IADGAF
Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy.This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.)This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like...
IADGAF SNEAK PEAK
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Hey! So my laptop started glitching while I was trying to fix the sound (peep my pristine intro with my NEW mic) anyways in honor of not giving a fuck i'm posting it as it because I refuse to let my glitching laptop stop me from releasing this LMAO so just turn it down when I start doing the breathing otherwise it may blow your eardrums out jk jk lmao enjoy babes
I can't wait for ya'll to enjoy my OFFICIAL first episode dropping in MARCH!
PATREON BONUS: So I Met Up With a Man IRL After a Year Of No Dating…
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HEY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! This episode was WAAAAAY too juicy for the main feed so I decided to upload it onto Patreon instead. Wanna hear the rest of the episode? Become a Butterfly (Patron) TODAY! https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience
This episode is all about:
Soooooo many damn lessons
My amazing ass flower, fruit, water, moldy soup analogy (somebody write this down for me please!)
I need more “acknowledgers” in my world (be gone with non acknowledgement)
Having a transac...
PATREON BONUS: Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY
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Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY
“I was the loudest one clapping in the room, eventually I learned how to start clapping for myself”
Question of the day: are we (humans) a little too sentient? or maybe we’re not sentient enough?! Idfk
If this patreon bonus left you wanting more you can check out all of my exclusive content by becoming a patron today! https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience
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77. Friendship Archetypes and Feeling More Pleasure With Friends (Part 2)
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Friendship archetypes and feeling more pleasure with friends (Part 2)
Where is part one?: Part one can be found on my Patreon! Listen for FREE by becoming a patron today!
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Affirmation: “I accept myself”
This episode is all about:
How I woke up to a scream from my higher self
Visualizing me and my mom being on tv together
The fl...
76. Solo Date Ideas & After Care Tips For Sexting
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TRIGGER WARNING
Hey beautiful souls, this episode of The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast includes discussion and mention of sexual assault.
These conversations may be activating or emotionally challenging for some listeners.
Please listen with care, honor your boundaries, and pause or step away at any time if needed.
i love you.
In this episode we talk all about:
Stories of Me and my 1st lesbian lover’s second go round & the...
75. Should We Stop Trying To Connect With Men?
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Heyyyyy beautiful souls! So happy to have you here.
This episode is all about:
Me flying in fake first class on JetBlue
My failed attempts trying to connect with men
How New York tried to steal my soul
I just don’t have it to give to the men in my life anymore (a tough pill to swallow)
Being naturally enthusiastic (perfect for energy vampires)
Men are who they are (and they’re ok with...
74. We Are Not Normal Human Beings | Turning 31 and Giving Less Fucks
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Hey beautiful souls!
Welcome to yet another dope ass episode where I talk all about:
Not being a normal human Faux healers & energy leeches Having friends I’m excited to listen toCharging money to people I’m not excited to listen to My thoughts on reciprocity Listening to my friends talk about men & the dumb sh*t they do Turning 31 and giving less fucks Calling out abusive sh*t (to your friend who’s in a relationship with a horrid man)Why do I keep giving strangers my time (no mor...73. Confession: My Desires For Platonic Intimacy & A Companion?
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Hey beautiful souls!
In today's episode I'm talking all about:
Platonic intimacy What if relationships aren’t all bad?Why I don’t need a roster (& taking the pressure off my roster search) Removing the moochers from my life before I could elevate and ascend& SO MUCH MORE
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14. I Don't Have To Prove My Depression To You & Quitting Only Fans
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WARNING: if you are struggling with suicidal ideation the end of this episode may help you or trigger you. The first part of the episode is all about how I am no longer trying to PROVE my depression to the people in my life and tools I’m using to heal my mental health. We’ll practice breathwork before touching on these deep topics & I’ll share some tools that are helping me grow through my journey with my mental health. Listen at your own digression or feel free to come back when y...
72. Misogyny in Queer Spaces & My Lesbian Updates
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Hey beautiful souls!
Todays episode is all about:
Love island games
Men being unintentionally queer
How my ancestors have my back
Lesbianism vs queerness
My strange ass old friend
Having energy that can’t be penetrated
Are there other energies other than masculine and feminine?
Why bi men are looked at as gay and bi women are looked at as straight (hint: it’s misogyny)
The power of l...
71. PATREON: He Said He Couldn’t Cuddle… Platonic Intimacy & Finding My People
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Hey beautiful souls!
I’m so excited for this wonderful Patreon episode that’s all about platonic intimacy! I was going to post it exclusively for my Patreons but I decided to post this as a preview into the type of bonus content you can enjoy on my Patreon! ❤️
In today’s episode I talk all about:
Platonic touch & intimacy
My amazing ass first Reiki session
How it feels like everytime I go outside I’m energe...
PATREON BONUS: Everything You Want Is On The Other Side Of Fear
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Hey beautiful souls!
Today's episode is all about:
Loving every version of myselfMeeting every version of myself and falling in love again and againHaving regrets everytime I go outside Protecting myself from passport brosPracticing no longer caring about what people think How you can’t fail a test if you’re trying your best Peeping patterns of fear How I got a text from an old flame a few weeks agoEnergetic check ins& MORE!
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70. Creating A Pleasure Plan | Finding Pleasure During Grief
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Was everyone in my life using me? LOL
Hey beautiful souls! In today’s episode we talk all about:
Asking for help & grief in your 30’s
Letting go of all the people who aren’t truly aligned (and possibly never were)
Grieving who I used to be and the life I THOUGHT I used to have
Friend Pushers
Energetic cut offs & navigating the world
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69. Decolonizing Pleasure Pt 2 | Gender & Sexuality Pre-Colonization
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Hey beautiful souls,
HAPPY EPISODE 69!
For Episode 69 I wanted to do something HUGE and this episode is probably THE most informative one yet.
We’re talking about:
Gender and sexuality before colonization
How a spanish colonizer strapped a non binary person to a cannon in brazil because they thought they were dominic
How the christian missionaries went into Amazonia and raided their communities teaching them about the “horrors” of same sex marriage
How the language is being...
68. The Power Of The Indigenous People | Decolonizing Pleasure
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Hey beautiful souls,
In today’s episode I talk all about how the white man literally tried to wipe indigenous people off of the earth and dive deep into some research about the world of pleasure before our bodies were colonized.
Enjoy!
First Article: https://www.ualberta.ca/en/folio/2016/02/indigenous-erotica-gives-new-meaning-to-all-my-relations.html
Second Article: https://www.fairobserver.com/region/north_america/for-native-americans-sex-didnt-come-with-guilt-21347/
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BONUS EPISODE: I Made An Oppsie
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If you were one of the 50 people with very fast hands who were able to catch my last accidental upload. Please go back and re-listen because I've officially uploaded the REAL and ACTUAL episode that was supposed to go out last week LMAO
& it has some great info on dual stimulation.
Ok love you byeeeee
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67. Dual Stimulation, Energy Maintenance & Mind Blowing Orgasms
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Hey beautiful souls!
In today’s amazing episode we talk all about:
The Ethereal Pleasure Camp (an adult summer camp)
Dual Stimulation
My latest experience with penetrating myself (hint: it was a success!)
Explaining why it’s SO IMPORTANT for us to show up exactly as we are
Tryna figure out how much energy to give people
Why I’m making a burn book for the people in my life
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66. How To Pleasure Yourself To Your Higher Self | My Penetration Experiment
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How To Self Pleasure To Your Higher Self & My Penetration Experiment
IT’S MY MF BIRTHDAAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!
In today’s episode we talk about:
Me & my amazing therapy session
How penetration has been a pain (literally and figuratively)
How living honestly & in solitude triggers others (f*ck them)
How I think I wanna start a podcast book club (maybe)
How people pleasing is lowkey a mix of us trying to avoid making ourselves & others feel uncomfortable
Doin...
The Root Cause To The Negative Voices In My Head
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Get those mf OUTTA HERE!
Who is it? Cause it's not you.
We weren't born hating ourselves, unless that's the energy that was pumped into from the womb and even then, there's hope for you to free yourself but first we have to figure out who's voice we are hearing.
Most things people say about you are a reflection of their projection... move accordingly
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65. The History & Hidden Truth Behind Porn (Are We Addicted Or Nah?)
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Trigger Warning: Mentions Of S*xual Assualt
Hey beautiful babes and babettes! I’m so excited for this episode featuring one of my favorite topics! The history of s*x!
This episode is all about:
Trying not to “be” what people want us to be
Missing intimacy (per usual)
Going off about Jesus
What even is the Middle East? And how are you middle eastern if you’re Egyptian? Are you not AFRICAN?!
+ Learning all about the history of porn & how...
What If Everything Wasn't a Punishment
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Anyone else getting sick of all the "lessons" and "tests" that are showing up in our lives especially once we announce we're dedicated to growing?
Well maybe it's time for a mental reshift...
What if these weren't lessons and instead they were practices.
Let's talk about it!
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The Root Cause To The Voices In My Head
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On today's series of voicenotes we're at the beach & we're bringing some healing & compassion to the mean voices in our heads
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64. Matriarchal Animals & How I Dating The Wrong Friend
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Heyyyy beautiful souls!
Welcome to yet another episode of The Love Atiya Experience. In today’s episode we’ll talk all about:
You Are Perfect, Just As You Are | No Lessons Just Practice
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The world may not be punishing us ya'll...
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63. My Social Experiment | Meeting Partner(s) Who Actually Care About Pleasure
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I knew things had to change when I was trying to talk to a guy about a sex dream I had about him and all he focused on was HIS pleasure....
Let's talk about it!
Here's The Application To Bring Pleasure Into My Life: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf5ONie6F277EUWPKkrYZ_LNxG5ZAPIr7ji8VGqPsmP-ay8cA/viewform?usp=header
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The People Pleaser’s Guide to Losing Yourself (and How I’m Finding Me Again)
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“Excuse Me, Am I in Your Way — in Life?” - me LMAO
Okay but…seriously. Why am I saying “sorry” to the chair I just bumped into? Why am I overthinking that text I sent 3 hours ago? Why am I mentally writing 12 versions of a message just to make sure no one’s offended by my breathing pattern??
In this episode of Becoming Wild, I’m diving headfirst (with grace) into the beautiful, burdensome art of being too considerate.
I’m unpacking where it comes from (hi, childhood condi...
62. The Arousal Episode Part 2 | Solo Dates & Sexual Temptation
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Hey doll face!
Welcome to my world!
In today’s episode we talk all about:
Epiphanies for showing up as my authentic self
Working through my friendship hurt (being open for separate healing)
Talking through my desires
Setting my boundaries for my next sexual encounters
Figuring out my own wants and needs without shame
How to increase your sexual arousal
An academy update & more
ENJOY!
How To Become Yourself | My Sparkly, Slightly Messy New Beginning
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Darlings, welcome to the first juicy little bite of my brand-new series, Becoming Wild where I spill the tea, the honey, and maybe a few existential sprinkles about what it really means to unbecome everything you thought you had to be, just to remember who you truly are. (Phew. Yes, that was a sentence. Yes, it’s a journey.)
In this kickoff episode, I’m pulling back the glittery curtain and sharing some real talk: the growing pains, the cosmic giggles, the ego meltdowns, and the tender moments of comi...
PATREON BONUS: Reconnecting With My First Lesbian Lover & My PMDD Diagnosis
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I want to live in a world where we aren't ashamed by our self diagnosis and instead are proud to know that we know our bodies well enough to be able to know when somethings wrong and how to heal it.
Not saying I don't think doctors are needed (in some cases) but my goal to learn my own body was absolutely inspired from the hurt and misinformation I've received from "trusted doctors" when trying to find the answers.
ALSO.... my first lesbian lover from back in the day...
61. How To Feel More Arousal | Math Dyslexia and Pelvic Floor Dysfunction
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Hey beautiful souls!
I’m so excited about today’s episode!
First we’ll be catching up on how I recently learned I had Dyscalculia (a form of math dyslexia) and how it’s affected my life.
Then I chat about my quick meet up with a MAN and how I’m navigating my confused horniness.
Lastly, we chat all about why we sometimes find it hard to get aroused and how to fix that.
10 ways to naturally boost your libid...
60. PROJECT PLEASURE: I Asked 11 People About Their Pleasure & What An Orgasm Feels Like
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In this raw and revealing episode of The Love Atiya Experience, I'm introducing you to something deeply personal, powerful, and necessary.
Introducing: Project Pleasure!
I sat down with 11 brave, brilliant souls and asked them the questions so many of us wonder about but rarely say out loud: What does an orgasm really feel like? Do you orgasm every time you have sex? Do you orgasm every time you have sex?
This episode kicks off a sensual and thought-provoking journey into the intimate world of your f...
59. How To Have A Self Pleasure Ceremony | The Friend I Wanna F*ck
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Hey beautiful souls,
HAPPPPY MASTURBATION MAY!
Today’s intention is to help you feel a lot less shame about yourself, your body and your pleasure!
I 10/10 recommend listening to this when you’re home LMAO
We’re gonna look and feel on our Polly Pockets while falling in love with ourselves one touch at a time.
Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy
...58. How To Feel Less Shame About Self Pleasure
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Hey beautiful souls,
HAPPPPY MASTURBATION MAY!
Today’s intention is to help you feel a lot less shame about yourself, your body and your pleasure!
I 10/10 recommend listening to this episode when you’re home because we’re gonna take a look and a feel on our Polly Pockets, while falling in love with ourselves one touch at a time.
Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy
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PATREON BONUS: New Voicenote Series | Self Care & Boundaries
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Hey babes!
Welcome to my newest series VOICENOTES BY ATITI where I record the random (divine) sht that happens in my life... IN REAL TIME!
0 edits.. all me LMAO
You can hear the rest of the episode here
My Pleasure Shop: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealx
Xoxo
Love Atiya
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57. Processing Grief & Finding Pleasure Without Sex
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Hey beautiful souls!
I know i’ve been MIA on the socials lately but for those of you who don’t know, my cat Tam transcended a few weeks ago and it rocked me to my core.
On the day I decided to record this podcast I was finally having an experience of being in better spirits although, grief comes in heavy heavy waves, when the waves are calm the waters are easier to wade through.
Anywho in this...
PATREON BONUS: Friends, How Many Of Us Have Them? Not Me Apparently
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Hey beautiful souls!
WELCOME TO MY BONUS PATREON EPISODE!
Today's episode is all about friendships and their disappointments.
How I'm cutting everyone off.
Friends being in new relationships.
& setting boundaries in friendships from here on out.
TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/c/TheLoveAtiyaExperience
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56. I Had Sex With a Hotep | PMDD & Being a Highly Sensitive Person
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WELCOME TO YET ANOTHER EPISODE BABES!
Today’s episode is all about:
Some people just wanna complain & that’s ok
Setting boundaries in conversations & asking for consent when giving advice
Pmdd & suicidal ideations (wtf)
Why I think everyone a little autistic
Reflections on my sexual experience with a fauxtep
Why you should never tell men that their s*x is healing LMAO
Making decisions in hornienss
How tf do you get back to being...
55. Nipple Orgasm Tips, Reparenting & Giving Our Parents Grace
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Hi my babies!
In today’s episode we talk all about:
Pervy web developers
PTSD and delayed processing
Are we all God or NAH? (Religion vs belief systems)
Reparentification of myself and my parents
Giving your parents grace (Because none of us really know what the fuck we’re doing)
Learning how to experience your parents as parents and not as humans you have to save or sacrifice your well being for (based on assumptions you’ve made...
54. The Pleasure Guide | How To Get Your Partner To Please You
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Hey beautiful beings!
This episode is so near and dear to my heart because it’s all about PLEASURE.
In today’s episode we’ll talk all about:
Pivoting and randomly changing sh*t up
The proper questions to ask your partner about pleasure
My epiphany on why I didn’t (past tense) allow my partners to solely please ME (and the shame behind it)
Answering questions about pleasure (asked on Tiktok)
Men & their pleasure (or lack the...
PATREON BONUS CONTENT: My New View Of Relationships In 2025
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Join me on patreon to listen to the full clip & hear about all of my epiphanies and fun adventures!
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