AfterTheWell

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By: Melissa Lapin

The conversational podcast where you will learn to recognize the every day encounters that seem mundane but have the ability to transform your very existence. On AfterTheWell we're going to be talking with all types of people from all walks of life about how their life changed after having a 'well' experience with Jesus. Just like the woman of John 4:4–42 we always walk away not only changed, but transformed after an encounter with the Love of Jesus.

ATW - Conversation with Kyla Duckworth
#14
Last Wednesday at 6:00 PM

Summary

In this episode of After the Well, Melissa Lapin interviews Kyla Duckworth, a multifaceted creative who shares her journey through faith, ministry, and personal struggles. Kyla discusses her experiences as a female leader in the church, the challenges she faced, and her path to redemption. She emphasizes the importance of community support, love, and forgiveness in her life, and how these elements have shaped her approach to teaching and nurturing creativity in others. The conversation also touches on the role of music in healing and the essence of building a creative business that reflects...


ATW - Chat with Gil Hodges
#13
04/30/2025

Summary

In this engaging conversation, Melissa Lapin speaks with Gil Hodges about his spiritual journey from being a Seventh-day Adventist pastor to exploring a more expansive understanding of God and spirituality. Gil shares his experiences of questioning traditional beliefs, facing crises of faith, and ultimately embracing a more loving and inclusive view of God. He discusses the importance of letting go, flowing with life, and understanding the energy of God as love. The conversation delves into the deconstruction of faith and the quest for authenticity in one's spiritual journey. In this conversation, Gil Hodges and...


ATW - New friend, Mo Thomas
#12
04/23/2025

Summary

In this engaging conversation, Melissa Lapin and Mo Thomas explore themes of cultural identity, community values, and the impact of religion on personal identity. Mo shares his journey from a performance-driven life to one of authenticity, discussing how his understanding of faith has evolved over time. They delve into the biblical narrative, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the love and acceptance inherent in the story of creation and redemption. The conversation highlights the significance of community and the longing for deeper connections in a modern, individualized society. In this conversation, Mo Thomas and Melissa...


ATW - Inna Harriman 2
#11
04/16/2025

Summary

In this episode of After the Well, Melissa Lapin and Ina Harriman delve into the realms of mysticism, spirituality, and the experiences of bi-location. They explore the concept of being seated in heavenly places, the importance of curiosity in spiritual encounters, and the idea of manifestation in the Hall of Creation. The conversation also touches on connecting with historical figures like Isaiah and Enoch, emphasizing the interconnectedness of all beings beyond time and space. In this conversation, Melissa Lapin and Inna Harriman delve into the realms of spiritual encounters, the connection between the seen...


ATW - Nannette Foster
#10
04/09/2025

Summary

In this episode of After the Well, Melissa Lapin interviews Nannette Foster, an intuitive leadership coach from Alaska. They discuss the nuances of intuition, its misinterpretations, and the importance of understanding true intuitiveness versus trauma responses. Nannette shares her personal journey, her insights on social media group dynamics, and how intuition serves as a divine connection guiding individuals toward their destiny. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-awareness and the healing process in recognizing and harnessing one's intuitive abilities. In this conversation, Nannette Foster and Melissa Lapin explore the nuances of intuition, energy awareness...


ATW - Eli Waters
#9
04/02/2025

Summary

In this episode of After the Well, host Melissa Lapin interviews 12-year-old Eli Waters, who shares his unique perspective on faith, God, and identity. Eli discusses his journey of understanding his relationship with God, the importance of community, and how he communicates with God through dreams and personal reflection. He emphasizes the significance of God's love and the need for everyone to recognize their worth. Eli also expresses his passion for acting and how he sees God's presence in the arts, drawing lessons from the musical Wicked about identity and self-acceptance. In this engaging...


ATW - Conversation with Hélène Biandudi Hofer
#8
03/26/2025

Summary

In this engaging conversation, Hélène Biandudi Hofer shares her journey as a traveler through people's lives, influenced by her multicultural background and family values. She discusses the importance of storytelling and journalism in breaking down prejudices and fostering understanding. The role of faith in her life is explored, highlighting how her upbringing shaped her spiritual journey and perspectives on relationships with God. The conversation also touches on the evolving nature of spirituality in contemporary society. In this conversation, Melissa Lapin and Hélène Biandudi Hofer explore the themes of God's goodness, the...


ATW - Visit with Inna Harriman
#7
03/19/2025

Summary

In this episode, Melissa Lapin and Inna Harriman explore the themes of authenticity, truth, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of showing up for oneself, the boldness of Fatini as a model for truth, and the necessity of owning one's story. The conversation emphasizes the interconnectedness of individuals and the power of embodying one's authentic self to inspire others. They also touch on the significance of forgiveness and moving beyond shame to embrace a life of authenticity and purpose. In this conversation, Melissa Lapin and Inna Harriman explore the themes of authenticity, self-care...


ATW - Visiting with Keadren Petrone - Part 2
#6
03/12/2025

Summary

In this episode of After the Well, Melissa Lapin and Keadren Petrone explore the importance of showing up for oneself, the role of energy healing, and the holistic approach to health that encompasses body, mind, and spirit. They discuss the significance of awareness in personal growth and healing, the necessity of self-care, and the interconnectedness of all aspects of life. The conversation emphasizes the need for deeper understanding and connection with oneself and others, encouraging listeners to embrace their journey towards wholeness and healing.

Takeaways

Showing up...


ATW - Visiting with Keadren Petrone - Part 1
#5
03/05/2025

Summary

In this episode, Melissa Lapin and Keadren Petrone discuss the importance of showing up for oneself, the metaphor of home renovation as a means of personal healing, and the significance of acknowledgment, awareness, and acceptance in the healing process. They explore how emotional health impacts physical well-being and the cultural perspectives on healing and energy. The conversation emphasizes the need for authenticity and the rejection of societal pressures to conform to a 'niche' or singular identity.

Takeaways

Showing up for yourself is essential for personal growth.Life...


ATW - Conversation with Miranda Grace
#4
02/26/2025

Summary

In this episode, Melissa Lapin and Miranda Grace explore Miranda's journey of self-discovery, spirituality, and empowerment. They discuss the impact of childhood experiences on identity, the search for peace and understanding of God, and the allure of the supernatural and new age practices. Miranda shares her insights on the importance of recognizing one's union with God and the power that comes from this awareness, particularly for women seeking their voice and identity in a male-dominated spiritual landscape. In this conversation, Miranda and Melissa explore various themes surrounding spirituality, cultural perspectives, and the intersection of...


ATW - Time with Candice Fry
#3
02/19/2025

Summary

In this episode of After the Well, Melissa Lapin and Candice Frye explore themes of grief, celebration of life, and supernatural encounters following the loss of a loved one. Candice shares her journey as a widow, the unique ways she honored her late husband, and the profound experiences she had during a retreat. The conversation delves into cultural perspectives on death, the importance of celebrating life, and the signs that can connect us to those we've lost. In this heartfelt conversation, Candice Frye shares her journey of navigating grief after the loss of her...


ATW - Chat with Brook Waters
#2
02/12/2025

Summary

In this episode of After the Well, Melissa Lapin welcomes Brooke Waters for a deep and transformative conversation about faith, identity, and the complexities of healing. They explore personal experiences with the Trinity, the misconceptions surrounding healing, the nature of failure, and the importance of processing emotions. The discussion emphasizes the significance of community, self-awareness, and the journey of understanding one's emotions as valuable information rather than good or bad. In this conversation, Brooke Waters and Melissa Lapin explore the complexities of emotional healing, anxiety management, and the importance of self-awareness. They...


ATW - Melissa Intros Session 3
#1
02/05/2025

Melissa introduces Session 3.


ATW - Season 2 Finale
#36
12/12/2024

Melissa shares her end of the year thoughts as well as dreams for 2025.


ATW - Time with Bob Engel
#34
12/04/2024

Summary

In this episode of After the Well, Melissa Lapin engages in a heartfelt conversation with Bob Engel, exploring his life journey, faith experiences, and insights on spirituality. Bob shares his upbringing, marriage, and the challenges he faced with organized religion. The discussion delves into the significance of the woman at the well and the prodigal son, emphasizing themes of authenticity, community, and the role of women in ministry. Bob encourages listeners to embrace their unique journeys and to connect with God in a personal and genuine way, free from the constraints of religious expectations.<...


ATW - Conversation with Brannon Nix
#33
11/27/2024

Summary

In this episode, Melissa Lapin interviews Brannon Nix, who shares his powerful testimony of transformation from a troubled childhood and a life of drug addiction to discovering his identity as a child of God. Brannon discusses the challenges he faced growing up, the struggles with his identity, and the pivotal moments that led him to encounter God in jail. He emphasizes the importance of understanding our true sonship and the power of community in the healing process. Brannon's journey illustrates the profound love and grace of God, and how it can radically change lives...


ATW - Chat with Opal Bush
#33
11/20/2024

Summary

In this episode, Melissa Lapin interviews Opal Bush, who shares her powerful testimony of faith, resilience, and the impact of her praying grandmother. Opal discusses her experiences growing up in the South, facing adversity, and how her faith has shaped her identity. She recounts her journey through college, becoming the Homecoming Queen at the University of Alabama, and the significance of God's favor in her life. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding one's identity in Christ, the power of presence in witnessing, and breaking free from religious limitations. Opal encourages listeners to embrace...


ATW - Time with Nate Bontrager
#32
11/13/2024

Summary

In this episode, Melissa Lapin interviews Nate Bontrager, who shares his journey from growing up in the Amish community to discovering his faith and identity outside of it. They discuss the challenges and experiences of Rumspringa, the importance of family and sonship, and the shift from a religious mindset to a kingdom perspective. Nate emphasizes the significance of community, connection, and the hunger for righteousness in his spiritual journey.

Takeaways

Nate grew up Amish and left the community in 2017.Rumspringa was a time of self-discovery for Nate...


ATW - Conversation with Shanna Fougerousse
#31
11/06/2024

Summary

In this conversation, Melissa Lapin and Shanna Fougerousse explore Shanna's journey of healing and self-discovery through faith and the Undivided Heart ministry. They discuss the importance of understanding one's identity, breaking free from limiting beliefs, and the transformative power of engaging with the Trinity. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-love, community support, and the courage to confront one's true self in order to live an abundant life.

Takeaways

Shanna's journey began in a dysfunctional home, leading to a quest for healing.Experiencing Jesus transformed Shanna's understanding...


ATW - Convo with Justin Cook
#30
10/30/2024

Summary

In this engaging conversation, Melissa Lapin and Justin Cook explore themes of faith, theology, and the impact of cults on personal beliefs. Justin shares his journey from a strict religious upbringing to questioning authority and finding grace. They discuss the struggles of growing up in a cult, the importance of community, and the role of questions in faith. The conversation also touches on engaging with new age perspectives and the journey back to God, emphasizing the need for understanding and compassion in spiritual discussions. In this conversation, Melissa Lapin and Justin Cook delve into...


ATW - Time with Kellyn Bastos-Trapp
#29
10/16/2024

Summary

In this conversation, Melissa Lapin interviews her friend Kellen about her ministry and the impact of creativity in her community. Kellen shares how her journey with God started when she was 12 or 13 years old and how she found healing and growth through art and music. She talks about the rebranding of her ministry to include her husband and their mission to bring art and music to their community. Kellen also discusses her experiences with Bible art journaling and the prophetic nature of art. She shares a powerful story of using art and music for...


ATW - Chat with Dawn Lee
#28
10/02/2024

Summary

In this episode of After the Well, Melissa Lapin interviews her friend Dawn Lee. They have an intimate conversation about faith and personal experiences with Jesus. Dawn shares her journey of growing up in the church, questioning traditional beliefs, and finding her own understanding of God's love and grace. They discuss the importance of critical thinking and questioning in faith, and the need to have open and honest conversations about beliefs. The conversation also touches on the story of the woman at the well and the transformative power of encountering Jesus. In this conversation...


ATW - Chat with Shae Bynes
#27
09/25/2024

Summary

 

In this conversation, Melissa Lapin interviews Shae Bynes, a transformational storyteller and kingdom business advisor. They discuss Shae's journey of encountering Jesus and the importance of understanding His love. Shae shares how she learned to walk with God and embrace the unforced rhythms of grace. They also touch on the need to challenge traditional religious beliefs and the importance of building intimacy with God. In this conversation, Shae Bynes and Melissa Lapin discuss the importance of cultivating a personal relationship with God. They emphasize the need to shift from performing for God t...


ATW - Chat with Inna Harriman
#26
09/18/2024

Summary

In this episode of After the Well, Melissa Lapin engages in a heartfelt conversation with Ina Harriman, exploring her faith journey, spiritual experiences, and the nature of God. They discuss the importance of belief, the role of angels, and the miracles that occur in everyday life. Ina shares her unique encounters with God and emphasizes the goodness of God, encouraging listeners to embrace their identity as children of God. The conversation also touches on the intersection of spirituality and technology, particularly the use of AI in understanding faith. Ultimately, the episode serves as a...


ATW - Interview with Brenda Wallish
#25
09/11/2024

Summary

In this conversation, Melissa Lapin interviews her friend Brenda Wallish. Brenda shares her personal journey of faith and how she encountered God in her darkest moments. She talks about her experience of hearing God's voice in an audible way and how it changed her life. Brenda also discusses the challenges she faced in her marriage and how she had to overcome religious beliefs that hindered her understanding of God's love and blessings. The conversation highlights the importance of personal encounters with Jesus and the need to let go of religious mindsets. In this conversation...


ATW - Time with Eunike Jonathan
#24
09/04/2024

Summary

In this episode, Melissa Lapin interviews Eunike Jonathan, author of the book 'Radical and Reckless.' Eunike shares her journey of growing up as a pastor's kid in a performance-driven environment and feeling dissatisfied with her relationship with God. She talks about her search for love, protection, and tangible experiences of God's goodness. Eunike emphasizes the importance of encountering God for who He truly is and being honest with ourselves about our perceptions and beliefs. She also discusses her experiences of interacting with the cloud of witnesses, including a conversation with the apostle Paul...


ATW - Talk with Brandon Beard
#23
08/28/2024

Summary

Brandon Beard shares his journey of faith and spirituality, from growing up in a church-going family to joining the military and experiencing a crisis of faith. He discusses the impact of false theology and the weight of guilt and shame. Brandon's spiritual transformation began in 2009 when he encountered a community that embraced him and introduced him to the prophetic. He learned to discern the voice of God and understand that it often sounds like his own thoughts but with a different thought pattern. Brandon's story highlights the importance of community and the power of...


ATW - Conversation with Dr. Eboni Truss
#22
08/21/2024

Summary

In this episode, Melissa Lapin interviews Dr. Ebony Truss about her journey of unbecoming and rediscovering her true identity. They discuss the importance of not conforming to societal expectations and finding one's unique purpose. They also touch on the pitfalls of following trends and copying others in business and the need to have genuine conversations with God to discover one's true calling. The conversation highlights the significance of living out one's purpose and leaving a lasting legacy. In this conversation, Melissa and Eboni discuss the importance of embracing one's true identity and breaking free...


ATW - Chat with Fernanda Warnock
#21
08/07/2024

Summary

 

In this conversation, Melissa and Fernanda discuss the concept of fullness and how it relates to their lives. They talk about the importance of recognizing that the fullness in their lives is a result of the things they have prayed for. They also discuss the idea of not just being busy, but being full, and how changing their perspective has helped them appreciate the abundance in their lives. Fernanda shares her journey of starting her own coaching business and the lessons she has learned about perfectionism and comparison. Melissa reflects on her o...


ATW - Conversation with Kathleen Irey
#20
07/31/2024

Summary

 In this episode, Melissa Lapin interviews her friend Kathleen about her journey with God. Kathleen shares her experience growing up in Southern California and attending Catholic church with her mom. She talks about rebelling against her mom's new Baptist church and her own struggles with anger and rebellion. Kathleen also discusses her unplanned pregnancy at 18 and how it led her to seek God and attend church with her mom. She shares a powerful moment of realization and acceptance when her daughter was born on March 16th, which reminded her that her daughter was not a...


ATW - Time with Donna Rowe
#19
07/10/2024

Summary
In this episode of After the Well, Melissa Lapin and Donna Rowe discuss their personal experiences with spirituality and encountering God. Donna shares her journey of growing up in a family without a strong religious background and her search for a deeper connection with God. She recounts a pivotal moment at the age of 17 when she felt a profound encounter with God, which brought her peace and a sense of purpose. They also discuss the importance of personal experiences with God and the need for individual exploration and understanding of spirituality. Donna Rowe shares her...


ATW - Conversation with Rod Williams
07/03/2024

Summary

 In this conversation, Melissa Lapin interviews Rod Williams, who shares his journey of faith and the different perspectives he gained from his experiences in various churches and ministries. Rod talks about encountering the love of God through a pastor who made him feel seen and loved. He also discusses his involvement in the Jesus movement and the impact of the charismatic movement on his faith. Rod shares how he experienced a pivotal moment of feeling the presence of God during a difficult time in his life. He emphasizes the importance of being conscious of G...


ATW - Conversation with Beth Alexander
06/26/2024

Summary

 In this episode, Melissa Lapin interviews her friend Beth Alexander. Beth shares her background and testimony, explaining that she did not grow up in a faith-based household and had limited exposure to church. However, at the age of 19, she had a powerful encounter with Jesus' love and decided to become a Christian. Beth then discusses her journey of navigating the expectations and pressures of religion, as well as her search for purpose and identity. Despite the challenges, she has found peace and confidence in following God's leading. Beth Alexander shares her experience of feeling l...


ATW - Time with Justin Fahrenbruch
#16
06/19/2024

Summary

 In this conversation, Melissa Lapin interviews Justin Fahrenbruch, an evangelist from Saginaw, Michigan. Justin shares his journey from growing up in a Lutheran church to struggling with drug addiction for 14 years. He had a transformative encounter with Jesus in a parking lot, which led to his deliverance from addiction. Justin discovered his calling as an evangelist and began sharing his testimony and the love of Jesus with others. He emphasizes the importance of kingdom identity and understanding the principles of the kingdom. Justin's wife, Candace, has been a strong supporter throughout his journey. In t...


ATW - Chat with Dr. Tony Robinson
#15
06/12/2024

Summary

In this conversation, Dr. Toni Robinson shares her journey of faith and how she came to know Jesus on a personal level. She talks about the challenges she faced, including the loss of her job and home, and how she learned to trust God in the midst of it all. Dr. Toni emphasizes the importance of authenticity and vulnerability in our relationship with God and with others. She also highlights the power of community and how sharing our struggles can inspire and encourage others. In this part of the conversation, Tony and Melissa discuss...


ATW - Interview with Melody Dowlearn
#14
05/22/2024

Summary

Melody Dowlearn, CEO of the Identity Academy, shares her journey of rediscovering her identity and aligning her vision with her faith. She talks about her well moment, where she had a powerful encounter with Jesus that shifted her entire life. Melody also discusses her struggles as a rebellious teenager and the challenges she faced as a single mother. She emphasizes the importance of finding healthy community and the role her husband played in her healing process. Melody's story highlights the transformative power of encountering God and the significance of embracing the process of growth...


ATW - Conversation with Emily Evans - Part 2
#13
05/08/2024

Summary

Emily Evans shares her journey of wanting to go on a missions trip to Africa since she was eight years old. She discusses the challenges in her marriage and eventual divorce, which made her question her ability to fulfill her dream. However, after her divorce, she received an invitation to go on a short-term mission trip to Africa. Despite personal struggles, she embraced the opportunity and saw God's redemption and glory in her journey. Emily emphasizes the importance of not hardening the heart and partnering with God, as well as the need for empowering...


ATW - Conversation with Emily Evans - Part 1
#12
04/24/2024

Summary

In this conversation, Melissa Lapin talks to her friend Emily about her journey of faith and the impact of encountering the Kingdom mindset. Emily shares her desire for more in her faith and her search for a church that aligned with her beliefs. She discusses the healing she experienced from father wounds and the transformative impact of the movie 'The Shack'. Emily encourages listeners to draw close to the Lord and find their identity in Him. In this conversation, Emily Evans and Melissa Lapin discuss the power of words and the importance of being...


ATW - Chat with Bethany Gassan
#11
04/10/2024

Summary

In this conversation, Melissa Lapin and Bethany Gassan discuss Bethany's journey from San Diego, California to Juneau, Alaska, and her faith upbringing as a Jehovah's Witness. Bethany shares her well moment with Jesus, which occurred after a difficult breakup and a period of intense anger towards God. She describes how she screamed and yelled at God for hours, and in that moment, she heard an audible voice asking her why she blamed her problems on someone she didn't even believe in. This encounter led Bethany to reconsider her beliefs and eventually give her life...