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Marko and Steve dive into the flirty side of life in this ENCORE episode, exploring what flirting looks like for them and how their personal styles may come across to others. They ask the big questions: Is flirting something that comes naturally, or is it always a little awkward? And when you're in a relationship—or even married—is flirting harmless fun or crossing a line? Tune in as they break it all down with humor, honesty, and just the right amount of side-eye. 

To wrap things up, they tackl...

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Marko and Steve talk about diving headfirst into dating — and even marriage — without knowing what lies ahead. Is it bold and freeing, or just reckless? They explore the thrill (and risk) of saying "yes" to love without all the facts. Then, they’re joined by special guest Stefano Reginato Rivelli (chechoreginato.travel) of Josh and Stefano on Instagram and TikTok (@joshandstefano), who went viral for marrying a stranger on social media. He gives the guys behind-the-scenes insight into what it was really like to say "I do" before ever saying "hello." Would...

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Marko and Steve dive into the topic of threesomes and explore the gay community’s fascination with group sex in this ENCORE episode. They ask the question: when did one sexual partner stop being enough? 

The conversation covers the rise of throuples, casual threesomes, and the cultural and emotional implications of inviting a third into the bedroom. Is it simply about fun and exploration, or could it be a gateway to something more—like polyamory or emotional detachment? The guys keep it honest, messy, and real as always. 

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Marko and Steve kick off this ENCORE episode still buzzing from their Cowboy Carter Tour experience, sharing stories and reactions from seeing Beyoncé live. The excitement and emotion of the concert set the tone before they welcome back returning guest, Ted Smith (@tedsmith.life). 

Since his last appearance and book launch, Ted has taken meaningful time to focus on personal healing. Together, the trio dives into what it really means to "do the work" after a challenging relationship. They share honest insights, hard-learned lessons, and practical advice on moving fo...

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In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve reflect on their recent trip to Spain, sharing highlights from their time in Madrid and Barcelona. They humorously question why they even came back to the U.S., clearly missing the energy and vibe of their travels. 

The conversation then shifts to a deeper topic: traveling while gay. They discuss the unique considerations LGBTQ+ individuals must make when journeying around the world—especially when it comes to safety. From navigating unfamiliar cultures to choosing destinations mindfully, they emphasize the importance of being awa...

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In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the all-too-common experience of having the same argument repeatedly with your partner. They explore how these recurring conflicts can lead to frustration and emotional fatigue, especially when the core issue remains unresolved. 

The conversation highlights the importance of genuine listening and emotional presence in relationships, emphasizing that without true understanding and communication, couples can find themselves stuck in a cycle of repetition. Marko and Steve also offer insights into why these patterns form and suggest strategies for breaking the loop a...

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To close out Pride Month and the 13th season of Relationsh!t, this week Marko and Steve are joined by the chaos demon herself, drag performer Skye Walker (@itsskyewalker), for an honest, hilarious, and heartfelt conversation about dating, drag, and self-worth.

What happens when your art, your identity, and your love life all collide? Skye opens up about the unique challenges of dating as a drag queen—from navigating people's assumptions and insecurities to figuring out who is interested in the performer versus the person behind the ma...

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Pride Month is here, and for many gay men that means parades, parties, travel, hookups, and plenty of opportunities for some unforgettable memories. But while everyone is focused on what they're wearing (or not wearing), Marko and Steve are asking a different question: Are you physically ready for all the sex shenanigans that Pride Week can bring?

This week, the guys sit down with anal health expert Dr. Evan Goldstein (@drevangoldstein)of Bespoke Surgical (@bespokesurgical)to discuss what it really means to stay ready. From preparing for receptive anal...

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This week, Marko and Steve are joined by Jerrell Owens-Robinson to tackle a topic that doesn't get enough honest conversation in queer spaces: what it's like being Black in predominantly white gay spaces, and how race can shape dating, relationships, friendships, and a sense of belonging.

Drawing from their own experiences and observations, the guys discuss everything from desirability politics and racial "preferences" to fetishization, microaggressions, and the challenges of navigating both the white gay community and the Black community as queer men.

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Do couples need to share the same interests to have a successful relationship? In this episode of the Relationsh!t Podcast, Marko and Steve, joined by retired podcast host Tony Critelli (@thecritellis), tackle the reality that even the strongest couples won't agree on everything. From hobbies and entertainment to travel preferences and social activities, they discuss how partners can navigate their differences without losing connection.

The guys explore the importance of supporting your partner's passions, the difference between participation and appreciation, and why maintaining individual interests can actually make...

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This week on Relationsh!t, Marko and Steve dive into one of the most uncomfortable—and important—conversations happening in LGBTQ+ spaces today: the prejudice, judgment, and exclusion that can exist within our own community. Inspired by the release of No Fats, No Fems by Max Hovey (@max_hovey), the guys sit with Max to unpack the meaning behind one of the most infamous phrases in gay dating culture and explore the larger questions it raises about attraction, body image, masculinity, race, validation, and belonging.

Whether you've experienced judgment, felt...

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This week, Marko and Steve are getting cuddly as they dive into the surprisingly important role cuddling plays in our dating lives and relationships. From casual hookups to long-term partnerships, physical affection can communicate comfort, safety, attraction, and connection in ways words often can't.

The guys discuss why cuddling matters so much to our emotional and physical well-being, what science says happens in our brains when we cuddle, and why some people crave constant physical touch while others need their personal space after five minutes. They also break down...

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This week on Relationsh!t, Marko and Steve are skipping the research, ditching the structured topic, and just sitting down for a real conversation. No deep dives. No hot takes. No agenda. Just two friends checking in with each other about life as it’s happening right now.

From dating and relationships to stress, routines, burnout, the state of the world, and the weird emotional weight everyone seems to be carrying lately, Marko and Steve talk candidly about what’s been on their minds — and how important it is to som...

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This week, Marko and Steve dive into the fascinating and often misunderstood world of lavender marriages — relationships historically formed to conceal someone’s sexuality in order to protect careers, reputations, family expectations, or personal safety. From Old Hollywood to everyday life decades ago, lavender marriages were often less about romance and more about survival in a society that left little room for LGBTQ+ people to live openly.

The guys unpack why these arrangements became so prevalent, the emotional complexity behind them, and whether they were always as transactional as peop...

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Somewhere between the first date and settling into a routine, “please” and “thank you” tend to fall off. This week, Marko and Steve dig into the quiet shift from intentional politeness to comfortable carelessness—and whether that shift is harmless… or actually harmful.

They unpack why basic manners aren’t just surface-level niceties, but signals of respect, appreciation, and effort. From early dating, where kindness can sometimes feel performative, to long-term relationships where familiarity can breed complacency, the guys explore how politeness evolves—and what it says about your connection.

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This week, Marko and Steve are getting real about the quiet pressure many people feel in the bedroom—specifically, the idea that “good sex” means constantly switching things up. Blame it on porn, hookup culture, or just plain insecurity, but somewhere along the line, a lot of us started believing we’re supposed to cycle through multiple positions during any session.

But is that actually true?

The guys unpack where these expectations come from, especially in the dating and hookup phase, where sex can sometimes feel more like an...

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This week, Marko and Steve are diving into the real foundation of modern relationships: values. Because let’s be honest—chemistry might get you through the first few dates, but alignment is what determines whether something actually lasts.

The guys unpack what value-based dating really means and why it’s becoming non-negotiable for so many people. From political beliefs to social awareness, they explore how shared values shape not just attraction—but long-term compatibility, communication, and emotional safety. Marko and Steve also get into the nuance: Can relationships survive fundamen...

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This week, Marko and Steve sit down with Dr. Thomas Whitfield (@drthomaswhitfield) to unpack one of the most talked-about trauma therapies right now: EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). Dr. Whitfield breaks down what EMDR actually is, how it works in real time, and why it’s especially impactful for LGBTQ+ patients navigating everything from identity-based trauma to rejection, internalized shame, and the long tail of growing up feeling unsafe to be fully themselves. The conversation demystifies the process—what a session feels like, whether you have to relive painful memories, and...

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This week, Marko and Steve dive into the world of work spouses—the coworker you vent to, laugh with, and probably talk to more than your actual partner during the day. They break down why these relationships feel so essential at work, and why they can make even the worst jobs bearable… but also question when that closeness starts to look a little too close.

Because let’s be real—what happens when your real partner isn’t exactly a fan? The guys get into the discomfort, jealousy, and side-eyes...

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In this episode, Marko and Steve dive into one of the most frustrating modern dating behaviors: breadcrumbing. You know the type—just enough attention to keep you interested, but never enough to actually go anywhere. The guys break down what breadcrumbing really looks like in action, why people do it (and yes, they call themselves out too), and how to spot the signs before you get too invested.

They get into the psychology behind why breadcrumbing is so hard to walk away from, and debate whether it might actually be...

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Part two is here, and Marko and Steve are back with Eduardo to continue unpacking the occasionally hopeful world of dating apps. 

This week, the trio dives deeper into the psychology of swiping—why we make snap decisions in milliseconds, what we’re really looking for (or avoiding), and how the apps might be shaping our standards more than we realize. 

But it’s not all just swiping and overanalyzing. The guys tackle a major sticking point in app dating: the endless messaging phase. When is it time to...

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This week, Marko and Steve are joined by their bestie Eduardo to dive headfirst into the wild world of dating on the apps: the good, the bad, and the deeply confusing. From matches that go nowhere to conversations that mysteriously die mid-sentence, the guys unpack the ongoing struggle of trying to keep someone engaged long enough to actually meet in real life.

They question users' intentions for being on the apps, swap frustrations, mixed signals, and the decision to take an app hiatus . But Marko throws a wrench into...

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Marko and Steve are back, baby! After a two-month winter break following the end of Season 12, your favorite hosts are dusting off the microphones and catching up on everything that’s happened while they were away.

In this episode, the guys share what they’ve been up to during the break—how they spent the holidays, what life looked like off-mic, and what it feels like to be back for a brand new season of Relationsh!t. But of course, the world didn’t stop spinning while they were gone … y...

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Season 13 drops on Wednesday, March 11th. See you there!

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In this week’s ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into a painfully universal truth: we’re all annoying to someone. The guys ask the question none of us really want to answer — “Are you annoying?” — and break down the everyday habits, quirks, and patterns that might be driving your partner (or that new situationship) a little bit up the wall. To wrap things up, they tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience.

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