The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast
Welcome to The Ethereal Pleasure Podcast ✨ Formally known as The Love Atiya Experience ✨ where we talk about all things healing, feeling, softening, and coming home to yourself.Think of this as a safe space for us to unlearn much of what society has taught us about sex, sensuality, intimacy & pleasure & discover exactly who we were born to be.Hosted by the ever-curious, honey-voiced, wild and slightly outrageous Love Atiya, this isn’t your average sexual wellness show. Nope. Here, we dive deep into the juicy realms of self love, sensual healing, self care, feminine power, nervous system healing, and overall beCUMin...
You Are Perfect, Just As You Are | No Lessons Just Practice
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The world may not be punishing us ya'll...
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63. My Social Experiment | Meeting Partner(s) Who Actually Care About Pleasure
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I knew things had to change when I was trying to talk to a guy about a sex dream I had about him and all he focused on was HIS pleasure....
Let's talk about it!
Here's The Application To Bring Pleasure Into My Life: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf5ONie6F277EUWPKkrYZ_LNxG5ZAPIr7ji8VGqPsmP-ay8cA/viewform?usp=header
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The People Pleaser’s Guide to Losing Yourself (and How I’m Finding Me Again)
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“Excuse Me, Am I in Your Way — in Life?” - me LMAO
Okay but…seriously. Why am I saying “sorry” to the chair I just bumped into? Why am I overthinking that text I sent 3 hours ago? Why am I mentally writing 12 versions of a message just to make sure no one’s offended by my breathing pattern??
In this episode of Becoming Wild, I’m diving headfirst (with grace) into the beautiful, burdensome art of being too considerate.
I’m unpacking where it comes from (hi, childhood...
62. The Arousal Episode Part 2 | Solo Dates & Sexual Temptation
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Hey doll face!
Welcome to my world!
In today’s episode we talk all about:
Epiphanies for showing up as my authentic self
Working through my friendship hurt (being open for separate healing)
Talking through my desires
Setting my boundaries for my next sexual encounters
Figuring out my own wants and needs without shame
How to increase your sexual arousal
An academy update & more
ENJOY!
How To Become Yourself | My Sparkly, Slightly Messy New Beginning
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Darlings, welcome to the first juicy little bite of my brand-new series, Becoming Wild where I spill the tea, the honey, and maybe a few existential sprinkles about what it really means to unbecome everything you thought you had to be, just to remember who you truly are. (Phew. Yes, that was a sentence. Yes, it’s a journey.)
In this kickoff episode, I’m pulling back the glittery curtain and sharing some real talk: the growing pains, the cosmic giggles, the ego meltdowns, and the tender moments of comi...
PATREON BONUS: Reconnecting With My First Lesbian Lover & My PMDD Diagnosis
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I want to live in a world where we aren't ashamed by our self diagnosis and instead are proud to know that we know our bodies well enough to be able to know when somethings wrong and how to heal it.
Not saying I don't think doctors are needed (in some cases) but my goal to learn my own body was absolutely inspired from the hurt and misinformation I've received from "trusted doctors" when trying to find the answers.
ALSO.... my first lesbian lover from back in the day...
61. How To Feel More Arousal | Math Dyslexia and Pelvic Floor Dysfunction
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Hey beautiful souls!
I’m so excited about today’s episode!
First we’ll be catching up on how I recently learned I had Dyscalculia (a form of math dyslexia) and how it’s affected my life.
Then I chat about my quick meet up with a MAN and how I’m navigating my confused horniness.
Lastly, we chat all about why we sometimes find it hard to get aroused and how to fix that.
10 ways to naturally boost your libid...
60. PROJECT PLEASURE: I Asked 11 People About Their Pleasure & What An Orgasm Feels Like
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In this raw and revealing episode of The Love Atiya Experience, I'm introducing you to something deeply personal, powerful, and necessary.
Introducing: Project Pleasure!
I sat down with 11 brave, brilliant souls and asked them the questions so many of us wonder about but rarely say out loud: What does an orgasm really feel like? Do you orgasm every time you have sex? Do you orgasm every time you have sex?
This episode kicks off a sensual and thought-provoking journey into the intimate world of your f...
59. How To Have A Self Pleasure Ceremony | The Friend I Wanna F*ck
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Hey beautiful souls,
HAPPPPY MASTURBATION MAY!
Today’s intention is to help you feel a lot less shame about yourself, your body and your pleasure!
I 10/10 recommend listening to this when you’re home LMAO
We’re gonna look and feel on our Polly Pockets while falling in love with ourselves one touch at a time.
Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy
...58. How To Feel Less Shame About Self Pleasure
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Hey beautiful souls,
HAPPPPY MASTURBATION MAY!
Today’s intention is to help you feel a lot less shame about yourself, your body and your pleasure!
I 10/10 recommend listening to this episode when you’re home because we’re gonna take a look and a feel on our Polly Pockets, while falling in love with ourselves one touch at a time.
Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy
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PATREON BONUS: New Voicenote Series | Self Care & Boundaries
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Hey babes!
Welcome to my newest series VOICENOTES BY ATITI where I record the random (divine) sht that happens in my life... IN REAL TIME!
0 edits.. all me LMAO
You can hear the rest of the episode here
My Pleasure Shop: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealx
Xoxo
Love Atiya
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57. Processing Grief & Finding Pleasure Without Sex
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Hey beautiful souls!
I know i’ve been MIA on the socials lately but for those of you who don’t know, my cat Tam transcended a few weeks ago and it rocked me to my core.
On the day I decided to record this podcast I was finally having an experience of being in better spirits although, grief comes in heavy heavy waves, when the waves are calm the waters are easier to wade through.
Anywho in this...
PATREON BONUS: Friends, How Many Of Us Have Them? Not Me Apparently
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Hey beautiful souls!
WELCOME TO MY BONUS PATREON EPISODE!
Today's episode is all about friendships and their disappointments.
How I'm cutting everyone off.
Friends being in new relationships.
& setting boundaries in friendships from here on out.
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56. I Had Sex With a Hotep | PMDD & Being a Highly Sensitive Person
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WELCOME TO YET ANOTHER EPISODE BABES!
Today’s episode is all about:
Some people just wanna complain & that’s ok
Setting boundaries in conversations & asking for consent when giving advice
Pmdd & suicidal ideations (wtf)
Why I think everyone a little autistic
Reflections on my sexual experience with a fauxtep
Why you should never tell men that their s*x is healing LMAO
Making decisions in hornienss
How tf do you get back to being...
55. Nipple Orgasm Tips, Reparenting & Giving Our Parents Grace
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Hi my babies!
In today’s episode we talk all about:
Pervy web developers
PTSD and delayed processing
Are we all God or NAH? (Religion vs belief systems)
Reparentification of myself and my parents
Giving your parents grace (Because none of us really know what the fuck we’re doing)
Learning how to experience your parents as parents and not as humans you have to save or sacrifice your well being for (based on assumptions you’ve made...
54. The Pleasure Guide | How To Get Your Partner To Please You
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Hey beautiful beings!
This episode is so near and dear to my heart because it’s all about PLEASURE.
In today’s episode we’ll talk all about:
Pivoting and randomly changing sh*t up
The proper questions to ask your partner about pleasure
My epiphany on why I didn’t (past tense) allow my partners to solely please ME (and the shame behind it)
Answering questions about pleasure (asked on Tiktok)
Men & their pleasure (or lack the...
PATREON BONUS CONTENT: My New View Of Relationships In 2025
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Join me on patreon to listen to the full clip & hear about all of my epiphanies and fun adventures!
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53. Me & My P*ssy are TIRED | How To Advocate For Your Vulva To Your OBGYN
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Happy February beautiful souls!
Today’s episode is all about:
Choosing self over people pleasing Going from the side character to the main character in my own story Dealing with anxiety & burn out How to cope with and recognize medical coercion How my OBGYN prescribed me pain pills for my vulva pain (wtf)How to advocate for yourself to your vulva doctor& MORE
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52. It Hurts When I C*m
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Hey beautiful souls! So the other day I was masturbating and felt a sharp pain while I orgasmed… wtf
Let’s figure this sh*t out!
ARTICLES SITED:
https://www.health.com/mind-body/what-to-do-if-your-orgasms-are-actually-painful
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/15723-vaginismus
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/12325-dyspareunia-painful-intercourse
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51. My P*ssy Is Grieving With Kiana Founder Of Souley Gazing
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Hey beautiful souls,
Issa ‘nother fire episode and this time we’re joined by the wonderful Kiana founder and creator of souley gazing a digital marketing agency for creators of color (or BIPOC)
50. An Episode For Those Who Are Also Disgusted By Men…
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Hey beautiful souls!
In today’s episode we talk about my disdain for men…. That’s it, that’s all
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49. Bye Bye Hinge, Hello Streets + Autism & Emetophobia Update
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HAPPY SEASON 3 MY LOVES!
I am soooooo proud of us, most podcasts don’t last past episode 7 so reaching season 3 is a huge accomplishment and I am so grateful for all of your support!
Today's episode is all about:
My one week on hinge
How I’m navigating my neurodivergence
My disgust with men
Discovering I’m insane
Taking things literally because of my autism but also like… isn’t that norma...
48. An Orgasm For Your Ears Feat Cornelia From Xounds
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Heyyyyy beautiful souls,
If you wanna feel like you’re listening in on two besties chatting then you’ve come to the right place.
In this episode we are featuring the wonderful Cornelia, Co-founder of Xounds, an audio erotica hub focused on consent and pleasure!
In today’s episode we’re gonna talk about:
Our kinkiest fantasies
The pros of audio erotica
Why consent is one of Xounds main focuses
What an “audiofile” is and did we make that up?
Se...
47. Why I Hate You Hetero Hoes
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"I don't give a f*ck if he's a millionaire...he's still a man" - Love Atiya 9/15/2024
In todays episode we talk about:
Why I hate (jk) you hetero hoes
How it's hard hearing stories about men
How unimpressed by men I am
"Friends" & a lack of accountability
How I miss cuddling
My sexuality (am I gay or nah?)
Being Angry at men
& MORE
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BONUS CONTENT: Creating Safe Spaces For Our Trans Friends With HIGOTECHS
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Hey Lovers!
Although this part didn't make the official episode I felt it was SO important and love filled and informative that I HAD to include it in our bonus content for the month.
To Watch The Full Video You Can Head On Over To My Patreon or CLICK HERE
Aurelien’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/honore.97?igsh=Z3hqYTFjOXhvdXhj
Aurelien’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aurelien-honore?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_conte...
46. Trans Rights, ADHD & Spitting In Mouths with Aurelien & Jess
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Hello loveeeee bugs!
In today’s episode we are featuring the amazing Aurelien (Founder of HIGOtech) & Jess calling all the way in from FRANCE!
We’ll be touching on a wholeeee bunch of topics such as:
45. Sex After 2 Years Of Celibacy & Sex Tips For Survivors
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It’ssssss my mf birthdayyyy!
Happy happy August 26th my loves!
In today’s MUCH ANTICIPATED episode we talk all about my experience having sex for the first time since reaching two years mark of celibacy.
I’ll share some insight into ways I re-entered the world of sex after healing and recovering from multiple sexual violations within the last two years & conclude the video with some tips that will help me have even more healing sexual experi...
44. Is This My Voice Or My Ex’s | Healing From Negative Thoughts / Negative Self Talk
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Hey beautiful souls!
In todays episode we’re gonna talk all about:
My new sex toy shop!Life as a self diagnosed neurodivergent person My ass… literally The fact that I had sex! Navigating negative self talk Overthinking & OCDLearning to clap for my own damn self How my ex almost fully fcked up my life but unintentionally led me to meeting my higher self How I advocated for myself at the doctor My pol...43. Planning Your Sex Featuring Crystal Creator Of The Sex Planner
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Hello beautiful souls!
I am sooooo excited to share with you the absolutely astounding star of a human Crystal A-Ego creator of The Sex Planner!
In today’s episode we talk all about:
- Sex Holidays
- Planning sex & why it’s an important practice in every relationship
- Electromagnetic Play & The Men Of Onyx
- Finding balance as a parent
- Loving the current you (and letting go of the “you” you used to be)
- How to be a great example...
42. What An Orgasm Feels Like with Polina from Nympho Life
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Heyyyy beautiful souls, I am SO HAPPY to be back!
In today’s fabulous episode featuring the very fun. very sexy and absolutely amazing Polina we talk all about:
- Sex outdoors (exhibitionist vs voyerism)
- Polina shows us the coolest sex toy she owns
- How/why vibrators were created (& how doctors used to literally f*nger their clients)
- Leeches & Vulvas
- How Polina discovered her orgasm (after thinking she was literally inorgasmic)
- Strip club dates
- How Polina watched a...
41. Dating With An Open Heart & Falling In Love With Nigel Marcellus Part 2
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HEYYYYY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! Welcome to The Love Atiya Experience!
In todays episode we’re diving into part two of catching up with THE Nigel Marcellus and talk about all things LOVE including:
Never being in a relationship & navigating love as an adultHaving healing and supportive friendships Yearning to love in a world where many people are currently protecting their heartsLooking for soulmatesBeing perceived Creating safe spaces for community, friends & loveTeaching yourself how to love...40. My Mom Brought Me My First Vibrator At 16 | Sex Ed At Home Feat My Mommy
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Ya’ll this is my most cherished episode to DATE. I have wonder woman as a guest. A literal personification of love. The mother to all. The muva to me and the grandmuva to my cat.
This is a one of a kind experience, featuring sacred conversations that many don’t get to witness, I hope you enjoy as much as I did.
It’s so long overdue. Introducing…. My mommy, Mother Earth!
In this episode we talk all about:
Unschooling me (vs homescho...39. Becoming Besties With My Vagina | More Tips For Vulva Health
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Hiiiiii love bugs!
Welcome to episode 39! In this episode we’ll be touching on:
How my family forgot about me How we all have a (lack of) capacity & how I’m learning to be there for myselfHow compassion is the thief of joyCraving a family bond Reconnecting with my yoni Going to an OBGYN in Mexico Getting gaslit by a black woman OBGYN How I wanted to literally ☠️ on birth control Birth control & how they used women in Puerto Rico as guinea pigs (and still are…worldwide)How I prevent BV...38. Things I’m Doing To Connect With My Vagina | Am I Poly & Is There A Straight Agenda?
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“I fell in love with him because he was acting like me” - Atiya 4/8/24
Heyyyyy beautiful souls! I am so excited for yet another solo episode! Today were unpacking:
My secret trip to Atlanta
Everything just seems more beautiful
I’m in school (& working on a final presentation)
Opened my heart to dating again
Dating is showing me how much I’ve healed vs how much I have to heal
37. Doing Porn & Healing From Sexual Trauma With The Gross Demon Alex Monroe Part 2
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WELCOMEEEEE LOVE BUGS!
I am so excited for part two of this magical episode with the absolutely wonderful Gross Demon Alex Monroe! This was such a fun episode to shoot & I am forever grateful for ALL that I learned from them.
TW: the topic of childhood sexual trauma & rape are discussed in this episode. If this is a triggering topic for you please use your own discretion with no judgment at all when choosing to tune in & many thank you’s to The Gross Demon Alex Monroe for th...
36. Cuckholding & Learning How To Squirt With My Favorite Sex Toys
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I AM SO EXCITED FOR TO BE BACK WITH A SOLO EPISODEEEEE!
How I've missed you so. Haven’t these guests been amazing?! I am so grateful but I had to take a moment to give y'all all kinds of updates about what’s been going on in my sex positive world.
In this episode we talk all about:
35. F*cking Your Fears & Setting Sacred Sexual Boundaries with Bailey
“You are not responsible for the decisions of a rapist” - Bailey
HEYYY LOVE BUGS! I have been so excited to premiere this episode ever since our interview ended!!!! In this amazing episode with the wonderful Bailey (aka Baay free) we talk all about:
Dating while healing from trauma.Setting boundaries when dating.Learning how to self pleasure.Reconnecting with your body after experiencing trauma.Asking for EXACTLY what you want when dating.Doing what we can to NOT get pregnant.34. Sober Sex & Healthy Dating Tips With Nadine From The Sober Butterfly Podcast
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Heyyyy beautiful souls!
Happy LOVE MONTH (although every month is the month of Love in my life)
We’re back with yet another AMAZING guest and in today's episode we have the illustrious Nadine, host of The Sober Butterly Podcast.
In this episode we talk about EVERYTHING including:
33. Dating With An Open Heart & Falling In Love With Nigel Marcellus
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HEYYYYY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! Welcome to The Love Atiya Experience!
In todays episode we’re catching up with THE Nigel Marcellus and talk about all things LOVE including:
32. Doing Porn & Healing From Sexual Trauma With The Gross Demon Alex Monroe Part 1
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WELCOMEEEEE LOVE BUGS!
I am so excited for this magical episode with the absolutely wonderful Gross Demon Alex Monroe! This was such a fun episode to shoot & I am forever grateful for ALL that I learned from them.
TW: the topic of childhood sexual trauma & rape are discussed in this episode. If this is a triggering topic for you please use your own discretion with no judgment at all when choosing to tune in & many thank you’s to The Gross Demon Alex Monroe for their transparency & vulnerability ❤️
