The Black Gay Agenda
The Black Gay Agenda is a show where we come together and speak on our experiences as individuals apart of the gay black community. The goal is to share, listen and ask questions in hopes to learn, debunk stereotypes, and challenge thoughts while also creating a safe space within community for community.
The Hot Seat Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 12
This week, Justin B. Smith, AP, and Dupree are in the hot seat, and nothing is off limits.
Presented by Jackâd, the crew kicks off Pride season with a conversation about dating apps, Pride weekends, friendship, relationships, self-sabotage, attraction, masculinity, and the lessons theyâve learned while navigating life as Black queer men. From building the perfect Black Pride starter pack to discussing what catches their attention on dating apps, the conversation quickly turns into something deeper.
The hosts open up about friendship evaluations, showing up for the peop...
The Pride & Joy Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 11
This week, Micah B, AP, and Dupree celebrate Pride Month with a conversation about joy, community, chosen family, and what Pride really means beyond the stereotypes.
After a listener asks whether Pride has become too focused on sex, the crew gets into respectability politics, queer liberation, and why Pride has always been about much more than parties and hookups. They discuss the freedom that comes with living authentically, the importance of finding community, and the moments that make Pride feel meaningful beyond the nightlife.
The conversation also explores chosen...
The Wildcard Agenda Pt. 3 | SZN 4 Episode 10
This week, Micah B, AP, and Dupree close out the midseason with another Wildcard episode, where every topic is on the table and the conversation can go literally anywhere.
The episode opens with conversations around internet outrage, fan loyalty, and whether audiences actually allow artists to grow. From Chris Brown and Tyler Perry to Teyana Taylor and award season discourse, the crew gets into why certain celebrities receive endless criticism while others are protected no matter what.
From there, the conversation gets even messier.
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The Talk Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 9
This week, Micah B, AP, and Dupree get into the conversations many Black queer people wish they had growing up.
The episode opens with a Twitter Talk centered around the viral Vinny Watson and V12 Lounge controversy, and the internet debate around leadership, humiliation, respectability, and why Black queer people often receive harsher criticism online.
From there, the conversation turns deeper.
The crew unpacks the talks they never had around sex, religion, masculinity, fear, coming out, financial struggles, and what it looks like trying...
The Be Honest Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 8
This week, itâs Micah B, AP, and Dupree getting real⌠like actually real.
We kick things off with The Quickie and set the tone early, because this episode is all about honesty, even when itâs uncomfortable.
From there, the conversation opens up with a series of âbe honestâ questions that push everything to the surface. From dating habits to communication issues, the crew gets into the ways we show up in relationships⌠and the ways we avoid saying what really needs to be said.
We get...
The Female Hip-Hop Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 7
Letâs be real⌠every time yâall talk about the greatest female rapper, the conversation gets real selective.
This week, Micah B is out, but Alex, AP, Dupree, and returning former cohost Justin B. Smith step in and hold it down.
We kick things off with The Quickie asking one question⌠who is the greatest female rapper of all time? And from the start, the answers get real. From debates around Nicki Minaj vs. Missy Elliott to conversations about impact, versatility, and who really transcends the genre, the tone is...
The Silent Struggles Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 6
This week, Micah B, Alex, AP, and Dupree get into a conversation that goes deeper than expected.
We kick things off with a Quickie segment, Queerchella, where the hosts build their own dream queer music festival, choosing headliners and debating who really deserves top billing. What starts as a fun moment quickly turns into a bigger conversation about taste, impact, and who actually moves the culture.
From there, the energy shifts into something heavier, the reality of silent struggles. From burnout and isolation to masking pain, self medicating, and...
The Situationship Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 5
This week, itâs Micah B, Alex, and Dupree getting into it.
We kick things off with The Quickie asking a real question⌠why do people hate the word âsituationshipâ but stay in them anyway? And it quickly turns into a conversation about comfort, convenience, and knowing exactly what something is⌠but staying anyway.
From there, we get into a conversation straight from the group chat about hookup culture, expectations, and whether things like effort, time, and even money should be considered when it comes to sex and dating. The perspe...
Another Conversation With Micah B | Billy The GOAT Interview
Weâre introducing something newâŚ
Another Conversation with Micah B is officially here. A Black Gay Agenda Original bringing you one-on-one conversations that go deeper, get more intentional, and say the things we donât always get to say on the main stage.
This is just a teaser.
Our very first guest is Billy The GOAT, and trust, this full conversation is one you donât want to miss.
Watch the full episode now on YouTube:
https://youtu.be...
The Friendship Breakup Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 4
Season 4 continues and this one gets real.
We start with The Quickie asking whatâs being normalized in our community that shouldnât be⌠and what people keep defending for no reason.
After a quick check-in, we get into a Letter from the Pushers about dating, exclusivity, and whether you can really be upset when nothing was clearly defined.
We also pull from the Black Gay Agenda card game and talk about beliefs we used to stand on that donât hit the same anymore...
The Petty Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 3
The Black Gay Agenda is back and this week, the fellas are cutting straight to it.
Micah B, Alex, AP, and Dupree introduce a brand new segment called The Quickie â a fast, messy, and opinionated rundown of whatâs happening in the culture. And baby, they waste no time. The crew gets into the backlash around E.J. Johnson and those comments about dating straight men, the disappointment surrounding Julez Smith showing up to a queer event just to collect a check and give the girls absolutely nothing, and why the internet seems to have...
The Sh*t Weâve Outgrown Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 2
The Black Gay Agenda is giving you a conversation that almost stayed in the vault.
Earlier this year, Micah B and Alex sat down with their new co-hosts AP and Dupree to record a test episode. The goal was simple: build chemistry, get comfortable behind the microphones together, and see how the energy felt before officially launching Season 4.
But once the conversation started flowing, it became clear this wasnât just a practice run.
In this episode, the guys get into a wide-ranging conversation ab...
The New Era Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 1
The Black Gay Agenda is back for Season 4, and this premiere marks the start of a brand new chapter for the show. Micah B and Alex officially welcome AP and Dupree as permanent co-hosts, bringing fresh energy, new perspectives, and a new dynamic to the table.
In this season premiere, the crew introduces new elements for the show including Letters from the Pushers, where listeners can write in with real situations for the hosts to unpack, and the debut of The Black Gay Agenda Card Game, a new segment that brings playful chaos, real...
We Need That - We Need That Chaos with Prince Pierre (Episode 6)
The Black Gay Agenda closes out our fall and winter limited series We Need That with a bold, culturally sharp conversation featuring Pierre âPrince Pierreâ Phipps, Emmy Award winner and influential voice in Black queer media.
In this episode, Micah B and Alex sit down with Pierre to unpack Black gay dating culture, social media visibility, masculinity, and the realities of navigating public perception as a Black LGBTQ creator. From authenticity versus performance to desirability politics and online accountability, the conversation explores how digital personas shape real-life relationships and community expectations.
The Frolic Agenda (Bonus Episode)
The Black Gay Agenda is back with another off-season conversation focused on joy, community, and intentional fun.
In The Frolic Agenda, Micah B and Alex sit down with Lamb and Ronnie from Frolic to talk about what Frolic is â and what it isnât. While often labeled as just a party weekend, Frolic is rooted in belonging, care, and Black queer joy.
Lamb, CEO and co-founder, shares how Frolic was intentionally built to create spaces where people can fully show up as themselves. Ronnie, executive producer of Frolic Weekend, breaks down the behind-the-scenes work that goes...
We Need That - We Need Black Gay Love with Lamont White aka The Gay Dating Coach (Episode 5)
The Black Gay Agenda returns with another episode of We Need That â our limited series centered on honest conversations and community growth.
In We Need Black Gay Love, Micah B and Alex are joined by Lamont White, also known as The Gay Dating Coach, for a timely and intentional conversation about dating, emotional availability, and what it really takes to build healthy Black gay relationships. From dating app burnout to communication issues and attachment styles, Lamont breaks down why so many Black gay men want love â but struggle to sustain it.
We Need That - We Need That Community with Jamal Perry (Episode 4)
The Black Gay Agenda is back with another off-season installment of We Need That â our limited series created to keep the conversations flowing between seasons.
In this episode, We Need That Community, Micah B and Alex are joined by Jamal Perry for a thoughtful, funny, and deeply affirming conversation about community building, wellness, and connection in the Midwest. From growing up in Gary, Indiana to putting down roots in Milwaukee, Jamal opens up about how travel, relationships, and intentional connection have shaped the way he moves through the world.
The conversation dives into Jamalâs work...
The Naughty Or Nice Agenda (Jack'd Sponsored Episode)
The Black Gay Agenda is back with a festive twist for the holidays â and for our second collaboration episode with Jackâd, we brought the whole crew home. Micah B and Alex are joined by returning host Justin and producer Geo for a holiday special that is messy, merry, and just the right amount of chaotic.
In The Naughty or Nice Agenda, the boys gather around the mic to talk hookups, holiday traditions, end-of-year reflection, and the real question of the season: are YOU naughty, or are you nice? From chaotic Christmas movie debates to holiday hookup etiq...
We Need That - We Need That Pleasure with Mr. PleasureU (Episode 3)
The Black Gay Agenda is back with another drop from our fall and winter limited series, We Need That â dropping on the 1st and 15th to keep the energy high between seasons.
In this episode, We Need That Pleasure, Micah sits down with Mr. PleasureU â adult content creator, entrepreneur, fashion lover, and father of the House of Chanel â for a conversation that is raw, unfiltered, and deeply revealing in all the right ways. From the jump, Derrick makes it clear: he doesnât run from the smoke, and he doesnât do interviews⌠but he said yes to this one...
We Need That - We Need Cancel Culture with Ernest Owens (Episode 2)
The Black Gay Agenda is back with something new â our limited fall and winter series, We Need That â dropping on the 1st and 15th of every month to keep the conversation going between seasons.
In this episode, We Need Cancel Culture, Micah and Alex sit down with award-winning journalist, author, and unapologetic cultural critic Ernest Owens to unpack the truth behind cancel culture â what it really means, who it impacts, and why accountability still matters.
From Kanye Westâs ongoing controversies to Kiki Palmerâs Southern Fried Rice moment, BeyoncĂŠ and Jay-Zâs relationship with capitalism, a...
We Need That - We Need Black Queer Representation with Ronald Thomas Hinton (Episode 1)
The Black Gay Agenda is back with something new â our limited fall and winter series, We Need That â dropping on the 1st and 15th of every month to keep the conversation going between seasons.
In our debut episode, We Need Black Queer Representation, Micah and Alex sit down with Ronald Thomas Hinton â the Afro-Puerto Rican actor, writer, and creator of the acclaimed web series Natives. Together, they explore what it truly means to tell our own stories, the realities of growing up queer and creative in public housing, and why authentic representation matters more than e...
The After Dark Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 20
Micah B and Alex are closing out Season 3 with The After Dark Agenda â and theyâve got special guest Blake Martin in the hot seat for a finale that is equal parts hilarious, unfiltered, and unpredictable.
The night kicks off with a high/low check-in as the crew swaps the funniest, wildest, and most unexpected moments from their week. Blake wastes no time bringing his signature charm and âafter darkâ energy, setting the tone for a conversation thatâs just as spicy as it is real.
Then, Twitter Talk dives stra...
The Make It A Moment Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 19
Micah B and Alex are joined this week by special guest Kyle Price for The Making It A Moment Agenda â a powerful conversation about purpose, storytelling, and creating space for authenticity.
They kick things off with Twitter Talk, unpacking a viral thread where a man learns his ex slept with his best friendâand the friend lied twice. The fellas dig into loyalty, boundaries, and why, as Micah says, âomissions are a form of betrayal.â
From there, Kyleâactor, model, host, and founder of Making It A Momentâshares how the web series Love at First Night...
The Evolution Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 18
Micah B and Alex are back this week with The Evolution Agenda â a reflective conversation about growth, change, and becoming.
They kick things off with Twitter Talk, diving into the recent discourse surrounding food critic Keith Lee. After posting his workout videos, some queer men responded flirtatiously â and his reaction sparked accusations of gay baiting. Micah and Alex unpack the tension between admiration, visibility, and discomfort in the digital age.
From there, the conversation gets introspective as the duo explores their personal and collective evolution â not just this season, but ac...
The Mixed Bag Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 17
Micah B and Alex are back this week with The Mixed Bag Agenda â a wide-ranging conversation covering everything from pop culture headlines to personal reflections.
They start by asking the question: If someone youâre getting to know forgets your birthday, is that an automatic chop? Is it a dealbreaker or just a misstep? The fellas share their takes.
From there, itâs a mix of hot topics and deeper dialogue, including:
Tyson Beckfordâs comments about having no sympathy for Wendy Williams during his appearance on The Breakfast Club
The backlash...
The Mentorship Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 16
Alex and AP are holding it down this week while Micah B steps away to celebrate his birthday â and theyâre keeping the conversation rich with The Mentorship Agenda.
In this episode, the duo dives into the importance of mentorship, both in personal growth and within the LGBTQ+ community. From chosen family and peer guidance to professional coaching and spiritual leadership, they explore what true mentorship looks like â and why so many of us are craving connection but struggling to find it. Is mentorship still valued in our community? And if not, how do we change that?
T...
The Intimacy Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 15
Micah B, Alex, and AP are in their soft era this week with a brand-new episode of The Black Gay Agenda â and this one gets up close and personal.
In The Intimacy Agenda, the trio explores what intimacy really means beyond just the physical. From emotional closeness and vulnerability to building deeper connections in friendships and relationships, they open up about the fears, the joys, and the awkward moments that come with getting real with people. Is intimacy something Black queer folks are taught to embrace â or avoid?
This week...
The Pardon Me Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 14
Micah B is back on the mic â and this week, heâs joined by rotating co-host Alex Pinn for a raw, unfiltered episode featuring artist, podcaster, and cultural critic Parish Halsell, aka P of Pardon Me With P.
In The Pardon Me Agenda, the trio explores radical authenticity, queer Black identity, and creative risk-taking in todayâs media landscape. P shares his journey as a multidisciplinary artist and digital storyteller, building a platform rooted in truth, honesty, and bold cultural commentary.
Plus, in our Twitter Talk Agenda, Micah and Alex react to the drama around Cardi...
The Faith & Queerness Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 13
Micah B and Alex are back â this time with rotating co-host Alex Pinn bringing fresh energy to the table for a powerful and liberating conversation with Kristian A. Smith, pastor, entrepreneur, and founder of The Faith Community (TFC) â a digital ministry centering spiritual liberation for all.
In The Faith & Queerness Agenda, the trio dives into the complexities of being Black, queer, and spiritual in a world that often tries to separate those identities. Kristian opens up about his journey of deconstructing toxic theology, embracing faith without shame, and creating radically affirming spaces for LGBTQIA+ believers.
And...
The Hot Takes Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 12
Micah B, Alex, and Tanner are back with another spicy installment of The Black Gay Agenda â and this week, itâs all about the hot takes.
In this weekâs episode, The Hot Takes Agenda, the trio dives into some of the most debated conversations lighting up the timeline. Kicking things off with Twitter Talk, the crew unpacks TS Madisonâs appearance on NeNe Leakesâ show, where NeNe claimed that men who date trans women are gay. Is it transphobic? Misunderstood? Or something else entirely?
From there, itâs a no-holds-barred roundtable of opinions you may not agre...
The Pride Agenda (2 Year Anniversary) | SZN 3 Episode 11
Micah B, Alex, and Tanner are back for a special celebration â itâs the 2-year anniversary and 50th episode of The Black Gay Agenda! This weekâs episode, The Pride Agenda, is a heartfelt reflection on what Pride truly means through the lens of Black, gay identity.
The trio opens up about their personal coming out journeys, the people who helped them step into their truth, and the experiences that have shaped who they are today. From giving flowers to the legends and mentors who paved the way, to sharing advice for the next generation of Black queer...
The Gatekeeping Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 10
Alex is in the driverâs seat this week with rotating co-host Tanner, and a guest appearance from Micah B, for a raw and necessary conversation: The Gatekeeping Agenda.
Triggered by the DC Pride controversy around rapper Khia â who has a history of homophobic and transphobic remarks â the crew unpacks why gatekeeping LGBTQ spaces is not only valid but essential. They discuss TS Madisonâs response, the politics of platforming during Pride, and why our spaces must remain sacred.
The conversation expands to the growing negativity around Pride itself. Is it just about sex and parties...
The Ballroom Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 9
Micah B and Alex are back this week with new rotating co-host Tanner, bringing the energy, the culture, and the conversation. This episode, The Ballroom Agenda, features the incomparable Jeremy Copeland â choreographer, creative director, and ballroom legend.
Together, the crew dives into the world of ballroom, unpacking how the culture shaped Jeremyâs career in entertainment and how it continues to influence pop culture today. They also get real about chosen families, gay house dynamics, and the blurry lines between community and chaos. And yes, Todrick Hallâs name does come up â is he misunder...
The Wildcard Agenda 2 | SZN 3 Episode 8
In this episode of The Black Gay Agenda, itâs the midseason finaleâand weâre doing things a little differently. Each host brings a surprise wildcard topic to the table, revealed for the first time live on air, leading to one of our most unfiltered and hilarious conversations yet.
We kick things off with dating dilemmas and celebrity crushes, then jump into being flown out and whether that comes with certain expectations. From Shannon Sharpe and race play to the question of dating outside your âtype,â nothing is off-limits as we each drop thought-provoking, funny, and sometimes...
The Preferences Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 7
In this episode of The Black Gay Agenda, weâre diving into a conversation thatâs long overdue â preferences. From dating apps to real-life interactions, weâre unpacking the language we use around attraction and questioning where it really comes from. Are preferences just harmless personal tastes, or do they sometimes mask deep-rooted prejudice?
Micah B, Alex and rotating co-host Dupree are back at the table, and theyâre joined by special guest Camron âNappiBoiâ Torain for an honest and unfiltered discussion on how fatphobia, femphobia, colorism, and internalized bias show up in our community â an...
The Ghosting Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 6
In this episode of The Black Gay Agenda, weâre tackling a topic that hits close to home: ghosting. From sudden disappearances to the lingering emotional fallout, weâre breaking down why ghosting happens and how it impacts us.
We kick things off with Twitter Talk, exploring what it looks like when Black parents show up and support their LGBTQ children. Then, we dive deep into the emotional and cultural layers of ghosting â how it can feel like rejection, how itâs often tied to our own trauma responses, and whether silence is ever justifie...
The Black Boy Joy Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 5
This week on The Black Gay Agenda, Micah B and Alex welcome their new rotating co-host, Dupree, as he begins his four-week run on the show!
We kick things off with Twitter Talk, diving into the ongoing conversation around the hate that feminine tops receive in the community. This discussion follows the viral moment when OnlyFans creator Fame bottomed for Rhyheem Shabaz, sparking debates about masculinity, desirability, and internalized homophobia.
After the break, the fellas welcome special guests Derwin and Lord Devery for an in-depth conversation about Black Boy Joyâwhat it means, how we ex...
The Red Flags Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 4
Micah B, Justin, and Alex are back for another week of thought-provoking conversation, joined by guest co-host Darrow for his final episode. The show opens with a heartfelt discussion on the tragic killing of Rashawn Gray, a developing story that has shaken the community.
After the break, the hosts dive into The Red Flags Agenda â an honest reflection on the red flags we often ignore. From recognizing our own problematic patterns to navigating warning signs in friendships, romantic relationships, and family dynamics, this conversation is as introspective as it is eye-opening.
Join us as we ce...
The Love Language Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 3
On this episode of The Black Gay Agenda, weâre diving deep into the world of love languages â exploring how we express and receive love with our friends, family, and romantic partners. From acts of service to quality time, weâre breaking down how understanding these languages can transform our relationships.
But first, we kick things off with The Twitter Talk Agenda, where we tackle a thought-provoking question: Is the barbershop a safe space for Black gay men, or does it remain a breeding ground for toxic masculinity? The conversation gets real as we unpack personal experiences and ch...
The Black Gay Lens Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 2
This week on The Black Gay Agenda, weâre diving deep into the power of storytelling with award-winning filmmaker Philip Johnson, the creative force behind Philaye Films. We discuss the importance of an authentic Black queer lens in media, breaking barriers in Hollywood, and whatâs next for Philipâs groundbreaking projects.
But first, in our Twitter Talk segment, we tackle a spicy debate: Is it wild to reject someone and still offer friendship after? đđ Are they being kind, or is it lowkey cruel? We break it all down!
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