Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women
Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski.
Attracting the Wrong Men? 5 Ways to Trust Your Dating Instincts
If your past dating choices have left you questioning your own judgment, it’s time to stop "following your heart" and start recalibrating your discernment.
This episode breaks down why your gut feelings might be failing you and provides a high-level framework for rebuilding self-trust and spotting red flags before they become regrets.
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If A Man Ignores You, Here’s What He’s Thinking
Whether you’re dealing with a one-time ghoster or a guy who’s suddenly MIA mid-connection, here’s what his behavior is actually telling you—and how to respond without losing your sanity (or your standards).
Originally aired: Jun. 25, 2025
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The Feminine Energy Secret That Will Make You Stop Choosing Toxic Men
In this special episode, join Executive Love Coach Robin as she reveals how to master feminine confidence without losing your professional edge.
Learn why "feminine energy" isn’t about being less powerful, but about installing the right "software" to transition from the boardroom to a romantic connection.
Robin shares practical scripts and shifts in appreciation that will transform how you show up on your next date. You'll learn
Why feminine energy is a tool, not a makeover.How to transition use more feminine energy without feeling inauthentic.Real-world scripts: What to say instead of "Wh...Why Confidence (Not Perfection) Makes You Irresistible to Men
Are you tired of attracting the same type of partner? In this episode, we're moving beyond identifying the wounds that attract unhealthy partners and shifting the focus to what truly matters: your worth. Tune in for five powerful strategies to help you break old patterns and attract a fulfilling partnership built on a foundation of self-love and confidence.
Originally aired: Oct. 11, 2025
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Why Smart Women Keep Getting Ghosted After Great Dates
We’ve all seen the script play out: The texting is solid. The effort is visible. You feel a genuine connection sparking. And then, silence.
Ghosting become the "new normal" of the digital dating era. But as we tell our clients, while ghosting is common, it is never random. Here is the psychological reality behind why men vanish.
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Tears, Trust, and Triumph: Tracy's Path from Divorce to Deep Love
In this special client interview, Gary sits down with Tracy, who went from crying on a consultation call to finding her "above average Joe" just weeks after her lowest moment. After 22 years in a dysfunctional marriage, Tracy learned to trust herself and build healthy boundaries.
Discover how Tracy found the kind of love where someone would "move mountains" for her—and how the skills she learned improved every relationship in her life, including with her adult daughter.
Originally aired: Aug. 18, 2025
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10 Questions That Make Emotionally Distant Men Finally Open Up
If you’re tired of hearing "fine" and "nothing" every time you ask a man how he’s doing, it’s time to change the input to get a better output.
We’re breaking down the 10 power questions that bypass the "small talk trap" and get him to open up faster than years of hinting ever could.
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7 Brutal Truths I Wish Women Knew About Dating Men
I’m not here to sugarcoat things… I’m here to tell you the brutal truths about dating men that most women never hear. If you’ve been attracting the wrong guys—emotionally unavailable men, commitment-phobes, or “man-children”—this video is for you.
These 7 truths might sting a little, but they’ll also set you free. I’ll show you what’s really holding you back in love, and how to finally open the door to the kind of relationship you truly deserve.
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3 Mistakes That Make Men Feel Emotionally Unsafe With You
We've got 5 must-hear dating tips for men...but ladies, this isn't all about men.
You'll want to hear what we have to tell them, because all the same advice will help you in your dating life as well.
If you want to deeply understand how men think so you can connect with them in a smarter, calmer way, watch the free Male Mind Map seminar here: https://go.lovestrategies.com/map
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How to Attract a High-Character Man (It's NOT What You Think)
Tired of feeling like finding a high-character man is an impossible solo mission? We're changing the script on traditional dating advice. Discover the surprising power of community and how your "tribe" can become your greatest asset in attracting the love you deserve.
Originally aired: Jun.14, 2025
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You’re Triggering His Lust - And Losing His Respect
Ever wonder why the "perfect on paper" guy feels like a snooze fest, while a three-second glance at a coffee shop feels like a lightning bolt?
It isn’t a mystery and it isn’t just luck, it’s biology.
This week, we’re breaking down the science of testosterone and oxytocin to show you exactly how to trigger his drive to pursue and his desire to stay.
Want to stop guessing why men pull away and start creating real desire and devotion rooted in science and strategy?
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Are You Sabotaging Your Dating Life?
Are you unknowingly sabotaging your dating life? This episode reveals the surprisingly common mistakes people make that actively push potential partners away. Learn the key behaviors that lead to loneliness and how to avoid these self-defeating patterns to finally find the fulfilling relationship you deserve.
Originally aired: May. 03, 2025
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5 Things Men Say To Test You On Dates
Think that "How is someone as amazing as you still single?" line is just a sweet compliment? Think again.
We’re pulling back the curtain on the secret playbook of "guy moves" used to size you up, from the social circle "investigations" to the one toxic test you need to believe the first time you hear it.
Stop getting blindsided by “little tests” on dates and start responding with quiet confidence instead: watch this, then grab your free Love Captivation seminar at https://go.lovestrategies.com/cap
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5 Ways to Make Him Emotionally Addicted to You
Let’s be honest: Love is addictive.
So why do some women get hooked—and end up with breadcrumbs—while others flip the script and have men addicted to them?
In this episode, I reveal five powerful (and unexpected) ways to make a man emotionally addicted to you—no games, no gimmicks. Just real connection, desire, and pursuit. If you’ve ever wondered what makes a man crave you long after the date ends… this one’s for you.
Originally aired: Aug. 06, 2025
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5 Things High-Quality Men Want But Never Say
Think all men are "basic"? Think again.
If you’re looking for a high-character guy, you need to understand the hidden motivations, from the desire to be approached to the need for a "peaceful sanctuary," that he’ll never admit out loud.
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In this episode, discover the 5 secret desires of mature men and how to stop the "looks tr...
What Mature Men Find Irresistible in a Woman (5 Key Things)
Ever wonder what emotionally mature, relationship-ready men are really looking for? In this special pod, I peel back the curtain on what men (not boys) find irresistible—and how it’s completely different from what younger guys value (and why that’s a very good thing).
Originally aired: Jun. 01, 2025
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5 Ways To Stop Getting The Ick From The Man You Actually Need
Are you addicted to the "chase" but exhausted by the results?
It’s time to talk about why the "boring" guy is actually the one who will make you happiest.
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Discover why your brain is wired to give you "the ick" for the wrong reasons and how to find a "Spicy Vanilla" partner who can actually crush a Tuesday with y...
Give Me 7 Minutes and I’ll Make You Dangerously Attractive to Men
What if the key to becoming irresistible to high-character men has nothing to do with your looks and everything to do with your energy? In this video I invite you to discover 5 surprising ways to become deeply attractive to men, without playing games, pretending to be someone you’re not, or obsessing over the “perfect” dating profile. Watch now to unlock your magnetic edge.
Originally aired: Jul. 23, 2025
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5 Ways To Avoid Wasting Months On The Wrong Guy
Stop wondering "is he the one" and start knowing.
In this podcast episode, we’re sharing the 5 essential ways to qualify a man’s character quickly so you can stop wasting months on the wrong ones.
Learn how to create a "Love Vision" you can’t cheat and why your "afterglow" is the most honest data you have.
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Men CHOOSE Women Based on These 5 Emotions
When a man is ready to commit, it’s not about your résumé, your looks, or even how perfectly you check his boxes. It’s about how you make him feel—and there are five specific emotions that tip the scales from “she’s great” to “she’s the one.”
Let’s break them down—and show you how to tap into the emotional blueprint that makes a man fall deeply (and lastingly) in love.
Originally aired: Jun. 11, 2025
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You’re On Track To End Up Alone
When I say “never settle,” I don’t mean what Instagram usually means by it.
In this episode, I walk you through how I actually think about standards, trade-offs, and non-negotiables in a way that successful women rarely get told.
If you’ve ever wondered whether your bar is high in the right places, this will give you a calmer, more strategic lens. And it might quietly explain why some very good men never make it past the first date with you.
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The Truth About Dating Divorced Men: Do's, Don'ts, and Dealbreakers
Thinking about dating a divorced man—or already in a relationship with one? 🤔 Discover the do’s, don’ts, and dealbreakers so you know exactly what to look for (and what to avoid).
Originally aired: Jan. 25, 2025
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Keep Dating Like This… And You’ll Stay Alone
What if the secret to your future was hidden in the past?
We’re diving into the "Lost Art of Dating" to show you why your grandmother’s approach to romance was actually more effective than any algorithm.
Learn how to slow down the rush, build genuine emotional intimacy, and use our "No Pen Pal" policy to filter out the flakes and find a man of true integrity.
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5 Keys for a Thriving Relationship After 40
Feeling discouraged by the idea of dating after 40? It doesn’t have to be that way. In this episode, we reveal The 5 S’s of Successful Dating After 40—so you can navigate love, relationships, and the modern dating scene with confidence and ease.
Originally aired: Feb. 22, 2025
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Break the Cycle of Toxic Relationships (Be a Cycle Breaker)
You didn’t choose the relationship patterns you inherited, but you can choose whether they end with you.
Discover how becoming a "Cycle Breaker" creates a ripple effect that transforms not just your love life, but the lives of everyone watching you.
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The 5 THINGS about Modern Dating that EVERYONE Gets Wrong
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the ever-changing landscape of modern dating? It's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of apps, algorithms, and endless options. But before you throw in the towel, let's debunk some common misconceptions about dating in the digital age.
Originally aired: Oct. 19, 2024
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The Lies You've Been Told about What Men Want
Stop asking your single friends why "all men are the same" and start looking at the data that proves they aren’t. It’s time to stop using myths as emotional armor and learn what high-character men are actually looking for in a partner.
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Are You A Walking Red Flag? Here are 7 Signs
Are you unknowingly sabotaging your love life? We're flipping the script on red flags and asking: what if you're the problem? Discover the 7 hidden habits that might be sending good guys running, and learn how to transform them for lasting love.
Originally aired: Mar. 29, 2025
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5 Guys You MUST AVOID to Find Love Successfully
Ever feel like you have a "Broken Picker"? You know what you want, yet you keep ending up with the same disappointing results.
In this episode, we’re acting as your protective big brothers. We’re breaking down the "Michelangelo Dating Strategy" the art of finding the perfect man by chipping away the losers first. Learn why the "Fun Storyteller" and the "Mysterious Quiet Guy" are actually major red flags in disguise.
Stop wasting years on the wrong men. Learn the Michelangelo Dating Strategy and start eliminating the time-wasters so you can finally attract the rela...
7 Things Men Secretly Desire More Than Looks
I made this for the woman who is already successful by every external measure, yet quietly wonders why love still feels harder than it should. If you’ve ever suspected that the real leverage in dating has nothing to do with looking “more perfect,” you’re right, and this will resonate.
In this episode, I break down the subtle qualities that emotionally healthy men are magnetized by, even if they never articulate them. You may discover that you already have many of them, and only need to rearrange your focus.
If you are ready to stop obs...
When Should I Expect Him To Say "I Love You"?
Wondering why he hasn’t said “I love you” yet? In our latest podcast, we dive into the timing and significance of those three little words, exploring when it’s too soon, too late, and just right. Discover the truth behind the words and the actions that matter most in your relationship!
Originally Aired: Aug. 04, 2024
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5 Simple Tests to Know If He's the One
Stop Decoding Him and Start Deciding. Stop spending hours in the group chat trying to figure out why he hasn't texted back. It’s time to take your power back.
In this episode, we give you a simple framework to see into the future of your relationship.
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Learn how to "Mirror" the qualities you want, why you need to give your...
3½ Words That Make Men Pursue a Woman
This is for women who are done playing hard-to-get, but still want to be deeply pursued by the right man. In this podcast, I lay out a few small shifts that quietly change how high-quality men experience you from the first interaction.
If you’ve ever felt like you had to choose between being “the prize” and being genuinely warm, this will feel like a relief.
Listen with an open mind, then notice what starts to change the next time a good man is sitting across from you.
Discover tiny shifts that make genuin...
7 “Nice” Things Guys Do That Are Actually Red Flags
Ever been swept off your feet, only to realize it was a red flag parade in disguise? We're diving into the seemingly sweet behaviors that actually scream toxic. Learn to spot the subtle signs of manipulation and control before you fall for a fantasy, and discover how to find genuine connection instead.
Originally Aired: Jun. 07, 2025
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Is Dating Feeling Hopeless? 7 Questions to Get You Unstuck
Feeling stuck in your dating life and wondering if it's time to give up entirely?Sometimes all you need is a shift in perspective to break through the frustration.
In this podcast episode, we share seven powerful questions that will help you get unstuck, rewrite your dating story, and approach relationships with renewed confidence and clarity.
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9 Things to Look for in the Man You Marry
If you keep falling for charm… and paying for it later, listen to this.
There’s a difference between a man who excites you and a man you can actually build a life with. In this podcast, I break down the 9 traits of a high character man - the qualities that matter long after the chemistry fades.
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The Psychology of Body Language: 7 Ways to Capture Men's Attention
Unlock the secrets to effortless attraction with our 7 research-backed body language techniques that will have men drawn to you from across the room. Learn how to project confidence, spark intrigue, and master the art of nonverbal communication to captivate the right guy.
Originally Aired: May. 24, 2025
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Give Me 20 Minutes and I'll Make You Magnetic to Mature Men
Sparks are fun. But if you want to be truly magnetic and create a relationship that lasts, it’s time to stop chasing men and start drawing them in.
In this podcast, we break down five powerful ways to cultivate “YES Energy,” confidence, and presence so you’re not just interesting in the moment… you’re unforgettable.
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7 Subtle Things Men Do to Test Women
When a man is “testing” you, it is easy to slip into performance mode without even noticing. In my latest podcast episode, I walk you through some of the quieter ways this shows up - from first date to long-term commitment.
I recorded it for women who are done contorting themselves and want a calmer, more grounded way to navigate these moments. If you have ever wondered, “Is this a red flag or just human behavior?” you will find this especially useful.
If you’re starting to recognise these tests in your own dating life and want a...
5 Must-Ask Questions to Get to Know Your Guy—Fast!
Tired of dating guesswork? Learn the five must-ask questions that cut through the small talk and reveal a man's true self, fast! Stop wasting time on dead ends and start gaining real insights into his values, relationship style, and future aspirations. This episode unveils the secrets to smart dating, empowering you to find the right connection sooner.
Originally Aired: Apr. 26, 2025
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