Find Love With Emily

If you’ve been trying to find love for YEARS, there comes a point where you genuinely don’t know what else you’re supposed to do.

You’ve worked on yourself.

You’ve used the dating apps.

You’ve put yourself "out there".

You’ve followed the advice, healed the patterns, tried to stay positive and kept going even after yet another promising man disappeared.

And still… you’re single.

So what the actual f are you missing?!?!? 😖

You can meet men.

You can get matches, have great conversations, go on dates, even meet someone you think might actually have potential…

But somehow dating never seems to get you to the actual relationship.

So you start trying to work out what you’re doing wrong.

Do you need to choose better men?

Be less available?

Play it cooler?

Change your profile?

Be more in your feminine energy?

Fina...

If you've been trying to find love for YEARS...

You've been dating, swiping on the apps, following all the dating advice, but you still don't have the loving, committed relationship that you want...

You get to the point where you'd do anything for some kind of sign, some glimmer of something that tells you love still possible.

It's still worth holding onto hope for.

When finding love hasn't happening yet, it's easy to assume that NOTHING is happening.

Feeling completely burnt out by dating and trying to find love?

Maybe you're exhausted by swiping through (very!) average men on the dating apps.

You're sick of investing in conversations that go nowhere.

Tried of disappointing dates.

Thinking you've finally found something that'll help you find love...and it doesn't.

It feels like you've tried everything already to find love.

All the dating strategies, manifestation techniques, anxious attachment advice, how to be more in your "feminine energy" tips...

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Have you ever met a man who's everything you've been looking for...

✅ He's kind

✅ Emotionally available

✅ You feel safe around him

✅ He's exactly the sort of man you've been hoping to meet.

But there's just no spark?

No chemisty.

0 physical attraction 😐

So now what??!

Do you keep dating him and hope attraction grows?

Or is that your sign that he's simply not your person?

This e...

If you've ever called yourself anxiously attached, chances are you've also spent MANY months trying to heal it.

You’ve read the books.

Followed all the experts.

Tried distracting yourself.

Keeping yourself busy with new hobbies and friends.

Hid your phone.

Worked on becoming more “secure”.

And yet somehow…

You’re still caught up in the same exhausting cycle of overthinking, waiting, worrying, constantly checking your phone and ending up with emotionally unavailable men who only y...

If you’ve been dating for years, you’re barely holding onto hope you’ll find love while you still have chance…

You’ll know how easily the fear, anxiety, overthinking and need to control comes back whenever dating doesn’t go the way you hoped.

It’s a normal human reaction.

What matters though is what you do next.

In this episode, I explain why these moments don’t mean you’ve gone backwards, why they’re not a sign to give up on...

What doesn’t dating EVER lead you to love? To the relationship you’ve always wanted?

Why does it always end at date 2 or 3… if that?!

If you’re stuck in this cycle, where you keep meeting men who have potential.

The first date goes well.

The second date feels even better.

You get kinda excited! 🥳

And then…

He pulls away.

Says he isn’t looking for anything serious.

Ghosts you.

Or things sim...

I’ve had 1,633 women join Attract Your Man and honestly?

Not every woman who joins finds love 🫣

I’ve watched 100s of women meet incredible men, engaged, married, become mothers.

But this doesn't happen for everyone.

And so I’ve spent the last year asking… WHY?

It's not because what I teach in AYM doesn’t work.

It's not because there’s a lack of the right men.

It's not because dating’s changed...

Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does... 

And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌 

Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because:

❌ There's something wrong with you

❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless 

❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men 

❌ Or that love's just not meant for you. 

It's simply that love...

If the fact that you’re still single (after years of dating!) feels like the biggest problem in your life right now, this episode will tell you what needs to happen for you to actually solve this problem and find love.

As you know, dating more, trying harder to be the kind of woman you think men want, overthinking, strategizing, following allllll the dating advice…

While it makes logical sense, it doesn’t actually help you find love.

So what if finding love was never...

Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does... 

And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌 

Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because:

❌ There's something wrong with you

❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless 

❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men 

❌ Or that love's just not meant for you. 

It's simply that love...

If dating makes you feel nervous, insecure or you feel the pressure to get things “right” this episode is for you.

So often single women over 30 are told to build your confidence dating, simply by dating more.

But you’ve been dating for 3+ years, you’ve probably also realized that isn’t actually true!

In this episode, I share how you actually build dating confidence and why simply forcing yourself to date more isn’t the answer.

Because if on every dat...

Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does... 

And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌 

Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because:

❌ There's something wrong with you

❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless 

❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men 

❌ Or that love's just not meant for you. 

It's simply that love...

Dating apps can really suck 😝

Especially if you’ve been swiping away for years… and all they’ve got you are men who disappoint you, average dates that go nowhere and conversations that feel like hard work.

I get why you’d hate dating apps. I used to feel the same way. 

But what if they’re not the actual problem?! ...it's how we're using them!?!? 💡

There was a point I got to when I was single where I genuinely LOVED d...

Every week in Do This To Find Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does... 

And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌 

Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because:

❌ There's something wrong with you

❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless 

❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men 

❌ Or that love's just not meant for you. 

It's simply that...

Why is it that some women seem to move on from heartbreak in a matter of weeks...

While you're still thinking about him months (sometimes even years) later?

You're wondering what happened.

What you did "wrong".

Replaying conversations in your head and what you should've said.

Still feeling that ache in your chest every time you think about what could've been 💔

Whether you're struggling to move on after a breakup, a situationship, being ghosted, rejected or you're simply hea...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.

These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.

Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart.

Ea...

For sure, dating can royally suck 😫

It can feel like one long string of disappointment, pain, heartbreak.

You get your hopes up.

Put yourself out there.

Try to say positive.

And then you always end up back at “square one”.

It can be really easy to think that this is just the way dating is.

That finding love is HARD.

The struggle is just part of the process.

You know what’s really frustrating when you’re a woman, over 30 and still single??

Being told your whole life that if you're a good person, you work hard, treat people well, you’re kind and think of others, then good things happen.

Then you start dating 🫣

And NONE of that seems to matter.

You have such a big heart, so much love to give.

You’re thoughtful, you’d make an incredible partner, your intentions are so loving. <...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.

These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.

Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart.

Ea...

When you want love but you’ve been single for years…

You’ve tried the apps, taken breaks from dating, worked on yourself, done the healing, listened to even more advice…

It can feel like you’re “doomed to be single”.

For real 💔😔

All you want is to know if love it’s meant for you.

If it’s still possible.

So you have a reason to keep hoping, to keep going.

Often the hardest p...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.

These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.

Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart.

Ea...

Dating can feel scary.

Not just because there are men out there who don't have good intentions.

But because at some point, you're supposed to trust someone you still don't fully know 🫣

Let your guard down.

Believe they're who they say they are.

And hope you've got it right 🤞

What if you miss the red flags?

What if you trust the wrong man?

What if you end up hurt, blindsided or wishin...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.

These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.

Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart.

Ea...

How do you find love when you absolutely hate or just don’t want to use dating apps?

When they make you feel judged, exhausted, hopeless or like finding love has somehow turned into one giant meat market??

Maybe you deleted and redownloaded the apps 100 times.

Maybe you force yourself back on them because you feel like you “should.”

Or because you’re scared if you don’t, you’ll never meet your person.

This episode is for the single woman over 3...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.

These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.

Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart.

Ea...

It’s not like you haven’t tried…

You’ve followed all the dating advice.

You’ve tried healing your “anxious attachment”.

You’ve been more in your feminine energy.

You’ve swiped on the apps.

You’ve treated dating like a “numbers game”.

You’ve done your best to stay position.

You’ve even tried to stop caring.

…so WHY THE F🤬 does love still feel so hard to find?!?!

These are the BIG question this episode...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.

These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.

Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart.

Ea...

If you’re a single woman in your late 30s, 40s or beyond and it feels less and less likely that love will ever happen for you…

This episode is for you.

There’s a deep ache that comes with watching time move on while your life feels stuck in the same place...

Your friends are married.

Having babies.

Established lives with their partners.

Meanwhile you’re trying your best to hold onto the hope of love...

Over the last 9 years, working with 100,000s of women, there are 7 SIGNS I see over and over again in women over 30 who find it hard to find love.

And every single one points to the same thing…

👉 You’re unknowingly working against the way love actually happens.

Which is exactly why you can do alllll the things dating advice tells you to do:

And ST...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.

These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.

Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart.

Ea...

Over the last 9 years, working with 100,000s of women, there are 7 SIGNS I see over and over again in women over 30 who find it hard to find love.

And every single one points to the same thing…

👉 You’re unknowingly working against the way love actually happens.

Which is exactly why you can do alllll the things dating advice tells you to do:

Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.

These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.

Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart.

Ea...

This is one of the most frustrating dating patterns for single women over 30…

You meet a man you actually like...

There’s chemistry.

You see potential.

But it never actually becomes something real 😔

He seems into you when you’re together…

But when you’re not?

It’s no plans.

Minimal effort.

Just enough to keep you interested.

And so without really realizin...

There’s a very specific kind of pain that many single women over 30 feel…

That deep ache, the longing to be chosen by a man you love just as much.

You want to know what it feels like to have a man choose you.

Easily, naturally, because he wants to.

Because he wants you.

And when you still don’t have that after years of dating, it can become an ache that never seems to leave.

Most...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.

These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.

Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart.

Ea...

There are women who find love easily…

And then there’s your experience 💔

✔️ You’ve followed all the dating advice.

✔️ You’re swiping on apps.

✔️ In your “feminine energy”.

✔️ Playing hard to get.

✔️ Trying really hard.

And yet, you’re the one who’s left confused, frustrated and why you’re always the single friend.

This episode will take you deeper than any dating advice ever will.

Because the reason she gets the guy and...

Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want.

These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love.

Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart.

Ea...

Men who only want sex.

Men who run from commitment.

Men who don’t care about getting to know you.

Men who only want casual.

❌ This isn’t "just how dating is" in 2026.

There are still plenty of women in their 30s and 40s who are meeting genuine, kind, loyal men and ending up in committed, loving relationships.

If that not your experience and you’re stuck attracting the men who only want one thing…

There’s a simple reason for this...