Handicapable Black Woman

Caution - This episode talks about addiction, but I call the drugs "candy"
I talk about self-harm in this episode near the end of it. Not me but Mr. Lockakey
Included in this packed episode- Racism, unseasoned food, lies, betrayal, and the struggle with finding out who I was/ am good enough to date.
I face getting into a relationship that I never wanted to be in but because I was scared of the consequences that could follow. I was stupid and allowed myself to be stuck in a space where someone who cared more about...

Interesting Questions as in Interestingly ignorant, stupid, naive or just makes you wonder how your parent's raised you? I talk about some of the crazy idiotic things people tell me in public or online that is just flabbergasting. I go over why it is ignorant and also, I spill some tea on how some things can be helped in our education system and how we are actually hurting our next generation with allowing them to be naive, selfish and expecting everyone to be like them or to stereotype those who are not. 

I am working on my n...

I know it is not most of America, but as I said. Many people get to wear the beer goggles in a place that has so many issues. As I have to live in the reality of how race, gender, and disability play a factor in the society. I also see how people in society play to the point where they push all of those groups to the side, down or just seem to break the table to make sure they have nowhere to sit. This is a story of yet another man and how bad him and his...

I talk about my life with dating and why I ended up choosing men that made me think that I had no choice but to lower my standards. There is some racism, sexism and other items mentioned in this episode. How can a man say "I love you" but other than the ways I could help him, he did not even care. I talk about stereo typing, labeling, changing identity, or them trying to change my identity. Best of all, trying to figure my life with kids while wanting my own and the issues I now face with that...

How the value in your words can interfere with someone else's life to the point where it damages their self-esteem and image.
The restaurant owner that poured water over the homeless woman is:
Dizzy Dean's Donuts
2380 W 11th Ave, Eugene, OR 97402- (108)
Donut Store Owner Films Himself Dumping Water On Homeless Woman - YouTube
Write a review because if a businessperson does not value all lives, then ... Let's make sure other companies get the business.
I will talk a lot about value after what I have witnessed and seen during the last few...

Handicapable Black Woman Episode 11 Value Yourself and Your Identity
Don't let anyone put you down and take away your power, self-esteem and what you think of yourself. I bring up politics up because I have to care about politics because America is trying to take my rights, liberties and the somewhat equal laws that are supposed to give People Of Color, women and people with disabilities a chance. How jobs value me based off of all three and how dating men valued me based off of race, and disability. Part 2 coming next week.
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Handicapable Black Woman Episode 10 Prescription of Compassion
I tell a story that talks about how people with disabilities should not be drilled, quizzed or ridiculed, treating them like a child when it comes to their diagnosis when they are the ones living through it is a mistake you ought to make. I tell a story of how I was belittled even though I followed the steps and everyone before the pharmacy did their job in order to help me live a somewhat normal life.

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I talk about how my America is different from many people when it comes to hair, resources, entertainment and why I care about America and where it is headed.
I talk about the imbalance of how we are seen and perceived, stereotyped and put in a box or labeled.   
I will have tons of examples that prove my stance on my twitter and will be adding my new TikTok channel very shortly.
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This example of police before I take a break on the topic, I talk about a sexist's situation that I went through and how I was blamed for a man threatening to follow me home. This is a story I try to forget about because men try to blame me, or many men say that women want this type of attention. Men don't kid yourselves.  I will be adding different links on my twitter so check out my twitter and you will see dating nightmares, statistics about the topics I bring up and more. I also have books up a...

I continue with telling my story from part one on why I will not date a police officer or veteran.
I will be posting many stories that explain and prove my point on my twitter which you will find in my link tree. There are some good cops and veterans, but I bump into a lot of the bad ones and with what I am seeing around me I know that our justice system needs a facelift and needs to realize the racism that in all of the cracks, corners and laying there right in front of all...

*Warning- I do bring up violent stuff in this episode so if that makes you uncomfortable, I will have new episodes next week. *

Republicans say to behave and follow directions but when you are black for most cops you also need to obey.
I go over some of the issues I have been through when it comes to the police officers and vets.
I mention the lack of training with 4 examples of why I have low expectations of cops. How I have dealt with racism and placed in awful situations from each one. I know...

I talk about how in the dating world today many men still try to deflate our (woman or man) value.
I talk a lot about ways to develop yourself
Your wants and needs and how his are not the only ones that count
How some men will try to tear you down so that you feel like you are not good enough for anyone else.
I have many of the messages I get online from men in my social media. You can check out my linktree to some of the thing's men have the nerve...

**Warning there is some mention of language and violence in this episode. **
(I hoped around some because this topic leads to so many other issues and topics of America.)

This episode goes over part of the stereo typing issue that we have in America. I can go on for hours but will have more examples and parts later on. I talk a lot about school and dating examples from both dating black and outside of my race. Make sure to listen in on the ignorant comments and cookie cutter thoughts people actually say out loud that...

Part one of my employment history and trying to find work but how I ended up drowning in interest and expected payments when I was being bombarded with illegal HR questions and the issue of race and my unique name.  I work and hint at some of the jobs I worked at to pay bills and survive but also jobs that I probably would have gotten if I did not have my disability or because of my race. Student loans is something many people will not understand, and I am proud of those that paid them off and those w...

I tell 3 restaurant stories about how I was treated as someone with a disability. I share how some companies do not care if their employees treat people in a degrading way. I mention some ways that people can make it easier for those nervous who want to get out and socialize but maybe scared or feel out of place.

Lessons to learn- Learn or train or fake to treat people with disabilities like they count or matter.
*I forgot to mention please try to hire someone who speaks/signs ASL and try to have a menu...

This podcast is a voice for everyone who is finding or realizing their true identity and those who always feel like they have to prove themselves or wonder why and how people are the way they are. My introduction video where I talk about my identity as a newly diagnosed disability person and why I am just now finding value in myself and in my life. I am still getting judged and looked down on and I am finding out how shallow people can really be when it comes to dating, job placement, coworkers, "friends" etc. I kind of...