Soul Loveth w/ Shan

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By: Shan. Phillips

Ahhh.... You didn't come across this podcast by chance... You've been seeking answers about "who you are" "what makes you happy "what's your true purpose in life'... You've been goin' through the motions tryin' to make it all make sense... Soul Loveth was inspired to help answer these questions and more on this ever evolving journey of life...Fueled by the love story of the young Shulammite woman from Songs of Solomon, it follows this young African sister as she journey's through self discovery and initiation into woman hood. Layered with raw honesty about her insecurities, curiosity, passions and determination...

What Is Your Soft Hobby Preparing You For? Reflections from Octavia Butler's "Parable of the Sower"
04/28/2025

Hey Lovelies,

Sometimes the quiet things we love are doing the deepest work in us. In this episode of Soul Loveth with Shan, I’m sharing how picking up reading again — and choosing Octavia Butler’s Parable of the Sower — has been stirring something powerful in me. Butler’s words about preparation, resilience, and self-sufficiency feel like a mirror for the times we’re living through.

This is a soft conversation about the small, sacred ways we get ready for what’s ahead — even when we don’t realize it.


As you listen, take a mom...


Soft Hobbies: A Revolutionary Act
04/13/2025

Happy spring time beautiful people!

It's been a while. I've been taking some time away to practice what I teach - pour into myself first and really stay in tune with not only what my soul loves - but also what it needs to stay sound and sane in this noisy world we're sharing right now. Yikes!

In this episode I share some "soft" hobbies that has been really slowing me down and naturally has me present and more creative. Tune in as I share the benefits of slowing down and engaging all of your...


4 R's for the New Year.... Relax, Reflect, Rejoice, Reset
12/30/2024

As we wrap up 2024 and prepare to step into 2025, I’m sharing my personal ritual for closing out the year with intention: the 4 R’s—Relax, Reflect, Rejoice, Rest. In this final episode of the year, I offer a heartfelt recap of lessons learned and wins celebrated, while also inviting you to pause, realign, and refocus.

This episode is part motivation, part reflection, and ends with a grounding meditation to help you enter the new year with clarity and calm. Whether you’re resetting your mindset, celebrating your growth, or simply seeking peace for what’s ahead, this episo...


Nurture Those Things...
12/09/2024

Hey Lovlies! 

I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving! In this episode, I reflect on the Thanksgiving weekend and the ways I nurtured my passions—dancing, thrifting, and baking a brand-new dish. 

I dive into the power of creativity as a form of spiritual warfare, exploring how it can combat stagnation, depression, and the pull to conform to redundancy. Creativity is our weapon for breaking free and living authentically!

I also share more about the Soul Seeds E-Journal, which was a complimentary gift for Giving Tues...


Soul Seed Pt.5 ~ Harvest Time
12/01/2024

Hey Lovelies!

We’ve made it to the final episode of the Soul Seeds series, and it’s time to talk about Harvest Time. This is the moment where you get to see all the seeds you’ve been nurturing over the past few episodes start to bloom and bear fruit. In this episode, I’m reflecting on what inspired the creation of the Soul Seeds journey and the Soul Loveth initiative, and how it’s all led up to this point.

I’m also sharing a special gift with you our Soul Seeds e-journal


Soul Seeds Part 3 ~ Master Gardener
11/25/2024

Hey Lovelies ~ I hope you are doing well and not stressing yourselves out in preparation for this holiday season...  

In this episode, I’m talking about what it means to be the Master Gardener of your life. Just like a garden needs care, protection, and tending to thrive, so do your Soul Seeds. It’s not enough to just plant them; we need to actively cultivate our inner ecosystems. This episode will guide you through the process of protecting your energy, nourishing your passions, and being intentional about what you allow to grow in your life. When you t...


Soul Seeds Pt.3 ~ What's The Point?
11/18/2024

...We all hit a wall at some point. The world feels heavy, and it’s easy to just go through the motions without any real spark. In this episode, I’m diving into how we can break free from this autopilot state by returning to our Soul Seeds. Reconnecting with our gifts and purpose isn’t just about motivation; it’s about finding deep meaning again. It’s about getting back in tune with what makes you feel alive, so you don’t just survive—but thrive—through these tough times. The point is to reignite that flame inside, to remind you of...


Soul Seeds Pt.2 ~ A Time Such As This...
11/10/2024

Hey Lovelies~

We're living in some intense times right now—feeling disconnected, uncertain, and maybe even overwhelmed. But the antidote to all of that is right within you. In this episode, we're tapping into Part 2 of the Soul Seeds that you’ve always had inside. These innate gifts, interests, and seeds of purpose are the key to navigating the chaos around us. In times like these, it’s vital to reconnect with what’s deeply rooted in your soul, so you can move through life with clarity and peace, no matter what’s going on around you. It’s time...


Soul Seeds ~ Nurturing What's Innate In You...
11/04/2024

Happy Sweet November Lovelies!

It's been a while - so much has been going on with me this summer, that I had to step away from recoding for a while.  Im back now -- it's true like some of my fav artist, (one being Sade ) you have to actually live some life to have some real life experiences.

So here I am - tune in tonight as I give some updates and insight on our Soul Loveth Wellness program.  As well as I talk about nurturing your personal Soul Seeds, those unique gifts, talents and in...


The Price of Authenticity...
#35
08/25/2024

Hello Beautiful People...

I must say this one is good good! I had to replay it a couple of times - and I'm sure I'll be led to revisit it again in the future. You know - we hear the word "authenticity" a lot lately, and most view it aestheticaaly or surface - not realize that it encompasses the core of who you are, and the audacity to "show up as you" in the a world that's constantly programming you to conform. Whew... Sit with that for a minute.  

This episode I peel back more l...


Stability Is Sexy...
#34
07/22/2024

It's funny how doing the responsible things come off as "boring".   In this day and age - where moving and shaking, being "outside" at every event -living this YOLO life is what's celebrated and deemed sexy and cool.

But we're grown ups here. Having your affairs in order, doing day to day things like watering your plants, praying, meditating - trying a new recipe, paying your bills, not wanting to be "outside" all of the time - and just chilling in the house doing "nothing on purpose" is Sexy and Cool as well.

Stability looks g...


Pull Back Your Time...
07/01/2024

Where did the time go? Why is time moving so fast? If only I had enough time... How often do you say these things?  Is time really moving faster or are we preoccupied with so "stuff" that time just passes up by?

Tune in this week as I take about way to slow down time. Is that even possible? Absolutely! We have dominion over time -- you slow it down my doing a mental inventory of what's wasting your time and put systems in place to preserve it.

Until next week,
Blessings

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Don't Fall The Banana In The Tail Pipe... IYKYK
#31
06/16/2024

Ok... We've seen the tricks before.  It's election season - I feel the tension and fear mongering being turned up a notch.  Yes, the world has been a chaotic circus for a while now - but some how we've found a new normal way of dealing with shock and unpredictability of it all. 

This week -- let's be mindful of our thoughts and emotions during this political cycle.  Observe, but don't Absorb.  Use wisdom in positioning yourself - yet, don't let the noise dictate your movement and wellbeing.  


To support our initiative to cul...


Embracing Change...
#28
06/09/2024

Hey Lovelies!

It's been a minute... I haven't forgotten about the pod - but y'all know life be lifin'! We've really been focused on building the wellness program for at risk youth, it's been a year in the making, navigating the environment, working with the government, and still maintaining the salon and daily life needs.

What I've learned since the pandemic is to not get too attached to anything. Be fully present, do the work - yet know when it's time to shift, or move on to the next thing. Time is moving fast.  


Breathe Through The "Stuff"...
#27
02/18/2024

Ahhhhh... Life is not about the absence of problems and situations.  Things happen. All of this self care and self love comes into play when we're able to apply God's grace and natural strategies to help us cope through the "stuff."

We already know what to do - we just have to be intentional about the application.

Tune in as we explore more.

Blessings

To support our initiative to cultivate authenticity to youth (whom the world deems "at risk" please visit www.soulloveth.com for more information about our mission.


February "New Year" Vibes..
02/05/2024

Happy New Year!! I know, y'all are like "girl, it's February . Hey, needed to take a much needed deep breath after last year, and Ease into 2024 refreshed and renewed! no pressure. How"s your New Year going so far?

To support our initiative to cultivate authenticity to youth (whom the world deems "at risk" please visit www.soulloveth.com for more information about our mission.


Self Love is Not Cookie Cutter
12/04/2023

Self Love looks different for each individual.  What feeds or soothes someone else's needs may not be the remedy for you.  

  We have to really push to honor our differences. Trying not to dismiss or discredit how you show up in the world because it looks different than someone else.   What works for you?  How do you present your self to the world?  What do you need to focused and balanced?

 This type of awareness is not easy - but its so needed to foster peace of and staying true to yourself .  

To support...


How Do You Honor Staying True to Yourself?
11/05/2023

In this world of "influence" and conformity - it can become a daily fight to "stay true to you."  What are your true thoughts and ideas? What's your true style and comfort?  What are you filtering your actions through?  

Hey, sometimes its easier to "go along to get along" or follow blue prints that's already established, but for me - I Can Not.  Even if it makes me stand out and often times, stand  alone, I have to honor how God created me.  It's a reason some things make you uncomfortable, make you take pause or simply just g...


Pray for Humanity...
10/29/2023

Don't look away... We've already become so desensitized to the craziness of the world.  I get it, it's too much.  For my personal self care, I monitor what kind of news I take in.  Pay attention to what's going on "observe but don't absorb."  

Be honest with yourself about what you're seeing and feeling, even if you don't fully understand what going on.  Don't betray your own consciousness by denying the truth "YOU SEE"... What I'm seeing with these political wars are not in alignment with the personality of the God I have a relationship with.  Racism, classi...


Permission to "Be" Human...
10/01/2023

It's ok to have a "moment."  I know we're conditioned to be so strong and full of faith that we have forgotten how to be human.  


To support our initiative to cultivate authenticity to youth (whom the world deems "at risk" please visit www.soulloveth.com for more information about our mission.


Meditate on "These" Things...
09/11/2023

Hey Lovelies... 

It's been a few weeks.  I hope you all are still finding time to sit still and Breathe.  Not just when problem arise. Everyday if possible, checking in with yourself. 

Join me this week  for a "lighthearted" body scan meditation to bring some sense of order and stillness this week.  

I'm speaking to myself first.  

To support our initiative to cultivate authenticity to youth (whom the world deems "at risk" please visit www.soulloveth.com for more information about our mission.


Summer Ease…
08/06/2023

Hey lovelies! It’s been a few weeks- but trust me, you all have been on my heart and in my prayers. My focus has been occupied with a new project I’ve been working on - now I’m a bit more settled and can “shift” my energy back “here!” Whew… I felt a release just typing that statement.

I’ve really been putting into practice everything I’ve been sharing here- being intentional about embracing “Ease” in the midst of “movement” .. Breathing through new experiences and daily task - purposely not letting the “grind, fear of the unknown and yes, excite...


Expansion Requires Order...
#13
07/03/2023

There's a saying that goes "The same faith it takes to get, will take the same faith to keep..." Truer words have never been spoken.  Especially in this essential season of trying to maintain "balance" and making self-care a priority. 

As we continue to build and add on in life - we have to put systems in place to help us maintain and not feel overwhelmed. 


To support our initiative to cultivate authenticity to youth (whom the world deems "at risk" please visit www.soulloveth.com for more information about our mission.


Watch Where Your Attention Goes...
#11
05/29/2023

Hi Lovelies,

I'm here to tell you that the battlefield of the mind is Real.  We really have to have the tools to navigate our thoughts, feelings and emotions so that we can focus on producing the work that's in our heart to do.

Tune in as I talk about strategies to help you stay focused and tune out the distractions while in your creative process.  Breathing is essential, however - we also must also  disengage from things that's competing for our attention.  If only for a season. 

To support our initiative to culti...


In the Meantime...
05/21/2023

It's amazing to have goals and dreams, but pursing them sometimes can cause stress and negative emotions because we forget to enjoy the journey "In the Mean Time..."

Life is to be lived and experienced, we can't do that if our happiness and wellbeing is only attached to our striving and accomplishments. We must be intentional about enjoying and embracing the present moment. Can't be all work and no play.  Im talking from experience here - I had to learn to give myself permission to "play" because I'd rather work or deep dive mentally - often times w...


The Purpose of A Thing...
#8
05/08/2023

Hey Lovelies... I know life has been moving forward, that's a wonderful thing. I hope that in your forward movement you've still been dedicated to your self care, you know - the simple things like being present, deep breathing, creating or whatever You Do to help you feel your best!

In this episode I talk about when you don't understand "The Purpose of A Thing" that neglect or abuse of that thing will soon follow.  Yeah, we don't want that! We want to be intentional on cultivating the things about us that helps us flow through life b...


No One Can Duplicate "You"...
03/20/2023

Some say imitation is a form of flattery... That has never sat well with me.  Being a creative person that really puts the work into understanding myself, into seeing the world through a broader lens, that's intentional about creating and experiencing life in a way that inspires a impactful expression -- it kind of ticks me off when I see my "vibe" trying to be packaged by individuals other than myself... Like really?  Inspiration is one thing, but being a carbon copy of someone is kinda creepy.  

I hope you could feel my frustration in what I jus...


Put "You" on Your Calendar....
02/27/2023

I had the most relaxing "Me" time this past Saturday.  Funny thing is, I didn't even plan it out. It was kinda last minute. 

So much so, it was my nudge and reminder to "schedule" myself in on a regular basis.  We can get so caught up in the redundancy of daily life that burn out is inevitable. 

Tune in and let's use our creative juices to take time for ourselves... 

To support our initiative to cultivate authenticity to youth (whom the world deems "at risk" please visit www.soulloveth.com for more infor...


Keep The Vision In Front Of You....
#6
02/20/2023

This week we'll be focusing our meditation on goal setting and how to stay focused during the "walking it out" process.

To support our initiative to cultivate authenticity to youth (whom the world deems "at risk" please visit www.soulloveth.com for more information about our mission.


Grace Through Distractions...
02/13/2023

We have to learn strategies to help use thrive through unsavory situations.  Yes, that "thing" or that "person" knocked you out of your focus - but we can't the situation deter us from our ultimate goal... Take a deep breath with me this week and lets get back to what matters most... Peace.

To support our initiative to cultivate authenticity to youth (whom the world deems "at risk" please visit www.soulloveth.com for more information about our mission.


Keeping Things in Perspective...
02/06/2023

Sometimes you find yourself chasing or trying to acquire things you may already have - or may already be doing.  Quiet your mind and analyze your life "on paper" - you have to keep reminders around you. 

To support our initiative to cultivate authenticity to youth (whom the world deems "at risk" please visit www.soulloveth.com for more information about our mission.


Holistic Health & Healing...
01/30/2023

This week we're focusing on all things that guide us to Holistic Health & Healing.

To support our initiative to cultivate authenticity to youth (whom the world deems "at risk" please visit www.soulloveth.com for more information about our mission.


The Gift Of Being Present...
#3
01/23/2023

Treat yourself this week with the "Gift of Being Present" .... 

To support our initiative to cultivate authenticity to youth (whom the world deems "at risk" please visit www.soulloveth.com for more information about our mission.


Focus on the Good Stuff ~ Pocket's of Peace Sunday
#2
01/16/2023

Treat yourself to under 10 min of meditation, deep breathing and visualization.

To support our initiative to cultivate authenticity to youth (whom the world deems "at risk" please visit www.soulloveth.com for more information about our mission.


Pockets of Peace for the New Year!!
01/09/2023

Treat yourself to under 10 min of meditation, deep breathing and visualization.

To support our initiative to cultivate authenticity to youth (whom the world deems "at risk" please visit www.soulloveth.com for more information about our mission.


Finding Peace in the Midst this Hoilday Season...
#3
12/05/2022

Hey Lovelies ~ did the holidays sneak up on you this year?  Are you in the mood for all of the "work" and festivities that this season brings with it? I know I wasn't, I had to get a little boost of inspiration to help me "remember" and embrace the "sweet spots" cause yo sis was not feelin' it! #Truestory

Tune in as I share how doing what you love can give you the motivation and energy to celebrate the upcoming Hoilday season with intention and joy.  


To support our initiative to cultivate au...


Love Is A Motivator...
#2
11/01/2022

Hi Lovies- Im back as promised. In this episode I wanted to dig a little deeper and give the meaning behind the name "Soul Loveth"... Inspired by a poem in Songs of Solomon, we get to know the young African maiden "Maketa" as she journeys along the road of self discovery and radical Self Love.  

Tune in while I continue to live out the answers of: 
What do you gravitate to naturally?
What does your Soul Loveth?

To support our initiative to cultivate authenticity to youth (whom the world deems "at risk" please vi...


Right Back At It ~ Now as "Soul Loveth w/ Shan"
#1
10/03/2022

Hey Ladies! It's me, Shan..

It's been a minute - but I'm back at it. Formally known as "Beauty Preparations for Life" - I'm renaming our newest podcast "Soul Loveth"...  Some of you are familiar with the Soul Loveth inspiration, those who are not, stay tuned in as share the motivation behind the ever evolving journey.

If you've been following - you'll continuing to receive all new episodes! Listen in to hear about what I've been up to on my personal sabbatical.  I needed to take a "self inflicted" break from everything so that I co...


A Shift in Energy
07/06/2021

Do you feel a change in the air?   After such a wild year and long winter, a newness is on the horizon... It's deeper than "outside" opening back up.  Its a sense of entering back into the world with a renewed sense of purpose, fresh perspective,  keener discernment and embracing  new opportunities.

In this episode join me (Shan) as I share my experience of winning the 2021 Inspiring Women in Business contest sponsored by First Midwest Bank and 101.9 the Mix after pushing through bouts of depression and exhaustion .  A firm believer of the quote "Happiness is having something to lo...


Virtual Fatigue
06/01/2021

I hope everyone is doing well out there! It’s been a sec — if you tune in all the way to the end, you’ll understand why. In this latest episode, I’ll talk about my experience with content  burnout over the past year and how it’s imperative to unplug in order to regroup.

I wasn’t “showing up” as me — posting and engaging started to feel robotic. I know so many of you can relate, especially my artist and business peeps that feel we have to stay in front of our followers for relevance sake. Yes, marketing issa...