Afiniki's HAPPINESS OVER STRESS Podcast
Real talk about reducing stress, living productive and happy lives, while protecting our mental health. No fancy editing or scripting, just honest conversation for a better life. Dr Afiniki Akanet is the author of Favourite, Power and Praise, Life Without Coffee (Choosing Happiness Over Stress), Money & Mental Wellbeing, Fortitude and other inspirational books. Afiniki is also a practising UK doctor (GP/family doctor) and the founder of Forte, Charity for Inspiration. Feel free to get in touch via Afiniki.co.uk #DrMMW #HappinessOverStress #FavGoodLife
Silence
I wanted to share this one again because I am still discovering the importance of silence, how it can be powerful and can even say more than words sometimes. Please listen and let me know what you think. Are there situations that could have been handled better with silence, or are there situations you have been too silent about? Reflecting can help us choose happiness over stress going forward. Have a good weekend! - Afiniki.co.uk
Avoiding Stress From Black Tax and Other Bills
I am pleased to have Dr Andy Egwim, of Moneywisedoctor.com, again on the podcast with us talking about retirement planning, black tax and more. We know that finances can affect our mental health, and the choices we make today can affect our future and happiness. Please listen, and share if you find the tips helpful. The resources mentioned are all available from MoneyWiseDoctor.com. Have a great week! - Afiniki.co.uk
Faith, effort and balance (FEB)
We are in the month of June, but I wanted to share this F.E.B. reflection about balance again, especially after the release of my book, Favourite, Based on the Story of Joseph. As a Christian doctor, I am keen on clarifying that faith does not erase the need for action and work. Whether we are talking about health, finances, family or personal growth, there will be a part we have to play if we want to be successful, and not just wishful thinkers. I hope you find something challenging and encouraging in this episode. Thank you for...
Dream bigger dreams
I have been reflecting on the fact that many people are just coasting, especially in midlife. Some are just surviving with no excitement for life, while others are basking in past successes. I am sharing this one again to remind us to think big and dream bigger dreams. There is so much more to life than eating, working, sleeping and paying bills. Listen, and feel free to share your thoughts via Afiniki.co.uk. If you have got tickets to the Mums and Daughters Forte Charity Dinner next month, we will be hearing more about giving back there. Thank...
Resilience while Living with Chronic Illness
This bonus episode from Jack and Jill (my AI-generated AHOS podcast assistants) is based on Dr Miller's work. It discusses how we can choose happiness over stress even while dealing with chronic illness or other stressful life events. Health is wealth, but what do we do when health is lacking? Happiness over stress is not about denying the realities of life - we can choose to look after our mental wellbeing even in the tough seasons. Resilience is not about toxic positivity during sad or scary times; it is about choosing hope and gratitude even through the tears. Find...
Money and Mental Wellbeing with The Moneywise Doctor
It is a pleasure to have Dr Ndubuisi 'Andy' Egwim, GP and bestselling author of The Moneywise Doctor with us on the podcast this week. He has been investing for over 20 years and shares tips about how we can choose happiness over stress when it comes to our finances. Did you know that not all investing leads to passive income? Listen out for his R.E.S.T. framework for investing, and share this with a friend. There are useful resources and financial workshops to check out via moneywisedoctor.com. Have a good weekend! - Afiniki.co.uk
User versus Owner
In this episode, I share a Hausa proverb from my childhood in Northern Nigeria, with a different explanation for our busy lifestyles today. Hausa is spoken in many African countries, and the folk tales from Africa often have important lessons. I am not very good with languages, so feel free to comment and correct my Hausa, if needed. We can choose happiness over stress by being intentional about how we spend our time and resources, counting the long-term cost of any decision and being flexible to change and retrace our steps when we know better. I have also shared...
The Wealth of Presence
This is a bonus AI-generated explainer episode based on my Hausa "Samu ya fi iyawa" story in the podcast episode titled User versus Owner. My AI podcast assistants, Jack and Jill, dive deeper into the ideas I shared, and leave us all with much food for thought this week. Whether you have a big decision to make about work, family and finances, or are feeling settled in your current situation, this one will definitely help you reflect on the unseen aspects of juggling life and family. Please feel free to share and comment. - Afiniki.co.uk
Radioplus Interview with Paul Wheeler
I had the privilege of joining Paul Wheeler on Radioplus Coventry for an interview about my motivational books and Forte Charity for Inspiration last month. I am sharing it here, because we spoke about some interesting topics. It will be good to see you at the charity dinner next month, if you can make it. Please find and follow the Afiniki's Happiness Over Stress Whatsapp channel for more regular updates and inspiration, if you have not already done so. Have a great week! https://www.whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbCJftyKwqSYo5q2ow3v
Preparing for Old Age
People are living longer these days (in the western world). We say that time flies, but it can also feel very slow if we are bored. Realising that life will not always be as it is now is wisdom. What are you doing now that your future self will thank you for? We need to be thinking not just about financial investments, but also lifestyle choices and social connections. Please listen and share your thoughts at Afiniki.co.uk. Have a good week!
Why Podcast? Looking back after 3 years
I was reading some statistics recently about how most podcasts do not make it past the first year or first 20 episodes, and it made me so grateful to still be here! After over 100 solo episodes and many more with guests this year, I wanted to reshare the first episode to remind us how far we have come from 2022, when this journey started. Thank you all for listening and supporting. Please share and find me on YouTube, if you have not already done so. Your support means a lot to me! Thankfully, I have been able to write again this...
Discussing Stress Management with The Dancing GP
It is a pleasure to have Dr Olutosin Awoyemi again on the AHOS podcast, sharing tips for managing stress. He is a very busy and multifaceted doctor/GP, so it is great to hear his perspective and find out how he manages stress. He says work-life balance is not really a balance. Listen to find out more about how to reduce stress by discovering purpose. Have a great week! - Afiniki.co.uk
The Importance of Goal Setting and Perspective with Dr Tosin
I am pleased to have Dr Olutosin Awoyemi on the AHOS podcast today talking about how to choose happiness, as a parent and professional. He is also a GP/family doctor who wears many hats. He shares his top tips for choosing happiness, wherever you live! Some people feel that happiness is related to location, events or finances, but there are simple things we can do to choose happiness over stress in any country or stage of life. Please feel free to share your thoughts via Afiniki.co.uk. This episode is also available in video format - please...
Happiness Over Stress Advice from a Missionary
I am pleased this year to have been able to invite some wonderful guests to the Happiness Over Stress podcast. You may have never met a Christian missionary in real life, but this episode gives you a chance to hear directly from a wise, godly and inspirational man. Balancing worldly stress and heavenly perspective is not easy, but we can choose happiness over stress by having our priorities in order, without ignoring reality. Please feel free to share your thoughts via Afiniki.co.uk
A Fun Way to Support Education in Africa
Jack and Jill (AI-generated guests) are here to tell you about a special charity dinner happening on Saturday, July 11 to raise money for Forte Charity for Inspiration's educational projects in Africa. Tickets are available now at https://www.afiniki.co.uk/event-details/mother-and-daughter-charity-dinner
Menopause with Dr Soumitri Charkraborty
On this episode, we are discussing the M word. We know that it is something that is surrounded by mystery and stress for some. Dr Soumitri shares her thoughts on how to manage physical and psychosocial issues of menopause. We also tell you some information about Hormone Replacement Therapy. Hope you find this useful. Please email via Afiniki.co.uk if there are any questions you want us to answer. Have a great weekend!
Why you have to check out FAVOURITE next month
In this special bonus episode, Jack and Jill (my AI-generated guests!) are discussing the book cover and press release for my latest book, Favourite, which is based on the story of Joseph. It is easy to listen to this on a short drive or quick run. I have been really impressed by their analysis so far, and would love to hear your thoughts on how post-traumatic growth might be similar to physiotherapy.
This episode is all thanks to my AI guru friends - thanks, Philip! See you all at Stratford-Upon-Avon Library on May 23rd for the book...
Joseph's Story with Henry
In this episode, I am pleased to be speaking with my cousin from South Africa. He is a missionary and shares some useful insights from the story of Joseph, which I have retold in my latest book, Favourite, to be released next month, May 2026. Whether you are a fan of theology or not, there is a lot to learn from this story, especially with Henry's helpful advice. Have a great week! Afiniki.co.uk
Define YOUR happiness
What does happiness mean to you? Dr Tosin and I are having a relaxed chat in this short clip. What makes you happy? What do YOU want out of life? It is easy to go along with other people's definitions and parameters for a good life, only to look back and realise they were never what you wanted. Take a moment to define what happiness means for you and your family, so you can find the strength to pursue it and the confidence to enjoy it.
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