We are two 40ish "Queer" women who have been friends for 20 years. We have similar yet very different lifestyles and opinions! Deanna is a mother to 3 kids and a wife to Dina, to whom she has been married for 10 years. Jenn is an adoptive mother of one boy and newly married to her wife Chrissy. We will be answering questions about life and discussing everything we feel relevant to the "queer" world we are navigating.
Season finale! Special guest appearance by Dina! Deanna & Dina talk about their pride activists and we discuss next season! Give it a listen…
What is going on in our country these days…Listen to our discussion and where is Deanna going?!
18 - What does “community” mean to you?
Deanna and Jenn discuss our absence and the meaning of community - especially for the LGBTQ+ community.
17 - What is even happening?
Little update on our absence the last couple weeks, but good news is we are back!!! We talk about current events in the queer world, and oof...these ones are hard to digest. Jenn just keeps saying, "I just do not know". Also, GLAAD awards chit chat - good time on episode 17
16 - What pisses you off?
Jenn has some things that just really pissed her off this week...Deanna and Jenn discuss how being queer makes it even more of a challenge. Happy St. Patrick's Day!
15 - What advice do you have for your younger self about parenting?
Jenn and Deanna talk about the challenges of parenting and discuss what they would tell themselves (Now) before they had children
14 - What is your love language?
Deanna and Jenn discuss the topic of love languages. Do they differ in a queer relationship or even with platonic relationships?
13 - Where do you find normalcy?
Why is everything queer "Unhinged"?
12 - The Grammys & Queer talk
Did you watch the Grammys? We did...
What about Fletcher's after party photos?!? "She flame emoji wow"!
And Benifer? We talk through it all using a new recording platform!!!
11 - What is your self care?
Does Queer self care differ from "normal" self care? Yeah, we don't know either, but listen and tell us what you think!
10 - Technical Difficulties (haha)
Jenn & Deanna had an opportunity to record together...
overview of the direction we are looking to go in and who we want to reach....and a collective understanding for who paved the way for us (ahem, Rosie)
enjoy and yes, we are aware of the quality of our connection (its a learning curve)
9- Are you a Gold Star?
Deanna educates Jenn...are gold star lesbians virgins?
8 - "Your mom is a LESBIAN"
Jenn and Deanna talk about the word "lesbian"
7 - "It's me, hi...I'm the problem, it's me."
Jenn has a raw and honest moment with Deanna...an epiphany if you will...
we chat about TikTok and much more...
6 - Can we be friends?
Jenn & Deanna discuss platonic friendship, Fletcher and more...
This is just the beginning of what's to come...
Who got the better version of you?
Are you the “cool gay aunt”?
Navigating the holidays as queer
Now, that you are getting acquainted with us...
We are tackling sexuality today and how it differs from how we grew up.
We talk about struggles we see and face with our kids. We both have kids who do not have fathers in their lives...
And another awesome chat about life.
We branded ourselves as "open & honest" because that is what you are listening to. We take a lot of detours but, we want everyone to feel as if they are a part of our conversations. We understand. Both Deanna and I have a lot we can connect with you on...and just because we are queer- should not by why you are here!
Hello! So, here we are 2 years in the making and we are launching epidsode one. This will give you kind of an insight as to how we will flow and what we will talk about! We are working out the technical kinks and excited to have you following our journey! We have a 20+ year history of being best friends- and now we are inviting you into it.
Queer Vice -Pilot
Get to know us!
Do you know those difficult things that you want to ask questions about? Well, we are two women in our early 40's that want to connect with you. We are both living "queer" lifestyles and we want to share it with you!