Barely Filtered

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By: Aurora Culpo

Welcome to Barely Filtered, hosted by me, Aurora Culpo, where my mess is my message and I'm here to share it all with you. Let's optimize our lives together, and I'll make the mistakes so you don't have to. Join me as I share TMI personal stories about navigating relationships, dating, and mental health - all while breaking stigmas around topics like ADHD, anxiety, and depression.From messy mistakes to moments of growth, I'm here to support you on your journey towards healing and self discovery. Tune in every Wednesday for a mix of humor, vulnerability, and raw honesty as...

Barely Goodbye: Dating, Lessons, and New Beginnings
#133
10/15/2025

I hate to be the bearer of bad news… but this is the last episode of Barely Filtered! But this isn’t goodbye! Over the past two years, we’ve laughed, cried, and been through it all—my divorce, dating disasters, and unexpected love.

In this final episode, I reflect on my wild ride through the dating world and share the lessons I’ve learned about self-worth, red flags, and putting yourself out there. I also open up about meeting Zac and how believing in the process led me to exactly what I wanted.

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Engaged, But the Ring Didn’t Fit
#132
10/08/2025

I’m officially engaged! I spill all the hilarious, chaotic, and heartfelt details—from a Paris proposal that left my finger looking like a sausage, to Luxembourg Gardens, Eiffel Tower boat rides, and the unexpected truths about dating, love, and life at 36. Plus, my hot takes on why I like Rhode Island, New Jersey and New York Italian food better than Italian food in Italy, European wine, and how my kids reacted to this big news! 


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Mom Truths & Chaos
#131
10/01/2025

I sit down with Cat & Nat—the unfiltered honest moms who share a social media account, a bank account (their husbands, both named Mark, have zero access!), and a mission to keep it real about motherhood.

We talk newborn survival mode, navigating the messy world of parenting online, and why stepping away can actually make you a better mom. From mom ruts to tracking teens, from internet trolls to finding the fun in the chaos—these two show how honesty, humor, and a little rebellion can make motherhood feel a little less impossible!


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Marrying Zac? Ranking My Siblings? Who Killed Charlie Kirk?
#130
09/24/2025

This episode is a rollercoaster, and I’m taking you with me. I went through your DMs and voicemails and pulled the most unhinged (and hilarious) questions — and we’re covering it ALL.
We’re diving into three categories:

Siblings – Who’s my favorite right now? Who’s annoying me? Would I call Olivia if I went to jail? (Yes.) Would I call Sophia? (Only if she’s awake.)

Zac – Are we talking marriage? What’s my favorite part of his body? Also, can someone please stop him from buying more clothes?

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Human Design Secrets: Big Energy, Creativity & Letting Go
#129
09/17/2025

Today I’m joined by Erin Claire Jones, one of the world’s leading experts in Human Design. This isn’t astrology or horoscopes—it’s a system that helps us understand how we’re wired to make decisions, communicate, and live with more ease and alignment!

We get into how this system, based on your time, date, and place of birth, can give insight into your career, creativity, parenting, and everyday life. Erin breaks down the Human Design types in a way that actually makes sense and shows how your design can help you thrive. Spoiler: I’m a Genera...


Part Two: Should I Stay or Go?
#128
09/12/2025

Is it braver to stay and fight for your marriage—or to walk away when it no longer feels right? In part two of this conversation, Amber Rae discusses the messy middle of love, conflict, and commitment. She shares why leaving wasn’t the end of her struggle, how she met the man she calls her soulmate, and why conflict isn’t what kills relationships—avoidance is... and what it really takes to build a relationship that lasts. 


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Part One: When a Good Marriage Isn’t the Right One
#127
09/10/2025

What does it really take to walk away from a “good” relationship that isn’t right for you? In this powerful episode, author and speaker Amber Rae opens up about leaving her nine-year marriage—a decision that others called brave, selfish, and everything in between. She shares how writing helped her heal, why staying “for the kids” or out of fear can do more harm than good, and how choosing love and authenticity—over comfort and expectation—can transform everything. 


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Part Four: How To Know When To Quit
#126
09/03/2025

In this episode, I chat with Anna Kai, the queen of no-BS confidence, about why true confidence isn’t about being arrogant or “that bitch” — it’s about proving to yourself you’ve got what it takes. We dive into the power of quitting (yes, quitting!), why missing your boat might just mean you’re building a way cooler one, and how to stop comparing your life to everyone else’s highlight reel on social media.

Anna gets real about feeling one step away from losing everything, even while living the so-called “influencer dream.” Her top advice for anyone feeling s...


Part Three: Zoloft, Jet Lag, and Affairs
#125
08/27/2025

Aurora’s fresh off a chaotic Italian “romantic” getaway (spoiler: food poisoning), Anna’s typing from a walking pad while tapering off Zoloft, and somehow we still manage to cover everything from parenting burnout to the boldest cheating scandal ever caught on a jumbotron. We talk productivity myths, the strange clarity of driving, how oranges might be ancient throat medicine, and why 53 minutes is the max time Anna can tolerate being in a restaurant. 


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Part Two: Boomer, Gen Z Hobbies & Fart Debate
#124
08/20/2025

In this episode, I get called a boomer—by my own boyfriend—because of my love for grandma hobbies like baking and knitting, but honestly, that might make me peak Gen Z. I break down some of the lingo Gen Z is using (no cap), question whether weddings are just overpriced stress-fests, and debate with Anna about whether farting in front of your partner is a sign of closeness or a total romance killer. 


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Listen Now: Sports B*tches
#124
08/14/2025

Rachel Bonnetta, Sarah Tiana and Megan Gailey are sports fans, comedians and (craziest of all) friends. From global sports headlines to hot gossip on and off the field, Sports B*tches has you covered. Together they discuss trending topics in the sports world while adding in their own comedic twist to the conversation (Shohei Ohtani and his wife just had a baby…should Megan move closer to him so her new baby can go to the same school???). Only one way to find out!

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Part One: Panty Liners & Two Tampons Too Many
#123
08/13/2025

This episode is straight TMI. Anna Kai talks underwear preferences, her stash of painty liners, and how once she had two menstrual discs stuck up her vagina at one time. Meanwhile, I admit I’ve had two tampons stuck up there without realizing. It’s fine. We’re fine.


Then we switch gears to talk about first crushes (Anna’s was Lance Bass), how my son Remi quizzes me on his crushes, and why people say I play favorites between my kids.


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Tips & Tricks for Not Letting Your ADHD Sensitivity Ruin Your Relationships
#122
08/08/2025

ADHD can intensify emotions, which can especially impact relationships. In this second part of our series with Shanna Pearson, we move beyond common advice to explore the real, everyday challenges that people with ADHD experience: why medication might not always feel fully effective, what it means to “focus on the wrong things,” and how tools like mood scheduling can help you work with your brain rather than against it. We also discuss sugar crashes (sometimes called the “ADHD sugar hangover”), clarify common myths about supplements, and share practical strategies that really support well-being—like prioritizing protein, sleep, and giving yourself g...


You’re Not Sensitive, You Just Have ADHD
#121
08/06/2025

ADHD is more talked about than ever. In this episode, we sit down with Shanna Pearson, an ADHD expert who also has ADHD, to unpack some of the most misunderstood aspects of the condition. From the overwhelm that often starts in childhood to why your brain craves stimulation, we talk diagnosis vs. misdiagnosis, body doubling, rejection sensitivity, dopamine regulation, and what it actually feels like to live with ADHD.


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Is It Me or My ADHD?
#120
07/30/2025

Ever spiral after a text, blame yourself for something you’re not sure was your fault, or obsess over a moment days later? You’re not alone. In this episode, I talk through the question so many of us with ADHD constantly ask ourselves: Is it me… or is it my ADHD? I share a recent situation with a mom friend that had me second-guessing everything, and how ADHD shows up in my life through overthinking, memory lapses, people-pleasing, and emotional overload—especially as a parent. I also get into rejection sensitivity, hormone shifts, dating red flags, and why sometime...


Listen Now: The Bad Broadcast
#119
07/28/2025

The Bad Broadcast offers a hilarious blend of pop culture, girl talk, and listener-submitted stories, ranging from in-law anecdotes to tales of petty revenge. Host Madi Murphy has created a safe space to laugh, cry, and complain with her brilliant comedic timing, witty wisdom, and relatable perspective. Join us every Monday, and as Madi always says: be safe, be kind, be hot.

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Plastic Surgery Transparency Is on Everyone’s Bingo Card Right Now: Why I Had to Go In for a Third Breast Revision
#119
07/23/2025

In this solo episode, I open up about my third boob surgery — what went wrong with the first two, what I’ve learned, and why I’m finally done with big boobs.

I also share the chaos behind Miami Swim Week, from getting my period right before walking the runway to failing miserably at trying to “prep” for it by cutting out sugar (spoiler: I just ended up bingeing carbs by 7p every night).


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Caroline Stanbury’s phone says, 'WE NEED A BABY' every day at noon.
#118
07/16/2025

Caroline gets right into it about why staying together for the kids is a myth, how children speed up the inevitable, and why the idea of a “fun baby” is pure propaganda. We talk blending families, building businesses, becoming different versions of yourself, and that time her husband programmed her phone to scream “WE NEED A BABY” every day at noon.

She shares her advice for women starting over, her favorite misconception (cold-hearted bitch, and proud), and the red flags she’s flying high in her own relationship (ignoring her husband and loving it - ha!). Oh, and if you...


Anna Kai’s Back and I'm Probably Getting Blackmailed
#117
07/09/2025

Anna’s back and we’re talking about my new relationship—the first one that actually feels easy in all the right ways.

We get into dom/sub dynamics, weird DMs from a guy offering to work for free, and Anna warning me I’m gonna get blackmailed. My response? “So he’s going to be making all my social media assets for me for free… with a boner? That’s fine with me.” 

Also: dating rules, sleeping together early, and how in marriage, you either grow together or grow apart.


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How To Fix Your Anxious Attachment Style with Adam Smith and Andrey Korikov
#116
07/02/2025

From the I Wish You Knew Podcast, Adam Smith and Andrey Korikov break down why modern relationships are struggling—and what we can do to fix them. From the neuroscience behind attachment to the biology of bonding (yes, men and women really do connect differently), we explore how stress, sex, and communication shape connection.

We break down why conflict isn’t something to avoid—but the key to building trust. Plus, why the divorce rate is falling not because relationships are thriving, but because younger generations have stopped marrying altogether. Most people don’t know what a healthy...


Do It Scared: Hannah Brown on Finding Herself Beyond the Bachelorette, Love, & Faith
#115
06/25/2025

You probably know her as The Bachelorette, but there’s so much more to Hannah Brown than roses and reality TV. 

In this episode, Hannah opens up about everything from falling in love with Adam when she wasn’t looking, to living apart, to building a relationship grounded in faith, values, and a whole lot of growth. We talk about heartbreak, healing, boundaries, and what it really takes to know your worth—whether the cameras are rolling or not.

Plus, Hannah gives us a peek into her new book, The Four Engagement Rings of Sybil Rain (h...


My Parents Had a Shotgun Wedding
#114
06/18/2025

My dad almost married someone else before my mom — but then they had a shotgun wedding! In this unfiltered episode, I confront my dad about the way he approaches my dating life, ask my parents how they really felt about my divorce, and dig into the chaos of being raised by a black cat (my mom) and a golden retriever (my dad).

Viola trauma (yes, I still have PTSD), rebellious teen years, Tokyo tours, and babysitters who said 'no thanks' after finding out there were five of us — nothing’s off-limits.

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Listen Now: The Pre-Game with Kayla Nicole
#113
06/13/2025

Everyone knows the best part of any night out is the pre-game. You know the vibes – feels like a hype session in the bathroom mirror. From group chat debriefs to deep dives into the latest headlines (with a drink in hand, of course). The Pre-Game with Kayla Nicole is exactly that: the party before the party. Each week, we’re diving into all the things you and your homegirls actually talk about, from pop culture tea and beauty secrets to those ‘what would you do?’ scenarios that have you screaming at your phone.It’s unfiltered, hilarious, and has just the r...


Leave Me Alone, I'm PMSing (But Also, I'm in Love)
#113
06/11/2025

Ever have one of those days where everyone’s annoying and you’re like, maybe I’m just PMSing? Same.

In this episode, I get real about everything — my progression in a new relationship (we’re starting to get over the hump of the honeymoon phase), a heartbreaking story that’s been weighing on me, and why this summer is the summer of me. I also share the chaos of Mother’s Day, what I’d do differently in my 20s, and how things with Zac have gotten more serious (yes, he met the kids!).

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Why Turning 30 Might Be the Best Thing That’s Ever Happened to You with Lindsey Simcik & Krista Williams
#112
06/04/2025

Did you know in your late 20s everything shifts? You’re definitely not alone. In this episode, Lindsey Simcik and Krista Williams get real about what’s happening during your Saturn Return—that intense, cosmic phase between ages 27 and 30 that shakes up your world.

We talk astrology, the shift from people-pleasing to self-love, how your brain is rewiring itself, and why your 20s aren’t a crisis—they’re a spiritual awakening. From relationships and divorce to therapy, self-acceptance, and building a life that actually feels like you, this episode is the guide we all wish we had.

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How I Met My Boyfriend on a Dating App (And Broke All My Rules)!
#111
05/28/2025

In this episode, I share the real story of how I met my boyfriend—and let me tell you, I didn’t follow any of my dating rules! If you want to find your person, you have to date. But learning how to date isn’t easy. With so many so expert rules out there, part of the journey is figuring out which ones actually work for you. I also open up about his past—yes, he dated Kristin Cavallari—and the hesitations I had around his recent 10-year relationship.


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Listen Now: The World's First Podcast with Erin and Sara Foster
#110
05/23/2025

Welcome to The World's First Podcast with Erin and Sara Foster - the real life podcast from “Nobody Wants This.” The Foster sisters will let you in on what's happening in their lives and chat with people you may or may not know to help you navigate your daily life. Conversations range in topic from friendship and sister dynamics to dating, anxiety, aging, motherhood, infertility, and more.


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How to Feed Picky Kids (and Yourself): Kelly LeVeque on Protein and The Fab Four
#110
05/21/2025

Want to know the secret to losing weight? PROTEIN. Hint: two eggs won’t cut it. Holistic nutritionist and wellness expert Kelly LeVeque shares her science-backed approach to feeling your best—starting with why protein should always come first. It’s the key to managing hunger, boosting energy, and supporting metabolism—and most women (and kids!) aren’t getting enough.


Kelly also opens up about the real-life challenges of feeding children—and how her Fab Four method (protein, fat, fiber, and greens) helps her handle picky eaters without stress. She explains why kids reject certain food...


Sophia Culpo Is Back: Who Are You in the Relationship—a Black Cat or a Golden Retriever?
#109
05/14/2025

This episode is unfiltered and unapologetic—nothing’s off limits. We’re talking ex etiquette, relationships, and whether you’re the black cat or the golden retriever. I spill the tea on my new relationship and Sophia shares why she might’ve waited longer to go public. Dating in the public eye brings pressure, opinions, and one real truth: if you want your relationship to work, you can make it work. And as my boyfriend says when I start rambling—it’s time to land this plane!


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Femininity Is a Superpower: Inside Durana Elmi’s Leadership at Cymbiotika
#108
05/07/2025

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Durana Elmi, co-founder and COO of Cymbiotika—the wellness brand reshaping the supplement industry and redefining leadership through innovation, empowerment, and holistic wellness. From launching a passion project in 2018 to creating a $100M+ lifestyle movement, Durana shares her journey of building a female-forward company where 67% of the workforce is women. She opens up about embracing femininity in business, raising strong daughters, and how motherhood and emotional intelligence became her superpowers. We dive into Cymbiotika’s most loved products and exciting retail expansions to Target and more. Tune in for a conversation full...


It Begins With You: Jillian Tureki on Breaking the Cycle and Building Real Love
#107
04/23/2025

Are you tired of asking, ‘Why do I keep ending up in the same kind of relationship?’ or ‘How do I find someone who’s actually right for me?’ The truth? It starts with you. In this honest episode, we explore the powerful idea that the common denominator in all your relationships is you—not because you're the problem, but because you are the starting point for real change. Through deep insights and relatable stories, we unpack everything from immature vs. mature love, how to spot love bombing, and when to have hard conversations, to how to protect your heart, recog...


Anna Kai is Back: BDE, Cringe Moments, and Reading Emails to Our Exes
#106
04/16/2025

Anna Kai is back, and we wasted no time jumping into all the things — including digging up old emails we actually sent to our exes (yes, we read them out loud). We get into everything from Big Dick Energy (BDE) and the truth about dating confidence, to awkward hookups and what really matters in relationships. It’s the kind of convo you’d have with your best girlfriend: funny, a little chaotic, and surprisingly therapeutic. Plus, Anna drops a gem about why being enough has nothing to do with anyone else — and everything to do with you.


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Vanessa & Xander Return! Scheduling Sex, Finding Your Sexual Values, and the Queef Debate
#105
04/09/2025

Vanessa & Xander are back to break down the sex stuff nobody ever teaches you—but everyone should know. We’re talking scheduling sex without feeling like you’re booking a dentist appointment, why wetness isn’t a performance review, and yes… the great queef debate (because we all need to stop acting like it’s a tragedy). We also get into why soap should never go near your vulva (seriously, please stop), how to figure out your sexual values, and why your body usually knows what it wants before your brain does. Oh, and spoiler alert: sex isn’t supposed to ge...


Listen Now: Come Together
#105
04/07/2025

Time to cut the cameras and turn ON the mic — Erin and Abe Lichy are pulling back the curtain on the wild ride of marriage, sex, business, and everything in between in Come Together.

As a powerhouse couple who’ve built empires together—Erin as a serial entrepreneur, interior designer, and Real Housewives of New York star, and Abe as a sharp legal mind and founder of The Advisory—they’re the couple you want at your dinner party, the ones you want to grab a drink with, and the first ones you’ll turn to for advice.

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Alcohol Lied to Me: James Swanwick's Take on Drinking Less, Living More, and Doing It Your Way
#104
04/02/2025

Everyone's talking about drinking less these days—and not just your friend who's "sober curious" until Saturday night. There's a real shift happening, especially among younger generations, and today's guest, James Swanwick, is here for it. He shares how cutting out booze changed his life (spoiler: it got way better) and why he doesn't think AA is the only-or best-option out there. If you've ever questioned your relationship with alcohol or just want the inside scoop on this growing alcohol-free movement, we've got you.


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Peyote in Costa Rica & a Casual, Totally NBD Crush/LOML
#103
03/26/2025

This week, I’m taking you inside my Costa Rica adventure, where I said yes to Peyote and ended up laughing, crying, and questioning all my life choices—sometimes all at once. After a recent Ketamine therapy session cracked my heart wide open (in a good way), I found myself craving a deeper spiritual connection and little space from it all… so apparently, that meant hopping on a plane and trying a new plant medicine. My experience was… well, you’ll find out. Somewhere between the jungle bugs and spiritual breakthroughs, I also may have caught feelings for someone new. But i...


Wolf of Wall Street Ex-Wife on Living with a Narcissist
#102
03/19/2025

Dr. Nadine breaks down the shocking realities of narcissistic relationships, from love bombing to emotional abuse. She shares her own experience with the Wolf of Wall Street and explains how pathological lovers exploit and betray others for their own needs. She offers takeaways on how to rebuild self-worth, trust yourself again, and break free from toxic patterns. It’s time to stop falling for the lies—by recognizing trauma bonds and avoiding the con man, you can break free from toxic cycles and start building lasting, fulfilling connections.


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Am I a gold digger? Aurora and Sabrina Zohar on Attachment Styles, Self-Trust, and Emotional Availability
#101
03/12/2025

Aurora and Sabrina get real about the complexities of relationships, dating, and the personal growth that happens when we stop settling. They discuss the true meaning behind attachment styles, how self-trust shapes the partners we choose, and why emotional availability is key. Sabrina is a dating and relationship expert who provides Aurora with insights on what she wants and what she needs to do to overcome the challenges of finding a real connection.


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I Don’t Think We Can Do Bufo Together
#100
03/05/2025

In this hilarious and honest episode, Aurora and Sophia dive into the world of dating, relationships, and the chaos that comes with it. From second dates at Nobu to navigating bizarre kissing techniques (we’re talking full tongue, ladies), they do not hold back! Aurora shares the tea on her most recent dating disaster, which involves a erectile dysfunction, distant texter, a poorly timed email, and… well, let's just say he was not a keeper! 


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Sahil Bloom: Breaking Stigmas, Relationship Secrets & Life Hacks
#99
02/26/2025

In this personal episode, Sahil shares his experience supporting his wife through infertility and how his own mental health struggles played a role. Men rarely open up about these challenges, and Sahil emphasizes why it’s important to do so. We also dive into timeless relationship wisdom, including practices like ‘Think Day,’ the Life Dinner ritual (a monthly date night), and the Pygmalion Effect. Tune in for insights on embracing life’s ups and downs, strengthening relationships, and making better decisions.


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