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The doors swung open on more than three million “unredacted” files, and what we found was a maze: survivors named in full view while alleged co‑conspirators stayed cloaked behind fresh black bars. People are not taking this sitting down and many indipendent journalists decided to pick up their cameras and head to Washington, D.C. What happens when four DOJ terminals are all that stand between Congress and the most consequential trove of abuse and corruption in recent memory?

we focus on what listeners can do. Demand full release of co‑conspirator documents, enforce penalties for unlawful...

Slavery didn’t vanish—it moved behind prison walls. We pull back the curtain on the 13th Amendment’s punishment clause, the economics of captive labor, and why a system built on coercion and deprivation keeps people cycling back inside. Through lived experience, we examine the gap between “justice” on paper and daily life in state facilities where field squads work in brutal heat or freezing cold, wages range from pennies to nothing, and essentials like calls and email cost a premium. 

Did you know that to send emails prisoners have to buy STAMPS! Like its the USPS. 

We react to a couple hilarious police clips, talk frankly about choices and consequences, then hold a QUICK mirror to U.S. healthcare. After we take a tour a record breaking, mountain-splitting Chinese megabridge that doubles as a tourist magnet. 

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A badge can feel like a promise: safety, order, truth. Tirzah thought she found all three when a detective slipped her his number under the guise of neighborhood safety. What followed was a masterclass in manipulation—love-bombing, boundary testing, and a slow, steady shift from romance to control. We walk through the pivotal beats: on-duty pull-ups with her in the car, drinking on shift, and confidential case details shared like party trivia. He mapped out a future—house hunting, kids’ schools, marriage talk—while quietly moving the goalposts and keeping her on his schedule and on his terms.

The...

We examine a couple of traffic stops, like an older driver who refuses field sobriety tests yet offers to take a breathalyzer, but the cop refuses. He’s a little unsteady, his words slur a bit, and his life experience shows in his posture. BUT! 

None of that proves intoxication. We break down why field tests are easy to fail even when sober, how aging and disability skew “clues,” and why objective measures should come first when safety allows. Our take is simple: measure truth before you measure obedience. or Just measure their B.A.L using your BR...

We return after loss and health scares to unpack a storm in music tech: AI tools that help creators versus AI “artists” that replace them. From layered kicks to lawsuits, we draw a line between inspiration and extraction and make a case for human craft and fair credit.

• grief, resilience and why art matters
• overview of Suno, Tata and Timbaland’s AI pivot
• tool vs replacement in DAWs and production
• voice cloning ethics and legacy boundaries
• lawsuits over training data and catalog scraping
• streaming thresholds, revenue squeeze and discoverability
• producer craft: layering kicks, tran...

A Halloween episode that trades jump scares for jaw‑dropping stunts—we swap costume nostalgia for a watch‑along deep dive into Jackie Chan’s legendary craft. From knives and fans to breakaway chairs and wire work, we peel back how choreography, timing, and smart camera choices turn low‑budget tricks into big‑screen magic. 
Hit play, ride the adrenaline, and tell us your most unforgettable Jackie Chan scene. If you’re vibing with the show, subscribe, share with a friend, and drop a review to help fellow action nerds find us.

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Dive into an enthralling exploration of consciousness, remote viewing, and the untapped potential of the mind in this episode of Getting Out. I sit down with an old friend Mike Totaro, who has dedicated the last decade-or 2 of his life trying to learn more about whats really going on around us and more importantly inside our brain.  

We unravel the mysteries surrounding the power of thought and belief, shedding light on how our perceptions can shape our reality. Highlighting personal journeys and encounters with the extraordinary, our guest shares experiences that challenge traditional beliefs about psychic abilities a...

Is the entertainment industry a web of deception, or are we simply not looking closely enough?" Join us for a deep dive into the shadowy corridors of fame, where ethical dilemmas and rapid rises to stardom seem to dance hand in hand. Drawing from personal tales and industry insights, we unpack the enigmatic world of entertainment with a focus on controversial figures like Diddy. With Katt Williams' candid interview with Shannon Sharpe as a backdrop, we unravel the strange social dynamics and the moral tests that aspiring stars often face in their quest for success.

Our exploration...

Adam and Johnny are back! take a seat or stand up and join us as we talk about the stark contrasts between the American and British education systems. We can't help but voice our concerns for the current state of U.S. public schools, calling for more life skills and less standardised testing.

What do shows like "Modern Family" and video game characters in wheelchairs have in common? One Hint SWEET BABY INC, fine one more D,E,I everywhere and we really need to know.....Are We All Racist? Doesn't sit seem diversity quotas sometimes overshadows...

"Black Mirror" on Netflix and the game-changing "Bandersnatch" choose your own adventure episode!  Or The episode that started it all! The recording eyes! You know what I mean if you know what I mean! Join us as we bring the Goosebumps and Lemonys shnickitty days back. Maybe you can learn something from our personal experiences with those crazy mushrooms Mario eats. Spoiler: You don't become 2 times bigger.

Ever had a psychedelic trip that felt more like a mission than a high? That's this episode. We’ve got some wild stories to share, from a friend’s obsession with...

Meet Adam and Johnny, 2 brothers from England, with a Staten Island accent! The Outcast family keeps getting bigger! SO tune in as Adam shares his recent hospitalisation, and his unexpected admiration for hospital food, im sorry Staten Islands Hospital Food. And he answers the age old question. What's In That Bag! 

Meanwhile, Jesse opens up about his dad's multiple heart surgeries and the complications from medication mismanagement. Jesse finds out he has something else wrong with him. (add it to the list) 
 We talk about past styling trends like the infamous hair Glue stick.  The Hair Flip...

From Dentist to Shaman: How after spending 8 years in school chasing a degree and building up his fathers Dentist Office. He’s decided to leave that all behind in search of a bigger and brighter pursuit….The pursuit of happiness. The real american dream. Getting Out the Podcast # 61 My First 1v1 interview 

In this episode, I sit down with an old friend I’ve known since kindergarten, who took a wild journey from the dental chair to the great outdoors. After years of grinding it out in dental school and a successful dentist—miles realized the 9-to-5 life wasn...

Let's clean the Studio! Its Make Over Time!

From modern cleaning gadgets to nostalgic TV marathons, we’ve got your interests covered. We rave about a vacuum-mop hybrid that’s as powerful as  Amsterdam's Red Light District! We can't help but laugh about its potential for accidental exposure. Our homage to QVC and HSN, despite the online shopping boom, will take you back. We relive the chaos of bargain hunting at Walmart, giving a nod to our newest, wallet-friendly finds from storage solutions to lighting.

And who doesn’t love a trip down memory lane? Our hig...

KDGs first time at Top Golf! Where every swing comes with a story and a "PING". KDG turns a Driving Range outing into a fierce competition. Full of mulligans and of course his own rules. While Jesse explains why he is afraid to hit off of a rubber Tee, we share our love-hate relationship with the sport.

Remember finger skateboards, and those Mini BMX bikes?  We reminisce about our childhood obsessions, including KDG's legendary Tony Hawk skateboard and Jesses GI Joe action figures. Throw in a quirky story about Kev’s dream of becoming a tree and the...

This week we are on the couch and hopefully by th end of the week, you'll be able to find us where ever else you'd like to listen or yes watch us, EVEN SPOTIFY Video. So Thank You ALL so much for sticking with us for the last few months as we have had to make some quick adjustments! 
This show is all about taking back control, STEPPING UP when its your time to take that swing! HEY! We may miss 9 times out of 10, but we are SMASHING that 10th pitch! We don't even play baseball! ... THATS WHAT O...

This episode we kick things off with a lighthearted debate on color perception and the quirky origins of words and last names. personal reflections, where I commend KD for his incredible focus on personal growth and staying drama-free. You'll hear about the challenges of staying motivated, the joy of productivity, and KD's dramatic health journey, including the discovery of mold in his home and the steps he's taken to improve air quality.

Take a nostalgic trip down memory lane as we share childhood memories filled with sleepovers, family vacations, and unique family traditions. 

It's an i...

What happens when you blend comedy, trauma, and a dash of clairvoyance? You get an episode jam-packed with emotional highs and lows, where we start by laughing about the social perceptions of weed and the differences between looking high and actually being high. As we navigate the technical hiccups of recording, we delve into the complex, yet often humorous relationship between personal trauma and comedy. Alongside, we set the stage for our new guest  Meg The "Unofficial" Italian Stallion.
From playful imitations and acting aspirations to sharing some intense and light-hearted moments. Dive into our appreciation for quirky s...

Being one of the lucky ones, battling through addiction and coming out the other side, I try to look at it like I was rewarded with a rare percpective and an even more invaluable toolkit of life skills. We get real about the struggle, the triumphs, and the lessons learned—whether it’s mastering car maintenance or navigating the frustrating journey of upgrading to a gigabyte internet plan. Wth is internet and how does it work? Those were the questions I wanted answers too, ounce my brain was clear.

That is where! Our story takes a dramatic twis...

I’m gonna start this with a quote from my wise Co-Host “Some people are really good actors until you hit record.” Drs are some of the best……”Here try this, see how you feel and come back in a month"  you go home look up the side effects for this medication that’s an ANTI depressant and one of the side of effects are increased urge to “hurt yourself” or worsened depression. It’s sad when you look up the studies done on these medications. It’s astonishing that most of the medications were even approved by the FDC. It all comes down...

Welcome to Getting Out the Podcast, where we turn dumpster dives into....well dumpster dives. Oh and is it Octopuses or Octopi ?🤷‍♂️ So many celebrity scandals going on you know we had to join in on these juicy gossip sessions. Ever find a chair so comfy it’s worth bringing into your already cluttered room?  Anybody? 
Join Jesse and KDG as they tackle everything from all of these famous folks slipping through the fingers of justice for way too long (we’re looking at you, R. Kelly, P. Diddy, Sean Kingston) not to mention the twisted tales starting to surface abou...

What if everything we learned about math was wrong? Terrence Howard, the guy from 'Empire' and 'Hustle & Flow,' seems to think so. Join us as we dive into his wild and controversial ideas about math and energy. Can he really change our understanding of the universe? Who knows, but it's a hilarious and fascinating ride.

We’ll also uncover some mind-blowing stuff like the secrets of the pyramids and how ancient civilizations might be connected. And, get this—KDG has never seen Terminator! Plus, he was almost cast as young Forrest Gump. Yeah, our minds were blow...

Twists of fate and chance encounters shape our stories, just as they shaped my mothers astonishing 45-year marriage, which all started with a glance on the B train. Join us as we explore the unpredictable nature of life, from the eerie recollections of a potentially haunted house to the difference in the rent prices of yesteryear and the economic realities of today. This episode, love, resilience, and the pursuit of dreams collide. 

This Episode is a celebration of the unsung heroes in our lives.....our parents. We acknowledge the profound impact our supporters have on our j...

We made it! 50 episodes! Next week we have our Mothers day Special, and we celebrate our 52nd episode which means a year worth of episodes!!! This week I sit down with my right hand man, ride or die Mr KDG!!! We talk about what to expect in his upcoming podcast "The KDG Show". I also play a sneak peak of one of my new songs that will be on my upcoming EP "Under The Moonlight". You can listen to the demo version on my soundcloud to see how far the song has progessed. Don't forget to check my boy...

Ever found yourself laughing at the idea of a robot handing you your burger at the drive-thru? Well, that's exactly where we start our latest episode—dissecting the AI revolution in Texan fast-food joints, and how it's indicative of the changes rippling through our daily lives.  Neuralink's potential and the role of AI in companionship and warfare, leaving you with a glimpse into the daunting yet thrilling horizon of technological possibilities. 
And! Remember when you were a kid, and you would hear the Ice Cream truck song playing somewhere close by?  Or the unadulterated joy of simple games like man h...

I sit down with long time friends Patwell, KDG as well as the my older brother Anthony, but we call him Pizzle.....Dont ask.
We talk about music, life, and our regular shannanigans. For the last month we have shot at least 7/8 episodes "tests"  not to mention our countless out-takes. Next week marks our 1 year anniversary.  Check our website/socials for updates on everything Getting Out, lets Get it!      

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Ever teetered on the edge of a colossal win with sports betting, only to watch it slip through your fingers? We've been there, and in our latest episode, we lay it all out—from the intricacies of betting lines to the heart-pumping thrills of near-miss parlays. 

Jesseism 101' that governs the unpredictable twist and turns of life's journey. We even stroll down memory lane to the quirky days of customized ringtones and reflect on how personal growth can stem from the most unexpected places.

Wrap up your day with our eclectic mix of heartfelt anecdotes and...

GUYS! after weeks of stress, being sick and even breaking a couple of chairs ( Which I wont get into until I can just show u lol. Just expect to be seeing reels again but most importantly, VIDEO  Episodes are BACK again, with a bunch of differnet guests and more shows on our channel. I hope you guys are read! Lets G))

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While I (Jesse) was being handcuffed and Sentenced to 5 yrs in prison for messing up while on "Drug Court"(which is now called Recovery Court BTW), My Older Brother Anthony was literally down the hall Graduating from the very same program that ultimately landed me in  prison. 
 TODAY! It's all about BROTHERS!  Not just Blood, but the people in your life that will ALWAYS have your back.  That's not a friend that's FAMILY. 
I always thought change was an impossibility, but watching my brother these past 11 years has made me realise that it's possible, but if your not re...

Hasn't been a great month here at Getting Out. I ( Jesse ) turn 34 today ;(  after hearing the sad news, hopefully you guys can understand and are willing to give this show a chance because I don't plan on stopping anytime soon, even if I have to learn every thing under the sun .....It was a promise I made to you guys and more importantly to prove to myself I can commit to building something for me and the people I care about.  I never Invested in my future before. I never took a chance on me, and no matter what.....at...

A lot of changes and a lot of new things are being cooked up here at Say I won't Productions. We are In the process of developing  new shows with different hosts on a whole array of topics. Tune in next week for a full breakdown on what the future of Getting Out will look like. AND don't worry we will still be posting the video versions of the episodes but our goal is to bring u 2 or 3 episodes a week so stay tuned and if u have any ideas please email us at the link bellow. Much Love 

You never know when life will throw a curveball your way, and this year is no different. But here at Getting Out we are committed to bringing you REAL conversations,  with REAL people every week. With all this A.I going around, you never know what's real, but when you tune into Getting Out every Wed you are always in for some type of surprise.

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Join Carmine & Jesse as they talk about the recent rumours surrounding Sean "P. Diddy" Combs & how Justin Bieber & Usher fit into the picture. They break down their own shady dealings within the entertainment industry and find a common thread through their personal experiences. Conspiracy theory? This time we don't think that's the case...

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Join Carmine & Jesse as they sit down with budding film maker, Tom Coraggio. Toms’ story is a testament to the power of following your heart. Tune in as they delve into his experiences, challenges, and triumphs. Tom shows that it is never too late to try something  new, and make a change regardless of how hard that may be.

Bellow you can find Toms IG, as well as his fundraising project and links to some of his other Works:

Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/onedayfilmmaker?igsh=MzlqYTVjZmJwcnkw

Indiegogo:
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Carmine & Jesse are left to their own devices as our Producer Nicky takes a well deserved week off to celebrate his Birthday. New Episodes every Wed.

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Join Carmine and Jesse as they talk about their very different Super Bowl weekends or as Jesse’s family calls it, the Sushi Bowl!  Jesse talks about the only 5 mins he watched ( 🤫/🤞 after seeing Janet Jacksons little “mishap” I dont think he has missed  one since) Meanwhile, Nicky enlightens Jesse on the Super Bowl’s new advertising strategies, including its Nickelodeon stream and  SpongeBob halftime show.!?
 Join us as we get a bit nostalgic talking about 90’s Nickelodeon shows because who knows how much longer cable will be exist. Let alone physical mediq in general? 
  Like ussual  we start in Left Field...

We sit down with local Artist Clou9. We ask him about his process, get to know a little bit about the man behind the upside down d. It really does make sense in more ways than one if you really break it down. We even listen to one of his tracks 
( We apologize for in advance for the compression) 
 if your an audiophile like Jesse, or if you want to hear what the song the way its is supposed to sound like please check him out HERE:

@Clou9nj
Recording Artist/Producer
Based out...

Join Carmine & Jesse as they mourn the passing of their favorit convenience stores; the one and only Kum & Go! Since the first time Carmine wore the Kum & Go shirt on the show, we keep hearing about them in. the news. People seem to love coming and going at Kum & Go! They should of learned from Louie C.K.

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Join Carmine & Jesse, (friends for over 23 years) as they talk about seeing Bad Friends Live in Atlantic City! You also get to see what Carmine has to deal with on a daily basis. Jesse gets so excited he forgets how to talk. Carmine figures out how to shut him up with the press of a button..........

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Carmine & Jesse sit down with owner of Twin Lights Brewery, Will Grundmann. Let's learn about beer together!. How it's made, why I.P.A? What it means? All is revealed by master brewer and inspiration to all struggling to make a change.

And make sure to follow Twin Lights Brewing on all of their platforms here!

Website / Store  - https://www.twinlightsbrewing.com/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/twinlightsbrewing/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/twinlightsbrewing/

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