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In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

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In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

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In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

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In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

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In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

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In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

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In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

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In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

https://mrspirituality.com/options

In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

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In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

https://mrspirituality.com/options

In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

https://mrspirituality.com/options

In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

https://mrspirituality.com/options

In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

https://mrspirituality.com/options

In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

https://mrspirituality.com/options

In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

https://mrspirituality.com/options

In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

Want to work with Dr. Jon directly 1:1 over zoom (worldwide available)? 

https://mrspirituality.com/options

In today’s video, I break down a real relationship situation sent in by a viewer — and where things are going wrong beneath the surface.

What looks like a simple issue is usually something much deeper. And if you’re in a marriage or relationship, chances are… you’ll recognize parts of your own story in this.

I’ll walk you through:
-What this person is getting wrong
-What their partner is likely feeling (but not sayin...

In this episode, Jon sits down with Dr. Monique Thompson to unpack what really happens in couples therapy when infidelity and trauma collide. Using the metaphor of a burning house, she explains that the first priority is getting the injured partner “out of the fire” by stabilizing their nervous system before any major life decisions are made. They talk about how trauma after betrayal shows up in the body, why feeling “crazy” is actually a predictable biological response, and how essential trust and safety with the therapist are before any modality can work. Dr. Thompson also shares how she approach...

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In this episode of the Relationship Revival podcast, Dr. Jon Dabach welcomes back Dr. T, who introduces a groundbreaking relationship model called the Intention-Action-Perception (IAP) framework. Dr. T discusses the inspiration behind the IAP model and how it evolved through personal experiences and years of counseling practice. This insightful conversation delves into the ways our intentions can be misinterpreted in relationships due to differing perceptions, and the importance of clear communication. Dr. T highlights strategies that couples can use to improve understanding and resolve conflicts, focusing on techniques like the preamble, instructive compliments, and the rule of three interpretations.<...

In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach explores the common issue of stopping for a beer before coming home and its potential impact on relationships. He emphasizes that the significance of this behavior depends on various factors, including communication, expectations, and the reasons behind the behavior. Dr. Jon highlights the importance of discussing such habits openly with your partner to ensure that both parties are on the same page and to avoid misunderstandings that can erode trust.

Dr. Jon provides practical advice on how to approach this situation, suggesting that couples communicate their needs and concerns clearly. He...

In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach provides insightful advice on coping with a partner who has ADHD. Drawing from his own experience with mild ADHD, he explains the diverse manifestations of the condition and the unique challenges it presents in a relationship. Dr. Jon emphasizes the importance of clear communication and specificity when addressing the impact of ADHD behaviors on the relationship. He encourages partners to create a list of specific issues and discuss them in a focused, distraction-free environment.

Dr. Jon also highlights the significance of proposing practical solutions and maintaining emotional support outside the relationship...

In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach provides guidance on how to support a husband who is experiencing depression. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing the severity of the depression and seeking professional help if there are any signs of self-harm. For less severe cases, Dr. Jon offers practical advice on how to create a positive and supportive environment. He highlights the significance of personal happiness and suggests ways to foster joy in your own life, which can positively influence your partner.

Dr. Jon also discusses the power of gratitude and social engagement as tools to combat depression...

In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach discusses the unique challenges of divorcing in your 60s and provides valuable insights for those considering this significant life change. He highlights the major areas of concern such as financial health, social circles, and family dynamics that are profoundly affected by late-life divorce. Dr. Jon addresses the importance of reassessing the relationship before making a final decision and encourages couples to have honest conversations about their future together.

Dr. Jon also offers hope for those who ultimately decide to divorce, emphasizing that it is possible to find happiness and rebuild one's...

In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach tackles the detrimental impact of playing the hero in relationships. He explains how taking on excessive responsibilities with the best intentions can lead to resentment and ultimately harm the relationship. By examining the concept of the hero's journey and its emphasis on sacrifice, Dr. Jon highlights the common pitfalls of trying to be everything for your partner without proper communication and mutual agreement.

Dr. Jon provides practical advice on how to avoid these issues, emphasizing the importance of expressing grievances and setting realistic boundaries. He encourages partners to engage in healthy...

In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach addresses the critical issue of financial double standards in relationships. He defines financial double standards as differing attitudes and expectations towards money that can significantly impact a couple's life. Dr. Jon outlines six key areas where these discrepancies commonly arise: spending habits, earning expectations, savings and investments, debt management, financial transparency, and budgeting. He provides real-life examples and emphasizes that these differences can lead to tension and conflict if not properly addressed.

To resolve these issues, Dr. Jon stresses the importance of open communication and understanding each partner's perspective. He advises...

In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the often-asked question of what constitutes a "normal" amount of sex in a relationship. Addressing both the straightforward and complex aspects, he explains that while once a week is statistically average, several factors such as physical health, emotional connection, the relationship's age, and life stressors can significantly influence this frequency. Dr. Jon emphasizes the importance of open communication between partners about their sexual needs and desires, suggesting that many couples are more aligned in their sexual expectations than they realize.

Dr. Jon also offers practical advice on how to...

In this provocative and insightful episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the controversial yet powerful concept of women learning to manipulate their husbands for the benefit of their relationships. Drawing from personal anecdotes and professional experiences, Dr. Jon explores how subtle manipulation can maintain harmony, reduce conflict, and strengthen marital bonds. He shares how his own mother expertly navigated her marriage, presenting compelling reasons why women should consider this approach, emphasizing that manipulation should always aim to improve the relationship and benefit both partners.

Dr. Jon outlines the advantages of this tactic, such as boosting a husband's...

In this insightful episode, Dr. Jon Dabach addresses a common issue many wives face: handling their husband's explosive outbursts. Dr. Jon explains the underlying causes of such behavior, likening these outbursts to adult tantrums. He provides practical strategies for managing these situations, including staying calm, maintaining non-reactive body language, and acknowledging the husband's emotional struggles. By treating these episodes as tantrums and using specific communication techniques, wives can diffuse tension and create a more peaceful environment.

Additionally, Dr. Jon emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and creating a safe space for communication. He advises on how to...

In this insightful episode, Dr. Jon Dabach discusses practical strategies for husbands to stop their wives from nagging. He begins by defining nagging and emphasizes that understanding and addressing the underlying concerns behind repetitive requests is crucial. Dr. Jon offers actionable advice such as simply completing the tasks being nagged about, using reminders to form new habits, and having open, honest conversations to understand the root cause of the requests. He also stresses the importance of collaboration, consistency, and showing initiative in resolving these issues.

Throughout the episode, Dr. Jon leverages his extensive experience as a couples...

In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the delicate and often contentious topic of what to do if your husband or boyfriend expresses a desire for a threesome. Dr. Jon provides a comprehensive guide for handling this conversation, whether you're open to the idea, completely against it, or somewhere in between. He outlines essential steps for clear communication, setting boundaries, and exploring alternatives, ensuring that the relationship's emotional and physical well-being remains a priority.

Through relatable anecdotes and practical advice, Dr. Jon emphasizes the importance of creating a safe, non-judgmental space for these discussions. He underscores...

In this enlightening episode, Dr. Jon Dabach addresses a common dating misstep: talking about sex too soon. Dr. Dabach shares his insights on why men should avoid bringing up sex early in the dating process and instead focus on building a genuine connection. Highlighting the pressures and negative repercussions that premature sex talk can bring, he emphasizes the importance of respecting a woman's pace and understanding her values and interests.

Dr. Dabach also provides practical advice on how to navigate conversations about physical attraction and intimacy respectfully. He discusses the nuances of different dating scenarios, from casual...

In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach dives into the intricate concept of love, exploring whether it's rooted in science, art, or something beyond. He begins by examining love from a scientific perspective, discussing the roles of oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin in fostering emotional connections. Dr. Jon then transitions into the art of love, emphasizing the importance of personal growth and emotional health in building successful relationships. Finally, he delves into the spiritual and intellectual aspects of love, pondering its deeper meaning and purpose in our lives.

Throughout the podcast, Dr. Jon skillfully weaves together scientific research, therapeutic...

In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach explores the potential for AI, including ChatGPT, to replace counselors, psychologists, and coaches. He provides a balanced view by presenting three reasons why AI might replace human therapists and three reasons why it might not. Dr. Jon discusses the efficiency, accessibility, and consistency of AI, highlighting its ability to offer personalized and objective analysis. However, he also emphasizes the ethical concerns, the complexity of human emotions, and the importance of human connection and empathy in therapy, suggesting that AI still has significant limitations to overcome.

Dr. Jon encourages an open dialogue...

In this insightful podcast episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the art of letting go in relationships. Whether you're navigating the aftermath of a breakup, struggling with ongoing marital issues, or dealing with unresolved traumas, Dr. Jon provides practical tools and techniques to help you move forward. He emphasizes the importance of being in the driver's seat of your mental space, controlling your thoughts rather than letting them control you.

Throughout the episode, Dr. Jon introduces a variety of therapeutic methods such as cognitive restructuring, exposure therapy, mindfulness meditation, and emotional regulation. He also touches on lesser-known...

In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the psychological reasons why people enjoy watching the Olympics and sports in general. He identifies three main factors that contribute to the excitement and enjoyment of sporting events: connectedness, escapism, and hope. Dr. Jon explains how sports foster a sense of community and belonging, allowing fans to feel part of a larger group. This sense of connection is crucial for happiness and emotional well-being.

Dr. Jon also discusses how sports serve as a form of escapism, providing a temporary reprieve from daily stresses and problems. He highlights the immersive...