dating, attraction, and communication. Together, they unpack the difference between healthy standards and unrealistic expectations, why men need to open up rather than hide behind “guarding their heart,” and how women can avoid overanalyzing mixed signals in dating.

Bethke shares a male perspective on the questions so many women are asking: 

Are you choosing from peace, or is loneliness choosing for you?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with author and speaker Ashley Hetherington for an honest conversation about singleness, dating, discernment, and becoming the woman God is forming you to be.

Together, they talk about why singleness is better than the wrong relationship, how to recognize the difference between a Christian guy and a truly godly man, and why faith talk is not the same as fruit. Ashley shares wisdom from her new book, The Sowing Season, helping...

What do single women really wish men understood about dating—but rarely get asked directly?

In Part 2 of our Single Women’s Panel, the conversation gets even more honest. This time, men get to call in and ask the questions they’re usually too scared, hesitant, or unsure to ask women face-to-face.

Christian is joined by three single women representing different seasons of life—in their 20s, 30s, and 40s—for a raw, thoughtful, and faith-filled conversation about dating, relationships, pursuit, communication, expectations, and what women are truly experiencing in today’s relationship culture.

From wha...

What are single women really thinking about dating, waiting, men, marriage, and the season they’re in?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian sits down with a panel of single women from different seasons of life — women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s — for an honest conversation about modern dating, singleness, frustration, hope, and what they’ve learned along the way.

They talk about the questions many women are carrying quietly:

“What if the future you’re praying for is waiting on the decisions you keep avoiding?”

For the third time on Dear Future Husband, we sit down with Dr. Henry Cloud alongside Christian Bevere to talk about his new book, Your Desired Future — and talk honestly about the patterns, beliefs, and boundaries (or lack thereof) that quietly shape the direction of your life.

We unpack how your habits, mindset, and emotional health determine your future. So, if you’ve ever felt stuck, frustrated, or tired of repeating the same cycles, this episode will challenge and encourage...

What if your waiting season is actually where God builds the foundation for the relationship you’ve been praying for?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with DeAngelo & Whitney Moss for a powerful conversation on waiting well, dating with purpose, and preparing for the marriage you actually want.

After waiting 12+ years to intentionally date, DeAngelo & Whitney share how God used singleness to shape their vision, character, and calling before bringing them together. They discuss becoming the spouse you desire, trusting God’s timing, and why preparation matters more than pressure.
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“Long-distance relationships never work”… unless they do. 👀

For the launch of Season 7, Christian and her husband, Arden, share the real story behind their long-distance relationship — what challenged them, what kept them connected, and why they’re actually grateful they dated from far away.

They open up about the habits, communication, and lessons they learned while dating across the country that helped shape their relationship and strengthen their foundation.

So, tune in if you’ve ever wondered whether long distance can actually last, how to build trust from miles away, or what makes some couples survive...

Part 2 is here—and the conversation gets even more real. 🎙️

We’re back with the Single Guys Panel on Dear Future Husband—and this time, we’re answering YOUR voice memo questions… no edits, no filters.

We get into the questions everyone’s thinking, but few are asking:

Nothing is sugarcoated. The guys react in real time, share personal experiences, and give brutally honest perspectives on modern dating, attractio...

What if the confusion you’ve felt in dating… actually makes sense?

In this episode, we’re doing something a little different. I sat down with three single Christian men in their 30s and asked them the questions we’ve all been wondering—the ones that keep us up at night, overthinking texts, mixed signals, and everything in between.

They didn’t hold back.

This conversation is honest, thoughtful, and full of perspective that might jus...

What if everything you’ve been told about submission, dating, and gender roles… isn’t the full story?

In this powerful episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with Pastor Darren Whitehead from Church of the City for an honest, biblical conversation that challenges assumptions and calls believers back to truth.

Together, they unpack what biblical submission really means—moving beyond cultural extremes and misunderstandings to rediscover God’s design for mutual honor, strength, and order in marriage. Is submission about silence and control, or is it something far deeper and more power...

In a world of casual dating and mixed signals, etiquette might be the most underrated advantage.

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, I’m joined by Alison Chepernick from @ElevatedEtiquette to talk about the art of dating well. From how you present yourself on a first date to the subtle social skills that create genuine connection, Alison breaks down why etiquette is far more than knowing which fork to use—it’s about confidence, respect, and emotional intelligence.

We dive into how to maintain high standards without becoming rigid, the small behaviors that instantly elevat...

What if the way you handle money right now is preparing — or disqualifying — you for the marriage you’re praying for?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, I sit down with Rachel Cruze from Ramsey Solutions to talk directly to single women about stewarding your finances with wisdom and intention, plus "investing" in your future marriage.

We discuss:
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󠁯•󠁏Money red flags in dating
󠁯•󠁏How debt affects future marriage
󠁯•󠁏Why married couples should share money
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If you want a strong, unified marriage one day...

What if singleness and marriage were never meant to be opposing seasons — but invitations to the same deeper goal?

In this honest and hope-filled conversation, Lisa Harper shares her personal story of not choosing singleness — and discovering that Jesus meets us fully in the life we didn’t plan. Together, we explore the tension between longing for marriage and learning contentment, and unpack what Paul the Apostle truly meant when he wrote that singleness is a gift.

Lisa opens up about grief, growth, unmet expectations, and the steady faithfulness of Christ. We look at the full c...

"I never thought I could love again… until I did."

In this tender and honest episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Courtney Pray Duke shares what it’s like to open your heart after you were certain it was closed forever. After losing her first husband, love felt impossible — even unimaginable. The grief was heavy. The future felt rewritten. And the idea of loving another man felt both distant and complicated.

Courtney vulnerably walks through the emotions no one prepares you for — the guilt, the fear, the questions, and the quiet hope that slowly returns...

Valentine’s Day can make singleness feel louder than usual. But what if this season isn’t about waiting — it’s about preparation?

In this special episode, I share 3 ways to intentionally prepare for marriage as a single woman who desires a godly relationship. We talk mindset shifts, dating with clarity, emotional readiness, and becoming the woman you’re asking God to bless.

You’ll also hear a live Q&A where I answer honest questions about dating, standards, and how to stay hopeful.

This conversation was recorded during our first-ever live taping at a Galenti...

What do you do when following Jesus puts tension in your closest relationships, especially with your family?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with Sazan Hendrix to talk honestly about navigating faith, love, and obedience when the people you love most are not on the same page. Raised in a Middle Eastern Kurdish family, Sazan shares how unexpectedly falling in love with a Christian boy changed her life forever.

We touch on topics such as:

Women carry a powerful key to connection—but most have no idea they even have it.

In this powerful episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with bestselling author and relationship expert Dr. Emerson Eggerichs to unpack how men and women are uniquely wired by God—and how misunderstanding those differences can quietly sabotage our relationships.

In this episode, we explore:
1. Why conflict so often goes wrong between men and women
2. How our natural wiring shapes the way we give and receive love
3. The hidden cycle that fuels misu...

In our second conversation, with my father-in-law and renowned author, John Bevere, he confronts the spiritual roots shaping modern relationships. We explore how sin nature influences attraction, why God’s design for marriage clashes with today’s dating culture, and how compromise—often mistaken for chemistry—can quietly cost us covenant.

Drawing from biblical truth and traditional Jewish courtship, John challenges common dating patterns and unpacks why so many Christian women (and men) find themselves choosing the wrong partners again and again. This episode calls listeners to move from emotion-led decisions to discernment rooted in truth.

Pray w...

What does it really look like for a man to take responsibility for his healing?

In this episode, Laterras R. Whitfield of Dear Future Wifey shares his journey from infidelity to integrity and how owning his past became the turning point that prepared him for a second chance at love.

Rather than blaming circumstances or others, Laterras chose a harder path. He took accountability, did the internal work, and became the kind of man a future wife could trust. This conversation explores what real healing requires, why integrity must be built before marriage, and how...

Maybe you know you want to get married someday—but no one has really talked to you about what actually makes marriage work.

I’ve been there. Before I got married, there were things I wish someone had told me—things that would’ve saved me confusion, unrealistic expectations, and a lot of learning the hard way.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 things I wish I knew about marriage before getting married. Whether you’re single, engaged, newly married, or years in, these insights can help you build a healthier, stronger marriage—now or in the...

Have you ever felt like waiting is taking too long—or that dating should be easier by now? Have you caught yourself comparing your love story to others and feeling disappointed?

In this episode, Rachel Awtry shares powerful insights from her new book on why we can—and should—be cultivators of joy in every season of life. We talk about how choosing joy, even in the waiting, can transform not only our outlook but our outcomes.

Whether you’re single, dating, or simply wrestling with unmet expectations, this conversation offers encouragement, perspective, and hope for wher...

What do you do when God answers your prayer… and you’re afraid He might take it back?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian sits down with Mia Fields and her husband, Joren Dunnavant, to share their love story—the waiting, the surrender, and the moments when trusting God felt risky. From placing an answered prayer back on the altar to learning how to hold a promise loosely, this conversation speaks to every woman who has ever questioned God in the middle of waiting.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you can trust what God...