The Queer Ritual Podcast

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By: Riki B Malone

This is the Queer Ritual Podcast, a place for healing; whether that is physical healing, psychological healing, spiritual healing, or societal healing. Part self-help, part spirituality, 100% healing!Reiki Master Riki B Malone (he/they) shares their unique perspectives as a queer Asian American to offer insights that can lead to healing one's self and healing society. All are welcome here, regardless of faith, religion, spiritual or ethnic background, sexual orientation or gender identity. New episodes every Monday with bonus episodes on select Fridays!

Why is there no "Straight Pride"?
#31
06/19/2023

I'm sure many of us in the LGBTQ community have been asked this one. Why is there no STRAIGHT Pride?

I will always answer that pride is a response to shame. So people who have been taught to be ashamed of who they are inside (whether that is sexual orientation, gender identity, etc) are who the Pride movement is for. That isn't to say that people who are in the white Christian majority cannot be proud of who they are, but they haven't been taught to feel shame over who they are.

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On being neurodivergent and queer
#30
06/12/2023

Happy Pride Month!

In this episode, I reflect on my experiences of being "different" growing up as queer and neurodivergent (ADHD-PI), including how that difference affected me even after coming out. I conclude the episode with how I have used that difference to foster a new sense of community.

I didn't have an outline for this episode, so I know my thoughts wander quite a bit with this one. I appreciate each and every one of my listeners!

New episodes post Monday and Friday!

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Top 5 Perks of being in a same-sex relationship
#29
06/09/2023

Happy Pride Month! I know the rhetoric has gotten very negative this year for Pride, so today I want to counterbalance the negative with the positive. This episode contains my top 5 perks of being in a same-sex relationship. Rick and I have been together almost twelve years now, and this month will also be our 5 year wedding anniversary!

New episodes post Monday and Friday!

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Podcast IG: www.instagram.com/tqrpodcast
Personal IG: www.instagram.com/rikidementia

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The spiritual life of Tina Turner (RIP)
#28
06/05/2023

Due to her recent passing, I want to take some time to honor the musical AND spiritual icon, Tina Turner. I explain her encounters with both Christianity and Buddhism, her personal chanting practice (Nam myoho renge kyo), and her efforts to promote peace and unity among all the world's religions.

Mentioned in this episode:
Beyond (2009)
Available on Spotify, Apple Music, and YouTube

Children Beyond (2009)
Also available on same platforms

Tina (2020)
HBO documentary on her life's story

Happiness Becomes You (2020)
Her final book

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The dark side of filial piety
#27
05/29/2023

Continuing the theme of healing for Asian Diaspora content during Asian Pacific American Heritage Month, today's episode is on the dark side of filial piety.

What is filial piety? Where does the concept come from? Is it a good thing? Is it a bad thing? All will be discussed in this episode.

I am so proud of my fellow second generation Asian Americans who have decided to speak up on issues of mental health in the Asian American community. One thing our cultures share is the importance of family, but devotion to one's family should...


On Microaggressions: Death by a thousand mosquito bites
#26
05/26/2023

Continuing my Asian Pacific American Heritage Month content, today I'm talking about microaggressions. What are they? Why do they hurt? How do we heal from them?

This episode also introduces the concept of radical acceptance.

New episodes post Monday and Friday!

Listener questions and business inquiries: tqrpodcast@gmail.com
Podcast IG: www.instagram.com/tqrpodcast
Personal IG: www.instagram.com/rikidementia

Thank you for listening!


Repost: Asian American Impostor Syndrome
#25
05/22/2023

Continuing with the theme of Asian Pacific American Heritage Month (APIA Heritage Month), I am reposting a previous episode on Asian American Impostor Syndrome. Enjoy!

New episodes post Monday and Friday!

Listener questions and business inquiries: tqrpodcast@gmail.com
Podcast IG: www.instagram.com/tqrpodcast
Personal IG: www.instagram.com/rikidementia

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Ep 24 Cultural Appropriation in the Spiritual Space
#24
05/19/2023

Is it okay for a white person to practice Eastern or indigenous spirituality? (Short answer: yes, BUT with more work!)
When does it count as cultural appropriation?

This is a complicated topic, and by no means is this episode of the podcast all you need to know. I don't claim to be an expert here, but I would love to hear some thoughts from my listeners on this subject!

New episodes post Monday and Friday!

Listener questions and business inquiries: tqrpodcast@gmail.com
Podcast IG: www.instagram.com/tqrpodcast
Personal...


Lao? Laos? Laotian? What's the difference?
05/19/2023

New episodes post Monday and Friday!

Listener questions and business inquiries: tqrpodcast@gmail.com
Podcast IG: www.instagram.com/tqrpodcast
Personal IG: www.instagram.com/rikidementia

Thank you for listening!


Ep 23 Asian Pacific American Heritage Month and the Perpetual Foreigner Experience
#23
05/15/2023

It's Asian Pacific American Heritage Month! Also known as APIA Heritage Month.

After a month long break from producing this podcast, this episode represents the first "pivot" in this content toward healing: whether that is psychological healing, spiritual healing, or societal healing.

In this episode, I'm focusing on the "perpetual foreigner experience" that is so common with Asian Americans, both here in the United States and when visiting countries abroad in Asia. And I make the connection between the LGBTQ experience and the Asian American experience when it comes to forging a personal identity that...