Church is Messy

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By: Rick Henderson and Svea Merry

Church is messy podcast recorded at Autumn Ridge Church in Rochester, MN

Church Is Messy: Our Mission, Vision and Values
#110
07/09/2025

Rick and Svea kick-off a five-part series on the Mission, Vision, and Values of Autumn Ridge Church.

Topics discussed in this Episode:

0:00 Intro02:47 Why does Autumn Ridge have a mission statement? Knowing why we say "Yes" and "No" to various opportunities.04:02 Most of life's hurts happen when we live in contradiction to our purpose.07:10 Our vision: communicating the kind of church we desire to be.09:15 Why is it important we have a vision statement?12:18 Digging in: Every single word in our MVV has been labored over and is important.12:23 Our Mission - Disciple vs follower of...


Church Is Messy: Holy Lit - the Bible as Holy Literature
#109
06/04/2025

Rick and Svea discuss the three major goals of the summer's Holy Lit series.

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro02:46 Holy Lit - three goals03:05 Goal one: Uncomplicate our relationship with the Bible.09:59 If you have a simplistic understanding of the Bible you're going to have a more complicated relationship with it.12:01 Goal two: Energize our engagement with the Bible.15:33 Goal three: Expand our ability to understand the Bible.16:48 Series thesis: This is a backstory to the story of the Bible.19:36 Why is this important? Aligning with truth.24:46 The Bible is overwhelming, I don't even know...


Church Is Messy: Loaded Questions - How do I not feel like a failure?
#108
05/28/2025

Pastor Caleb Smith joins Rick and Svea to close the Loaded Questions series. They discuss success and failure and how society's framework for success is at odds with the Gospel's framework for success.

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro00:57 Reflecting on the Loaded Questions series.04:42 What was it like preparing to speak on failure?06:20 Svea to Caleb: Did your definitions of success and failure change or grow as a part preparing for this message?09:46 Embracing the tension of the gospel's framework of success and the inescapable realities of life.17:17 The rich, young ruler: a case study...


Church Is Messy: Loaded Questions - Can I believe and still have doubts?
#107
05/21/2025

Rick and Svea have a robust conversation about doubt. They talk about the connection with doubt, faith, and belief. Are there unsafe questions to ask? They also discuss the role of community in removing doubt.

Resources:
A. J. Swoboda's book, After Doubt

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro02:31 Summary of what Svea learned about herself, doubt, and Jesus in preparing for this message.09:58 1 Corinthians 4: 20 - The kingdom of God isn't a matter of talk but of power.12:38 What is doubt?18:00 What do we mean when we talk about faith or belief?23:40 Is it...


Church Is Messy: Loaded Questions - Does faith fix mental health?
#106
05/14/2025

In this episode Svea is joined by pastors Otis Hall and Jodi Quinn as they look at faith and mental health.

Resources:
Jodi Quinn's email: care@autumnridge.church

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro01:21 The number of Americans dealing with mental health issues is staggering.02:03 We seem to be afraid to talk about mental health.04:37 Being real about mental health issues. Otis' struggles.06:42 Prayer and following Jesus doesn't mean all our mental health issues will go away.08:42 Svea to Otis: how have you felt Jesus support you in your own life.10:38 Shouldn't I...


Church Is Messy: Loaded Questions - Is our church a welcoming place for the LGBTQ Community?
#105
05/07/2025

This we we certainly live up to "church is messy." If time allows, we would encourage you to watch the sermon before listening to this podcast. We're also providing a number of resources on the topic of sexuality.

Resources:

Sermon Video URL: https://youtu.be/DidFo1xj9owCenter for Faith, Sexuality and Gender (https://www.centerforfaith.com)Greg ColesPreston SprinkleRebecca McLaughlinChristopher YuanSam AllberryJackie Hill PerryMark Yarhouse

Three sermons by Jon Tyson:

The Controversial Jesus | Jesus and the Gay Community – Jon Tyson https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QqF0MwqjuBU&t=37sThe Controversial Jesus | Jesus, Ge...


Church Is Messy: Loaded Questions - how do we know what's true?
#104
04/30/2025

Rick and Svea answer your questions about truth.

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro01:58 Loaded Questions takes on a different format from other messages06:38 Why does truth matter?10:51 Is it possible for Christianity to be true and other religions to be true?15:05 How can we know Scripture is true?19:06 In Scripture is it possible the authors were biased?22:48 What do I need God for?24:43 How can you discern if what you're hearing is from God or the devil?26:48 Do you obtain knowledge at all? How do the disciples know they saw Jesus?31:49 How do we know...


Church Is Messy: Galatians - Something to Boast About
#103
04/16/2025

Rick and Svea finish off the series on Galatians mostly focusing on burdens, loads, and pride.

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro03:26 A LOT of diverse topics to cover is Galatians 6.04:44 What resonated with Svea that she wasn't able to cover in this passage?05:41 Carrying our own load and bearing each other's burdens.11:40 God isn't calling you to fix the people who sinned against you.17:21 I'm responsible for what I contribute, now necessarily how other people respond.20:01 How do you tell the difference between someone caught in sin and someone doing something you don't like?22:00 Presenting...


Church Is Messy: Galatians - Free and Fruity
#102
04/09/2025

Today Rick and Svea contrast works of the flesh with fruit of the Spirit.

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro02:21 "Don't bite and devour each other..."04:50 Defining ourselves by obeying rigid rules or religious structures invites comparison on who is and isn't achieving and breeds pride.06:09 How might Jesus has told the parable of The Good Samaritan to Autumn Ridge Church?08:16 If the Gospel stops messing with us, we're changing it; it's not changing us.11:09 Paul was writing to believers, not unbelievers. Works of the flesh happen within church people.13:38 We don't conquer works of the...


Church Is Messy: Galatians - Cutting Remarks
#101
04/02/2025

Today Rick and Svea look at the allure of certainty instead of clarity, creating environments where litmus tests are the norm vs being in Christ.

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro01:46 Crawford Loritts was at Autumn Ridge Church.03:31 Back into Galatians. Svea says it's a difficult book.05:06 Gravitating toward environments and activities where we feel significant.08:34 Getting into the shoes of a typical Galatian man.11:29 Giving in to the allure of certainty instead of clarity.13:25 Putting so much emphasis on circumcision.15:55 Modern-day litmus tests to see if we're in the "in crowd."16:43 We are people of...


Church Is Messy: Galatians - Good News
#100
03/19/2025

Welcome to episode 100! Today, as they discuss Galatians chapter 4, Rick and Svea dig into having everything in Christ but living as though we have nothing.

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro00:38 Episode 100: Where did the name "Church Is Messy" come from?03:15 Galatians 4, we've been given everything in Christ but it's so easy for us to live as though we have nothing.06:33 A specific example of how we get it wrong: conflict.17:21 Paul leans in on conflict.18:43 Adoption: the irrevocable security we have in our standing with God.


Church Is Messy: Galatians - Ragamuffins
#99
03/12/2025

Today Rick and Svea acknowledge Galatians is a difficult book to understand, especially if we don't have an understanding of the Old Testament. They talk about tools to help gain understanding and spend some time discussing "the law".

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro01:32 Galatians is a hard book to get through and understand. Use tools like The Bible Project or The Message to help understand the deep content of Galatians.09:05 Looking at Galatians 3, an understanding of the Promise, the law, and Jesus' role in them is crucial.11:02 Understanding "the law."13:29 Misconceptions about the law.22:42 Galatians...


Church Is Messy: Bonus Episode - Answering Your Questions
#98
03/05/2025

This episode is focused solely on answering your questions. We've received four very different questions and today we're putting out this bonus episode to answer them.

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro00:50 Question 1 - In Galatians 2 Paul specifically says gentiles don't need to be circumcised after following Christ - but yet he directs Timothy to get circumcised (Acts 16). This seems like a double-standard.10:29 Question 2 - Jesus became sin for us on the cross. How can God become sin when he's perfect and can't even look upon sin?15:50 Question 3 - What is the difference between an Apostle...


Church Is Messy: Galatians - Fluency or Gibberish
#97
03/05/2025

In this episode Rick and Svea dig really deep into gospel fluency vs gospel gibberish. The gospel isn't just trusting Jesus for salvation, it's trusting Jesus for and with the rest of your life.

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro00:57 Garrison Keillor and fake spring.02:29 "You foolish Galatians..."04:49 The Christian life is NOT trusting Jesus for salvation and then living the rest of your life doing things on your own and following rules.10:40 The problem with trusting in something or someone other than the Holy Spirit to fill the various "holes" in our lives.14:52 Digging in...


Church Is Messy: Galatians - Undivided
#96
02/24/2025

In week two of our Galatians study Rick and Svea discuss conflict, the freedom we have in Jesus, and gospel fluency.

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro01:40 Answering your questions: Does Galatians give a hierarchy of how we should relate to other people?07:16 Galatians chapter 2.09:33 Addressing conflict with other Jesus followers.15:53 The intersection of conflict, freedom in Christ and gospel fluency.18:52 The framework of gospel fluency.20:13 A summary of the gospel.24:05 Practical hand-holds to gospel fluency.27:35 Accepting and loving people vs endorsing practices contrary to the gospel.30:54 Explaining behaviors and lifestyles contrary to the gospel to...


Church Is Messy: Galatians - Make It Count
#95
02/19/2025

As we kick of our new series on the book of Galatians, Rick and Svea discuss false gospels and answer a listener question.

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro03:23 Whose approval are you seeking?06:37 An example of appropriate and missing the gospel.10:03 The specific problems the Galatian church faced - adding to the gospel.14:10 We're all trying to reflect Jesus, not each other.17:41 How do we discern legalistic practices vs healthy practices in our own life?22:03 The progressive gospel and the regressive gospel: current, deadly false gospels.28:06 Listener question: How do we balance loving people without...


Church Is Messy: The Lion's Share - Why Is our Church so Expensive?
#94
02/06/2025

We're putting a bow on The Lion's Share series. Today we scrutinize our own church and discuss our ministry method.

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro01:06 Turning the focus on how Autumn Ridge handles money. Being transparent.03:29 Where is the organization: more than enough, just enough, less than enough? Our strategy.10:58 Year-end giving.12:46 Why this timing (January) on a series about finances?14:54 Our ministry method - the hub model.25:26 The kind of church we aspire to be.27:22 The upcoming Galatians series and a "Thank You."


Church Is Messy: The Lion's Share - Faithful and Generous
#93
01/29/2025

Today Rick and Svea talk about their own struggles with greed and simplicity and the New Testament framework of faithful giving and generous giving.

Bible passages referenced in today's episode:
1 Timothy 6:17-19; 1 Corinthians 9:13-14; 2 Corinthians 8:1-5


Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro01:13 This message pushed Rick to wrestle down his own contentment.03:56 Simplicity: a corollary to contentment.05:16 Svea fell back into the trap of not practicing simplicity this past week.07:16 Rick confronting greed as he's excited about his new hobby of hunting.08:34 The practice of generosity - a tangible expression of love.09:28...


Church is Messy: The Lion's Share - the False Promise of the Prosperity Gospel
#92
01/25/2025

Today Rick and Svea dig deep into the essence of the prosperity gospel, it falsehoods, and the various expressions of the prosperity gospel.

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro01:47 Intro to the prosperity gospel.02:50 The real essence of the prosperity gospel.03:42 Live Q&A after most Saturday services (when Rick preaches).04:22 From the Q&A session last weekend: what is the fallout of the prosperity gospel?06:01 The year was 2013.14:48 The ditch: manipulation vs. grace.17:55 Why do we obey God?20:07 Different expressions of the prosperity gospel.20:41 Health and Healing prosperity gospel,26:13 The inverse: the poverty gospel,28:24 The...


Church Is Messy: The Lion's Share - More than Enough
#91
01/15/2025

In the first half of the episode Rick and Svea share where their vulnerabilities lie regarding money. In the second half they dig into contentment.

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro01:12 Rick's history with Football.04:25 Rick and Svea wrestle through how calendars and money demonstrate who or what has our hearts.07:05 Svea talks about being vulnerable to finding security in money.11:32 Rick talks about his primary vulnerability comes through the satisfaction and significance money can bring.13:48 This series reveals deep soul issues and the opportunity we have to invite God into those spaces.14:52 Svea and her...


Church Is Messy: The Lion's Share - Just Enough
#90
01/08/2025

In this episode, Rick and Svea unpack some of the ideas behind "Just Enough."

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro00:27 Review of 202404:45 The Lion's Share.07:37 The tension and awkwardness of a money message series.08:20 Wanting for people not from people.12:53 Resisting the temptation to sit the series out.15:00 The topics this series will cover.16:07 Just enough.18:23 Do I find significance, security, or satisfaction in what I have or who I have?23:06 The challenge: what is "just enough"?33:41 The emphasis Jesus put on the motivations of our heart.


Church Is Messy: Jonah Week 6 - Unrelenting Grace
#89
11/06/2024

Rick and Svea close out Jonah talking about traps, windows and mirrors, God's judgement in the Old Testament, and how we can apply the themes of Jonah to life after elections (this episode was recorded on Election Day, 2024). Ultimately, it boils down to this week's sermon topic: Unrelenting Grace.

Topics discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro01:22 Election Day banter.02:46 A pastoral encouragement about election anxiety.05:09 Keep looking up - keep your eyes fixed on God.07:06 The early Church.09:53 Like Jonah, we all have traps we fall into when we find our security, significance, or satisfaction in something...


Church Is Messy: Jonah Week 5 - God's Compassionate Love
#88
10/30/2024

The roles are reversed: Rick asks Svea about her message on Jonah and we get insight into what didn't make it into the message this past week.

Topics discussed in this episode:

00:00 Intro01:33 Believing God is gracious, compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love at the heart level banishes fear, heals hurts, and melts anger.04:00 How do you recognize the real ugliness and brokenness in the world that touches our lives, remember who God is and what we're like in him in such a way we are not angry people?08:12 What was left on the...


Church Is Messy: Jonah Week 4 - Freedom
#87
10/23/2024

Rick and Svea grapple with a number of important themes from Jonah this week:

God's provisionJonah is full of biblical parallelsObedience

Topics discussed in this episode:

00:00 Intro00:59 Lots of fun aspects and different connections in the text a more casual reading may miss. (Such as the fish in Jonah switches from masculine to feminine in Hebrew.)04:25 The fish: tomb or womb?05:51 Did Jonah's view of the fish change in retrospect? God's provision may look different than we're expecting.07:21 Two rabbit trails: the fish-historical narrative vs parable vs satire and womb-God's compassion.10:06 Parallel between Jonah's fish and...


Church Is Messy: Jonah week 3 - Repentance
#86
10/16/2024

Rick and Svea make light of finally getting to "the whale" and how this is often given the lion's share of the messaging about Jonah when it's really an insignificant element of the story. This week's episode drips with challenges to go deeper and looking at what the text is actually saying.

Topics discussed in this episode:

00:00 Intro01:33 Svea is struck by how many of us grew up with a child-like level of understanding of the book of Jonah.05:00 For many the focus of the book is on a very small part of the story...


Church Is Messy: Jonah Week 2 - The Line
#85
10/09/2024

This week Rick and Svea look at Jonah 1:1-16. Jonah acts as an enemy of God and yet God shows him grace. They draw out a number a parallels between Jonah and Jesus and how they differ in their motivation.

Topics discussed in this episode:

00:00 Intro01:42 Where is the line?06:51 Rick gets honest - some of his backstory.10:29 God sets his heart on his enemies and loves his enemies like a son.11:41 Jonah acts as an enemy of God but God shows him scandalous grace. 18:14 Jonah is the entire Bible in miniature.20:17 Jonah goes down in t...


Church Is Messy: A Question from Jonah Week 1
#84
10/02/2024

In the weekend message introducing the book of Jonah, Rick stated there are two common views to interpreting the story of Jonah: historical narrative or primarily parable. In this episode Rick and Svea discuss a question posed to them: Does Jesus' reference to Jonah in Matthew 12, when foretelling his own death and resurrection, support a particular interpretation of Jonah?

Topics discussed in this episode:

00:00 Intro01:04 Our unity isn't based on everyone agreeing on everything. Our unity is based on inclusion in Christ. It's okay to have different understandings on a variety of topics and still maintain...


Church Is Messy: Intro to Jonah
#83
09/25/2024

Rick and Svea introduce us to the book of Jonah and its timeframe in history. This is a book filled with comedy and satire; in many ways hundreds of years before its time, and yet is has profoundly important questions and themes it wants us to deal with.

Note: this episode was recorded prior to the first message being given.

Topics discussed in this episode:

00:00 Intro.02:20 Background of the book of Jonah - it's like the arc of the entire Bible condensed into a few chapters.05:01 Synopsis of Jonah.08:33 The focus: are we aligned...


Church is Messy: Living Like the Elect Before an Election
#82
09/18/2024

In this episode Rick and Svea try to bring light, not heat to the discussion of politics.

Svea recommends watching the message on which this episode is based before listening to the podcast.
Find the video here: https://youtu.be/KHN2c6-z-Ow

Topics Discussed in this Episode:

00:00 Intro01:09 Discussion of Politics and Churches and Church Leaders04:46 Rick's goal as a pastor is to teach people how to think about politics and how to align with the Bible.06:12 How do we reconcile the idea that everyone is trying to do their best with...


Church Is Messy: Ghosted Series Questions and Recap
#81
09/04/2024

Welcome to a new season of Church Is Messy! Rick and Svea kick the season off with a bang and delve into a number of questions and topics related to our recently completed series, Gifted, on the Holy Spirit.

Topics discussed in today's episode:

00:00 Intro and Rick and Svea's Summer Highlights and Lessons Learned.05:53 Recap of the Ghosted message series and a summary of the topics: including what is the Holy Spirit's role in spreading the Gospel, what is the Spirit's role in our own faith, what about spiritual gifts, and what is God's will for...


Church Is Messy: Bonus Episode - Spiritual Formation
#80
08/14/2024

Rick and Svea discuss a topic about which they both feel passionate: spiritual formation. What is it? How is it different than discipleship? Is it even a biblical term? Listen and catch the vision for why they're so excited about spiritual formation.

Want to take your next step? Check out our classes: https://autumnridge.churchcenter.com/groups/classes-studies?

Topics in this Episode:

00:00 Intro00:59 What is spiritual formation and how is it different from discipleship? Spiritual formation includes things that form us other than discipling under Jesus.02:56 How does the Practicing the Way class help...


Church Is Messy: Bonus Episode - Politics
#79
07/17/2024

What are two topics we've been told to avoid talking about if we don't want an argument? Religion and Politics. Rick and Svea dive head-first into the issue of politics. Take a look at the list of topics below and you'll see there isn't much they didn't touch on.

Be sure to check out the resources so you can be informed as you make your own determination about how to proceed as an ambassador of Christ in the arena of politics.

Additional Resources:

Church Politics PodcastThe Ballot and the BibleAnd CampaignThe After Party

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Church Is Messy: Bonus Episode - Sunday School for Grown Ups Discussion
#78
06/26/2024

In this bonus episode between seasons, Rick and Svea discuss large recurring themes in familiar Old Testament stories. A lot of the discussion revolves around the content of the Bible being so amazing and such a big deal, God communicated it in the best way possible for all communities, all generations, and all cultures with everything in these stories pointing us to Jesus, the Gospel, and life in him.

Topics in this Episode:

00:00 Intro01:43 The ethos of the series: a deep dive into incredible, familiar, overlooked stories that are often perceived as childish.02:38 The Bible stories...


Church Is Messy: The Lost Words of Jesus Week 3
#77
05/29/2024

Pastor Caleb Smith joins Rick and Svea on today's episode. They dig into what is perhaps one of the most debated stories Jesus ever told, The Parable of the Dishonest Manager in Luke 16.


Show Notes

00:00 Intro Rick's story from the gym trying a new workout and being less than shrewd03:13 Many preachers skip this parable because it can throw people off, but Caleb was excited to study and preach this passage. 05:03 Discussion of reading the Bible through the original, intended audience's perspective07:40 There is some cutting room floor content that didn't make it i...


Church Is Messy: The Lost Words of Jesus Week 2
#76
05/22/2024

Today's Topic


Rick and Svea discuss one of Jesus' most famous stories, The Prodigal Son found in Luke 15:11-32.


Topics Discussed in this Episode

00:00 Intro - Rick's late caffeine morning.01:39 Talking about the word, "Lost."04:21 Love requires we be sensitive about the language we use, especially around those who have not yet come to faith in Jesus. We shouldn't be motivated by proclaiming, we should be motivated by people hearing - and hearing our intent.08:48 The crowd who heard this story by Jesus and with whom they may...


Church Is Messy: The Lost Words of Jesus Week 1
#75
05/15/2024

Rick and Svea reverse roles today. He puts Svea in the "hot seat" as they discuss the genius of the stories in Luke 15:1-10. In these parables, Jesus simultaneously speaks to, and shows compassion toward, two groups of people who viewed themselves as being at opposite ends of the spectrum.


Topics Discussed in this Episode

00:00 Intro01:14 Mother's Day is this weekend. Svea has a lot of "mom labels."04:29 Getting into the Lost Words of Jesus series - parables of lost things. Jesus really knew his audience. How did Svea get into studying the...


Church Is Messy: Run to Win
#74
05/08/2024

Rick and Svea talk about Rick's last weekend message about focusing in on our mission.


Topics Discussed in this Episode

00:00 Intro00:50 What was the purpose of this past sermon? Why was it applicable to our church? 01:23 Discussion of changes in our church and in other churches - post-COVID, senior pastors, men and women in leadership, worship service options, etc. 05:15 The Bible and the Gospel require change and surrendering of preferences in many ways.08:29 All that we are and all that we have is based on Jesus, and we are grounded on the principle of...


Church Is Messy: Love Is The Agenda - Fostering
#73
05/01/2024

On this episode, Pastor Otis Hall joins Rick and Svea in the studio to continue the weekend’s discussion on James 1:27 and how that verse can propel us into action to care for our society’s most vulnerable.


Topics Discussed in this Episode

00:00 Intro01:17 We looked at a passage in James that gave us insight into the fostering world.02:26 James 1:27 is about having a passion for compassion for all vulnerable people. Jesus did this numerous times throughout the gospels.05:14 The Jewish community at the time was focused on doing things for the vulnerable, but...


Church Is Messy: Welcome Home - Parenting
#72
04/24/2024

Today, Pastor Caleb Smith joins Svea in the studio as they close out our discussions on family by looking at parenting and parental influence.


Topics Discussed in this Episode

00:00 Intro01:36 An exceptional message that spoke to people of many different categories of people who have parental influence whether or not children are a part of home life.03:23 The parental models we have in the bulk of Scripture are not examples of great parenting - usually just the opposite.06:13 The parental influence and example of Jesus - largely exhibited in his relationship with the...


Church Is Messy: Welcome Home - Single Life and Dating
#71
04/17/2024

Today's Topic


Rick and Svea talk about singleness, dating, and loneliness. They discuss Jesus and his singleness, guarding against being defined by another person, and not choosing a path that leads away from Jesus.


Topics Discussed in this Episode

00:00 Intro.00:52 Nerding out on church history.04:58 Fighting against alienating singles - Svea's experience.06:02 Feeling the anti-gospel pull toward homogeneity and seeing the world as we are.08:24 Looking at Hagar: an outcast seen by God and our fundamental need to be seen.09:28 Being single isn't the problem; being alone is...