The Shameless Romantic

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By: Kat Wilhoit

It's time to get a little shameless and expand your mind! This is a safe space to discuss all things love, sex, relationships and the human experience. Whether you're new to any of these topics or an experienced player of the respected game - you're bound to learn something new on our weekly podcast. Join in on the juicy fun, kinky know-how and sexier education! Music credit: Acapulco Clementine 

Getting Flexy, Sexy & Tapped in : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Maya)
#58
Last Wednesday at 6:00 PM

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Life is better when you’re flexible (in bed)… Your spicy bffs Kat & Maya have fun discussing Maya’s gymnastics career involving Lyra, pole, silks, dance & so much more. Now take a break from the mental gymnastics we put ourselves through in life & grab a sweet treat!

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Spicy Reddit Threads | Tinder Swipes, First Time Bondage & CNC : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Kole)
#57
04/01/2026

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I need {spicy} advice...NSFW! Your spicy bffs Kat & Kole continue delving deep into the wild and wondrous world of Reddit threads. Join the convo as we dig up some juicy stories that anonymous OPs (original posters) openly share with the world. Whether you’re a Redditor or not, don’t miss this primetime entertainment! Now, grab a libation and pony up!

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Spicy Reddit Threads | Tinder Swipes, First Time Bondage & CNC : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Kole)
#56
03/25/2026

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We read it on Reddit... banana for scale. Your spicy bffs Kat & Kole delve deep into the wild and wondrous world of Reddit threads. Join the convo as we dig up some juicy stories that anonymous OPs (original posters) openly share without a care in the world. Experienced Redditor or not, this is primetime entertainment at its finest due to its rawness & anonymity - so grab a libation and get ready for a ride!

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Threesomes, Dracula & Wuthering Heights : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Adri & May)
#55
03/11/2026

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They say good things come in threes... and we're here to deliver! Kat, Adri & May continue the conversation on the devastatingly beautiful cinematic experience of watching Dracula & Withering Heights in the same week. We unpack the yearning, toxicity, fashion, character building, and so much more - so kick back and get ready to time travel in style!

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Threesomes, Dracula & Wuthering Heights : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Adri & May)
#54
03/04/2026

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The yearning, the earning and the romance make up the perfect trifecta… your spicy bffs Kat, Adri, & May discuss the heart wrenching effect of watching Dracula & Wuthering Heights in the same week. We unpack a little bit of spice, a dash of cinematography, and a splash of fashion design to make for some proper fun! Now grab an apothecary refreshment and enjoy the yap sesh!

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Never Be Too Busy To Be Turned On Again (Pick One To Do Today)
#53
02/25/2026

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The simplest pleasures are sometimes the most extraordinary... Your spicy bff Kat is here with a stark reminder (and some very actionable things you can do today) to tap back into your sexiness and sensuality. All too often, we blame being busy - but I'm here to offer some juicy and sneaky ideas to fuel your fire TODAY. Did it just get hot in here - or is that just you? (;

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Breaking It Down On The (Pelvic) Floor : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Virgo PT)
#52
02/18/2026

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To Kegel or not to Kegel - that is the question... Your spicy bffs Kat & Tori (pelvic floor therapist with Virgo PT) dive even deeper into all the juicy things our floor does for us and the connection to confidence, pleasure and pain-free sex! 

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Breaking It Down On The (Pelvic) Floor : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Virgo PT)
#51
02/04/2026

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To know her is to love her, because she makes all the magic happen... This one is all about our pelvic floor and why she really is THAT B*TCH! Your spicy bffs Kat & Tori (Virgo Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy & Wellness) highlight this beautiful muscle group & the effects on sexual pleasure, pain, having babies, and so much more! You'll never guess what other muscle group it's correlated with... so grab your fave snack and unclench your jaw babe!

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Doing The Inner Work (TW - Childhood SA & Trauma) : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Tori)
#50
01/21/2026

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It's not pretty, but it's honest (inner) work... Your spicy bffs Kat & Tori from Peachi Therapy are unpacking part 2, reflecting on Childhood SA & Trauma. This one's not-so-hot and oh-so-heavy - so let's suit up and get ready to put in some elbow grease because we're worth it!

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Doing The Inner Work (TW - Childhood SA & Trauma) : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Tori)
#49
01/14/2026

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Oh, we're about to diiiive innnn *Trey Songz voice* - to the nitty gritty, babes! Your spicy bffs Kat & Tori from Peachi Therapy are back at it with another episode - & oh is this one DEEEEP! We're reflecting on Childhood SA and getting extra real & raw about the lingering effects into adulthood. Did I mention this is the worst hood ever? Now grab your goggles & suit up babes!

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Using Data & Discernment in Dating : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Leena)
#48
12/17/2025

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They say love is a battlefield... Your spicy bffs Kat & Leena dive *extra* deep into the throes of strategy and how to even out the score. It's time to do your homework against the other side! In the modern era we have the means of AI, social media & questioning "are we dating the same guy?" Add in the special gift of intuition and pattern recognition, and you'll be dating smarter and more confidently in no time!

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Using Data & Discernment in Dating : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Leena)
#47
12/10/2025

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A man who yearns is a man who earns... Your spicy BFFs Kat & Leena break down how to use data and discernment when dating in the modern era. We just want you to know that ChatGPT really is THAT B*TCH when it comes to collecting (& charting) data on potential suitors & slowing down and tapping into your intuition/discernment is the other hack to ensure success. Now let's show you how to use them!

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Dating Disasters & The Nicknames We Give Them : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Lisa)
#46
12/03/2025

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Can you ever really recover after you get the ick? Your spicy bffs Kat & Lisa are determined to break it all down and find out the answer. In this episode, we continue our chats about Lisa's recent dating disasters... who have nicknames like "The Wook" and "Sailor Jerry" - so you know it'll be juicy! Now pop on the kettle & enjoy the tea!

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Dating Disasters & The Nicknames We Give Them : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Lisa)
#45
11/19/2025

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Hinge, Tinder, & FB Dating... oh my! Your spicy bffs Kat & Lisa are delving deep into the wild dating adventures that Lisa has unfortunately manifested and attracted. From meeting 'The Murderer' to 'The Pepperoni Twins' - you're going to want to grab your popcorn for this one. Now whip out your hot-to-crazy chart babes, you're gonna need it! 

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Confidence, Boundaries & Body Positivity : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Kole)
#44
11/12/2025

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If you have to ask (if we came), the answer is NO... Your spicy bffs Kat and Kole continue the conversation around her growth on social media and the OF platform that occurred when she started being true to herself and embracing all parts of her. As Demi said, what’s wrong with being confident? 

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Confidence, Boundaries & Body Positivity : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Kole)
#43
11/05/2025

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The sexiest thing you could wear is confidence, babe... Your spicy bbf's Kat and Kole are chopping it up regarding Kole's experience going viral from a body positivity post on TikTok. She's fully embraced & incorporated the success towards a thriving plus-sized modeling career & OF business. Now grab your favorite little treat & prepare for a wild ride... wait your followers begged for WHAT??? 

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A Girl's Guy (Male OF Creator) : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Champagne Shreds)
#42
10/22/2025

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The guys that get, get IT... and the ones who don't might just stay celibate! Your spicy bffs Kat & Jay (Champagne Shreds) continue the conversation surrounding desire being accompanied by depth in modern dating. He goes on to share how his outlook and openness brought strength and flexibility to his relationship - while also allowing him to better connect with females everywhere... I'll cheers to that!

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A Girl's Guy (Male OF Creator) : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Champagne Shreds)
#41
10/15/2025

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It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s proof that understanding women isn’t just sexy—it’s necessary! Your spicy bffs Kay and Jay (Champagne Shreds) begin to uncover where desire meets depth. From the art of seduction to the struggles women face in modern dating, he’s here to talk desire, empathy, and everything in between. Now, who’s ready to pop the Champagne? 

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Nowhere Near Vanilla In The Villa (Love Island Recap) : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Jaz)
#40
09/24/2025

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Mommy? Mamacita? Your spicy BFFs Kat & Jaz are here to share our ultra spicy takes on the infamous reality TV show, 'Love Island' and it's contestants. We here to spill all the tea and offer our educated views of how all the drama unfurled and how we're able to see past versions of ourselves making the same decisions... 

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Nowhere Near Vanilla In The Villa (Love Island Recap) : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Jaz)
#39
09/03/2025

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Hey babe, can I pull you for a chat real quick? Your spicy BFFs Kat & Jaz are here to share our ultra spicy takes on the infamous reality TV show, 'Love Island' and it's contestants. We here to spill all the tea and offer our educated views of how all the drama unfurled and how we're able to see past versions of ourselves making the same decisions... OH LOOK - WE GOT A TEXT! (;

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Pedro Pascal & Faking O's : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Raquel)
#38
08/13/2025

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Pleasure is your birthright babe... and I think we can agree we feel it every time we see Pedro Pascal! Your spicy bffs Kat and Raquel continue the candid discussion all about Papi Pascal, while also delving into the phenomenon of faking orgasms. Get ready to ride the wave, babes!

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Pedro Pascal & Faking O's : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Raquel)
#37
08/06/2025

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What do Pedro Pascal and faking an orgasm have in common? Acting and putting on a performance of course! Your spicy bffs Kat & Raquel are back to chop things up and dive deeper into the female psyche. We unpack and dissect why the infamous Papi Pascal is infatuation worthy to the modern era of femmes. Lights, camera, action baby... 

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Who The F*ck Am I Dating? : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Ishani)
#36
07/30/2025

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If you've seen the show "Who The F*ck Did I Marry?" this one's for you!  Granted, I'm thankful we didn't find out our partner was a serial killer, but someone may have had a full-fledged family... join your spicy bffs Kat & Ishani as we share some past mistakes to remind you to do your due diligence on your potential suitors - get ready for some jaw-dropping moments...

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Who The F*ck Am I Dating? : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Ishani)
#35
07/23/2025

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Ever heard of the show "Who The F*ck Did I Marry?" where people find out their partner is a serial killer or they have like 2 additional families? Your spicy bffs Kat & Ishani are here to remind you to do your due diligence on your potential suitors... We'll cover the basics (and the high-tech advancements of the modern age!) that are sure to be your bffs when screening your dates. Put on your thinking caps and computer wiz cardigans and get ready for a wild ride...

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Loving Big In ENM & Poly Relationships : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Tori)
#34
07/16/2025

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For some, it’s like potato chips… you can’t have just one! Your spicy bffs Kat & Tori (sex therapist and owner of Peachi Therapy) come back with the heat. We’re continuing the conversation surrounding the poly and ethical non-monogamous lifestyles. Grab a friend or a lover for this one (and a bag of lays perhaps? 😉)

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Loving Big In ENM & Poly Relationships : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Tori)
#33
07/09/2025

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Some might say two’s company, three’s a crowd - but others beg to disagree… your spicy bffs Kat & Tori (sex therapist & CEO of Peachi Therapy) had to delve deeper into the multi-partner sphere when we saw how many listener-sourced questions we received! Now kick back and enjoy a vice (or a few)…

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Ironing Out Our Kinks : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Tori)
#32
07/02/2025

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It’s time to set the record straight… or however you like it!  Your spicy bffs Kat & Tori (our amazing sex therapist) continue their  deep dive into listener-sourced kink related questions. We hope you’re ready to hear what your lovers and friends are thinking about! 

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Ironing Out Our Kinks : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Tori)
#31
06/24/2025

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Break out the ironing board and get ready to put in some work! Your spicy bffs Kat & Tori (our amazing sex therapist) delve deep into listener-sourced kink related questions. Get ready to learn, marvel, and maybe even blush about what your peers are curious about! 

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Shooting Sexy (A Boudoir Guide) : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Lu)
#30
06/18/2025

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Smile (and be sultry) for the camera baby… Your spicy bffs Kat & Lu are back to finish what we started! We continue to delve into the world of boudoir photography and how to slay your spicy shoot with confidence, pride, and nailing the look! Is it getting hot in here or is that just you? Book the shoot babe… good girl.

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Shooting Sexy (A Boudoir Guide) : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Lu)
#29
06/11/2025

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You miss 100% of the (spicy) shots you don’t take… if you’ve been considering booking a boudoir photoshoot, listen to this first! We have one of Orlando’s hottest Boudoir photographers on the air detailing pre-shoot FAQs and how to choose your photog. Now, say cheese babe!

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Chat GPT Is My Therapist : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Danah)
#27
05/14/2025

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Freud would lose his mind with how often we use “daddy” these days… but this the era of empowerment and big tech! Join your spicy bffs Kat & Danah as we delve deep into the many uses of ChatGPT and how it can be an amazing therapist and coach as you heal from past relationships and dip a toe back into the dating pool! Get ready to make a splash!

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ChatGPT Is My Therapist : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Danah)
#28
05/14/2025

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New spicy ChatGPT prompt inspo loading… Your spicy bffs Kat & Danah are back with more IT innovations and how to hack your dating life with ChatGPT - your 24/7 counselor & dating coach. And turns out, ChatGPT can be just as toxic or tame as you want her to be. 😜

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Hot & Humble Girl Summer
#26
05/07/2025

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May we be hot and never bothered… this episode is all about being real & raw with you guys and letting you into my mind & heartspace. Let’s remember to be hot and humble always - and don’t be scared to humble others accordingly! 

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I Can & I Will (In Bed) | (Co-Cast w Brandon)
#25
04/08/2025

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Confidence and a smile is the sexiest thing you can wear, babe… Your spicy bffs Kat & Brandon are back with another empowering episode with a widely applicable mantra! For all of life’s trials, remember to look it right back in the face with just as much gusto… Lets cowgirl up, babe!

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Healing Through Infidelity : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Stephany)
#24
03/26/2025

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Don’t we all just want a happy ending… Your spicy bffs Kat & Stephany go from unhinged to healing to bring it all to a close. Even though our loco eras were so much fun, the transmutation into our strength is SERVING. Salúd!

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Healing Through Infidelity : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Stephany)
#24
03/26/2025

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Don’t we all just want a happy ending… Your spicy bffs Kat & Stephany go from unhinged to healing to bring it all to a close. Even though our loco eras were so much fun, the transmutation into our strength is SERVING. Salúd!

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Healing Through Infidelity : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Stephany)
#23
03/19/2025

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Hope you’re ready for a wild ride… Your spicy bffs Kat & Stephany great super real, raw, and nowhere near sane (?) on this one! Join in as we divulge our loco eras and then transmute it to our strengths. Salúd!

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Healing Through Infidelity : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Stephany)
#23
03/19/2025

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Hope you’re ready for a wild ride… Your spicy bffs Kat & Stephany great super real, raw, and nowhere near sane (?) on this one! Join in as we divulge our loco eras and then transmute it to our strengths. Salúd!

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Sex Therapy Shares (More Common Than You Think) : Part 2 (Co-Cast w Tori)
#22
03/12/2025

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A reminder: please don’t yuck someone’s yum! Your spicy bffs Kat and Tori are back with part two of the hot episode all about the juicy tea of relationships that may be more common than you think! Tori shares a handful of topics she sees regularly that she wants to normalize and bring to light - and she knew I’d be more than happy to oblige her!

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Sex Therapy Shares (More Common Than You Think) : Part 1 (Co-Cast w Tori)
#21
03/05/2025

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Who doesn’t like to be surprised and delighted (in bed)?  Your spicy bffs Kat and Tori are serving up another hot episode and this one is all about the juicy tea of relationships! Tori shares a handful of topics she sees regularly that she wants to normalize and bring to light - and she knew I’d be more than happy to oblige her!

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