Handicapable Black Woman

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By: Stelanie

I have over 150 episodes on Youtube! 90% are new and different from the main podcast https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5koX0stO4s6wE0UVtTp_mAI will have new episodes almost everyday at 2:22pm your time and  I have so many screenshots of dating nightmares, bigots, haters, catfish, racism and so much more.   I have so much to work on and announce for the year 2025, including my greeting card line, gray sheep society (check out YouTube for more on that), my novels and children's books and much more ( I am motivated and determined and you should be too!).The Handicapable Blac...

My Personal Rant
09/22/2024


2024 VS My Petty
#111
05/12/2024

Handicapable Black Woman Episode 111 2024 VS My Petty


I Was Meant to be a Villain
04/20/2024

Handicapable Black Woman I Was Meant to be a Villain 
I dive in deep with how I should have been a villain and what makes a good one and how ones actions can be seen in different ways in order to make them seem bad or good when you do not see the full picture. 


Definition of a doctor part 2
#110
04/15/2024

Handicapable Black Woman Episode 110 Definition of a doctor part 2
I talk more into the health care system and how it ruined my life. Some villains wear white coats. 


Definition of a Doctor is Villain to me
#109
04/08/2024

Handicapable Black Woman Episode 109 Definition of a Doctor is Villain to me
What is the definition of a doctor? If you could describe your doctor in three words what would they be? Are doctors heroes or villains?


What Do Women Think of a House Husband? Reddit
#107
03/18/2024

What Do Women Think of a House Husband? Reddit 


Would Anyone Seriously Date a Pregnant Woman? Reddit
#106
03/12/2024

Would Anyone Seriously Date a Pregnant Woman? Reddit
This is the Reddit question I will be covering and different ways to think about it. Would you date someone who was with child or told you they were pregnant?

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Google vs Diversity vs White Privilege
03/08/2024


In Memory of Nex- For Some School is Hell
#104
03/02/2024

In Memory of Nex- For Some School is Hell I will go through some of the Hell I went through while going through in school and why the Republicans are only trying to help it continue. They want children to be ignorant and bully those who are not like them to enforce that those children will then change and forced to be like everybody else. There is nothing like being forced into religious identity and cohesiveness, right?
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IVF vs Disability vs Republicans vs Life Part 1
#103
02/27/2024

While Women's rights are slowly being stolen from us there are so many contradictions and lies that keep being told. There are always two sides to a story and page but when it comes to having a disability, and wanting kids, and being religous I continuously hear contradictions and vile statements that if you slide them together would never be able to fit in the same puzzle and both would probably fit in a puzzle with the image of Hell. 


Black People Can Do What They Want!
#102
02/14/2024

Leading Towards V-Day. I love black love, but it is not for everyone. Most black men don't like me or find no interest in me or the only way they will desire me is if I change for them or only give it up for them until they find someone worthy of their time. 
Now I talked about investing, education, reading, anime, android, education, musicals, plays, arts, gardening etc. I have a long enough list of why black men don't want me but they still get mad when I date outside of the black love atmosphere. 


Black People Can Be Educated
#101
02/12/2024

I talk about my trouble dating black men and why when it came to my education, I felt like I was never going to find love with a black man. 


Black People Can Invest
#100
02/09/2024

Black People Can Invest and don't forget about prenups!


“There’s no need to worry about the police if you’re not doing anything illegal.”
#99
02/07/2024

“There’s no need to worry about the police if you’re not doing anything illegal.” I talk about how some certain people respond when I talk about my situations with police. 
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AITA For Refusing to Name My Son After Me?
#98
02/03/2024

AITA For Refusing to Name My Son After Me? 
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Pastor's Kids P K's Why I Won't Date Them Dating Nightmare
#94
01/25/2024

Hello and how are you guys doing?
I am breaking down the stupidity I tolerated while dating undiagnosed. Many people ask me why on Earth did I date these men, but I know for a fact that your mental health tells you how to feel when it comes to your worth and who you think you deserve love or affection from.  Now I am retired from dating and some men try to tell me they are interested and everything but ... I have more stories for you but one thing I will keep saying is live your best life a...


Going to a Musical or Not. Part 1
#93
01/04/2024

Going to a Musical or Not. Part 1
I will talk about how I am just now going to start doing things I love again and with Lockakey it was because he was broke, I was not going to pay for everything, he was always on special candy and I was not going to drive around with him everywhere on special candy but with NoHeart, it's a different story. He truely had no heart and after his divorce must have decided to be as awful as he could to a woman without her leaving. 


Representation in and inside the AMC Identity and Disability Example
#92
01/02/2024

Representation in and inside the AMC

Identity and Disability Example 
When people tell me that we have all of our rights and how great our country is I shake my head. We are in a great country for the most part but when certain people are not allowed to go to work or school with their natural hair and now a civil rights activist gets kicked out of a AMC movie theater because of his disability needs. Our county has a far way to go before everyone can say they have the same f...


What is my identity? What Is Supposed to Be My Identity? Part 3
#92
12/31/2023

I talk more about examples of my identity and how I am labeled or told who I am supposed to be on a regular basis.


What is my identity What Is Supposed to Be My Identity Part 2
#91
12/30/2023

I will be introducing the subject and telling examples of when I have been stereotyped and people telling me who I am supposed to be or like and how I am supposed to be their definition of an African Woman with a disability.


What is my identity? What Is Supposed to Be My Identity?
#90
12/29/2023

When it comes to dating, many men picture me and who I am supposed to be in such ignorant and stereotypical boxes. I will talk about identity and how you are supposed to be your best person and not who anyone else thinks you are supposed to be. Over the next few episodes, I will bring up how people tell me a black woman is supposed to be, a woman and a person with a disability. 
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I Took Some Petty at University
#89
12/16/2023

I Took Some Petty at University 


I Won't Let a Man Block My Goals
#88
12/08/2023

I Won't Let a Man Block My Goals
 This is a one-hour episode. I continue my talk about men blocking my goals, jury duty, expectations, mental health and how being a POC, Female and having a disability makes people think you can't do much of anything. 
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Standards Before Eggplant All and Every Day. Part 1
#87
12/07/2023

I have been pondering about the first Reddit story and diving in to explore why I related to this one. I have much more to come. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe!
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What are some standards that you have had to end a relationship over?
What standards that you don't have that many desire?


Reddit My Man Hates That I Am a Massage Therapist AITAH
#86
12/04/2023

I am now covering Reddit AITAH or I call them Am I The Absolute Horror... playing off of the Dating Nightmare theme. I will be trying to do one or two of these a week and this one is interesting and could be taken different ways and after recording I thought of another one so there will be a part two... who is surprised here? It's me, right? If you are new welcome to the cup full of petty where I give my perspective from the eyes and life of disability, POC and female. Enjoy!

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An Increasing Number of Men are Thinking Like Andrew Tate Part 2
#85
11/30/2023

An Increasing Number of Men are Thinking Like Andrew Tate Part 2 
I continue on my talk about how women are not appreciated enough when it comes to having children and the responsibility it takes and the trust one must have, and I touch on the two of the tougher points when it comes to being a mother and one is to be a mother or not to be a mother? That is a question that needs to be analyzed and thought out a lot more, especially when it comes to a life and the person you are performing t...


An Increasing Number of Men are Thinking Like Andrew Tate Part 1
#84
11/30/2023

An Increasing Number of Men are Thinking Like Andrew Tate Part 1

Looking at message's men send me and thinking about past relationships while working on my definition of a parent series I have thought a lot about how little women are recognized and, in several situations belittled. People judge me for not having kids yet or have different viewpoints which is human but when your church says you have to be married and not divorce, but then men you are dating you don't see yourself happy for the rest of your life and then trusting...


Live Your Life with Goals Inspiration and Petty Part 3
#83
11/08/2023

Live Your Life with Goals Inspiration and Petty Part 3
 I tell more about my goals, inspiration and business goals. I will lay out some of the ideas for my website, going live on YouTube and much more and how I get through the negativity.
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Live Your Life with Goals Inspiration and Petty Part 2
11/02/2023

Live Your Life with Goals Inspiration and Petty Part 2
I talk more about my goals and what I plan to work on with my small business and how I had to push away the negativity and figure out who I am and who I plan to be even if I fail who and what I inspire to be known for while on this Earth. This episode I start on my list and how I will start my Patreon, Discord, YouTube and more on Podcast.
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Live Your Life with Goals Inspiration and Petty Part 1
#80
10/30/2023

 Live Your Life with Goals Inspiration and Petty Part 1
I talk about goals and living your life, turning lemons into lemonade and don't let people stop you from what you want to do and what inspires you (as long as it's legal).
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Dating is a Battle on Both Sides Part 3
#79
10/30/2023

Dating is a Battle on Both Sides Part 3
I talk about the war of dating and the nightmare that has erupted from it ... or vise versa. How some men/ women take their anger of rejection/ being single on others who have nothing to do with it or because they find someone either they want to bully/ victim or they were interested until they saw that the person shows on their profile that they would not be interested in them. 
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Dating is a Battle on Both Sides Part 2
#78
10/28/2023

Dating is a Battle on Both Sides Part 2
More talk about the Clam Date lady and how the dating world feels in many like a war and how compatibility seems to be more complex than ever. I spill the tea and have story time in this episode. I talk dating nightmares and how my past has not changed my expectations.
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Dating is a Battle on Both Sides Part 1
#77
10/26/2023

Dating is a Battle on Both Sides Part 1

When I see stories about women who eat four dozen clams and a dinner and have a drink and record while on the date but not considering the date at all and upset when the date leaves when he pretends to go the bathroom and then another woman who was upset her date took her to the Cheesecake Factory after she was an hour late, let he sit in his car and he had reservations elsewhere but they were too late so when they get into the parking lot...


The Hairy Topic of Mental Health
#76
10/09/2023

The Hairy Topic of Mental Health 

I am going to hop out of the box of hair for a moment to start talking about mental health and the need for understanding and coming together. I ran out of time but will definitely be a part two very soon. Enjoy.
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My Crown May Be Damaged but I'm Still a Queen Part 3
#75
10/08/2023

My Crown May Be Damaged but I'm Still a Queen Part 3
I talk about the need for better education in beauty school for people to know and acknowledge our beauty and traditions. Mr. NoHeart's family is a great example of this and I share tidbits on how some enjoy being ignorant with everything that does not involve them.

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My Crown May Be Damaged but I'm Still a Queen Part 2
#74
10/07/2023

My Crown May Be Damaged but I'm Still a Queen Part 2

I continue one of my stories about my hair and when I transitioned and how my mental health was involved.  Please share with beauticians and hair stylist to let them know that they are involved in mental health and how they talk and treat their clients/ customers.
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My Crown May Be Damaged but I'm Still a Queen Part 1
#73
10/06/2023

My Crown May Be Damaged but I'm Still a Queen  Part 1

I have story time that explains why the C.R.O.W.N act is vital in America and the ignorance withing and outside the African American Community when it comes to natural hair and the uneducated or racist businesses and schools who force only European Beauty standards that for many to not embrace their genuine natural selves/ beauty.
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If you want to start a conversation with me, remember I am human first and I live with a disability second.
#72
10/03/2023

If you want to start a conversation with me, remember I am human first and I live with a disability second.
People come up to me or providing a service and I have learned that some of you guys need to learn how to talk to someone with a disability. I have created a summary but will cover more down the road. You're welcome.
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I Write Fiction but My Stories are True.
#71
09/20/2023

I Write Fiction but My Stories are True.  Hisan Minhaj really disappointed me today.  Many of us tell our stories to people so they can understand others don't live the life like them. I tell my experiences and talk current events so people can understand and see how the world and America really is for some. I talk about things that I have learned and what I hope others know and understand down the road. I tell the truth and nothing but the truth and I put my truth in my novels and stories so people can understand others pa...


Would You Let Your Daughter Date a Younger Version of You
#70
09/08/2023

Would You Let Your Daughter Date a Younger Version of You
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I go in more on why some women are single and why some Republican men hate it. Many women want kids and to live the family life, but we also want to create out dreams as well. Some men (I have receipts) tell me my place and only place is to make their kids, cook, clean and make the man happy. They say who wants a smart woman? Some women are smart enough not...