What’s Possible w. Ilene Schaffer

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Behind every powerhouse communicator, relationship builder, and resilient leader is a strategic thinker who leads with curiosity and honors wellbeing. Say goodbye to disengagement and team fatigue as we bring you science-backed strategies that will transform not just your leadership style but also your team’s and organization's success. Join Ilene Schaffer and industry leaders as they share tried-and-true methods, empowering insights, and a mission to elevate your leadership game.

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Why High Performers Get Overlooked: Sonal Bahl on Visibility and Career Growth
#157
Today at 8:00 AM

Being great at your job does not always mean the right people understand the value you bring. In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with career coach and former HR leader Sonal Bahl to explore why talented, high-performing professionals can still find themselves overlooked for promotions, opportunities, and compensation.

After nearly 20 years in corporate HR roles around the world, Sonal now helps professionals communicate their value, become more visible, and navigate career moves with greater confidence and clarity.

You'll learn:
- Why putting your head down and working harder is no...


How to Stay in Flow When Judgment Gets in the Way
#156
10/15/2026

In this In the Moment mini episode, Ilene Schaffer welcomes back her brother, artist Bradford Brenner, for a conversation about flow, creativity, and what happens when judgment gets in the way.

Brad shares how music, painting, technology, and even stepping away from the work can help him stay open during the creative process. You'll learn how we get into flow, what pulls us out of it, and why trying too hard to force flow can actually make it harder to access.

For leaders, creators, and problem-solvers, this episode is a reminder that flow is about...


Four Questions Every Leader Should Ask with Harry Hofer
#155
10/08/2026

What does a leader need to know in order to truly feel at their best? In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer welcomes executive coach and new SVChange coach Harry Hofer back to the show for a deeper conversation about four questions he believes every leader should be able to answer:

Who can I trust?
Where do I stand?
What’s keeping me from being okay?
How does my work matter?

Drawing from years of coaching executives and his own experience as a senior leader, Harry explains why these questions surf...


In the Moment: Finding Your Leadership Style
#154
10/01/2026

How do you find your own style? For an artist, it might show up in a brushstroke, a color palette, or the way someone recognizes your work from across the street. For a leader, it shows up in how you communicate, make decisions, build trust, and stay aligned with your values.

In this What’s Possible in the Moment mini episode, Ilene Schaffer sits down with her brother, artist Bradford Brenner, to explore what the creative process can teach us about finding our authentic leadership style.

You’ll hear about:

Why your unique style may...


AI Is Amplifying What’s Already Broken: Lisa Duerre on Leadership Alignment
#153
09/24/2026

AI may be changing how work gets done, but many of the leadership challenges it exposes are not new. In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with RLD Group CEO Lisa Duerre to unpack applied research based on interviews with 25 executives across functions including product, engineering, HR, IT, legal, marketing, and sales.

The research revealed three root drivers of organizational fragmentation: silos, a lack of explorer mindset, and underdesigned conversations and collaboration. Lisa explains why AI is amplifying each of them. Which is increasing the need for shared clarity, stronger cross-functional coordination, and le...


In the Moment: Nancy Ancowitz on Showing Up with Confidence on Camera
#152
09/17/2026

In this In the Moment episode of What's Possible, Ilene Schaffer talks with author and presentation expert Nancy Ancowitz about how to show up with more confidence, presence, and authenticity on Zoom and other video platforms.

Drawing from her book Zoom to Success: Present Like a Pro, Nancy shares practical tips for making virtual communication feel more natural. Nancy encourages listeners to reframe fear as excitement and remember that presenting is not about being judged, it is about offering something of value.

Whether you are leading a meeting, giving a presentation, interviewing for a job...


How to Build Deeper Connection at Work and in Life with Shannon Polly
#151
09/10/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with executive coach, facilitator, speaker, author, and founder of Lead Well Work Well, Shannon Polly, for a warm and practical conversation about human connection.

Shannon, one of the first graduates of the University of Pennsylvania’s Master of Applied Positive Psychology program, brings her background in coaching, facilitation, performance, and positive psychology to explore what connection really looks like. From small moments with strangers to deeper relationships with colleagues, friends, and family.

Ilene and Shannon discuss why connection is essential for well-being, leadership, resilience, and...


How to Know When It's Time to Leave: Jen Feri on Work, Life, and Alignment
#150
08/27/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with HR executive Jen Feri for an honest and deeply reflective conversation about work, grief, alignment, and what it means to honor yourself.

Jen shares the story of being in a role that looked like a dream job on paper, while privately realizing that the culture and environment were no longer a fit. When her father entered hospice, the stillness of those final days became a catalyst for clarity. Jen began asking what it would really mean to honor him by honoring herself.

Together, Il...


In the Moment: Navigate Change with Ilene Schaffer's STAR Inventory
#149
08/20/2026

In this In the Moment episode, Ilene Schaffer continues the short series on navigating change by introducing her own STAR Model: a practical framework for staying grounded through uncertainty, transition, and change.

From protecting sleep, movement, hydration, and nourishment, to noticing and fact-checking our thoughts, to accepting what we cannot control and leaning on supportive relationships, this model offers a simple but powerful way to move through change with more resilience and intention.

This short episode is a reminder that navigating change is not only about strategy. It is also about how we care for...


Jonathan Stutz on Inclusive Leadership, Daily Practices, and Building Legacy Teams
#150
08/13/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with Jonathan Stutz, co-author with Eddie Pate of Daily Practices of Inclusive Leaders, for a timely and practical conversation about what inclusive leadership really looks like inside organizations.

Jonathan shares how his early experiences with discrimination, his commitment to repairing the world, and his corporate diversity work at companies like Microsoft and Amazon shaped his path into inclusion and leadership. Ilene and Jonathan explore why diversity, equity, and inclusion cannot be treated as a one-time program or check-the-box training. Instead, inclusion has to be woven into th...


In the Moment: Navigate Change with Prochaska's Stages of Change Model
#149
08/06/2026

How do leaders navigate change at work? This "In the Moment" episode of What's Possible kicks off a short series on just that. Up first, Ilene Schaffer introduces Prochaska’s Stages of Change Model, and explaining why it can be such a helpful tool for leaders guiding teams through uncertainty.

Originally developed to understand behavior change, Ilene applies the model to today’s workplace, where leaders are often rolling out new strategies, systems, and decisions in the middle of unfamiliar territory and rapid change.

Leaders may already be in action mode because they have had time...


In the Moment: Navigate Change with William Bridges' Transition Model
#149
08/06/2026

In this In the Moment episode, Ilene Schaffer closes out the short series on navigating change by introducing William Bridges’ Transition Model. This simple and powerful framework helps us understand the human side of change.

Ilene explains that transition does not begin with a new beginning. It begins with an ending. Whether the change is unwanted, like a layoff, or deeply desired, like a marriage or new opportunity, endings can still bring grief, uncertainty, and disorientation.

This short episode is a reminder that meaningful change requires patience. When we give ourselves time to pause, get ce...


What Failure Teaches Leaders: Stephen Scharf on Courage, Communication, and Growth
#148
07/30/2026

What if failure is not the thing that holds your career back, but one of the things that helps you grow into a stronger leader? In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer talks with Stephen Scharf, a Chief Information Security Officer with more than 25 years of experience in cybersecurity, about failure, managerial courage, communication, and career growth.

Stephen shares candid stories from his own leadership journey, including early career mistakes, high-pressure decisions, and the moments that helped prepare him for the C-suite. He also explains why leaders need the courage to make decisions under pressure, ad...


Bonus Episode: Menopause, Leadership, and the Power of Feeling Seen with Dr. Marni Carlyle and Stella Grizont
#147
07/23/2026

In this special bonus episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer is joined by OB-GYN and Chief Medical Officer Dr. Marni Carlyle and work happiness expert Stella Grizont for a candid, science-informed, and empowering conversation about menopause, work, leadership, and well-being.

They explore the symptoms many women experience during perimenopause, menopause, and postmenopause, including brain fog, irritability, hot flashes, sleep disruption, and changes in energy. You’ll also learn why these experiences can have a real impact on leadership, performance, relationships, and daily life.

Dr. Carlyle brings a medical perspective on what is happening in the...


The Go-Giver: Bob Burg on Value, Influence, and Stratospheric Success
07/16/2026

What if success is not about getting more, but giving more value first? In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer talks with Bob Burg, co-author of the international bestseller The Go-Giver, about the five laws of stratospheric success and why they are still deeply relevant for leaders, entrepreneurs, coaches, and professionals today.

Bob shares how value, compensation, influence, authenticity, and receptivity can change the way we think about business, leadership, sales, and human connection. He also explains why providing more value than we take is generous and strategic, and why people still do business with th...


In the Moment: Kami Sip on Managing the Cost of Indecision
#147
07/09/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible: In the Moment, Ilene Schaffer continues her conversation with Kami Sip about the hidden costs of indecision, and what leaders can do when a decision cannot be made right away.

Kami explains that indecision is still a decision, and when leaders delay without clarity, they often distribute ambiguity, risk, and stress to the people around them. Building on part one, she revisits three common blocks to decision-making and offers practical ways leaders can manage those blocks more intentionally.

This short conversation is a practical reminder that, sometimes, leadership is...


Leading Through Uncertainty: Michael Park on AI, Change, and Human Readiness
#146
07/02/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with Michael Park, Senior Vice President of Global Partnerships and Channels at ServiceNow, for a conversation about leadership, AI, and how to navigate a world of work that is changing faster than ever.

Michael has spent the last five years with AI at the center of his work, including serving as ServiceNow’s CMO and leading the company’s first dedicated AI go-to-market function. In this conversation, he shares what he is learning from the front lines of transformation. Including why leaders need to tak...


In the Moment: Kamila Sip on the Hidden Cost of Indecision
#143
06/25/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible: In the Moment, Ilene Schaffer sits down with Kamila Sip to explore why indecision is not a neutral act, especially for leaders.

Kami explains how stalled decisions at the top can create cognitive, emotional, and performance costs across an entire team. When leaders delay, teams are often left to operate in ambiguity, make fragmented assumptions, and carry the stress of uncertainty. Ilene and Kami unpack why this matters so much for leaders stepping into bigger roles, where quick, data-informed decisions are often expected.

This short conversation introduces three co...


5 Communication Blunders That Can Stall Your Career and How to Avoid Them with Dr. Laura Sicola
#142
06/18/2026

What are the communication mistakes that quietly hold leaders back? In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with executive communication coach, TEDx speaker, and author Dr. Laura Sicola to unpack five common communication blunders that can quietly stall a career, and what leaders can do instead.

Drawing on more than two decades of experience coaching Fortune 500 executives, nonprofit leaders, and government agencies, Laura explains how even highly capable professionals can lose influence when they get stuck in the expert’s curse, stay silent in meetings, let their nervous system take over, confuse authenticity with...


In the Moment: What Working in Prison Taught Jeff Jacobs About Diversity and Belonging
#141
06/11/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible: In the Moment, Ilene Schaffer continues her conversation with Jeff Jacobs, exploring what his work in prisons revealed about diversity, belonging, and leadership.

Jeff reflects on a striking moment of racial separation among inmates and the unexpected insight that followed: people often gravitate toward what feels familiar, not always out of hostility, but out of habit and comfort. From there, he and Ilene dig into what that means for the workplace, where diverse teams often outperform homogeneous ones, but require more intentionality, vulnerability, and trust to truly thrive.

Th...


Marcus Buckingham on Why Love Is the Missing Ingredient in Leadership and Business
#140
06/04/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with renowned researcher, entrepreneur, and bestselling author Marcus Buckingham for a bold and deeply human conversation about leadership, work, and why love may be the most overlooked driver of performance in business today.

Drawing from his research, his years at Gallup, and his own experience building and selling a company, Marcus makes the case that love is not soft fluff layered on top of business. It is a real force that drives trust, loyalty, energy, creativity, and results.

Marcus and Ilene explore why extreme po...


In the Moment: What Working in Prison Taught Jeff Jacobs About Trust and Empathy
#139
05/28/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible: In the Moment, Ilene Schaffer sits down with Jeff Jacobs to explore the powerful leadership lessons he learned while working in maximum-security prisons.

Jeff talks about how his time with incarcerated individuals challenged his assumptions, deepened his empathy, and taught him the importance of psychological safety, trust, and genuine human connection. He learned the value of showing up with curiosity, asking thoughtful questions, and respecting the lived experiences of others.

This short conversation offers a deeply human reminder that trust begins when people feel seen, heard, and valued, wh...


Leading Change from the Middle: Adriano Pianesi on Progress, Power, and Participation
#138
05/21/2026

What does it really take to navigate organizational change, especially when you’re leading from the middle? In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with executive coach and professor Adriano Pianesi, who has worked with more than 2,500 leaders across sectors.

 Adriano shares why change so often feels exhausting, political, and stuck, and why middle managers are far more essential to successful change than they are often given credit for. Together, he and Ilene talk about a practical framework built around Preparation, Power, Participation, and Progress, offering leaders a more strategic and human-centered way to mo...


In the Moment: How to Lead Teams When Everything Is Changing with Eric Wong
05/14/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible: In the Moment, Ilene Schaffer is joined by Eric Wong of Adobe for a conversation about what leadership requires when the ground is shifting fast.

They talk about how leaders can guide high-performance teams through uncertainty, rapid change, and pressure without defaulting to rigidity or control.

Eric shares why adaptability, storytelling, transparency, and co-creation matter more than ever. And you'll learn why modern leaders need to be “imperfectionists” who stay open, curious, and willing to learn in real time.

This episode is especially relevant for leaders naviga...


Keith Ferrazzi on Teamship, Co-Elevation, and Thriving in the Age of AI
#136
05/07/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with Keith Ferrazzi for a deeply personal and forward-looking conversation about leadership, teamship, relationships, and the future of work in the age of AI.

Keith shares candidly about his family’s experience navigating his son’s recovery, the self-care and curiosity practices that keep him grounded, and why he believes the future belongs not to individual stars, but to high-performing, co-elevating teams.

Together, Ilene and Keith explore how AI is changing the workplace. Rather than a set of tools, Keith sees AI platforms as collab...


In the Moment: The Patterns Running Your Leadership with Jen Ostrich
#135
04/30/2026

What patterns are shaping the way you lead, without you even realizing it? In this In the Moment episode of What’s Possible, host Ilene Schaffer sits down with Jen Ostrich to explore the hidden patterns that shape how we lead, react, and relate to others.

You'll learn how many of our behaviors were formed early in life as protective strategies and why those same patterns can become limiting as adults, especially in leadership. Jen shares how these patterns live in both the mind and body, and what leaders can do to begin noticing them with more co...


The Minimum Viable Manager: A Practical Leadership Framework for First-Time Managers with Matt Gjertsen
#134
04/23/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with leadership expert Matt Gjertsen, founder of Better Every Day Studios and author of the upcoming book Minimum Viable Manager, to explore what new managers actually need in order to lead well.

Drawing from his experience in the Air Force, at SpaceX, and now in leadership development, Matt offers a simple but powerful framework for first-time managers and technical leaders: build trust, set expectations, and ask for better feedback. Together, he and Ilene explore why management is fundamentally about people and why even small actions can ha...


In the Moment: Inside the Coach Toolbox — Finding Calm Through Awe and Nature
04/16/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible: In the Moment, Ilene Schaffer is joined by Stella Grizont for the final conversation in our mini-series, Inside the Coach Toolbox.

Throughout this series, Ilene has been asking SVChange coaches to share the real practices they turn to when life feels stressful, overwhelming, or ungrounded. Stella’s answer is both simple and profound: walks in the woods, paired with a conversation with something larger than herself.

Together, Ilene and Stella connect Stella’s practice to research on awe, positive emotions, and the ways perceived suppor...


Leading with Somatic Intelligence: Rebecca Arora on Presence, Posture, and Executive Impact
04/09/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with executive coach and author Rebecca Arora to explore somatic intelligence, or the intelligence of the body, and why it matters so much for leadership, communication, and connection.

Rebecca works with senior leaders at companies like Google, Salesforce, and IDEO, helping them move beyond “head-only” leadership and use posture, pace, presence, and physical awareness to lead with more empathy, courage, and impact. Drawing on her new book, Somatic Intelligence, she shares how our bodies influence executive presence, resilience, creativity, and the way others experience us.

Toge...


In the Moment: Inside the Coach Toolbox — A 10-Minute Practice for Stressful Moments
#131
04/02/2026

Can tapping actually help calm your nervous system? In this In the Moment episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer is joined by SVChange coach Lisa Zigarmi to share one of her favorite tools for reducing stress and finding calm: tapping, also known as Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT).

This conversation is part of our mini-series Inside the Coach Toolbox, where Ilene sits down with SVChange coaches to explore the real-life practices they rely on when life feels stressful.

Lisa explains how tapping works, why it helps the body feel safe, and what the science says ab...


Peak Performance Without Burnout: Darren Barrett on the Athlete Mindset for Leaders
03/26/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with leadership and executive coach Darren Barrett to explore what leaders can learn from the world of elite sport.

Darren’s background in executive leadership and his current studies in sports psychology led him to a simple but powerful framework: train, perform, recover. In this conversation, Ilene and Darren explore how leaders can begin thinking of themselves as business athletes: people who need to prepare intentionally, show up when it matters most, and recover well enough to sustain performance over...


In the Moment: Inside the Coach Toolbox — A 10-Minute Practice for Stressful Moments
03/19/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible: In the Moment, Ilene Schaffer is joined by SVChange coach Shannon Polly to explore an unexpected but powerful path to calm: creativity.

This conversation is part of our mini-series Inside the Coach Toolbox, where Ilene sits down with SVChange coaches to share the real-life practices they rely on when life feels stressful.

For Shannon, those practices include knitting, watercolor painting, and making music. These creative outlets that help her slow down, focus, and reconnect with herself. Together, she and Ilene talk about why learning something new can be su...


How to Stay Human in the AI Era: Alex Lee on Taste, Voice, and Better Work
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03/12/2026

AI is moving fast. In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with AI consultant Alex Lee for a thoughtful, practical conversation about how to thrive in the age of AI.

Rather than focusing on tools, prompts, or technical skills, Alex makes the case that the future belongs to people who can bring something deeply human to AI: taste, discernment, emotional intelligence, and the ability to know what “good” looks like. Instead of trying to keep up with every new AI tool, Alex argues that we should focus on becoming better tastemakers, or people who ca...


In the Moment: Inside the Coach Toolbox — A 10-Minute Practice for Stressful Moments
#127
03/05/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible: In the Moment, Ilene Schaffer is joined by SVChange coach Niels Gott to share a simple but powerful technique for calming your nervous system in moments of stress.

This conversation is part of our mini-series Inside the Coach Toolbox, where Ilene sits down with SVChange coaches to explore the practices they personally rely on when life feels overwhelming.

Niels introduces a three-step reset called “Name, Breathe, Widen.” The process begins by naming what you’re feeling, which helps engage the prefrontal cortex and crea...


From Burnout to Flow: Rethinking Productivity in a Hybrid World with Steven Puri
#126
02/26/2026

What if productivity wasn’t about doing more, but about creating the right conditions for focus, flow, and meaningful work? In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with Steven Puri, CEO of The Sukha flow state app, to explore a radically different way of thinking about productivity, leadership, and modern work.

Steven shares lessons from a career that spans engineering, Hollywood visual effects, studio leadership, and tech startups, and how failure, trust, and flow states shaped his perspective along the way. Together, Ilene and Steven unpack why the most important work doesn’t happen...


In the Moment: Inside the Coach Toolbox — A 10-Minute Practice for Stressful Moments
#125
02/19/2026

In this episode of What’s Possible: In the Moment, Ilene Schaffer sits down with SVChange coach Alex Jack to explore practical, evidence-informed tools for calming your nervous system in real time.

This conversation is part of our new mini-series, Inside the Coach Toolbox, where Ilene interviews SVChange coaches about the practices they personally rely on when life feels overwhelming.

Drawing from positive psychology and lived experience, Alex shares five simple tools he uses regularly to reset stress quickly:

Intentional breathingMusic as emotional regulationGrounding through sensory awarenessMovement and danceConnecting with someone you tr...


In the Moment: Inside the Coach Toolbox — A 10-Minute Practice for Stressful Moments
#124
02/12/2026

What do you do when your nervous system spikes right before something important? In this episode of What’s Possible: In the Moment, Ilene Schaffer is joined by SVChange coach Stephen Burke to share the 10-minute grounding practice he uses before high-stakes moments.

This conversation launches a new mini-series, Inside the Coach Toolbox, where Ilene sits down with SVChange coaches to explore the real practices they rely on when life feels stressful.

Stephen walks us through a simple reset rooted in somatic awareness, noticing thoughts and emotions, and practicing self-compassion. It’s a prac...


Why Meetings Are Broken and How to Fix Them with Dr. Rebecca Hinds
#123
02/05/2026

Meetings are one of the biggest drains on time, energy, and focus at work, but they don’t have to be. In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with organizational scholar Rebecca Hinds, author of “Your Best Meeting Ever,” to radically rethink how meetings are designed, facilitated, and experienced.

Together, they explore why most meetings fail, how to purge unnecessary ones, and how to intentionally redesign the meetings that remain, whether they’re hybrid, one-on-one, walking meetings, or leadership team sessions. Rebecca shares research-backed insights from her work at Asana and Glean, practical tools like...


In the Moment: Getting Out of Your Own Way with Harry Hofer
01/29/2026

How do leaders get out of their own way to make space for growth? In this In the Moment episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with executive coach Harry Hofer to unpack how mindset, language, and perspective can either limit or expand a leader’s choices. 

Harry introduces a coaching nudge on personal complicity, while Ilene offers accessible ways to help leaders reframe challenges, build trust, and create more possibility. 

This short conversation is full of practical insights leaders can use right away.

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The CEO Playbook: Michael Mulhern on Building High-Performance Teams
#122
01/22/2026

What does it really take to lead well, not just in theory, but in practice?

In this episode of What’s Possible, Ilene Schaffer sits down with Michael Mulhern, Executive Chairman of Epsilon Global and author of “The CEO Playbook,” to unpack 40 years of real-world leadership lessons.

Michael shares practical wisdom from leading four private-equity-backed companies across multiple industries, offering a refreshingly honest look at what actually drives performance and culture. From building flat organizations and aligning values with results, to managing stress and developing emotional intelligence, this conversation is grounded, candid, and immediately applicable.

L...