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What if the secret to mind-blowing sex has less to do with what you do with your penis and more to do with how you touch, kiss, and connect with your partner? In this educational solo episode, I'm diving into the science of sexual touch, kissing, and erogenous zones to help you discover new ways of giving and receiving pleasure. I'll walk you through five different types of touch, from feather-light strokes and firm pressure to...

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Why can a seemingly small moment with someone you love suddenly bring up overwhelming shame, anxiety, anger, or fear? In this personal solo episode, I explore why romantic relationships can activate some of our deepest wounds and how our triggers can become doorways into unresolved trauma. I share a vulnerable experience from my own relationship that triggered a freeze response around sex, shame, and performance, and how I recognized what was happening and brought myself b...

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For gay men who dream of becoming dads, adoption can feel like a maze of options, costs, legal requirements, and ethical questions. In this episode, I sit down with Amos Wolff to create a practical guide to adoption for gay men. We explore domestic and international adoption, foster-to-adopt, open versus closed adoption, realistic costs, discrimination gay couples may encounter, and what happens when an international adoption initially recognizes only one father as the legal parent. <...

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Season five kicks off with a bang as I take you inside my wildest summer yet, spanning London, Barcelona, and New York City. From sex parties and dark rooms to cruising parks, hostel shower hookups, and unexpected group encounters, I’m sharing the highs, the awkward moments, and everything I learned from pushing my sexual boundaries. Along the way, I also reflect on how understanding my neurodivergence has helped me make more sense of overstimulati...

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In this episode, I sit down with Alessandro Rōz to explore masculinity, queerness, brotherhood, and what becomes possible when men learn how to connect beyond performance, fear, and social conditioning. We talk about Alessandro’s journey through the world of men's work, the challenges queer men face in predominantly straight male spaces, and how many of us learn to shape-shift and mask parts of ourselves in order to feel safe and accepted. Together, we...

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I recently had one of the most unexpectedly wholesome experiences of my life: after hooking up with a guy in a gay sauna, we ended up standing in the shower singing musical theatre songs together. The experience left me questioning many of the assumptions I’d carried about saunas, bathhouses, and queer sexual spaces. Why did I feel so much shame walking into a sauna in the first place? Where did that shame come from? And w...

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In this intimate and intellectually rich episode, I sit down with writer Jeremy Atherton Lin to explore the themes of his book Deep House — a powerful blend of queer love story, cultural history, immigration, and political resistance. We talk about what it means to build a relationship across borders, how laws and systems shape queer intimacy, and why the real issue for many queer couples was never simply marriage equality, but the right to belong togeth...

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In this episode, I sit down with Nick Wolny to explore the connection between queer identity, money mindset, and building a life that actually feels aligned. We talk about shifting from “doing what we love” to “doing who we are,” and how that mindset can completely transform the way we approach career, success, and financial freedom. Nick explains why queer people are often uniquely equipped to redefine success outside traditional life scripts — and how that can become a powerful...

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In this episode, I sit down with dentist Dr Brian Novy to talk about something we all do but rarely think about properly — oral hygiene and oral sex. We break down the most common causes of bad breath, when you should actually brush your teeth before or after oral sex, and what’s really happening inside your mouth during a blowjob. This conversation blends science, health, and real-life practicality in a way that will completely change how...

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In this episode, I sit down with therapist Wayne Scott to unpack what it really means to open up a relationship. We go beyond the surface-level idea of “spicing things up” and explore the deeper reasons couples consider consensual non-monogamy — from mismatched desire and evolving needs to breaking free from religious conditioning and reclaiming autonomy. We also talk about the reality that non-monogamy isn’t one fixed model but a spectrum of possibilities, and how coupl...

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In this raw and thought-provoking solo episode, I unpack a sexual experience that forced me to confront a deeper truth about dominance, consent, and connection. What started as a hookup quickly revealed a pattern many of us have encountered but rarely name — the difference between someone embodying dominance and someone simply performing it. I share what happened, how my body responded before my mind could catch up, and why the real win was not abandoning mysel...

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In this open and unfiltered episode, I sit down with a straight friend to talk about a topic many men are curious about but rarely discuss publicly: anal pleasure. We explore the realities of anal play from a straight man’s perspective, including curiosity around rimming, prostate stimulation, and the male G-spot. Together, we unpack the stigma many straight men feel around exploring their bodies and how cultural expectations around masculinity often shut down conversations...

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In this candid and hilarious episode, I sit down with my straight friend Tony Demetriou to compare sex notes from a straight and a gay perspective. We talk about the first time we discovered masturbation as teenagers, whether guys actually talk about sex with their male friends, and how our sexual attitudes were shaped by masculinity, shame, and social expectations. What starts as a fun comparison quickly turns into a deeper conversation about vulnerability...

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In this deeply personal solo episode, I share how therapy helped me see how much of my life has revolved around my relationship with sex, control, and fear. I talk openly about being a side, fearing bottoming, stepping into my Top era, and realizing how past sexual trauma shaped my ability to receive pleasure. This episode is about what happens when you finally feel safe enough to let go of performance, shame, and control — and st...

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In this episode, I’m joined by Rich Savin, author of Mostly Straight, to explore a growing and often misunderstood group of men whose sexuality doesn’t fit neatly into gay straight or bisexual labels. We talk about what “mostly straight” actually means, how men who identify this way describe their attractions, and what distinguishes this identity from bisexuality or homosexuality. Rich shares insights into why there are now more mostly straight young men than gay and bisex...

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In this deeply compassionate episode, I sit down with therapist Ann Russo to explore how shame, rejection, and religious conditioning shape the mental health of queer people. Drawing from her work with LGBTQ+ clients, we unpack why rejection sits at the root of so many struggles — from anxiety and depression to loneliness, self-doubt, and identity confusion. We also talk...

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In this deeply personal solo episode, I reflect on how my entire life has been shaped by my relationship with sex and sexuality — and how therapy has helped me finally see the bigger picture. I talk openly about growing up gay, the confusion and shame I carried as a teenager, the years of forcing myself into sex in my twenties...

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In this episode, we explore what sexual fluidity really means and why so many people feel unseen by rigid labels and binary ways of thinking. Mark Cusack joins me to unpack how fluidity shows up in attraction, identity, and lived experience, and to challenge common misconceptions about what it means to be fluid. We talk about why pressure to...

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In this insightful episode, Janet W Hardy joins me to explore the world of BDSM topping through the wisdom of The New Topping Book. We dive into what it really means to take the lead in a scene — from the mindset shifts that help new tops build confidence, to the balance of power and care that makes BDSM both safe and deeply pleasurable. Janet shares practical tools for communicating clearly without killing the mood, navigating n...

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In this eye-opening episode, Janet W Hardy joins me to explore what it truly means to be a bottom in BDSM. We dive into the roles, motivations, and emotional nuances behind bottoming, along with the communication skills that make scenes safer and more satisfying. Janet shares practical guidance on how bottoms can express what they want, set clear limits, choose supportive safewords, and prepare for scenes with confidence and clarity. 

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In this candid and educational episode, we unpack the facts and myths around sexual health, HIV prevention, and STI testing. Christos Krasidis joins me for a practical, stigma-free conversation about what it really means to take care of your sexual health in today’s world. We explore how to spot early STI symptoms, when and how often to get tested, and why testing regularly should be treated as an act of self-care rather than something...

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In this episode, breakup and relationship coach Cole Zesiger joins me to break down the emotional and psychological stages of heartbreak. We dive into why your brain treats love like a life-or-death experience, the true purpose of the no-contact rule, and how to grieve fully without losing yourself in rumination. Cole shares how micro-wins can spark huge healing momentum, why silence can be a tool for self-growth, and whether love ever truly disappears after a b...

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In this episode, I open up about my recent breakup and the emotional and spiritual healing that followed. It was my first real heartbreak, and navigating the grief, confusion, and contrast of losing someone I loved deeply taught me profound lessons about love, self-awareness, and growth. I share what it’s like to end a twin flame relationship, the karmic contracts behind it, and how heartbreak can become a powerful catalyst for inner healing. If you’...

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In Part 2 of my relationship series, I dive into the real, raw work that begins after manifesting love. From navigating different lifestyles, sexual dynamics, and fears of commitment, to facing family rejection and clashing visions for the future—this episode unpacks the challenges my partner and I have faced, and the deep healing that only a relationship can trigger. If you've ever wondered what it takes to stay once you've called love in, this is the honest...

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In this solo episode, I share the real story behind how I manifested my ideal partner—without dating apps, timelines, or forcing anything. I open up about my past struggles with love, trauma, and limiting beliefs, and how the heartbreak eventually led me to surrender the search entirely. Instead, I focused on exploring my sexuality through Can’t Host, doing deep inner work, clarifying what I truly wanted, and trusting my unique path. Three years later...

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In this deeply honest episode of Can't Host, writer and therapist Wayne Scott opens up about the complexities of queer identity beyond binary labels like "gay" or "straight." Reflecting on his journey of coming out later in life while raising children and navigating a heterosexual marriage, Wayne shares the nuances of bisexuality, the pain of having his truth oversimplified, and the liberation found in embracing his queerness. We explore how shame has shaped—and ultimatel...

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In this raw and radically honest episode of Can’t Host, I’m joined by sex writer and activist Alexander Cheves—author of My Love Is a Beast: Confessions—to dive deep into the world of kink, fetish, and fisting. We explore the psychology behind bottoming anxiety, how to train for intense sexual experiences, and the sacred role kink can play in healing shame. From his evangelical upbringing to becoming a national voice for queer erotic liber...

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What if the key to mind-blowing sex isn’t a new position—but a deeper connection to your body? In this juicy episode, somatic sex coach Court Vox breaks down the transformative power of touch, breath, and body awareness in unlocking deeper pleasure, healing sexual shame, and getting out of your head and into your crotch. We talk mindful masturbation, breathwork for better orgasms, overcoming performance anxiety, and how to use somatic practices to create more...

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In this episode, HIV advocate Adrian Posea shares his journey of living Poz with pride, breaking stigma, and navigating dating and relationships with an undetectable status. We explore the emotional impact of an HIV diagnosis, the realities of disclosure and rejection, and the misconceptions around U=U. Adrian also opens up about his work in LGBTQ+ activism, the lessons he's learned from different cultures, and the importance of self-acceptance, offering a candid and empowering persp...

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In this episode, psychic medium Anthony Zambito channels messages from spirit guides and ancestors to reveal the deeper spiritual mission of queer people. We explore the unique gifts and sensitivities of queer individuals, past life connections, breaking toxic relationship patterns, and the role of queer love in spiritual evolution. Anthony also shares spirit’s perspective on soulmates, open relationships, and sex, offering a fresh and empowering look at queerness through a spiritual lens.

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In this episode, Omri takes us inside the world of the Radical Faeries, a queer spiritual movement that blends sexuality, mysticism, and countercultural rebellion. We explore their history, rituals, and the role of erotic energy in Faerie gatherings. What really happens in these spaces of radical love and uninhibited self-expression? How do Faeries challenge mainstream LGBTQ+ norms and create utopian queer sanctuaries? Join us as we dive into the sensual, sacred, and subversive world of...

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In this episode, George Lizos and guest Omri explore the transformative power of sacred sensuality and intimacy. From the benefits of naked yoga in fostering connection and vulnerability to practical ways of experiencing sensual pleasure without sex, they uncover tools for deepening relationships and self-awareness. Learn how to transition from performative sex to authentic intimacy, express love through your unique love language, and embrace Cock Worship as a sacred practice. Omri also shares the importanc...

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In this episode of Can't Host, we dive deep into the labyrinth of modern queer intimacy with Manuel Betancourt, author of Hello Stranger. From fleeting connections in steamy bathhouses to poetic sexts and longing glances, we explore how ephemeral encounters teach us about ourselves in ways long-term relationships cannot. Manuel shares his insights on the evolution of liminal queer spaces in the age of apps, the intoxicating possibilities of strangers, and the surprising discoveri...

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In this exciting episode, we sit down with the Nomadic Boys, the dynamic duo behind the ultimate guide to LGBTQ+ travel. They share how their journey as travel bloggers began and how their relationship has flourished on the road. We explore their favorite destinations, including cities and countries that hold a special place in their hearts, and discuss what makes LGBTQ+ travel so unique. Discover their insights into the gay community, what they've learned abou...

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In this refreshingly honest episode, body positivity advocate and dating coach Ryan Sheldon joins us to dive into the chaos of modern dating. We break down what it means to be a fuck boy, how to shift from casual flings to meaningful relationships, and ways to create your own relationship rules outside heteronormative norms. We also tackle body image struggles, recognizing red flags, and setting deal breakers to avoid toxic patterns. Plus, Ryan shares a toolki...

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In this steamy episode, astrologer Danny Santos joins us to explore the cosmic connection between astrology and sexuality. We unpack the surprising link between trauma and sexual preferences, reveal which Sun signs are most likely to cheat, and discuss the planetary influences that shape your sexual nature. From kinks and fetishes to how Pluto’s transit through Aquarius is transforming relationships, we leave no celestial stone unturned—including which signs might have the “biggest Ds.” Tune i...

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In this episode, we’re joined by Tim Hammond, a renowned expert in foreskin restoration. We explore the motivations behind choosing to regrow your foreskin, discussing both the physical and emotional benefits. Tim breaks down the pros and cons of manual versus surgical restoration methods, offering insights into what each approach entails and which might be the right fit for you. Curious about the time commitment? We’ll cover how long it typically takes to see r...

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In this episode, Georganne Chapin – a leading advocate in the intactivist movement – debunks the most common myths surrounding circumcision, explores the cultural and historical roots of this practice, and discusses the often-overlooked consequences of routine circumcision. Georganne sheds light on the growing movement of foreskin restoration, offering insight into non-surgical options for men seeking to reclaim their physical and emotional well-being. Additionally, we delve into the psychological trauma many men experience from childhood circumcision a...