ABCs of Parenting Adult Children
ABC’s of Parenting Adult Children is a thoughtful, compassionate podcast hosted by James Moffitt for parents navigating the challenges of relationships with adult sons and daughters. Through honest conversations and real-life stories, the show explores communication, boundaries, identity, LGBTQ+ acceptance, grief, faith, reconciliation, and emotional healing. Whether your relationship is strong, strained, or broken, this podcast offers insight, hope, and practical wisdom for parenting adult children with empathy and understanding.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatchhttps://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren
The Power of Forgiveness: Releasing Resentment and Finding Peace
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In this episode, James Moffitt explores the complex themes of forgiveness, grief, and freedom for adult children dealing with childhood wounds. He shares personal insights and biblical perspectives on healing from past hurts and establishing healthy boundaries.
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forgiveness, childhood wounds, grief, healing, boundaries, faith, adult children, parenting, trauma, emotional health
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Forgiveness without denial
Grieving the childhood you didn't have
Accepting parental limitations
The role of faith in healing
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From Caregiver to Mentor: A Parent's Transition with Desiree Taylor
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In this episode of ABC's Apparenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Desiree Taylor about the complexities of parenting adult children. They discuss the transition from caregiver to mentor, the importance of communication and respecting boundaries, and how to navigate conflicts without damaging relationships. Desiree shares her personal experiences and insights on supporting adult children through struggles, handling estrangement, and the role of faith and values in parenting. The conversation emphasizes the joy and challenges of this season of parenting, encouraging parents to foster strong...
Growing With Grace - Importance of Emotional Intelligence
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Growing with Grace: Reframing Emotions and Parenting Adult ChildrenIn this episode, James Moffitt explores the importance of emotional intelligence and how replacing fear with connection can transform relationships with adult children. He offers practical insights on reparenting yourself, managing boundaries, and cultivating grace in challenging conversations.Key topics covered:
The concept of replacing fear with connection in relationships
Developing emotional vocabulary for better communication
Reparenting yourself to heal childhood emotional wounds
The importance of self-care and sett...
The Role of Fathers in Adult Lives with Dr Jack Hinman
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In this episode, James Moffitt speaks with Dr. Jack Hinman about the complexities of parenting adult children. They explore themes such as the role of faith, the importance of emotional intelligence, and the challenges of fostering independence in young adults. Dr. Hinman shares insights on how fathers can model vulnerability, navigate economic challenges, and reconnect with their adult children. The conversation also touches on the impact of social media and technology on relationships, emphasizing the need for presence and connection in parenting.
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The Simple Shift That Can Transform How You Heal Old Childhood Wounds
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Growing in Grace: Emphasizing Emotional Healing and Authentic ParentingIn this episode, James Moffitt shares heartfelt insights on healing childhood wounds, cultivating emotional intelligence, and building healthier relationships with adult children through grace, vulnerability, and self-awareness. Discover how inner work and compassion can transform parental bonds at any stage.Main Topics:
The importance of giving ourselves grace for past wounds and inner healing
How childhood experiences shape adult parenting habits
The impact of emotional suppression and the silence of pas...
From Trauma to Triumph: Parenting Adult Children
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In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt and guest Dr. Greg Linkowski discuss the complexities of parenting adult children, focusing on themes of resilience, grief, and the transition from authority to mentorship. They share personal stories of loss and the impact of family dynamics on relationships. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-care, personal growth, and the need for parents to adapt their roles as their children become adults. Dr. Linkowski offers insights on navigating these challenges with love, understanding, and support.<...
Growing in Grace Series: Experiencing Childhood in the 1970's
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Understanding the Parenting Culture of the 1970s and Its Impact In this episode of Growing With Grace, James Moffitt explores the deeply ingrained parenting styles of the 1970s, how they shaped emotional development, and the lasting wounds they left. He shares personal stories and practical insights on healing and breaking the cycle.Key topics:
The survival-focused parenting style of the 1970s, including corporal punishment and emotional neglect
How strict rules and conditional love affected children’s self-esteem and bound...
The Hidden Wounds of Adoption No One Talks About
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Explore the deeply personal journey of healing childhood wounds, the impact of adoption, and practical steps for emotionally present parenting in this heartfelt episode. Host James Moffitt shares insights from his decade-long experiences and offers guidance for parents aiming to foster unconditional love and support.Key topics:
The lasting emotional impact of childhood trauma and neglect
The hidden wounds of adoption and feeling different or chosen
The importance of emotional presence in parenting
How conditional love shape...
The Importance of Fathers in Family Life with Olaolu Ogunyemi
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In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with US Marine officer and author Olaolu Ogunyemi about the evolving dynamics of parenting adult children. They discuss the critical role fathers play in family life, the importance of emotional presence, and the need to break generational curses. Olaolu shares insights from his personal journey, including his children's books, and emphasizes the significance of being engaged and empathetic as parents. The conversation also touches on practical advice for raising resilient children in a chaotic...
Why Grief Isn’t a Lifetime Sentence — Reframing the Healing Journey with Angela Clement
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This episode features Angela Clement, a certified grief coach, speaker, and author, sharing her inspiring journey through grief and healing. We explore the deep emotional process of loss, energy healing, and how to find purpose and joy again after tragedy — essential insights for anyone navigating grief.
Angela introduces her background, including her mission to help people cope with grief after losing her husband and daughter.Discussion on the unique nature of grief, emphasizing that it is a personal and non-linear process.Angela shares her experience with he...Letting Go: Parenting Adult Kids with Janet Krebs
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In this episode, Janet Krebs shares insightful strategies on how parents can foster healthy relationships with their adult children, emphasizing leadership, connection, and intentional boundaries. We explore real-life scenarios, surprising lessons of adulthood, and practical tips for supporting without enabling.
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The importance of leadership as a posture, not a title, in parentingHow to build and maintain strong connections early to ease later boundary settingRecognizing the difference between support and enablingEffective communication strategies for tough conversationsManaging boomerang kids and set boundaries...The Myth of the Super Mom: Embracing Imperfection with Dr Sue McCreadle
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In this episode, Dr. Sue McCreadie discusses the complexities of parenting through midlife transitions, emphasizing the importance of self-care, effective communication, and understanding human needs in relationships. She explores the myth of the 'Super Mom' and the significance of fostering intimacy and connection in marriages. The conversation also highlights the role of coaching in navigating these changes and finding joy amidst life's challenges.
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"Midlife is a time of significant transitions."
"Rekindling a marriage requires understanding."
<...Understanding Addiction Through Personal Experience with Jennifer Chase
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n this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Jennifer Chase, a certified life coach with personal experience in addiction and recovery. They discuss the complexities of parenting adult children, particularly those struggling with addiction. Jennifer shares her journey through addiction, the impact it had on her family, and the lessons learned in recovery. The conversation delves into misconceptions about addiction, the importance of setting boundaries, and the need for compassion and understanding in the face of addiction. Ultimately, the episode emphasizes the...
From Parenting to Mentoring: A New Role with Rick and Clancy Denton
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Parenting Adult Children and Embracing the Empty Nest PhaseIn this episode, hosts James Moffitt, Rick Denton, and Clancy Denton share heartfelt insights and practical advice for parents navigating life after children leave the home. From maintaining relationships to handling the emotional shifts, this conversation offers encouragement and strategies for thriving in the empty nest stage.
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The evolving relationship between parents and adult childrenMaintaining connection and boundaries as children grow into independenceThe importance of parental self-care and managing caregiver stressThriving emotionally after children...Navigating Dyslexia: Insights for Parents with Russell Van Brocklen
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In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Russell VanBrocklin, an expert in helping parents navigate the challenges of raising dyslexic children. Russell shares his personal journey with dyslexia and how it shaped his approach to education. He discusses the importance of focusing on a child's specialty, the craft of research, and innovative strategies to foster confidence and engagement in dyslexic learners. The conversation emphasizes the need for a tailored approach to education that prioritizes individual strengths and interests, ultimately leading...
How to Parent Adult Children in the Empty Nest Years, featuring Deanna Thayer
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In this episode of "The ABC's of Parenting Adult Children," host James Moffitt is joined by Deana Thayer, M.Ed., from Focus on the Family. Together, they explore the emotional journey and challenges parents face as they transition to an empty nest. Deana shares her personal experiences and offers valuable insights into maintaining a healthy parent-adult child relationship.
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The emotional impact of children leaving home Transitioning from authority to influence Setting boundaries with adult children...
Understanding ADHD and Anxiety in Parenting with Zoey Kyriacou
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parenting, adult children, boundaries, ADHD, anxiety, emotional regulation, single parenting, mental health, family dynamics, communication
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In this episode of the ABCs of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Zoe Kariakou, a licensed professional counselor and coach, about the complexities of parenting adult children. They discuss the challenges of navigating shifting family roles, the impact of ADHD and anxiety on high-functioning adults, the importance of setting boundaries, and the necessity of open communication. Zoe...
When Parenting Grows Up: Nancy Pickard on Communication, Healing, and Healthy Relationships
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In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Nancy Pickard, an integrative life coach and author, about the complexities of parenting adult children. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries, the impact of generational trauma, and the necessity of self-care for parents. Nancy emphasizes the need for open communication and understanding in relationships with adult children, as well as the importance of healing one's own wounds to prevent passing them on to the next generation. The conversation offers valuable insights for...
Navigating Dyslexia: Insights for Parents with Russel VanBrocklin
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In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Russell VanBrocklin, an expert in helping parents navigate the challenges of raising dyslexic children. Russell shares his personal journey with dyslexia and how it shaped his approach to education. He discusses the importance of focusing on a child's specialty, the craft of research, and innovative strategies to foster confidence and engagement in dyslexic learners. The conversation emphasizes the need for a tailored approach to education that prioritizes individual strengths and interests, ultimately leading...
When Feelings Feel Big: Helping Your Adult Children Feel Safe With Their Emotions
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emotional development, parenting, resilience, children's emotions, mental health, emotional expression, parenting advice, emotional resilience, child psychology, family dynamics
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In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Jacinta Field about the importance of emotional development and resilience in children. They discuss Jacinta's personal journey through healing and how it shaped her approach to parenting. The conversation covers practical advice for parents on how to model healthy emotional expression, the significance of validating children's...
From Manager to Mentor: A Parenting Shift with Troy Fink
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parenting, adult children, family coaching, relationships, faith, mentorship, restoration, entrepreneurship
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In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with family coach Troy Fink about the complexities of parenting adult children. They discuss the challenges parents face as their children transition into adulthood, the importance of shifting from a managerial role to a mentoring one, and the role of faith in navigating these changes. Troy shares personal experiences of restoring relationships with his children...
Forgiveness & Healing in Family Dynamics
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parenting, adult children, family healing, forgiveness, boundaries, trauma, faith, estrangement, relationships, spiritual growth
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In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Reverend Cheryl Kincaid about the complexities of parenting adult children, particularly in the context of healing from trauma and fostering spiritual growth. They discuss the importance of forgiveness, setting boundaries, and the role of faith in navigating relationships with adult children. Cheryl shares her insights from her experiences as a foster parent and...
Money, Boundaries & Resilience: Guiding Your Young Adult Forward
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parenting, young adults, life transitions, mental health, financial literacy, college readiness, therapeutic consulting, adulting skills, boundaries, independence
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In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, James Moffitt speaks with Joanna Lilly, a therapeutic consultant, about the challenges parents face in supporting their young adult children during significant life transitions. They discuss the importance of financial literacy, the difference between being college capable and college ready, and the necessity of teaching essential life skills. Joanna emphasizes the need for...
Parenting Adult Children: What They Still Need From You
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In this episode, James Moffitt and Robert Hunt discuss the complexities of parenting adult children, emphasizing the importance of accountability, modeling behavior, and transitioning from a parent-child relationship to a mentoring role. They explore how parents can foster healthy communication, navigate differences in perspectives, and encourage personal growth in their children while maintaining their own accountability. The conversation highlights the significance of being present, understanding, and supportive as children navigate their own paths in adulthood.
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When ADHD Affects the Whole Family: A Mindful Way Forward
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ADHD, parenting, executive functioning, mindfulness, neurodiversity, family dynamics, young adults, parenting strategies, support systems, personal obligations
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In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with ADHD coach Corie Wightlin about the challenges and strategies for parenting young adults with ADHD. They discuss the importance of connection in parenting, the impact of executive dysfunction, and the role of mindfulness in managing ADHD. Corie shares her personal experiences as a parent of neurodiverse c...
From Pain to Purpose: Healing Childhood Wounds With Courage and Grace
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conscious parenting, inner child, reparenting, emotional intelligence, childhood trauma, authenticity, spirituality, parenting strategies, adult children, healing
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In this episode, James Moffitt interviews Lisa Watson, a transformational life and parenting coach, discussing the principles of conscious parenting, the importance of understanding and healing the inner child, and the process of reparenting oneself. Lisa shares her journey into parenting coaching, emphasizing the significance of emotional intelligence, authenticity, and spirituality in fostering healthier family dynamics. The conversation provides practical strategies for...
Parenting Before the Crisis: How Proactive Strategies Change Everything
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parenting, adult children, family dynamics, recovery, emotional wellbeing, financial literacy, proactive parenting, spirituality, life skills, communication
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In this episode of The Parenting Adult Children Podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Steve Ward about the challenges of parenting adult children, particularly those transitioning from adolescence to adulthood. They discuss the importance of adapting parenting styles, breaking generational patterns, and the necessity of proactive parenting. Steve shares insights from his own family's journey through substance abuse and recovery, emphasizing the...
Letting Go Without Losing Connection: The Transition to Adulthood
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parenting, adult children, transition to adulthood, parent-child dynamics, emotional intelligence, self-care, clarity, perspective, expectations, personal growth
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In this episode of the ABCs of Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt and guest Lindy Van Heerden discuss the complexities of parenting adult children, the transition to adulthood, and the importance of understanding both perspectives in parent-child dynamics. They explore the challenges faced by young adults in finding clarity in their lives and the role of parents in supporting them...
Healing Tension With Adult Children: A Respect‑Centered Approach
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In this episode, Katherine Sellery, a renowned parenting coach, joins James Moffitt to discuss the challenges and strategies of parenting adult children. They explore the impact of emotional intelligence and communication, focusing on fostering respectful and empowered relationships beyond typical power struggles. Katherine shares insights from her experience and research, emphasizing the importance of connection over correction and the role of self-awareness in effective parenting.
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parenting adult children, emotional intelligence, communication, power struggles, connection over correction
<...From Distance to Connection: Supporting Your LGBTQ+ Adult Child
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LGBTQ+, parenting, grief, relationships, storytelling, empathy, personal growth, creativity, emotional intelligence, family dynamics, LGBTQ+, parenting, acceptance, emotional intelligence, family dynamics, identity, relationships, advice for parents, societal norms, validation
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In this episode of the Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Paul Cramm about the intersection of creativity, empathy, and LGBTQ+ representation. The conversation delves into personal stories of loss, the complexities of parental relationships, and the importance of...
How to Stay Connected to Your Adult Children With Emotional Maturity
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Talia is the CEO and Founder of Newport Counseling Center, Inc. and Coaching with Talia, Inc. She holds a Master’s Degree in Clinical Psychology with an Emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy. Talia has completed post-graduate certification in Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, Psychoanalytic Couples Therapy and Infant, Child, and Adolescent Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy. Her work centers on uncovering the unconscious material within a client’s psyche to relieve psychic tension—inner conflict that often originates in early childhood and arises during times of intense stress or emotional turmoil. In other...
Overwhelmed as a Parent? How to Move Forward With Confidence
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parenting, autism, neurodivergent, homeschooling, adaptive strategies, mindset shifts, self-regulation, empowerment, collaboration, Andrea Pollack
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When Skiing Becomes a Lifeline: Ryan Delena’s Journey
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In this episode of the ABC's of Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes Robert C. Delena to discuss the transformative journey of his son, Ryan. The conversation delves into the challenges Ryan faced in therapeutic schools, the impact of skiing on his development, and the importance of finding passion in unconventional paths. Robert shares insights on parenting, challenging traditional methods, and the power of nature in emotional growth.
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parenting, adult children, unconventional paths, skiing, emotional growth...
Letting Go of What Hurts: Emotional Release That Heals
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In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes back Dr. David Marcus, a clinical psychologist specializing in families under stress. Dr. Marcus discusses the concept of a 'soothing presence' and the process of 'emptying out' emotions, emphasizing the importance of understanding emotional communication with children. He explains the three levels of emotional intensity: the logical here-and-now, the history level, and the tapped-into level, and how these need to be addressed for effective communication. The conversation also touches on the cultural and familial...
Why Money Feels So Personal: Understanding the Emotions Behind It
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In this episode of ABC's Apparenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt talks with John Hankins, a certified financial therapist and licensed social worker. They discuss the importance of financial literacy for young adults, the emotional connections to money, and the challenges parents face when supporting adult children financially. John shares insights on budgeting, saving, and managing credit, while James reflects on his own financial journey and the lessons learned from his parents.
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financial literacy, adult children, budgeting, saving, credit...
Empowering Your Special Needs Child: Hope, Tools & Support
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parenting, adult children, special needs, educational strategies, advocacy, learning disabilities, multi-sensory learning, success stories, self-care, diagnosis
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In this episode of the ABCs of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Dr. Emily Levy about the unique challenges and strategies involved in parenting adult children with special needs. They discuss the evolution of educational strategies, the importance of advocacy, and the role of multi-sensory learning techniques. Dr. Levy shares success stories and emphasizes the importance of self-care for parents...
Healing Together: The Power of Therapy in Family Relationships
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In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with trauma therapist Caroline Watson Kobylinski about the complexities of parenting adult children. They discuss the importance of self-care for parents, the subjective nature of trauma, and the role of therapy in family dynamics. Caroline shares her personal journey, emphasizing the need for compassion in communication, especially when dealing with addiction. The conversation highlights the significance of humor in therapy and the value of community support for caregivers. Listeners are encouraged to find common...
From Confusion to Confidence: A Parent’s Guide to Disability Advocacy
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In this episode of ADC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt is joined by John Fela and Katy Moffitt to discuss the challenges and experiences of parenting children with disabilities. John shares his journey as a parent of a nonverbal autistic son, highlighting the fears and realities of finding suitable care and community for his child. Katy, with her extensive experience in special education, adds insights into the educational needs and social dynamics of children with disabilities. The conversation delves into the importance of community support...
When the Spotlight Isn’t Enough: Angie Mizzell’s Journey to Self‑Discovery
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In this episode of the Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes guest Angie Mizzell, an author and former television journalist. They discuss Angie's journey from a successful career in TV journalism to becoming a storyteller and podcaster, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and personal growth. The conversation touches on parenting challenges, the need for self-care, and the evolving dynamics of parent-child relationships. Angie shares insights from her memoir, "Girl in the Spotlight," and the lessons learned from her own parenting experiences.
Why Validation Matters: Parenting With Empathy and Connection
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In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes clinician Brady Daniel to discuss the complexities of parenting adult children. They explore the importance of emotional and spiritual healing, the mind-body connection, and how these elements can foster better family relationships. Brady shares insights from his 19 years of experience, emphasizing the significance of validation, active listening, and self-awareness in parenting. The conversation also touches on the impact of unresolved church wounds and the role of therapy in family growth.
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