Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda (VIDEO)

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By: Nate Hilgenkamp, Kathy Davidson, and Jonathan Pokluda

We’re all becoming something. What are you becoming? It's our goal for you to intentionally become the person God has called you to be. We'll release an episode each week with answers to real questions that college students and young adults are asking us. Listen in as Jonathan Pokluda, Nate Hilgenkamp, and Kathy Davidson help you navigate life in your 20's and 30's!

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Episode 396: Alcohol, Cigarettes & THC: Is It a Sin?
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Today at 10:00 AM

In this episode a listener calls in asking about the difference between drinking alcohol, smoking cigarettes, and smoking weed as a Christian — and JP, Kathy, and Nate don’t hold back. They dig into what the Bible actually says, the difference between legalism and liberty, and why “become holy as he is holy” is the only rule that really matters. This one will make you think!


Episode 395: NFL Dreams, Brain Tumors & the God Who Shows Up | feat. Gregg Tipton
Episode 395: NFL Dreams, Brain Tumors & the God Who Shows Up | feat. Gregg Tipton episode artwork
10/26/2026

This week we sit down with Gregg Tipton — former NFL quarterback turned college campus minister — to talk about what it looks like to chase greatness for something bigger than yourself. Gregg shares how losing his starting job, getting cut from the Cardinals, and later walking through his wife’s terminal cancer all became the moments God used most. If you’ve ever wondered whether the hard chapters of your story are being wasted, this one is for you!


Episode 395: NFL Dreams, Brain Tumors & the God Who Shows Up | feat. Gregg Tipton
Episode 395: NFL Dreams, Brain Tumors & the God Who Shows Up | feat. Gregg Tipton episode artwork
10/26/2026

This week we sit down with Gregg Tipton — former NFL quarterback turned college campus minister — to talk about what it looks like to chase greatness for something bigger than yourself. Gregg shares how losing his starting job, getting cut from the Cardinals, and later walking through his wife’s terminal cancer all became the moments God used most. If you’ve ever wondered whether the hard chapters of your story are being wasted, this one is for you!


Episode 394: Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?
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10/19/2026

In this episode a listener calls in asking how to navigate Halloween as a Christian — and JP, Kathy, and Nate have a lot to say about it. They talk about the origins of the holiday, where to draw the line, horror movies, costumes, and why JP thinks turning your lights off on October 31st might be missing the biggest evangelism opportunity of the year. This one’s timely — share it with a friend before the 31st!


Episode 393: Leaving the LDS Church | feat. Kighley Medrano
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10/12/2026

This week we sit down with Kyleigh, who grew up devout Mormon in East Texas and spent years believing she had to earn her way to heaven and the moment everything changed for her and she gave her life to Christ. It was an eye-opening and insightful conversation that we think will be very helpful to you as you engage with people from the LDS church.


Episode 392: God Tests, Satan Tempts. What's the Difference?
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10/05/2026

In this episode, a listener calls in with a question a lot of Christians wrestle with — what's the difference between God testing us and Satan tempting us, and how do you tell them apart? JP, Kathy, and Nate dive deep into spiritual warfare, demonic oppression vs. possession, whether demons can influence your dreams, and why JP spent a lot of his life blaming God for Satan's work. This one is packed — don't miss it!


Episode 391: Surviving the First Year of Parenthood
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09/28/2026

You have been asking for it, here it is! In this episode JP, Kathy, and Nate answer a listener's question about navigating the chaos of new parenthood — and they have a lot to say! They talk about trusting God with your kids, consistent discipline, keeping your family in church even when it's hard, and why every interruption is actually an invitation. If you're a new parent, expecting, or just trying to figure out how to raise kids who love Jesus, this one's for you!


Episode 390: Don't Let That Hold You Back | feat. Annie F. Downs
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09/21/2026

This week we sit down with author and podcaster Annie F. Downs to talk about her new book, Don't Let That Hold You Back, stepping into the dreams God has placed in your heart, and why the enemy works overtime to keep you from them. Annie opens up about her engagement, choosing not to have kids, and what it means to finish your name well. Pick up her new book wherever books are sold — you're going to love it! https://a.co/d/06ofEkVN


Episode 389: Pretending God Is Real — Until He Wasn't | feat. Brian Guan
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09/14/2026

This week we sit down with Brian Guan, a content creator from New York City who went viral for going around pretending to be a Christian — and ended up actually becoming one. Just 12 days into his faith, Brian joins us live to talk about what happened when an experiment became real, the convictions he's already wrestling with, and what it looks like to follow Jesus when you're starting from scratch. This one is refreshing, honest, and a whole lot of fun!


Episode 388: Are You Actually a Christian? | feat. Granger Smith
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09/07/2026

This week we sit down with country music artist turned pastor and author Granger Smith to talk about his new book Poison the Well — and the question he asks almost every single day: are you actually a Christian, or have you just checked the box? Granger shares how his own faith unraveled and was rebuilt from the ground up, why he's passionate about sharing the gospel with Christians, and what it really means to follow Jesus beyond an altar call. Pick up Poison the Well wherever books are sold! https://a.co/d/0hQWM5I7


Episode 387: How to Make the Most of Your Singleness
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08/31/2026

In this episode, a listener calls in with a question a lot of single Christians are quietly asking — am I supposed to be spending this season preparing for marriage, or is that missing the point entirely? JP, Kathy, and Nate unpack what it actually looks like to embrace singleness as a daughter of God rather than just a waiting room for a relationship. If you're single and trying to figure out what this season is for, this one's for you!


Episode 385: What's Next?
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08/17/2026

In this episode JP, Kathy, and Nate get honest about where the next generation is headed and what the church needs to do about it. They dig into phone addiction, the hunger for real community, and why revival might already be happening right in front of us. Don't miss this one!


Episode 384: Reckless Love, Church Hurt & Outsinging the Angels | feat. Cory Asbury
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08/10/2026

This week we sit down with worship artist Cory Asbury — live from the tour bus — to talk about his journey through church hurt, online criticism, and what it looks like to come out the other side still singing. Cory opens up about the story behind "Reckless Love," his new song Prodigal God, and why he's done being cautious with his faith. If you've ever felt beaten up by the church or beaten down by the noise of social media, this episode is for you!


Episode 383: Selling Out Arenas & Staying Surrendered | feat. Forrest Frank
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08/03/2026

This week we sit down with Christian artist Forrest Frank — live from the tour bus — to talk about what it looks like to steward massive success while keeping your heart fully surrendered to God. Forrest opens up about eight years of grinding before his breakthrough, how he stopped sneaking Jesus into his music and started giving him every breath, and why the surrendered life is available to everyone — not just the people in the arena. This one will leave you fired up!


Episode 382: Nike, Kobe & Pointing Your Life Toward What Matters | feat. John Olinger
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07/27/2026

This week we sit down with John Olinger — former global brand director for Kobe Bryant at Nike and author of Worthy Wins — to talk about what it looks like to point your life toward what actually matters most. John opens up about losing both parents, a season of unexpected career upheaval, and how God used every chapter of his story to prepare him for something he never saw coming. If you've ever wondered whether your past experiences are being wasted, this episode is for you!


Episode 381: The Happiness Crisis: Why Hard Things Lead to Joy | feat. Jon Eckert
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07/20/2026

This week we sit down with author and educator Jon Eckert to talk about his new book The Happiness Crisis and why the pursuit of happiness is actually keeping people from finding it. Jon breaks down how adversity, belonging, and curiosity are the real building blocks of a joyful life — and why Gen Z may be the generation that finally gets it right. Send this one to every parent, teacher, and young adult in your life, and grab a copy of The Happiness Crisis wherever books are sold! https://a.co/d/08kTjIow



Episode 380: Who Are You Becoming in College? | feat. Josh Rutledge
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07/13/2026

In this episode we sit down with Josh Rutledge from Liberty University to talk about what spiritual formation actually looks like in the college years — and why the decisions you make at 19 can shape who you are for decades. JP opens up about his own first nine days of college and the fork in the road that followed, and Josh shares why this generation of students may be more spiritually hungry than any before them. If you're in college, heading there, or wish you could go back and do it differently, this one's for you!


Episode 379: Faith, Fear & Fighting for Your Family | feat. Christian Huff
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07/06/2026

This week JP, Nate and Kathy sit down with Christian Huff, husband of Sadie Robertson, to talk about what it really looks like to lead your family through fear, anger, and hard seasons. Christian opens up about a terrifying medical scare with his daughter, wrestling with anger toward God, and what it means to step into spiritual strength as a husband and father. If you've ever found yourself blaming God for the enemy's work, this one is for you!


Episode 378: Tough Enough: Calling Men Higher | feat. Trey Tucker
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06/29/2026

This week JP and Kathy sit down with therapist and author Trey Tucker to talk about the two traps most young men fall into — chasing achievement to outrun insecurity, or staying passive to avoid failing at all. Trey shares wisdom from his book Tough Enough on building a "team," getting comfortable with silence, and using what God gave you for others instead of yourself. He also tells the wild, true story of going undercover overseas to help rescue women from sex trafficking. Pick up Tough Enough and pass this one along to the men in your life who need to hea...


Episode 377: Priorities, Big Rocks & Beating Busyness | Live at Beso Live
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06/22/2026

As an extension of JP's Friday Q&A, he answers live audience questions from Beso Live! Topics include prioritizing the big rocks of life, why your phone is the biggest threat to intimacy with God, learning to say no, and what it actually takes to live a life leveraged for the kingdom.


Episode 376: Modesty, Dating Standards & Motive | Live at Beso Live
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06/15/2026

As an extension of JP's Friday Q&A, he answers live audience questions from Beso Live! Topics include modesty and what the Bible actually says about it, how culture shapes our standards, dating with discernment, and why God cares more about why you wear what you wear than what you wear.


Episode 375: Q&A with JP Part 2 | Live at Beso Live
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06/08/2026

We are back for Part 2 of the Q&A with JP as he answers live audience questions from Beso Live! Topics include storing up treasures in heaven, the purpose of prayer, grief and loss, discipleship, insecurity, legalism, and how to know if you're truly saved.


Episode 374: Finding Hope in Suffering | feat. Kirby Kelly
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06/01/2026

In this episode we talk to author Kirby Kelly about her new book The Fabric of Hope. Life is full of seasons that leave us asking "why God?" — but what if those same seasons are exactly how He builds our faith? We talk with Kirby about how God weaves redemption into suffering and why bringing Him your honest pain is the key to finding real hope!


Episode 373: Q&A with JP Part 1 | Live at Beso Live
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05/25/2026

As an extension of JP’s Friday Q&A, he answers live audience questions from Becoming Something Live! Topics include feeling like you’re not doing enough for God, the Holy Spirit, dating and marriage, eschatology, spiritual success, Israel, and self-defense.


Episode 372: Guarding Your Heart | Live at Beso Live
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05/18/2026

As we continue our BESO Live series, we start by answering a question about hearing God’s voice through dreams and how to discern what’s from Him. Then we dive into a conversation about staying pure and faithful through every stage of relationships—dating, waiting, and marriage.


Episode 371: How to hear God’s voice | Live at Beso Live
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05/11/2026

In our first episode from BeSo Live, we answer the question that our attendees most wanted answered. They asked, “How do you hear God’s voice from your own thoughts?” If you want to grow in your understanding of God’s voice, this episode is for you!


Episode 370: Blessed are the Spiraling (feat. Levi Lusko)
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05/04/2026

In this episode we get to talk to pastor and author, Levi Lusko, about his new book “Blessed are the Spiraling”. He shares with us about how God used a uniquely difficult season in his life. Many times God does His best work in the hardest times!


Episode 369: Becoming Like Jesus (feat. Matt Chandler)
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04/27/2026

In this episode we talk to pastor and author, Matt Chandler, about his new book "Becoming Like Jesus". The path to holiness is oftentimes not a straight line. We talk with Matt about how God uses the ups and downs of life to shape us into the likeness of His Son!


Episode 368: You Are Not Your Job Title
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04/20/2026

While our jobs are important, they are not our identity. How do we balance a desire to succeed in our job, without being obsessed with our job? We do our best to help you develop a healthy work ethic in this episode!


Episode 367: Eyeing the Impossible (feat. Shannon Bream)
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04/13/2026

Fox News host and author, Shanon Bream, has just released a new book called “Nothing is Impossible with God”. She shares about how the stories in the Bible help give us faith today. Shanon even shares her own stories of God doing the impossible!


Episode 366: Revival in Iran (feat. David Nasser)
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04/06/2026

David Nasser is a leader in the American church, but he was born in Iran. He gives us an inside look into where Iran has been, where it is now, and where he hopes it goes in the future. You’re going to be moved by this episode!


Episode 365: Modeling Faithfulness (feat. former top model Jon Passavant)
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03/30/2026

In this episode we talk to former top model, Jon Passavant, about how to navigate faithfulness in a difficult workplace. When you’re surrounded by people not following Jesus, how do you keep your standards? You won’t want to miss his stories!


Episode 364: The Lie You Don’t Know You Believe (feat. Jennie Allen)
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03/23/2026

In this episode we get to speak with best selling author and speaker, Jennie Allen. Her new book “The Lie You Don’t Know You Believe” will help you identify where the enemy has deceived you. Satan has been a liar from the beginning, don’t let his voice win in your life!


Episode 363: Gender Roles in the Church (feat. Preston Sprinkle)
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03/16/2026

In this episode we talk to author, Preston Sprinkle, about his new book “From Genesis to Junia”. Across denominations, there are varying perspectives on what the Bible says about gender roles. Through years of study, Preston gives us insight into what his perspective has become!


Episode 362: How to handle the news (feat. Jason Woodruff)
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03/09/2026

In this episode we talk to Jason Woodruff, founder and editor in chief of The Pour Over, about how to handle the news. Some of us probably consume too much news, while others too little. How do we live informed, but not always outraged. This is an important episode for everyone!


Episode 361: Can I be Friends with my Ex?
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03/02/2026

Break-ups are hard! In this episode we talk about how to handle all of the next steps. Should you reach out to your ex, or ignore them? All of that and more on this episode!


Episode 360: Heal Your Hurting Mind (feat. Craig Groeschel)
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02/23/2026

We talk with pastor and author, Craig Groeschel, about his own journey to get a healthy mind. Craig experienced work burnout, but found some ways to heal his hurting mind. His insights will help you no matter what season you’re in!


Episode 359: The Way We Date Isn’t Working
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02/16/2026

In this episode we talk through the major issues young adults have in dating. Are our standards too high? Not high enough? We talk through why things aren’t working and how to fix it!


Episode 358: Preparing for Marriage (feat. Christian Bevere)
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02/09/2026

In this episode we get to talk to author, Christian Bevere, about how to wait well for marriage. In your singleness, how can you pray for your spouse while also being content in your current season? 


Episode 357: How to Be Yourself
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02/02/2026

Many of us are so prone to changing who we are based on who we’re around. In this episode we talk about how we can stop pretending, and to be who God created us to be!