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By: Ramon weatherall Sr

 My father is a great man. He raised me. He was present. He was there.But there are 5 things about money he never taught me — and not because he didn't love me. Because nobody taught him either.In this video, I share the 5 money lessons my 89-year-old father never taught me, and the 5 lessons I'm teaching my son and daughter so the cycle stops in our family line.I killed $118,000 in debt without a six-figure salary. Most of that debt came from running my father's broken money playbook for 15 years before I knew it was broken.Working dads — if your fathe...

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Should Your Adult Child Pay Rent to Live
#19
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# Should Your Adult Child Pay Rent to Live at Home?

Should your adult child pay rent while living at home? The better question is whether your arrangement is helping them build independence—or helping them avoid it.

In this video, we look beyond simply collecting rent. A few hundred dollars each month does not automatically prepare a grown child for life on their own. The goal should be to teach them how to budget, pay bills, save for their own place, and take responsibility for their future.

You’ll learn:

- Why...


I Became a Dad Without Knowing How to Be a Man..
#18
08/09/2026

This episode explores the core lessons fathers want to pass on to their children, emphasizing the importance of intentional parenting and life skills. It highlights common themes like preparation for real-world challenges, financial literacy, patience, and meaningful conversations.


 keywords

fatherhood, parenting, life lessons, financial literacy, patience, communication, personal growth, generational change


 key  topics

Fathers' common concerns about their children's future
The importance of teaching life skills like money, mechanics, and patience
The role of conversations in fatherhood
How to make children more prepared for life's challenges


When Your Son Disrespects You In Public — Do This Instead
#17
07/27/2026

This episode explores a transformative approach for fathers to understand their sons' behavior, shifting from a perspective of control to one of empathy and leadership. Learn how to see beneath disrespect and foster stronger connections.

Key Topics

Changing the perspective on disrespect
Understanding what children are really trying to communicate
The importance of patience and listening
Shifting from punishment to correction
Building emotional intelligence in children
The role of ego in parenting conflicts
The power of waiting and discipline
Seeing your child as a person, not just a...


Good Men Destroy Themselves Trying to Save Everyone
#16
07/16/2026

In this episode, we explore the complexities of family relationships, marriage, and personal boundaries. Our guests share heartfelt insights on when to let go, the importance of vows, and maintaining mental health amidst family challenges.


 keywords

family relationships, marriage, boundaries, mental health, personal growth, fatherhood, respect, family dynamics


 key  topics

Family boundaries and when to let go
The importance of marriage vows and commitment
Balancing family loyalty with personal health
The impact of disrespect and how to address it
Managing relationships with adult children and agi...


My Father Never Taught Me This About Money
#15
07/02/2026

Summary

In this video, Ramon shares five crucial money lessons his father never taught him, emphasizing the importance of financial education for the next generation. He discusses investing, budgeting, defending purchases, calculating risk, and understanding money as a tool.

Keywords

money lessons, financial education, investing, budgeting, risk management, money as a tool, generational cycle, financial literacy, personal finance, wealth building


Key Topics

The importance of teaching children about money
Five lessons about money that were not taught by previous generations
The role of investing, budgeting, and...


I Asked My 10 Yr Old About Money His Answer Floored Me!
#14
06/21/2026



In this heartfelt episode, a father shares a candid conversation with his 10-year-old son about money, teaching valuable lessons on financial literacy, behavior, and the importance of intentional parenting. Discover how early money talks shape future generations and practical tips for parents.


 keywords

financial literacy, parenting, money lessons, kids and money, investing, saving, family finance, fatherhood, money mindset, wealth building


 key  topics

The importance of discussing money with children from a young age
How parents' behavior influences kids' money mindset
Practical questions to ask kids abo...


Broke Dad or Wealthy Dad? Pass or Fail
#13
06/18/2026


Title: Broke Dad or Wealthy Dad? Pass or Fail

Hook:
In this episode, discover the three key reasons why a purchase should pass or fail, helping you build discipline and make smarter financial decisions. Learn practical steps to avoid impulse buys and plan your spending wisely.

Key Topics:

 

The three reasons a purchase is justified: pays you back, protects your family, and is planned and budgeted

 

Why factors like a hard week or sales should not justify buying unnecessary items

...


The Question I Started Asking After The Bank Trip To The Bank
#12
06/11/2026

This episode explores how working dads can take control of their finances by questioning their spending habits, avoiding common pitfalls, and adopting discipline to build wealth and reduce debt.

Please like, subscribe, comment and share this video so we can reach more fathers, dads and parents to make the world a a change one
Use this simple question to manage debt and stop overspending for good. Learn a practical framework to evaluate every purchase before you swipe your card.

Most of us fall into the trap of impulse buying when we see a sale...


"My 89 year Old Father at the Bank Taught Me Why Most Dads Stay Broke"
#11
06/03/2026

This video emphasizes the importance of building a financial legacy, protecting assets, and making intentional money decisions. It shares personal stories about scams targeting the elderly, lessons from a father's financial mistakes, and strategies for working dads to secure their future.


 keywords

financial legacy, investing, money management, fatherhood, scams, debt payoff, financial planning, legacy building, personal finance, wealth protection


 key  topics

Building a financial legacy
Protecting assets from scams and impulsive spending
Creating a financial mission with clear destination and defense strategies


 takeaways

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Why I'm Done Being Quiet About a Realistic Dad
#10
05/21/2026

This video is a raw, unfiltered message for fathers who are surviving and leading their families amidst debt, stress, and societal expectations. It emphasizes discipline, intentionality, and real-world experience over superficial advice, encouraging men to build a legacy of strength, discipline, and purpose.


 keywords

fatherhood, discipline, debt, legacy, real-world parenting, financial literacy, masculinity, family leadership, mental toughness, personal development


 key  topics

The importance of discipline in overcoming debt
Building a legacy through intentional fatherhood
The misconception of provider roles and real masculinity
The significance of controlling tem...


These 4 Contributions Build Stronger Households Than Money Ever Will
#9
05/13/2026

This video clarifies what it means to contribute to a household, emphasizing non-monetary contributions like helping with chores, tech support, emotional support, and security. It highlights the importance of responsibility and proactive involvement for adult children living at home.


 keywords

contribute, household responsibilities, adult children, family support, security, emotional support, tech skills, non-monetary contribution


 key  topics

Contributing to household without paying rent
Roles of adult children in family support
Emotional and security responsibilities in the home 




 sound bites

"Contribute in four...


Your Discipline is Breaking Your Child's Spirit (Here's What to Do Instead)
#8
05/08/2026

This episode explores the impact of parenting styles on children's confidence and respect. It emphasizes the importance of being a supportive, respectful parent and the dangers of harsh discipline, with practical advice for restoring self-esteem and building strong parent-child relationships.


 keywords

parenting, child confidence, discipline, respect, black families, self-esteem, parenting advice, emotional support, child development


 key  topics

Impact of harsh discipline on children's confidence
The importance of respect and support in parenting
Strategies for restoring self-esteem in children
The role of parents as leaders and role mod...


Your Discipline is Breaking Your Child's Spirit (Here's What to Do Instead)
#8
05/06/2026

This episode explores the impact of parenting styles on children's confidence and respect. It emphasizes the importance of being a supportive, respectful parent and the dangers of harsh discipline, with practical advice for restoring self-esteem and building strong parent-child relationships.


 keywords

parenting, child confidence, discipline, respect, black families, self-esteem, parenting advice, emotional support, child development


 key  topics

Impact of harsh discipline on children's confidence
The importance of respect and support in parenting
Strategies for restoring self-esteem in children
The role of parents as leaders and role mod...


The Asset Poverty Trap | Rich on Paper, Broke in Reality
#7
04/29/2026

In this conversation, the speaker critiques common financial advice that encourages individuals to prioritize their partner's desires over their financial stability. He emphasizes the importance of understanding asset poverty and the financial realities that many families face, particularly within marginalized communities. The discussion highlights the need for financial literacy and resilience to avoid crises and build a legacy of love that is sustainable.


Building a legacy of love requires financial stability.
Many Americans lack emergency savings, making financial advice critical.
Saying yes to everything can lead to financial ruin.
Asset poverty affects a...


I Filed Chapter 13 Bankruptcy With $113K Debt Here's Why I'm Still Investing
#6
04/23/2026

This interview features a man who overcame $113,000 in debt and bankruptcy, emphasizing the importance of investing early, accepting financial mistakes, and building wealth through disciplined habits. He shares personal insights on managing debt, the role of family support, and creating a legacy for children.

 key  topics

Managing debt while investing
The importance of early investing for children
Admitting financial mistakes and taking responsibility

 sound  bites

"In 2023, I hit the wall with debt."
"Admit you're bad with money."
"There's good debt and bad debt."


Chapters
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Start Investing with $50 a Month: The Family CEO Framework
#5
04/16/2026

Summary

This episode breaks down how to start investing with just $50 a month, emphasizing the importance of automation, low-cost ETFs, and a long-term buy-and-hold strategy to build a legacy for your children.


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"What Happens to Your Son in the Real World if He Treats You Like This?"
#5
04/09/2026

This episode dives into the core principles of raising respectful, responsible, and empathetic young men. Whether you're a parent, educator, or mentor, you’ll learn practical advice on cultivating strong work ethics, respect for authority, and emotional intelligence in the next generation.
Main Topics:
The importance of instilling a strong work ethic from a young age
The role of respect for authority and rules in character development
How empathy combined with strength creates leadership qualities
Recognizing and avoiding the traits of selfishness and entitlement
The significance of listening, respecting others' perspectives, and setting bo...


The One Parenting Mistake Destroying Your Relationship
#4
04/02/2026

This episode explores the contrasting parenting styles of authoritarian and authoritative fathers, emphasizing the importance of guiding children with high standards and support. It highlights how these approaches shape children's behavior, character, and decision-making skills.


 keywords

parenting, fatherhood, authoritarian, authoritative, child development, discipline, character building, parenting styles


 key  topics

Differences between authoritarian and authoritative parenting
Impact of parenting styles on child's behavior and character
How discipline methods influence children's decision-making
The importance of high standards and support in parenting
Timing and flexibility in parenting approaches


Every Dad Needs to Know This FatherHood Secret Now!
#3
03/26/2026



This motivational talk emphasizes the importance of fatherhood, setting boundaries, and teaching resilience to sons. It highlights three critical mistakes parents often make and offers practical advice on raising strong, independent men.

Key Topics

Parenting mistakes that hinder boys' development
The importance of boundaries and discipline
Teaching resilience and independence to sons

Takeaways

Parents should not try to be their child's best friend but their authority figure.
Children learn more from actions than words; parents must model the behavior they want to see.
 Protecting children f...


This Judge's Marijuana Rant Exposes a Massive Parenting Problem
#2
03/19/2026

A Milwaukee County judge expressed his displeasure after smelling marijuana in his courtroom, leading to a discussion about court cases and the consequences of drug-related incidents. This courtroom drama highlights how a judge reacts to such situations, particularly in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. The incident touches on potential contempt of court issues, emphasizing the importance of upholding decorum in the legal setting.

We discuss:

The importance of "playing the role" and dressing for success in legal situations.

Why first impressions can make or break a judge's decision.

Insights from "The Pot Plot" by...


Leveling Up: Why "Good Enough" is the Enemy of "Better"
#1
03/16/2026



Episode Description: The Blueprint for a Better Fatherhood
In this powerful episode, we sit down with Ramon Weatherall, a fatherhood coach and creator of the Build Better Dads platform. Ramon shares his deeply personal journey from being a single father to a self-taught investor and advocate for intentional parenting.
We dive into the "levels" of fatherhood, discussing why even the most dedicated dads should never stop striving for improvement. Ramon breaks down the difference between "bought knowledge"—lessons learned the hard way through mistakes—and "t...


3 Critical Mistakes Dads Make That Ruin Their Sons(Stop Before It's Too Late)
#50
03/12/2026

Dads, this video addresses common parenting mistakes that can hinder your son's development into a leader. We explore essential parenting advice to help fathers guide their children towards becoming impactful individuals. By focusing on effective fatherhood strategies, you can learn how to raise successful kids and raise confident kids ready to take on the world.

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"He Wants to 'Come Outside'… But in 2026, That’s How You Lose Everything."
#49
03/05/2026




In this episode of the Raising Carter podcast, host Ramon Weatherall discusses a troubling incident involving a child referred to as the 'doorbell bandit.' He explores themes of disrespect, accountability, and the importance of communication between parents and children. Weatherall emphasizes that disrespect has always existed and urges parents to investigate the root causes of such behavior rather than simply reacting. He advocates for direct communication with the involved parties to resolve conflicts and stresses the need for parents to hold their children accountable for their actions.


 takeaways

Disrespect has a...


They Waited 4 Years To Throw Their Lives Away
#48
02/26/2026

This conversation explores the tragic consequences of holding onto grudges and the cycle of violence that can ensue. It discusses the importance of family influence, personal responsibility, and the lessons learned from tragic choices. The speaker emphasizes the need for better role models and the impact of decisions on one's life and the lives of others.


 takeaways

If somebody stripped you of your dignity, would you rebuild yourself?
Holding onto a grudge can lead to tragic consequences.
Violence often stems from unresolved anger and trauma.
Family influence plays a crucial role i...


The Ultimate Fake Cash Flex Gone Horribly Wrong
#47
02/23/2026

In this episode of the Raising Carter Podcast, the host discusses the dangerous consequences of seeking validation through social media, illustrated by a shocking incident where a man was shot over a fake post. The conversation delves into the importance of self-worth, legacy, and the need to prioritize personal values over external opinions. The host emphasizes that true success is not defined by others' perceptions and encourages listeners to focus on their own paths and decisions.


 takeaways

Man was shot over a fake social media post.
Seeking validation can lead to dangerous consequences.


The Real Reason Whooping Fails as Kids Grow
#46
02/11/2026


In this episode of the Raising Cardio Podcast, the host discusses the ineffectiveness of physical discipline, such as spanking, in fostering respect and understanding in children. The conversation emphasizes the importance of teaching through connection, correction, and proactive strategies rather than reactive punishment. The host encourages parents to reflect on their disciplinary methods and consider alternatives that promote learning and respect.


Takeaways

When your child is older, spanking loses its effectiveness.
Physical discipline may stop bad behavior but doesn't teach understanding.
Parents should focus on teaching skills rather than using fear.<...


He Called Himself a Dad While His Kids Were Trapped | The Truth Behind the Plea Deal
#45
02/04/2026

This conversation delves into a harrowing case of child neglect involving Charles Dupriest, who was found guilty of locking his six children in a storage unit. The discussion highlights the trial's proceedings, the responsibilities of parents, and the societal implications of such neglect. It emphasizes the need for awareness and accountability in parenting, as well as the lessons that can be learned from this tragic situation.


Takeaways

If your life fell apart today, would you sacrifice your comfort for your children's safety?
The conditions inside the storage unit were appalling, with no running...


3 Assets Every Parent Should Buy Their Son (Not Toys)
#44
01/29/2026

In this video, we will be discussing the importance of investing in assets that can generate wealth for your child's future, rather than just buying them toys. As a parent, it's essential to think about your son's financial literacy and how you can set him up for success in the stock market and beyond. By teaching your son about personal finance and the basics of investing, you can help him develop a strong foundation for building wealth. The stock market for beginners can seem intimidating, but with the right guidance, your son can learn how to navigate it and...


Titles The Great Debate: Reading vs. Street Smarts
#43
01/19/2026

Summary

In this episode of the Raising Carter podcast, the hosts delve into the debate surrounding the importance of reading versus street smarts. They discuss a controversial statement made by rapper Jules Santana, who suggests that by the ninth grade, kids don't necessarily need to know how to read, advocating instead for financial literacy and business skills. The hosts challenge this notion, emphasizing that while street smarts and common sense are valuable, reading is fundamental for success in life, particularly in understanding contracts, job applications, and educational materials. They argue that reading is essential for personal and...


Do NOT Fall for This Real Man Paycheck Claim!
#42
01/12/2026

Are you looking for a wife or a mother? This video challenges traditional notions of financial responsibility in relationships, questioning why men are often convinced to financially support partners and then beg for their own earnings back. We discuss relationship advice, emphasizing that partners should communicate about finances to maintain healthy relationships, rather than seeking financial assistance from a partner like a child would from a mother. This conversation serves as crucial dating advice for navigating modern relationships, ensuring both parties are empowered and respected. 

Takeaways

Don't fall for the real man paycheck claim.
M...


The First Man She Loves: Setting the Bar Impossible to Lower
01/05/2026

Keywords

father-daughter relationship, parenting, kindness, responsibility, empowerment, podcasting, teaching, bullying, support, role models


Summary

In this heartfelt episode, a father engages in a meaningful conversation with his daughter about the importance of father-daughter relationships, teaching responsibility, and empowering young girls to stand up against bullying. They discuss the significance of kindness, helping others, and the role of a father as a positive influence in a girl's life. The daughter shares her aspirations and thoughts on how to support other girls, making this episode a touching exploration of parenting and empowerment.

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Adolescence Review: The Father-Son Disconnect Every Dad Should Fear
#43
12/27/2025

In this conversation, the hosts delve into the Netflix series 'Adolescents', exploring its themes of parenting, youth crime, and the complexities of the father-son relationship. They emphasize the importance of communication, understanding the challenges of adolescence, and the need for parents to be actively involved in their children's lives. The discussion highlights the emotional toll of parenting and the lessons learned from the series, urging parents to reflect on their roles and responsibilities.

Your son's silence isn't peace; it's a warning sign.
Parents need to be aware of their children's online activities.
High-value men take...


If Your Son Became You, Would That Be a Blessing Or a Curse?
#42
12/21/2025

In this conversation, the speaker discusses the profound impact fathers have on their sons and the importance of being a positive role model. He emphasizes that children learn from their parents' actions and behaviors, and that fathers must strive to break the cycle of mistakes to raise emotionally strong and successful sons. The speaker encourages fathers to pursue their passions and maintain their health, as this sets a powerful example for their children.

If your son grew up to be exactly the man you are today, would that be a blessing or a curse?
The way...


How To Raise A Millionaire Son (Not A Broke One)
#41
12/07/2025

This conversation emphasizes the critical role of early financial education for children, particularly focusing on the age window from birth to seven years. It discusses how parents inadvertently shape their children's money habits through observation and behavior. The speaker highlights the importance of teaching children about money management, the value of delayed gratification, and the proper way to handle allowances. The conversation aims to equip parents with the knowledge to foster better financial literacy in their children, ultimately preparing them for a financially responsible future.



This video addresses how many fathers unintentionally teach their sons...


How to Avoid the Money Mistakes That Cost Jameis Winston Millions
#40
11/30/2025

Learn from the financial mistakes of NFL quarterback Jameis Winston, who lost millions due to poor money management. As a role model for young men and athletes, it's essential to understand the importance of financial education and literacy. In this video, we'll discuss personal finance for beginners, including how to save money on a low income, and provide valuable advice on financial planning and goal setting. By teaching children about money and adopting good financial habits, you can avoid common pitfalls and achieve financial stability. Whether you're a professional athlete or just starting out, this video will provide you...


Banning YouTube is a Temporary Fix. Here's the PERMANENT Solution
#39
11/18/2025

In this Podcast, you will gain insight on parental control on youtube app for kids permanently. As parents navigating the digital world, it can be overwhelming to manage screen time, guide behavior, and protect our children from online distractions. Many parents banned their kid from YouTube thinking it solves everything, but long-term results show otherwise. Instead of choosing the extreme option where a parent banned their child from YouTube permanently, this video shows a healthier, more effective approach.

Here, you will learn exactly how to use parental control on YouTube app for kids permanently, why it works...


How Can I Help My Son With Anger?
#38
11/05/2025

Is your son struggling with anger outbursts or emotional frustration? You’re not alone — many parents face this challenge. In this video, we’ll explore practical ways to help your son manage anger in a healthy, constructive way.

You’ll learn:
✅ How to identify the root causes of your child’s anger
✅ Proven strategies to teach emotional regulation
✅ Simple communication techniques that build trust and calm
✅ When to seek professional guidance or therapy

Whether your son is a young child or a teenager, understanding his emotions is the key to helping him grow into a re...


Why are fans willing to pay $1000 to Stream Every NBA Game this season
#37
10/29/2025

🏀 Why Are Fans Willing to Pay $1000 to Stream Every NBA Game This Season?

With the new NBA season tipping off, some fans are taking their love for basketball to a whole new level — paying up to $1000 just to stream every game. But what drives this kind of passion and financial commitment? And is it really worth it?

💬 In this video, we dive deep into:
✅ The psychology behind die-hard basketball fandom and loyalty to stars like LeBron James
✅ How personal finance and budgeting play into high-cost hobbies
✅ The influence of fatherhood and upbringing on spending ha...


Why Did This Teen Get Life in Prison?
#36
10/26/2025

When a teenager makes one wrong choice, it can change the course of their entire life. 💔 In this emotional and thought-provoking video, we explore the story behind a teen who was sentenced to life in prison — and the deeper questions it raises about justice, second chances, and the system that shapes young lives.

💬 In this video, you’ll discover:
✅ The real story behind the crime and the sentence
✅ How environment, upbringing, and lack of guidance can shape a teen’s fate
✅ Why mentorship, fatherhood, and positive influence matter more than ever
✅ What we can learn about comp...


How to Raise Honest Sons Who Tell Truth When in Trouble
#35
10/18/2025

Every parent dreams of raising a son who values honesty — not out of fear, but from a place of trust, courage, and integrity. 💙 In this heartfelt video, we’ll explore how to nurture truthfulness in your child, even when they’re facing tough moments or have made a mistake.

💬 You’ll discover how to:
✅ Create a safe, judgment-free space where your son feels comfortable being honest
✅ Respond calmly and constructively when he’s in trouble
✅ Model truth and accountability through your own actions
✅ Turn mistakes into valuable life lessons instead of punishments

With the right mix o...