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By: Carolyn Solo | Business Coach for EMDR Therapists

The go-to podcast for EMDR therapists who want to work fewer hours, make more money and have a better work/life balance.Are you an EMDR therapist feeling overwhelmed by the one-to-one client model? Your caseload is packed and the lack of flexibility in your practice often leads to burnout and resentment because you can't be the parent or the therapist you really want to be.I'm here to tell you there's a different way to run your practice.And you're in the right place if you want to learn more about EMDR intensives and how to implement them so...

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Episode 171: When Your EMDR Intensive Practice Gets Too Busy: Growth, Boundaries & Burnout
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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I share recent experiences with an abundance of intensive therapy referrals, the impact on my energy and family life, and strategies for managing capacity and marketing effectively


Topics covered:

The role of SEO and AI in practice growthThe impact of ketamine assisted therapyReflections on referral sources and marketingSigns of burnout and energy...


Episode 170: The EMDR Intensive Is Over. Now What?
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10/14/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, discusses the critical post-intensive steps for EMDR practitioners, including ongoing care, documentation, and collaboration with other providers. 


Topics covered:

Introduction to post-intensive EMDR careScheduling and capacity considerations for ongoing therapyLegal and licensing considerations for out-of-state clientsCommunicating with other providers and obtaining releasesHandling sensitive information and client consentD...


Episode 169: What Nobody Tells You About Solo Private Practice with Jonathan Bell MSW, LCSW.
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10/07/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I interview Jonathan Bell MSW, LCSW.  Jonathan Bell (he/him) is a licensed clinical social worker, queer therapist, and owner of his solo practice based in Chapel Hill, North Carolina. He specializes in working with folks who are survivors of religious trauma and are exploring their sexual orientation or gender identity. If given the opportunity, he won't stop talking about all things attachment theory, EMDR, private practice ownership, and burnout as a...


Episode 168: AI & Confidentiality: What Therapists Need to Think About
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09/30/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I reflect on the rapid advancements in AI and their implications for therapists, content creators, and practice owners. I discuss ethical concerns, data privacy, the pressure to produce content, how AI challenges the core values of human connection in therapy - and how intensives can be protective as AI encroaches on the therapy space.


Topics covered:

AI's rapid growth...


Episode 167: Why I Started Charging $8k for My 3 Day Intensive
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09/23/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I share the detailed breakdown of my $8k - $9k pricing strategy for EMDR intensives, including the value-added touches that justify higher prices and how to communicate this value to clients. I discuss my investment in advanced training, providing an excellent client experience, and the importance of aligning pricing with the full scope of service.


Topics covered:

Introduction to Pricing EMDR...


Bonus Episode: What You Need to Know About the Upcoming EMDR Certification Cohort with Danik Bernier
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09/18/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this bonus episode I am joined by Danik Bernier to talk about their upcoming EMDR certification cohort. We  share why we created this program differently from traditional EMDR certification experiences combining structured clinical consultation, a focus on dissociation, and practical business coaching to help EMDR therapists build both their clinical confidence and sustainable practices.


Topics covered:

What’s included in the Certified & Booked EMD...


Episode 166: How to Pitch Your EMDR Intensive Therapy Model to Prescribers
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09/16/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I share practical strategies for building strong relationships with prescribers like psychiatrists and nurse practitioners. I discuss how to approach these professionals, how to pitch your intensive therapy model, and how to foster collaborative care for better client outcomes - and to get solid referrals!


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Introduction to building prescriber relationshipsReframing the power dynamic...


Episode 165: The Power of Getting in the Room - What I Learned at Doubt Yourself, Do It Anyway conference
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09/09/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I share insights from the Doubt Yourself, Do It Anyway conference for neurodivergent therapists and entrepreneurs. I reflect on what happens when you step outside your normal environment and spend time with people who are thinking differently, building unconventional businesses, and challenging the assumptions you've made about what's possible.


Topics covered:

Introduction to the conference and main themesRealizing...


Episode 164: Parenting Through Crisis: Overcoming Burnout While Building a Flexible EMDR Intensive Practice
#164
09/02/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I share my journey  of managing a high-demand clinical practice while navigating the challenges of parenting neurodivergent children. I discuss how shifting to a high-ticket intensive business model provided flexibility, helped maintain my identity, and supported my mental health during crises.


Topics covered:

The benefits of high-ticket intensive business modelsMaintaining identity and mental health during crisesC...


Episode 163: Raise Your Rates Without Apologizing for Your Expertise
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08/26/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I share my journey of increasing my  intensive therapy rates from $3,300 to $7,000, exploring the unseen labor involved, the importance of community support, and how advanced training and specialization justify my  pricing. 


Topics covered:

Introduction and My Rate Increase JourneyThe Power of Community Support in Pricing DecisionsLearning from Peer Groups and Business CoachesUnderstanding Uns...


Episode 162: Inside a Ketamine-Assisted EMDR Intensive
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08/19/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I share my transformative experience with a ketamine-assisted EMDR intensive. I just completed my first 3-day KA-EMDR intensive with a cleint and I wanted to share the experience with my audience.


Topics covered:

Why traditional therapy models are limitingClient success stories and profound shiftsImpact on business and revenueIntroduction to ketamine-assisted EMDR<...


Episode 161: The Summer Slump Is a Myth: How I Booked $24K in Intensives
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08/12/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I challenge the myth of the summer slump in private practice, sharing how I booked $24,000 in intensive therapy sessions during the slow season. Also  discussing the  strategies for marketing, pricing, and leveraging AI-driven search optimization to attract high-paying clients year-round.


Topics covered:

Challenging the Summer Slump MythThe Power of No Price ResistanceMarket Demand for High-End In...


Episode 160: Exploring Ketamine-Assisted EMDR with Candace Dickinson LMHC
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08/05/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I have Candice Dickinson LMHC on and we explore the emerging field of ketamine-assisted EMDR, discussing protocols, personal experiences, and future directions for clinicians interested in psychedelic therapies.


Topics covered:

Candice's journey into trauma and narcissistic abuseTraining and specialization in ketamine-assisted EMDRCandice's approach to practice and client careTraining timeline and personal development...


Episode 159: The Missing Piece for EMDR Therapists: New EMDR Therapist Program with Danik Bernier MSW
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07/29/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I have Danik Bernier, MSW on to introduce our EMDR certification group offering. We  discuss the importance of blending clinical skills with business building, the structure of the program, and how it supports therapists in growing confident and profitable practices.

Certification waitlist signup here: https://www.futuretemplateparent.com/2026-emdr-cohort/

More about Danik: Danik Bernier, MSW, RSW is an EMDRIA Certified therapist and Consultant-in-training b...


Episode 158: AI for Intensive Therapists: Practical Tools Without Losing the Human Touch
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07/22/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I discuss how therapists can integrate AI into their practices ethically and effectively. Sharing practical tools, strategies for content creation, marketing, and maintaining authenticity in the age of AI.

Topics covered:

The rapid evolution of AI in mental healthUsing AI to improve efficiency in practiceAddressing ethical concerns and confidentialityAI's role in marketing and visibility<...


Episode 157: Managing Crises During Therapy Intensives: Planning, Safety & Best Practices
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07/15/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I discuss how to navigate, plan for, and manage crises during therapy intensives, including screening, crisis management, and practical logistics.


Topics covered:

Introduction to managing crises in therapy intensivesScreening for stability and risk factorsImportance of support teams and collaborationCommunicating safety plans and expectationsHandling crises between days and in-office...


Episode 156: Scaling Your EMDR Therapy Practice to $20K Months
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07/08/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I shares practical strategies and mindset shifts for therapists aiming to achieve $20K months through premium pricing, optimized scheduling, and community support.


Topics covered:

Achieving 20K Months: The Possibility and RealityTransforming Therapy Practices for Financial SuccessMindset Shifts: Overcoming Barriers to SuccessBuilding a Supportive Community for GrowthThe Importance of Systems...


Episode 155: The Future of Therapy Billing: Inside Mentaya with CEO Maria Lulo
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07/01/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I interviewed Maria Lulo, CEO of Mentaya, about how the platform helps private pay therapists manage insurance reimbursements, streamline billing, and support longer therapy sessions. We explore the origins of Mentaya, its impact on therapists' practices, and practical tips for billing longer sessions and multiple appointments. Maria shares valuable insights on CPT codes, insurance allowed amounts, and how therapists can optimize their billing practices.


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Episode 154: How to Successfully Transition to EMDR Intensives
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06/24/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I discuss transitioning to an intensive therapy model for EMDR practitioners, covering mindset shifts, clinical strategies, marketing, and business growth. Perfect for therapists considering a structural change to their practice to reduce burnout and increase impact.


Topics covered:

Introduction to the Intensive ModelUnderstanding the Intensive ApproachMindset Shifts for EMDR TherapistsFinancial Considerations and...


Episode 153: EMDR, Entrepreneurship, and Motherhood with Carly Costello
#153
06/17/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I interview Carly Costello. Carly is an EMDR therapist, EMDR consultant, and founder of The Counseling Nook which is a small group practice in West Virginia. EMDR with Carly is her consultation business where she helps therapists build confidence using EMDR therapy in real sessions. Through consultation, training, and digital resources, Carly supports EMDR therapists and Consultants-in-training hone their skills and grow their consultation business too! 



Episode 152: Behind the Scenes of a coaching call - Using R-TEP in EMDR Intensives
#152
06/10/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this episode, I share an excerpt from a live coaching intensive with Jessica, offering a behind-the-scenes look at how I structure EMDR intensives using an R-TEP-informed framework. 


Topics covered:

An overview of one-to-one coaching and consultation offeringsThe structure of a three-day EMDR intensiveHow client workbooks are used to prepare for intensive treatmentAssessing client readiness t...


Episode 151: The Networking Formula Behind Consistent Therapy Clients
#151
06/03/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! 

In this special episode, I discussed the  importance of networking for private practice therapists, especially those offering high-ticket intensives. Human connection, local referral networks, and strategic outreach are essential for building a steady stream of clients. I debunk the myths that a social media presence and a strong website alone are enough to bring in a steady stream of intensive referrals.


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Episode 150: 3 Years In: 12 Lessons That Changed My Podcast, Business & Life
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05/27/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In this special episode, I reflect on three years of podcasting, sharing 12 key lessons learned, major changes, and ambitious goals for the future. Discussing the importance of consistency, strategic support, vulnerability, and community building in growing a successful podcast and business.


Topics covered:

Celebrating Three Years of PodcastingKey Lessons from Year ThreeTransformative Changes in the Podcast...


Episode 149: When You Feel Like Burning It All Down (I Did - And Here's What I Did)
#149
05/20/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, I share my recent journey through a tumultuous period in my business, marked by social unrest, professional setbacks, and personal challenges. I take you through  how I navigated the danger of burnout and found renewed purpose - and how my business is doing better than ever.



Topics covered:

Navigating Turbulent Times: Personal and Societal StrugglesFinding B...


Episode 148: Optimizing Your Intensives Practice: SEO, AIO, & Growth Strategies for Therapists with Amanda Buduris, Ph.D.
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05/13/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, I interview Amanda Buduris, Ph.D. who is a licensed psychologist and business coach based in the Pacific Northwest. After building a thriving private practice centered around therapy intensives, she scaled back her clinical work while growing a coaching business that has generated over $1 million in just 3.5 years. Amanda didn’t achieve that by working more hours; she did it by creating streamlined systems, sustainable offers, and marketing strategies that actually wo...


Episode 147: Therapists Shouldn’t Charge That Much… Or Should They?
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05/06/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, I share my personal experience with social media backlash for charging premium prices for therapy intensives. I touch on the internal and external challenges therapists face regarding fee setting, visibility, and judgment, providing insights on how to handle criticism and stay true to your business values.


Topics covered:

Introduction to the Controversy of Intensive FeesThe Impact of Social...


Episode 146: Inside Therapy Intensives: EMDR, IFS & somatic, nervous-system-based with Yesim Saldivia
#146
04/29/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, I interview Yesim Saldivia (Yish) who is a holistic trauma therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor in Colorado. She helps adults make sense of patterns like people-pleasing, hyper-independence, and feeling “high-functioning” on the outside but overwhelmed underneath. Her work integrates EMDR, IFS, inner child work, and somatic, nervous-system-based care to support healing that goes beyond insight and into lasting change. She also offers therapy intensives for those ready to move through deeper work...


Episode 145: How To Restructure Your Practice: Structuring Schedules & Client Transitions - Part 2
#145
04/22/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, it is part 2 where I discuss how therapists can transition from traditional weekly sessions to an intensive practice model. I share practical strategies for restructuring schedules, managing client transitions, and maintaining sustainability while enhancing clinical depth and work-life balance.


Topics covered:

Introduction to EMDR Intensive PracticesTransitioning to an Intensive Focused PracticeStructuring Your Schedule for Success<...


Episode 144: How To Restructure Your Practice: The Three-Day EMDR Intensive Model, Pricing & Client Fit- Part 1
#144
04/15/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, I discuss how therapists can effectively transition to offering intensives in their practice, focusing on intensive structure, scheduling, pricing, and client fit. The episode highlights the importance of clear policies and the three-day intensive model for optimal client outcomes and practice sustainability.


Topics covered:

Introduction to Practice RestructuringThe Benefits of the Three-Day Intensive ModelConsultation Calls...


Episode 143: From Expertise to Authority: SEO & AEO Strategies for Therapists with Brent Gairy
#143
04/08/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, I interview Brent Gairy. Brent is a marketing strategist and founder of Gairy Consulting, where he helps founders and growing businesses turn their expertise into authority through SEO, AEO,  and structured marketing systems. Acting as a fractional CMO, Brent focuses on building clear messaging, high converting websites, and content engines that drive long-term visibility and growth. His work sits at the intersection of strategy, design, and storytelling, helping clients move from s...


Episode 142: Using Podcast Guesting to Expand Your EMDR Practice
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04/01/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, I discuss how EMDR therapists can leverage guesting on podcasts to expand their professional network, attract clients, and promote their services effectively. I share practical tips on pitching, preparing, and maximizing podcast appearances for growth.


Topics covered:

Introduction to Podcast Guesting as a Marketing StrategyBenefits of Podcast Guesting for TherapistsChoosing the Right Podcasts to Pitch<...


Episode 141: EMDRIA Consultant Standards Explained - Part 2
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03/25/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, I discuss newly released EMDRIA consultant standards, exploring their core principles, expectations, and the importance of cultural humility in consultation. The practice expectations for EMDR consultants, focusing on the distinctions between supervision and consultation, the roles and responsibilities during certification and training, and best practices for facilitating effective consultation groups. 


Topics covered:

Introduction to EMDRIA consultant standards and episode overview

Episode 140: How I Run My 90 Minute Intakes (REPLAY)
#140
03/18/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! I am your host, Carolyn Solo. Today's episode responds to a question I got from an EMDR therapist who is dipping their toe into the world of intensives. This therapist wanted to know how to structure the initial 90 minute intake session, prior to the first intensive day. 

The intensive structure I use is a 90 minute intake call, followed by 3 4 hour intensive days. I’ll tell you exactly what I do dur...


Episode 139: EMDR Certification and Consultation Standards Explained - Part 1
#139
03/11/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, I discuss my  journey to becoming an EMDR consultant, the updated standards for certification, and practical advice for therapists considering this path. 


Topics covered:

Updated EMDR consultant standardsPathway to certification and consultationResources and support for EMDR consultantsBenefits of becoming an EMDR consultant


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Episode 138: Balancing Caregiving and Professional Growth as a EMDR Therapist
#138
03/04/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, I discuss the challenges of balancing caregiving responsibilities with professional growth as an EMDR therapist. The importance of recognizing personal limitations and finding alternative ways to grow professionally, such as through virtual networking and marketing strategies. 


Topics covered:

The Burden of Caregiving and Professional IdentityNavigating Professional Growth Amidst Personal ChallengesInvesting in marketing can yield returns e...


Episode 137: EMDR Intensives For Neurodivergent Clients and Neurodivergent Clinicians, with Liz Zhou
#137
02/25/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, I interview Liz Zhou, a neurodivergent therapist who shares her journey from her early interest in psychology as an undergraduate, to her international work that gave her a deep appreciation for all of the many ways that people heal, to becoming a therapist specializing in nervous system intensives, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. 

Liz discusses her experiences creating and running her own private practice, and how offering intensives h...


Episode 136: Charging $5K+ for EMDR Intensives: What Sets Top Therapists Apart - (REPLAY)
#136
02/18/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! I am your host, Carolyn Solo. In today's episode we revisit a popular episode from the podcast archives - Charging $5K+ for EMDR Intensives: What Sets Top Therapists Apart. I discuss the key differences between therapists who successfully charge 5K and above for EMDR intensives and those who do not, the importance of understanding one's motivation for offering intensives, and having confidence in fee setting. 


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Episode 135: The Red Thread Approach to Treatment Planning In EMDR Intensives
#135
02/04/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, I discuss the concept of the 'red thread' in therapy, particularly in the context of EMDR and IFS. Explaining how negative cognitions and the burdens of exiles are interconnected, emphasizing the importance of identifying these elements in treatment planning.


Topics covered:

Understanding the Red Thread in TherapyConnecting EMDR and IFS: Negative Cognitions and ExilesPractical Application...


Episode 134: Living With the Horror: ICE, Grief, and Parenting in a Time of Injustice
#134
01/28/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, I  share my  struggle with the overwhelming state of the world, reflecting on her feelings of horror, exhaustion, and the weight of privilege. I discusses the challenges of being a therapist during turbulent times, the importance of activism, and the need to model values for my children. 


Topics covered:

Navigating Emotional TurmoilThe Role of Privilege in Grief<...


Episode 133: Inside a Coaching Call: Building a Ketamine & EMDR Intensive Practice with Tiffany Paul, LCSW
#133
01/21/2026

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Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! In today's episode, I take you behind the scenes of my coaching call with  Tiffany Paul, LCSW, who is in private practice in the Bay Area in California. Tiffany has a practice that specializes in ketamine assisted psychotherapy and EMDR intensives. 


Topics covered:

Exploring Client Background For Effective Therapy Case Study Role Of Preverbal Trauma In Healing 


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