Being Different with Liz Durham

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By: Liz Durham

Welcoming lively debates and personal discoveries that will prompt you to question the status quo - and maybe even change your mind.

Kindergarteners Don’t Need Homework.
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Last Thursday at 8:00 AM

It’s just me today, and I’m saying something I know not everyone is going to agree with… kindergarteners should NOT have homework.Ā 

I’ve been thinking a lot about how much structure, pressure, and constant direction kids are under now, starting earlier and earlier, and how little space is left for them to just be kids. To play, to be outside, to figure things out on their own without someone telling them what to do every second of the day.

This isn’t about being anti-school or anti-teacher. It’s about asking whether we’ve pushed...


106. Chris Woodruff on Burnout, Identity, and Life After Pro Tennis (Part 2)
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03/26/2026

Chris Woodruff is back, and this is where the conversation gets deeper.

In Part 2, we pick up after his comeback from injury and get into what actually made him walk away from pro tennis, what it feels like when your identity is no longer tied to performance, and why the hardest part isn’t always the grind… it’s what comes after.

We talk about burnout, regret, and the question a lot of high performers quietly wrestle with: what could have been if I stayed a little longer? Chris shares how his perspective has shifted over t...


106. Kindergarten Homework Is a No From Me
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03/18/2026

In this solo episode, I’m talking about something that has been on my mind lately: kindergarten homework.

My son’s school recently started sending homework home during the second half of the year, and it’s put me in a bit of a dilemma as a parent. After a full day at school, sports practices, dinner, baths, and bedtime routines, there just isn’t much time left in the evening—and I’m not convinced that five- and six-year-olds should be spending that time doing worksheets.

In this episode, I walk through what our afternoons a...


105. Raising Tough Kids and Building Champions with UTK's Tennis Coach, Chris Woodruff (Part 1)
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03/05/2026

I sat down with my friend Chris Woodruff (ā€œWoodyā€ if you know my husband), Tennessee’s men’s tennis coach, former top U.S. junior, and a guy who went pro, lived out of dark hotel rooms in places you can’t pronounce, and clawed his way up the rankings the hard way.

We talk about what childhood looked like before screens and everything being scheduled out for kids. Chris breaks down why playing one sport too early can backfire, why the youth tournament hamster wheel messes with kids’ heads, and what he thinks actually builds durable confidence.<...


104. Why I’m Reconsidering Hunting as a Mom
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02/26/2026

This week I’m sitting down with one of my oldest friends, Zach Ivey, and we’re talking about hunting. Not as a hobby, but as a way of raising boys who can face real life without flinching.

I didn’t grow up around hunters and honestly, I didn’t ā€œget it.ā€ For a long time I resented what hunting took away from families, but now that I have sons, my perspective has shifted. A lot.

We talk about what ethical hunting actually looks like (and what unethical hunting looks like), why hunters fund conservation in ways most...


103. The Conversations We Should Be Having With Our Daughters (And Why I’m Done With Politics)
02/19/2026

Today, I’m sharing my response to an email I received from a mom named Rachel who is working from home with little kids, about to have another baby, and quietly drowning. Her message took me straight back to a season I don’t love remembering, when I was constantly exhausted, burnt out, feeling like I was failing as a mom, a wife, and a human.

We talk about the story our culture and universities sell young women about careers, ā€œhaving it all,ā€ and waiting to build a family, and why I don’t think we’re being honest...


102. The Myth of ā€œHaving It Allā€: Ambition, Motherhood, and the Cost of Doing Both
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02/12/2026

What if the biggest lie women are sold isn’t ā€œhave it allā€ā€¦but ā€œyou can have it all at the same timeā€?

This week on Being Different, I sit down with Kate Zepernick — Georgia Tech grad, former consultant, high-achiever, and now mom — to talk about the stuff ambitious women are usually too polite (or too scared) to say out loud.

Kate’s lived the whole arc: the full-time grind, the ā€œpart-timeā€ job that wasn’t actually part-time, the strategic career pivots, and eventually the decision to step away without losing herself in the process.

We get into:


101. What Becoming ā€œSuccessfulā€ Cost Me at Home
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02/05/2026

This week's solo episode is sort of a follow-up to what I talked about last week about the show Landman. I wanted to spend more time on the character Rebecca, because she represents the version of woman I spent years trying to become. High-powered, serious, competitive, in control. The kind of woman we’re told to admire if we want to be respected. What I didn’t see at the time was how much of that mindset I was bringing home with me, and how destructive it was to my marriage and my family.

I talk about how...


100. Being Feminine in a World That Rewards Masculinity
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01/29/2026

This week on Being Different, it’s just me and a TV show I didn’t expect to mess with my head the way it did.

My husband and I started watching Landman, and I found myself annoyed, intrigued, defensive, and—eventually—forced to look at myself. The way women are portrayed. The roles men and women fall into. The things we’re allowed to say out loud… and the things we’re definitely not.

I talk through what the show made me question about femininity, marriage, effort, and something I’ve been pushed on for years but re...


99. Are We Educating Kids or Managing Them? Rethinking Childhood Education with Dr. Jack Talmadge
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01/15/2026

Something about the way we do school for children just isn’t working, so it's time to talk about it. This week, I sit down with Dr. Jack Talmadge, Head of School at Episcopal School of Knoxville, to talk candidly about education, play, and why so many kids struggle in environments that demand stillness, compliance, and constant performance.

We talk about play-based and place-based learning, why movement actually helps kids focus, and how ā€œsit still and listenā€ somehow became synonymous with being a good student. Jack shares his own experience growing up in a high-pressure academic environment, how an...


99. Why Disney Isn’t Magical Anymore with Kyri Tombras
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01/08/2026

My friend Kyri and I went to Disney thinking we were doing the right thing. You know, core memories, childhood magic, all of that. What we actually did was spend an insane amount of money, sit on curbs eating bad food, drag overstimulated kids through crowds of adults in Mickey ears, and quietly wonder why everyone acts like this is normal.

So this week, we're digging in to why this trip did not live up to the hype.

We get into why Disney feels less like magic and more like a nostalgia trap, how so...


98. Why I'm Ditching Perfection For Peace This Christmas
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12/19/2025

Lately, I’ve been thinking about peace and realizing how terrible I am at it.

Christmas is supposed to be joyful, but I’m stressed out, overwhelmed, and turning into a version of myself I don’t even like. We’re obsessed with being busy and perfect, and it’s messing everything up.

I caught myself being completely un-peaceful more times than I want to admit and had to call my own bullshit on it. So sorry, this episode isn’t some feel-good pep talk. It’s me being real about where I’m at, what I’m trying...


98. Uncovering a Soldier’s Story: Part Four — War, Leadership & the Reality No One Wants to Face
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11/20/2025

In Part Four of my conversation with Major General Terry ā€œMaxā€ Haston, Max breaks down what actually happened in Iraq and Afghanistan, what ā€œwinningā€ really means (spoiler: it’s not what politicians sell you), and the mess inside our own government that most people never see.

We also go straight at the chaos happening in our cities, the rise of protests, the tech-fueled madness taking over this country, and why discipline, leadership, and actual parenting matter more than anyone seems willing to admit.

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97. War, Leadership, and Today’s America: Part Four of My Conversation with Major General "Max" Haston
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11/20/2025

If you haven't heard the first three conversations I recorded with Major General Terry ā€œMaxā€ Haston, go listen to those now!

In Part 4 of my conversation with Major General Terry ā€œMaxā€ Haston, we pick up right where we left off: Pushing past the polite version of leadership and getting into the messy, uncomfortable truth.

We talk about what really happens behind the scenes when someone climbs the ranks in the military… the jealousy, the backstabbing, the politics, and the weight of responsibility that nobody outside the uniform sees. Max opens up about becoming a general, losing fri...


96. Why Motherhood Still Matters (and What My Kids Are Teaching Me)
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11/13/2025

It’s just me this week and I am here to admit a couple hard truths I’d rather not, but here we are. After skipping out on Career Day at Mac's school I realized I’ve somehow started to think that being ā€œjust a momā€ isn’t enough, even though I get on this podcast all the time talking about how motherhood is literally the most important job out there.Ā 

I’m also diving into the hilarious (and slightly alarming) differences between raising boys and girls especially now that Charlie has cracked the code to my phone and is ba...


95. Boots on the Ground: Part Three of My Conversation with Major General "Max" Haston
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11/06/2025

If you haven't heard the first two conversations I recorded with Major General Terry ā€œMaxā€ Haston, go listen to those now!

In this third part of my conversation with Major General Terry ā€œMaxā€ Haston, we are not pulling punches. I’m done with surface-level takes and polite conversations. This episode gets into the real, uncomfortable truths about the U.S. military, global power, and what’s actually happening behind the headlines.

Max shares stories that sound unreal, like hitting golf balls near Saddam’s courthouse, and then turns around and breaks down the current state of our militar...


94. Let Kids Be Kids: Rethinking Early Childhood Education
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10/30/2025

This one’s probably going to ruffle some feathers, but when do they not? I want to revisit my earlier episode about why we chose not to do my son’s summer packet and clarify what I actually meant. It’s not about being anti-school. It’s about kids being kids, following their interests, and parents having a real voice in their child’s education.

I’m sharing what happened after that episode aired, including my meeting with my child's school, why I stand by what I said (yes, including the F word), and why I think the conversa...


93. Behind the Uniform: Part Two of My Conversation with Major General "Max" Haston
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10/16/2025

If you haven’t listened to part one of this conversation, do that now!

In this second part of my conversation with Major General Terry ā€œMaxā€ Haston, I sit down ready to ask the questions most people tiptoe around. I’ve always believed you can support the troops and still challenge the story we’ve been told about military service, and Max meets me there with honesty, grit, and zero sugarcoating.

We get into what deployment really feels like and Max breaks down what it’s like to bounce between war zones and everyday civilian life. He sha...


92. Uncovering a Soldier's Story: Part One of My Conversation with Major General Terry "Max" Haston
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10/09/2025

In part one of my conversation with Major General Terry ā€œMaxā€ Haston, we go back to where it all began. Max grew up in small-town Middle Tennessee, surrounded by family, faith, and a deep sense of duty. He opens up about what life was like in the 1970s, how the Vietnam War shaped his generation, and what drew him to ROTC and a lifetime of service.

What struck me most was how clear his purpose was, even early on. From those small beginnings to his first military assignments, you can see the through line of integrity, courage, and...


91. Rethinking Education with Michelle Compton
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09/25/2025

This week I sit down with Michelle Compton, one of the most impactful teachers in my kids’ lives, for a conversation every parent needs to hear. Michelle opens up about her journey from public schools to private education, the mentors who shaped her, and why she believes childhood should be full of curiosity, play, and joy.

We talk about what’s broken in our schools, from standardized testing to one-size-fits-all curriculums, and how she’s built a classroom that looks and feels completely different. Michelle shares how Reggio Emilia, inquiry-based learning, and maker spaces are transforming the way ki...


90. Parenting Different, Even When It’s Hard
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09/04/2025

Ya'll...I’ve been in a funk. No sleep, kids in my bed, the AC went out, I quit breastfeeding, and somehow those last 10–12 pounds are still hanging on no matter how hard I work. I’m frustrated, I’m tired, and I’m just talking it out.

I also get into why I tossed my son’s summer packet in the trash and what we did instead. I know the school system has its reasons, but I want my kids to love learning, not just check boxes.

If you’re feeling stuck, tired, or annoyed with t...


89. Questioning Power: Tim Burchett on Israel, Epstein, and Accountability
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08/28/2025

This week I sit down with Congressman Tim Burchett for a real, unfiltered conversation about some of the biggest issues facing our country. We talk about America’s relationship with Israel, the role of AIPAC, and why billions keep flowing overseas while our own nation drowns in debt. I press Tim on where Congress really stands, and we don’t shy away from calling out the hypocrisy.

We also dig into the Epstein case a topic that continues to frustrate me and so many of you. Tim shares his perspective on the legal roadblocks, the cover-ups, and what...


88. Things Keeping Me Up at Night: Cribs, Corruption, and Calling B.S.
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08/21/2025

Back-to-school is here, and let me tell you - we are not thriving. Early mornings, cranky kids and zero sleep makes me miss our slow, sunshine-filled summer so much it hurts. In the middle of all that chaos, life smacked us with something heavier, losing my father-in-law, one of the best men I’ve ever known. Walking through his last days made me think a lot about how we deal (or don’t deal) with death in this country, and how broken our medical system really is.

And because I still can’t keep my mouth shut about...


87. Sight Words, Disney Lies, and Why It All Matters
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07/25/2025

It’s just me this week, and I’m covering a lot from Mac learning how to read (spoiler: we’re sticking with phonics) to why I think Disney is feeding our kids more harmful messages than magical ones. I talk about the challenges of finding safe, meaningful content for my kids, especially on YouTube, and why I’m so cautious about what’s getting into their minds.

I also open up about a scene from the show Ginny & Georgia that really shook me because it made abortion look easy, casual, and consequence-free. As a mom who once consi...


86. Grit, Guitars, and Getting Real: A Life Lived Loud with Michael ā€œCheezā€ Brown
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07/03/2025

Michael ā€œCheezā€ Brown has lived a life most of us couldn’t imagine—growing up between chaos and comfort, chasing punk rock dreams in California, and managing some of the biggest names in music. In this episode, we talk about his rise from a turbulent childhood to a career shaped by grit, intuition, and raw honesty—and how he’s stayed grounded through it all.

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85. Motherhood Unfiltered
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06/20/2025

Y'all better buckle up because this episode is a rollercoaster... We’re covering it all, from shattered dishes before the first day of swim team, to overpriced Mickey waffles, and my very strong opinions on Disney World (spoiler alert: we won't be going back).

I’m recapping our first ever trip to Disney, why it was chaos from start to finish, and how it confirmed I’m just not a ā€œDisney mom.ā€ I also share some real talk on letting our kids try hard things, even when it makes a mess, and my conflicted feelings about how schools te...


84. Questioning the System, Vaccine Decisions, and Why Moms Deserve Better Conversations
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06/12/2025

Here’s the thing—just because someone’s wearing a white coat doesn’t mean they have all the answers. In Part 2, Jill and I pick up where we left off and dive straight into the deep end. We talk about the pushy vaccine talk, why tongue tie revisions might be a total scam (yep, I said it), and how even the ā€œcrunchyā€ holistic world can be just as profit-driven as Big Pharma. We also get into COVID, fear tactics, and how moms are expected to make huge decisions with zero real support—while also keeping their kids alive and maybe brus...


83. The First Year of Motherhood, Tongue Ties, and Learning to Trust Yourself
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06/05/2025

Let’s be real—the first year of motherhood is basically a blur of leaking boobs, zero sleep, and wondering if you’ve totally lost yourself. In Part 1 of my convo with Jill Wright (a fellow mom and chiropractor I met on Instagram, because social media does occasionally do something right), we get into all of it. We talk about why that first year feels like you got hit by a hormonal freight train, how Jill’s background in holistic health influenced the choices she made as a mom, and why planning your nursery is cute—but maybe researching vaccines a...


82. Working Moms vs SAHM
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05/29/2025

Welcome back y'all. This solo episode of Being Different is going to be about problems AND solutions. I've been thinking about the differences between stay at home moms versus working moms. And I'm going to share my ideas for a new outdoor play program at my son's school.

Look, I've been on both sides of the situation. I have worked 60-70 hour weeks, closing high pressure deals and now I'm a stay at home mom with three kids. I don't like that people make that distinction because being a stay at home mom, in my opinion, is...


81. Dissolving Illusions: Polio, Propaganda, and the Problem with Modern Medicine with Roman Bystrianyk, Part 2
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05/15/2025

In this episode, I’m back with Roman Bystrianyk, co-author of Dissolving Illusions, and y’all—we go deep. We break down the story behind polio, and spoiler alert: it’s not what we were taught. From DDT and lead arsenate to the shifting definitions of polio cases post-vaccine rollout, Roman shows how much of what we ā€œknowā€ has been shaped by fear, not facts. We talk about how public health declined when we started relying on meds instead of nutrition, and how the obsession with vaccination overshadowed basic immune system support like sunlight, vitamin C, and, I don’t know—eating...


80. Dissolving Illusions: The Industrial Revolution and the Vaccine Myth with Roman Bystrianyk, Part 1
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05/08/2025

Today’s episode is a real eye-opener. I’m sitting down with Roman Bystrianyk, co-author of Dissolving Illusions, and we’re diving into some seriously uncomfortable truths about the Industrial Revolution. We’ve all heard about how vaccines saved the day, right? Well, Roman’s here to flip that narrative. We talk about the grim reality of life back then—think poor sanitation, awful working conditions, and unhealthy living.

Roman breaks it down: it wasn’t vaccines that dropped those mortality rates, it was public health improvements, like better living conditions, cleaner water, and, yep, hygiene. We also unpack th...


79. Shedding Light on Health: Understanding Circadian Rhythms with Meredith Oke
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04/17/2025

Y'all, buckle up because this episode is WILD! I sat down with Meredith Oke and learned more about light in one hour than I have in my entire life. We're talking about how those stupid blue lights and screens are basically destroying our health, why sunglasses might be the enemy, and how something as simple as morning sunlight can totally transform your body. If you're tired of feeling like garbage and popping supplements like candy, this episode is gonna blow your mind. Trust me, I went from thinking this was gonna be another nerdy health talk to being completely...


78. Beyond Good Manners: Raising Kids to be Ready for Real Life
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04/10/2025

Today I’m unpacking what it really means to set ā€˜stretch goals’ for myself and my kids—beyond just keeping them from turning into little jerks. Inspired by a recent convo, I’m reflecting on how we can prepare our children to be like Joshua—ready to take on God’s plan, no matter where it points.

From dealing with daily messes without losing our cool to thinking big about their futures, I’m exploring how embracing flexibility and readiness for change is crucial. This episode is all about pushing boundaries and preparing our kids to not only face the wo...


77. Redefining Success: John Brock on Hustle, Family & Taking Risks
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03/27/2025

This week, I’m sitting down with John Brock—my husband Luke’s boss and business partner—who also happens to be one of the most unexpected, unconventional lawyers you’ll ever meet.

John didn’t take the typical path to success. As a kid, he struggled in school, barely knew how to read in elementary, and had to fight for every win. Now? He’s running one of the most forward-thinking law firms in Knoxville. We talk about what it took to get here, the hustle (he’s a 4 a.m. workout guy, y’all), and how he and his wif...


76. Why Modern Parenting is a Mess
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03/13/2025

Moms, I don’t know about y’all, but I am over it—the busy-for-the-sake-of-being-busy nonsense, the never-ending school events that do nothing but stress parents out, and the homework that somehow becomes my responsibility. Who decided we needed a themed snack day every other week? And don’t get me started on the over-scheduling—kids don’t need another enrichment class, they need to go play in the dirt.

This week, I’m breaking down why less is more when it comes to motherhood and why I refuse to let society guilt me into running myself ragged. We’re...


75. Raising Kids Against the Grain
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02/20/2025

I'm in a mood, y'all. Today, I'm talking about why I believe society’s got it all wrong when it comes to raising our kids and making life choices. I’m laying it all out—no filter, no apologies. So if you're feeling easily offended, go ahead and skip to the next episode.Ā 

From the myths of birth control and the push towards late marriages, I'm over it. I'd rather have real conversations about the benefits of homeschooling and the magic of breastfeeding. I talk about why I think early marriage can be a game changer and why it’...


74. A Story of Hope, Not Suffering: Emily Smith's Inspiring Cancer Journey
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02/13/2025

Today's conversation is deeply personal, and deeply important. I sit down with my dear friend Emily Smith to discuss her incredible journey with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer. Just months after her shocking diagnosis, Emily's cancer had already spread to her brain - a rare and aggressive progression that left her doctors uncertain of the path forward. But today, we talk about the courage and grace Emily carried in the midst of her fight. It will leave you in awe and eager to embrace each day with renewed purpose.


Through it all, Emily has maintained an unwavering...


73. Living the Dream: How Matt Kaye Went from Business Mogul to Family Man and Early Retirement
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02/06/2025

To me, Matt Kaye is a true embodiment of the American dream. From his humble beginnings in Oak Ridge, Tennessee, to creating a booming $300 million business that cleaned up old explosives from military sites, Matt’s story is iconic. Now, retired at 49 and diving into the restaurant world with Cazzy’s, he’s living life on his terms. We’re gonna dig into how he made it big, the challenges along the way, and what it’s like stepping away from the corporate grind to spend more time with his beautiful family and his latest passion project.Ā 

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72. New Year, Same Chickens, More SAHM Lessons
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01/30/2025

Ever feel invisible while doing the hardest job in the world? Yeah, me too. Today I’m talking about losing it over the lack of ā€˜thanks’ I get and why we need to smash the perfect mom faƧade. You'll hear about my first big trip away from the kids and how we handled it at home—after we saved a chicken in the freezing cold, of course.

This year, it’s all aboutĀ  ditching impossible standards and actually enjoying the experience. Forget perfection—let’s get real about making sure our identity stretches beyond just being a mom and settin...


71. Hustling in Heels: Part 2 of Dena and Sofi SanMiguel's Journey with Ivory Beau Boutique
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01/16/2025

This week, I am yet again totally inspired by the confidence and creativity of 17 year old entrepreneur, Sofi SanMiguel. With the support of her mother Dena, Sofi launched her own business, Ivory Beau Boutique while tackling life as a high school student. We talk about the flexibility and freedom that comes with running your own business, as well as the challenges of time management and self-promotion.Ā 

Plus, Sofi and Dena share what it takes to run a business, including details like selecting inventory, navigating the financial side, and building relationships with customers. You'll get a glimpse into t...