Build Better Dads
My father is a great man. He raised me. He was present. He was there.But there are 5 things about money he never taught me — and not because he didn't love me. Because nobody taught him either.In this video, I share the 5 money lessons my 89-year-old father never taught me, and the 5 lessons I'm teaching my son and daughter so the cycle stops in our family line.I killed $118,000 in debt without a six-figure salary. Most of that debt came from running my father's broken money playbook for 15 years before I knew it was broken.Working dads — if your fathe...
I Don’t Know If I’m Teaching My Son How To Be A Man. So I Asked Him.
I asked my 10-year-old son, Carter, what he thinks it means to be a man. We discuss how to teach manhood to our sons.
Many fathers worry about whether they are providing the right guidance as their boys grow up. I sat down with my son to reflect on the lessons I learned from the men in my life and to hear what he is actually picking up from me. This conversation shifted my perspective on what it means to be a positive male role model in a child's eyes.
By opening up this honest...
My Teenage Son Won't Talk To Me Anymore
When your teenage son stops talking to you, the silence can feel overwhelming. Learn how to bridge the gap and reconnect.
It is easy to assume that your son has simply become quiet, but the reality is often that he has stopped communicating specifically with you. This shift can be jarring for any father, but it is rarely the end of the road. We address five specific reasons behind this communication breakdown and provide practical steps to help you open the lines of dialogue once again.
Good parenting advice focuses on the long-term relationship rather...
“Signs of Depression in Men That Look Like ‘Just Tired’”
Many men mask the signs of depression in men by staying busy or mistaking anger for sadness. Learn to recognize the warning signs of burnout before it is too late.
We often fall into the trap of believing that constant grinding is the only way to provide for our families. However, this exhaustion often hides deeper struggles that affect your role as a father. This video outlines seven common indicators that what you label as mere tiredness might actually be a serious mental health issue. Understanding these patterns is a vital part of intentional parenting, ensuring you...
"Why I'm Building Build Better Dads" (And Where This Is Going)
I am launching Build Better Dads to help you lead your family with purpose. Learn why character matters more than possessions.
Many dads get caught up in providing for their family through material things, but the real work of fatherhood happens when we focus on the person our children are becoming. This video explores my own journey and the realizations that led me to launch this channel, aiming to share the lessons I have learned along the way.
Moving away from the pressure to just provide, I want to discuss the importance of intentional parenting...
Working Dads: Being Exhausted Is Not a Badge of Honor
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Being one of many working dads doesn't mean you have to be exhausted. Learn why rest is actually better for your family.
Many men, especially working dads, wear their exhaustion like a trophy, believing that constant grinding is the only way to be a provider. But constant fatigue often leads to burnout, leaving you with little energy for the people who matter most. This discussion explores why neglecting your own...
Your Kid Will Fail. What They Hear Next Changes Everything
When your child faces failure, how you respond determines their resilience. Learn how to coach your kids through life's toughest moments.
Working dads often feel the urge to correct or criticize when a child stumbles, but your reaction in those critical moments sets the tone for their future confidence. This video explores why your role is to be a mentor rather than a critic, providing the support they need to see failure as information rather than a reflection of their identity. By shifting your approach, you help build a foundation where they feel safe to take risks.<...
Can People Tell You're Father Without You Saying it?
In this episode, we explore what it truly means to be recognized as a father through your actions and presence, not just words. We discuss how self-awareness, public perception, and personal responsibility shape the image of a dad in everyday life.
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fatherhood, self-awareness, public perception, personal responsibility, building better dads, father image, social influence, parenting, masculinity, community impact
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The importance of actions in defining fatherhood
How others perceive us as fathers
The role of self-awareness in personal growth
Impact of public per...
7 Conversations Every Son Needs Before He Turns 18
This episode explores seven crucial conversations fathers should have with their sons before they turn 18, covering topics from discernment and failure to respect and learning. These insights aim to guide parents in raising well-rounded, resilient men.
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fatherhood, parenting, son, life lessons, resilience, respect, failure, learning, discernment, personal growth
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Discernment vs distrust in friendships
The importance of failure and learning from it
Learning to lose and resilience in sports
Self-respect and grooming as self-care
Listening skills and effective communication
Knowing your...
Are We Setting Our Sons Up To Fail?
In this episode, Dr. Richard C. Horowitz shares valuable insights on how fathers can better support their sons' emotional development, set appropriate boundaries, and foster resilience. We explore practical strategies for parenting with intention and understanding to help boys transition into responsible men.
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fatherhood, parenting, emotional intelligence, discipline, resilience, family meetings, boundaries, responsibility, child development
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Difference between discipline and punishment
How to build resilience in boys
Effective communication with sons
Setting boundaries and rules
The importance of family meetings
Modeling emotional int...
Jails Are Full Of People Who Were Only Talked To
On this episode of Build Better Dads, host Ramon Weatherall and guest Speak Rock have an honest, unfiltered conversation about spanking, discipline, communication, accountability, and the difference between parenting your child and trying to be their friend.
They discuss whether children can be raised without spanking, why different children require different approaches, how a father’s role changes as children mature, and what can happen when parents fail to establish boundaries.
This conversation does not support child abuse. It examines reasonable parental discipline, correction, communication, consequences, and the responsibility fathers have to prepare their children for the re...
“Somebody Asked Me What I Meant By ‘The Real World”
Somebody asked me what I meant by "the real world."
Like they didn't know.
So let me tell you what I mean — because your son is walking into it whether he's ready or not.
The real world doesn't care about excuses. It doesn't care about your childhood. It responds to your kid based on what he knows and how he shows up.
Working dads — that's what we're preparing them for.
That's what this channel is. Conversations nobody had with us.
Subscribe if you're a working dad tired of r...
Should Your Adult Child Pay Rent to Live
# Should Your Adult Child Pay Rent to Live at Home?
Should your adult child pay rent while living at home? The better question is whether your arrangement is helping them build independence—or helping them avoid it.
In this video, we look beyond simply collecting rent. A few hundred dollars each month does not automatically prepare a grown child for life on their own. The goal should be to teach them how to budget, pay bills, save for their own place, and take responsibility for their future.
You’ll learn:
- Why...
I Became a Dad Without Knowing How to Be a Man..
This episode explores the core lessons fathers want to pass on to their children, emphasizing the importance of intentional parenting and life skills. It highlights common themes like preparation for real-world challenges, financial literacy, patience, and meaningful conversations.
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fatherhood, parenting, life lessons, financial literacy, patience, communication, personal growth, generational change
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Fathers' common concerns about their children's future
The importance of teaching life skills like money, mechanics, and patience
The role of conversations in fatherhood
How to make children more prepared for life's challenges
When Your Son Disrespects You In Public — Do This Instead
This episode explores a transformative approach for fathers to understand their sons' behavior, shifting from a perspective of control to one of empathy and leadership. Learn how to see beneath disrespect and foster stronger connections.
Key Topics
Changing the perspective on disrespect
Understanding what children are really trying to communicate
The importance of patience and listening
Shifting from punishment to correction
Building emotional intelligence in children
The role of ego in parenting conflicts
The power of waiting and discipline
Seeing your child as a person, not just a...
Good Men Destroy Themselves Trying to Save Everyone
In this episode, we explore the complexities of family relationships, marriage, and personal boundaries. Our guests share heartfelt insights on when to let go, the importance of vows, and maintaining mental health amidst family challenges.
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family relationships, marriage, boundaries, mental health, personal growth, fatherhood, respect, family dynamics
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Family boundaries and when to let go
The importance of marriage vows and commitment
Balancing family loyalty with personal health
The impact of disrespect and how to address it
Managing relationships with adult children and agi...
My Father Never Taught Me This About Money
Summary
In this video, Ramon shares five crucial money lessons his father never taught him, emphasizing the importance of financial education for the next generation. He discusses investing, budgeting, defending purchases, calculating risk, and understanding money as a tool.
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money lessons, financial education, investing, budgeting, risk management, money as a tool, generational cycle, financial literacy, personal finance, wealth building
Key Topics
The importance of teaching children about money
Five lessons about money that were not taught by previous generations
The role of investing, budgeting, and...
I Asked My 10 Yr Old About Money His Answer Floored Me!
In this heartfelt episode, a father shares a candid conversation with his 10-year-old son about money, teaching valuable lessons on financial literacy, behavior, and the importance of intentional parenting. Discover how early money talks shape future generations and practical tips for parents.
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financial literacy, parenting, money lessons, kids and money, investing, saving, family finance, fatherhood, money mindset, wealth building
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The importance of discussing money with children from a young age
How parents' behavior influences kids' money mindset
Practical questions to ask kids abo...
Broke Dad or Wealthy Dad? Pass or Fail
Title: Broke Dad or Wealthy Dad? Pass or Fail
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In this episode, discover the three key reasons why a purchase should pass or fail, helping you build discipline and make smarter financial decisions. Learn practical steps to avoid impulse buys and plan your spending wisely.
Key Topics:
The three reasons a purchase is justified: pays you back, protects your family, and is planned and budgeted
Why factors like a hard week or sales should not justify buying unnecessary items
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The Question I Started Asking After The Bank Trip To The Bank
This episode explores how working dads can take control of their finances by questioning their spending habits, avoiding common pitfalls, and adopting discipline to build wealth and reduce debt.
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Use this simple question to manage debt and stop overspending for good. Learn a practical framework to evaluate every purchase before you swipe your card.
Most of us fall into the trap of impulse buying when we see a sale...
"My 89 year Old Father at the Bank Taught Me Why Most Dads Stay Broke"
This video emphasizes the importance of building a financial legacy, protecting assets, and making intentional money decisions. It shares personal stories about scams targeting the elderly, lessons from a father's financial mistakes, and strategies for working dads to secure their future.
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financial legacy, investing, money management, fatherhood, scams, debt payoff, financial planning, legacy building, personal finance, wealth protection
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Building a financial legacy
Protecting assets from scams and impulsive spending
Creating a financial mission with clear destination and defense strategies
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Why I'm Done Being Quiet About a Realistic Dad
This video is a raw, unfiltered message for fathers who are surviving and leading their families amidst debt, stress, and societal expectations. It emphasizes discipline, intentionality, and real-world experience over superficial advice, encouraging men to build a legacy of strength, discipline, and purpose.
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fatherhood, discipline, debt, legacy, real-world parenting, financial literacy, masculinity, family leadership, mental toughness, personal development
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The importance of discipline in overcoming debt
Building a legacy through intentional fatherhood
The misconception of provider roles and real masculinity
The significance of controlling tem...
These 4 Contributions Build Stronger Households Than Money Ever Will
This video clarifies what it means to contribute to a household, emphasizing non-monetary contributions like helping with chores, tech support, emotional support, and security. It highlights the importance of responsibility and proactive involvement for adult children living at home.
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contribute, household responsibilities, adult children, family support, security, emotional support, tech skills, non-monetary contribution
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Contributing to household without paying rent
Roles of adult children in family support
Emotional and security responsibilities in the home
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"Contribute in four...
Your Discipline is Breaking Your Child's Spirit (Here's What to Do Instead)
This episode explores the impact of parenting styles on children's confidence and respect. It emphasizes the importance of being a supportive, respectful parent and the dangers of harsh discipline, with practical advice for restoring self-esteem and building strong parent-child relationships.
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parenting, child confidence, discipline, respect, black families, self-esteem, parenting advice, emotional support, child development
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Impact of harsh discipline on children's confidence
The importance of respect and support in parenting
Strategies for restoring self-esteem in children
The role of parents as leaders and role mod...
Your Discipline is Breaking Your Child's Spirit (Here's What to Do Instead)
This episode explores the impact of parenting styles on children's confidence and respect. It emphasizes the importance of being a supportive, respectful parent and the dangers of harsh discipline, with practical advice for restoring self-esteem and building strong parent-child relationships.
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parenting, child confidence, discipline, respect, black families, self-esteem, parenting advice, emotional support, child development
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Impact of harsh discipline on children's confidence
The importance of respect and support in parenting
Strategies for restoring self-esteem in children
The role of parents as leaders and role mod...
The Asset Poverty Trap | Rich on Paper, Broke in Reality
In this conversation, the speaker critiques common financial advice that encourages individuals to prioritize their partner's desires over their financial stability. He emphasizes the importance of understanding asset poverty and the financial realities that many families face, particularly within marginalized communities. The discussion highlights the need for financial literacy and resilience to avoid crises and build a legacy of love that is sustainable.
Building a legacy of love requires financial stability.
Many Americans lack emergency savings, making financial advice critical.
Saying yes to everything can lead to financial ruin.
Asset poverty affects a...
I Filed Chapter 13 Bankruptcy With $113K Debt Here's Why I'm Still Investing
This interview features a man who overcame $113,000 in debt and bankruptcy, emphasizing the importance of investing early, accepting financial mistakes, and building wealth through disciplined habits. He shares personal insights on managing debt, the role of family support, and creating a legacy for children.
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Managing debt while investing
The importance of early investing for children
Admitting financial mistakes and taking responsibility
sound bites
"In 2023, I hit the wall with debt."
"Admit you're bad with money."
"There's good debt and bad debt."
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Start Investing with $50 a Month: The Family CEO Framework
Summary
This episode breaks down how to start investing with just $50 a month, emphasizing the importance of automation, low-cost ETFs, and a long-term buy-and-hold strategy to build a legacy for your children.
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"What Happens to Your Son in the Real World if He Treats You Like This?"
This episode dives into the core principles of raising respectful, responsible, and empathetic young men. Whether you're a parent, educator, or mentor, you’ll learn practical advice on cultivating strong work ethics, respect for authority, and emotional intelligence in the next generation.
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The importance of instilling a strong work ethic from a young age
The role of respect for authority and rules in character development
How empathy combined with strength creates leadership qualities
Recognizing and avoiding the traits of selfishness and entitlement
The significance of listening, respecting others' perspectives, and setting bo...
The One Parenting Mistake Destroying Your Relationship
This episode explores the contrasting parenting styles of authoritarian and authoritative fathers, emphasizing the importance of guiding children with high standards and support. It highlights how these approaches shape children's behavior, character, and decision-making skills.
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parenting, fatherhood, authoritarian, authoritative, child development, discipline, character building, parenting styles
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Differences between authoritarian and authoritative parenting
Impact of parenting styles on child's behavior and character
How discipline methods influence children's decision-making
The importance of high standards and support in parenting
Timing and flexibility in parenting approaches
Every Dad Needs to Know This FatherHood Secret Now!
This motivational talk emphasizes the importance of fatherhood, setting boundaries, and teaching resilience to sons. It highlights three critical mistakes parents often make and offers practical advice on raising strong, independent men.
Key Topics
Parenting mistakes that hinder boys' development
The importance of boundaries and discipline
Teaching resilience and independence to sons
Takeaways
Parents should not try to be their child's best friend but their authority figure.
Children learn more from actions than words; parents must model the behavior they want to see.
Protecting children f...
This Judge's Marijuana Rant Exposes a Massive Parenting Problem
A Milwaukee County judge expressed his displeasure after smelling marijuana in his courtroom, leading to a discussion about court cases and the consequences of drug-related incidents. This courtroom drama highlights how a judge reacts to such situations, particularly in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. The incident touches on potential contempt of court issues, emphasizing the importance of upholding decorum in the legal setting.
We discuss:
The importance of "playing the role" and dressing for success in legal situations.
Why first impressions can make or break a judge's decision.
Insights from "The Pot Plot" by...
Leveling Up: Why "Good Enough" is the Enemy of "Better"
Episode Description: The Blueprint for a Better Fatherhood
In this powerful episode, we sit down with Ramon Weatherall, a fatherhood coach and creator of the Build Better Dads platform. Ramon shares his deeply personal journey from being a single father to a self-taught investor and advocate for intentional parenting.
We dive into the "levels" of fatherhood, discussing why even the most dedicated dads should never stop striving for improvement. Ramon breaks down the difference between "bought knowledge"—lessons learned the hard way through mistakes—and "t...
3 Critical Mistakes Dads Make That Ruin Their Sons(Stop Before It's Too Late)
Dads, this video addresses common parenting mistakes that can hinder your son's development into a leader. We explore essential parenting advice to help fathers guide their children towards becoming impactful individuals. By focusing on effective fatherhood strategies, you can learn how to raise successful kids and raise confident kids ready to take on the world.
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"He Wants to 'Come Outside'… But in 2026, That’s How You Lose Everything."
In this episode of the Raising Carter podcast, host Ramon Weatherall discusses a troubling incident involving a child referred to as the 'doorbell bandit.' He explores themes of disrespect, accountability, and the importance of communication between parents and children. Weatherall emphasizes that disrespect has always existed and urges parents to investigate the root causes of such behavior rather than simply reacting. He advocates for direct communication with the involved parties to resolve conflicts and stresses the need for parents to hold their children accountable for their actions.
takeaways
Disrespect has a...
They Waited 4 Years To Throw Their Lives Away
This conversation explores the tragic consequences of holding onto grudges and the cycle of violence that can ensue. It discusses the importance of family influence, personal responsibility, and the lessons learned from tragic choices. The speaker emphasizes the need for better role models and the impact of decisions on one's life and the lives of others.
takeaways
If somebody stripped you of your dignity, would you rebuild yourself?
Holding onto a grudge can lead to tragic consequences.
Violence often stems from unresolved anger and trauma.
Family influence plays a crucial role i...
The Ultimate Fake Cash Flex Gone Horribly Wrong
In this episode of the Raising Carter Podcast, the host discusses the dangerous consequences of seeking validation through social media, illustrated by a shocking incident where a man was shot over a fake post. The conversation delves into the importance of self-worth, legacy, and the need to prioritize personal values over external opinions. The host emphasizes that true success is not defined by others' perceptions and encourages listeners to focus on their own paths and decisions.
takeaways
Man was shot over a fake social media post.
Seeking validation can lead to dangerous consequences.
The Real Reason Whooping Fails as Kids Grow
In this episode of the Raising Cardio Podcast, the host discusses the ineffectiveness of physical discipline, such as spanking, in fostering respect and understanding in children. The conversation emphasizes the importance of teaching through connection, correction, and proactive strategies rather than reactive punishment. The host encourages parents to reflect on their disciplinary methods and consider alternatives that promote learning and respect.
Takeaways
When your child is older, spanking loses its effectiveness.
Physical discipline may stop bad behavior but doesn't teach understanding.
Parents should focus on teaching skills rather than using fear.<...
He Called Himself a Dad While His Kids Were Trapped | The Truth Behind the Plea Deal
This conversation delves into a harrowing case of child neglect involving Charles Dupriest, who was found guilty of locking his six children in a storage unit. The discussion highlights the trial's proceedings, the responsibilities of parents, and the societal implications of such neglect. It emphasizes the need for awareness and accountability in parenting, as well as the lessons that can be learned from this tragic situation.
Takeaways
If your life fell apart today, would you sacrifice your comfort for your children's safety?
The conditions inside the storage unit were appalling, with no running...
3 Assets Every Parent Should Buy Their Son (Not Toys)
In this video, we will be discussing the importance of investing in assets that can generate wealth for your child's future, rather than just buying them toys. As a parent, it's essential to think about your son's financial literacy and how you can set him up for success in the stock market and beyond. By teaching your son about personal finance and the basics of investing, you can help him develop a strong foundation for building wealth. The stock market for beginners can seem intimidating, but with the right guidance, your son can learn how to navigate it and...
Titles The Great Debate: Reading vs. Street Smarts
Summary
In this episode of the Raising Carter podcast, the hosts delve into the debate surrounding the importance of reading versus street smarts. They discuss a controversial statement made by rapper Jules Santana, who suggests that by the ninth grade, kids don't necessarily need to know how to read, advocating instead for financial literacy and business skills. The hosts challenge this notion, emphasizing that while street smarts and common sense are valuable, reading is fundamental for success in life, particularly in understanding contracts, job applications, and educational materials. They argue that reading is essential for personal and...
