Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women
Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski.
What Makes a Man See You as Wife Material
Many women wonder what actually makes a man see someone as wife material instead of a short-term option.
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In this episode, we unpack how men subconsciously categorize women while dating, the traits that shift that perception, and why looks, chemistry, or where you meet him matter far less than you think. If dating keeps stalling at the same frustrating point, this conversation will give you a clearer lens on what’s really happening.
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This is Your Brain on Love: The Science Behind Your Dating Style
Are you a dopamine dater, chasing excitement, or a serotonin dater, seeking stability? Discover the science behind your dating style and how it affects your relationships. Decode your brain’s chemistry and transform your love life.
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Originally Aired: Feb. 01, 2025
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The Gender Myth: How 'Men vs. Women' Thinking Destroys Intimacy
Guys are logical, girls are emotional? Men need space, women need closeness?
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Everything you think you know about gender differences in dating may be WRONG. We're busting the foundational myths that kill intimacy. Get ready to discover why focusing on your similarities, not your supposed differences, is the key to creating real closeness, passion, a...
5 Things You Should Never Do for a Man
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In this episode, I share five things I believe you should never do for a man if you want real love. I see women over-give all the time, not because they’re needy, but because they care. Unfortunately, that’s often what keeps them stuck with the wrong men.
This will help you hold your standards, protect your energy, and stop chasing potential.
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7 Qualities that Successful Guys Find Irresistible
Want to know what really makes a high-quality man fall for you? (Hint: It’s not looks or playing hard to get.) These 7 irresistible qualities will set you apart, making you magnetic and unforgettable.
Originally Aired: Feb. 08, 2025
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The Start of Something Real: How to Create Meaningful Commitment
You’ve met someone great, but how do you turn those exciting early dates into a lasting commitment?
In this episode, We’re tackling the frustrating "in-between" phase of dating—the one that sinks most relationships. Learn the vital skills for maintaining love, mastering the cool-down period, and making sure you ditch the apps forever.
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How to Break Your “Bad Boy” Habit
I used to wonder why smart, successful women kept falling for the same type of man. Then I realized it had nothing to do with attraction. Everything pointed back to old wiring. In this episode, I break down why the bad boy feels so magnetic, why healthy love can feel uncomfortable at first, and the simple shifts that help you break the pattern for good.
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24 Principles to Attract a Man You Adore, in 2024
t's time to change your love strategy and attract the man you deserve. Discover the 24 principles to attract the man you adore in 2024. If you'd prefer to watch the full video instead of listening to the audio, feel free to go to https://lovestrategies.com/adore
Originally Aired: Jan. 01, 2024
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3 Reasons to Avoid Long Distance Relationships
Want to know if a long-distance relationship is worth it? Before you sign up for dating on hard mode, listen to this. In this episode, we unpack how far is too far, why so many people get pulled into relationships that are built to fall apart, and what it actually takes to make one work if you really have to.
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How to Stop Being Manipulated By Men
If a man is trying to manipulate you, he can’t truly love you. Because love isn’t about control, it’s about collaboration. In this episode, I break down the subtle signs of manipulation most women miss, why even strong, successful women fall into these traps, and how to reclaim your power with one simple shift.
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How to Date Someone Out of Your League
When we think of our ideal partner, the list often includes being highly attractive, intelligent, possessing a great personality, and solid values. Essentially, we're seeking perfection. This desire drives us to aim high, sometimes even out of our league, aspiring for a partner akin to a celebrity or supermodel. But is dating out of our league a realistic goal?
Originally Aired: Jan. 21, 2024
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Compliments that Drive Classy Guys Wild
Want to know what to say to make a guy feel truly special and appreciated? Stop telling him he's funny and start giving him compliments that matter. In this episode, we're revealing the core compliments that will set you apart and build an instant, deeper connection.
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Is Wanting a Boyfriend Now "Embarrassing"?
When Vogue published an article questioning whether having a boyfriend is now “embarrassing,” I knew this wasn’t just another headline. It was a sign of a deeper shift in modern dating that most people aren’t even noticing.
In this episode, I break down what’s really driving this trend… and why the message behind it is far less empowering than it looks on the surface.
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6 Red Flags of an Emotionally Broken Man
Is he a lone wolf or a wounded soul? Discover the signs of an emotionally broken man and understand why recognizing them is vital. Unmask the hidden patterns that could lead to a toxic relationship and learn how to protect your emotional well-being.
Originally Aired: Jan. 04, 2025
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Inside the Mind of a Cheater: Why They Do It and Who They Target
Ever questioned why someone cheats - even when the relationship seems fine? This episode exposes the hidden psychology behind infidelity, the emotional gaps that lead people astray, and the subtle red flags most women overlook. If you’re ready to protect your heart and build a relationship where betrayal isn’t even on the table, this conversation is your compass.
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Beyond Physical Beauty: What Makes A Woman Magnetic
You've probably heard it before: beauty is only skin deep. While physical attractiveness can certainly draw attention, it's the inner qualities that truly captivate and keep a man's interest. So, what truly makes a woman irresistible?
Originally Aired: Jan. 11, 2025
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How Powerhouse Women Attract Powerhouse Love
Tired of dating down? In this episode, we're revealing the secrets for powerhouse women to attract powerhouse love. Discover how to build a truly synergistic partnership without compromising your success or your authentic self.
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6 Traits of a Masculine, Emotionally Secure Man
Are emotionally secure masculine men still out there — or are they just a myth in today’s dating world?
In this video, I’m breaking down the six traits of a truly grounded, masculine man so you can stop wasting time on fragile egos and finally recognize the men who are actually capable of building a real partnership.
Once you understand these traits, you’ll never overlook the right men again — and you’ll stop entertaining the wrong ones.
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How to Be the Perfect First Date: 20 Easy Ways to Avoid Disaster
Tired of first date disasters? Discover the secrets to turning that initial encounter into a thrilling experience with our comprehensive guide to first date success. From pre-date preparation to post-date follow-up, learn 20 expert tips that will boost your confidence, spark genuine connection, and leave your date wanting more.
Originally Aired: Aug 21, 2024
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5 Years From Now, You'll Wish You Took Love More Seriously
If you feel stuck in a dating rut, it's time to face a tough question: What motivates you to find love? We all know what we're running toward—a great relationship—but what if your most powerful motivation lies in what you're running from? Join us to discover how the fear of a lonely, regret-filled future can be the rocket fuel you need to change your love life forever.
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Ladies, Do These 7 Things and Stay Single Forever (A.C.T. F.A.S.T.)
After coaching over 44,000 women, I’ve noticed a few surprising patterns that guarantee you’ll stay single—no matter how much you want love. In this video, I reveal seven subtle habits that sabotage even the smartest, most successful women… and what to do instead.
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How to Stop Chasing Men and Start Attracting Love
Tired of chasing men who seem completely oblivious to you? Discover how to shift your mindset and behavior to attract the love you deserve. Learn the importance of independence, personal growth, and a positive outlook. Tune in to our latest podcast to discover the secrets to finding lasting love.
Originally Aired: Oct 12, 2024
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Eight Magical Phrases That Make Men Commit
Ever wish you had a cheat sheet for relationship communication? We’re going beyond the typical advice to give you the exact words and phrases emotionally intelligent partners use. From handling conflict to showing genuine care, this episode will equip you with a new language for connection that strengthens your bond and makes your relationship feel truly safe.
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If He Does These 5 Weird Things… He’s Into You
Ever wonder why some men act so weird when they really like you? From talking too much to teasing you like a middle schooler, these behaviors can seem confusing until you realize what they really mean.
In this video, I reveal the 5 signs to look for when a man is truly into you (and how to tell the difference between genuine attraction and mixed signals).
Watch now to decode his behavior and finally know when he’s actually interested.
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Does He REALLY Want a Relationship or Is He Lying? 6 Ways To Decipher His True Intentions
Discover the hidden clues to his relationship intent. If you’re tired of the mixed messages and want to decode what he truly wants, our latest podcast reveals four key motivations behind his actions and helps you spot the genuine signs of relationship intent.
Originally Aired: July 03, 2024
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Mankeeping: Are You Doing Too Much For a Low-Effort Man?
Tired of "mankeeping" and feeling drained in your relationships? We're diving deep into this viral term, challenging the narrative, and revealing how a fresh perspective can actually make dating easier and more fulfilling for women. Tune in for a powerful discussion that might just change how you see men and relationships!
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The Science of Love: What Your Brain Knows and Your Heart Gets Wrong
Love isn’t just about butterflies; it’s brain chemistry, choices, and the habits you build together. In this episode, Dr. Gary Lewandowski (Chief Love Scientist at LoveStrategies) unpacks the science behind passion, intimacy, and commitment, how to tell real love from impostors, and why “falling” isn’t enough. If you’ve ever wondered whether love can conquer all, this episode will change how you see relationships forever.
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Give Us 10 Minutes And We'll Teach You How to Flirt Over 40
Flirting over 40 doesn't have to be a mystery. In this 10-minute guide, we'll teach you a dignified and high-character approach to flirting that leaves the giggling and cutesy stuff behind. From subtle body language to playful verbal cues, you'll learn how to be clear, confident, and captivating—because it's time to stop being the one who rejects yourself.
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6 Myths That Silently Sabotage Your Dating Life (And Push Men Away)
What if the “dating advice” you’ve been told your whole life is the very thing keeping you single?
In this video, I uncover the 6 biggest myths that silently sabotage smart, successful women in love. These myths feel true—but they quietly push high-value men away and keep you stuck in frustrating patterns.
If you’ve ever wondered why your dating life doesn’t match the powerful, magnetic woman you know you are, this is the video you can’t afford to miss.
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Why Confidence (Not Perfection) Makes You Irresistible to Men
Are you tired of attracting the same type of partner? In this episode, we're moving beyond identifying the wounds that attract unhealthy partners and shifting the focus to what truly matters: your worth. Tune in for five powerful strategies to help you break old patterns and attract a fulfilling partnership built on a foundation of self-love and confidence.
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What Men Find Deeply Beautiful in a Woman (It’s Not What You Think)
You think men are drawn to looks, charm, or the perfect body, but what actually captivates them runs much deeper. In this video, I reveal what men find truly beautiful in a woman (and how to tap into it effortlessly).
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The Hidden Cost of Being ‘Too Independent’ (and How to Fix It)
In this episode, Dr. Gary debunks the modern myth that independence is the ultimate goal. You’re absolutely right to believe in yourself—but wrong to think you can thrive completely alone. Discover the surprising science behind why connection is the foundation of real happiness, health, and fulfillment.
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5 Signs Your Wounds Are Secretly Choosing Your Partners
Are you tired of attracting the wrong kind of love? This week, discover if your past wounds are unknowingly picking your partners and learn to identify the five key emotional injuries that might be sabotaging your relationships. Tune in to start attracting the healthy, fulfilling love you truly deserve.
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5 Magnetic Phrases That Spark Chemistry on a First Date
Are you spending all your energy perfecting your look for a date, only to have the spark fizzle? The truth is, men don’t fall for appearances… they fall for how you make them feel. This week, discover five magnetic phrases that instantly spark chemistry and connection — and learn how the right words can draw him in effortlessly. Start creating dates that feel exciting, authentic, and unforgettable.
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15 Simple Rules to Make Dating Easier After 40
Do you secretly love rules, even if you pretend you don't? This episode reveals how a few simple dating "rules" can put your love life on autopilot, making it effortless and fun. Stop the guesswork and learn the easy guidelines that will help you find the right person by being the right person.
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7 Brutal Truths I Wish Women Knew About Dating Men
I’m not here to sugarcoat things… I’m here to tell you the brutal truths about dating men that most women never hear. If you’ve been attracting the wrong guys—emotionally unavailable men, commitment-phobes, or “man-children”—this video is for you.
These 7 truths might sting a little, but they’ll also set you free. I’ll show you what’s really holding you back in love, and how to finally open the door to the kind of relationship you truly deserve.
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4 Dangerous Risks of Pursuing POWERFUL Men For Relationships
Are you drawn to powerful men? If so, it’s crucial to be aware of the four dangerous risks involved in pursuing such relationships.
Originally Aired: June 11th, 2024
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7 Things Men Secretly Love About Older Women
This podcast explores the surprising appeal of older women in dating, revealing the attractive qualities that transcend age. Discover why maturity, confidence, and a zest for life make older women incredibly desirable.
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7 Classy Ways to Capture a Guy’s Attention
Ready to captivate a man's attention without appearing too eager? Today's podcast reveals seven powerful strategies to command his interest.
Originally Aired: June 23rd, 2024
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How to Design an Online Dating Profile That Will Find You Love After 40
Tired of endless swiping and disappointing dates? This week, we're revealing our top strategies to transform your online dating profile from frustrating to magnetic. Learn how to craft a captivating profile and pick pictures that truly reflect your unique charm, attracting the right kind of attention and making your online dating journey efficient and enjoyable.
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